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Re: Is It Polite For Husband To Seek Wife's Approval On This? by linusbnn(m): 8:59pm On Mar 03, 2016
Sixix:


You are a gay!


Bring your smelling ass forwrd.
Re: Is It Polite For Husband To Seek Wife's Approval On This? by Sixix: 8:59pm On Mar 03, 2016
linusbnn:


I only pity you. You want to be the head of the house?,then carry go but not with some1 like me because I will frustrate you like mad.

Frustrate me?shocked. You are kidding rightsmiley

You clearly have no idea who is behind this moniker. The truth is I won't look at you twice if you aired this opinion in front of me. I will treat you like an animal!
Re: Is It Polite For Husband To Seek Wife's Approval On This? by linusbnn(m): 9:00pm On Mar 03, 2016
Sixix:


Benefactor?undecided

You are her benefactor too.

Who the hell do you think you are?


I'm the head. Go to hell if you are not ok with it
Re: Is It Polite For Husband To Seek Wife's Approval On This? by linusbnn(m): 9:01pm On Mar 03, 2016
Adaeze003:


Well... I won't have a husband like you so... ehm... ok I don't have anything else to say, probably because you have nothing meaningful to say either.

Say hi to the unlucky girl for me... wink wink


She can't be unlucky with her dream man tongue tongue
Re: Is It Polite For Husband To Seek Wife's Approval On This? by silverr(f): 9:01pm On Mar 03, 2016
linusbnn:



I wonder what is big in been submissive. Submission is I go low for other party to go higher. I and my wife will never be equal because she is my companion and helper, I paid her price and I take charge of her welfare. Tell me why you should be loyal to your boss in the office.

Let me translate it for you.
I and my wife can't be equal be equal because she's broke and I pay her bills.. Just like boss and employer grin grin
Re: Is It Polite For Husband To Seek Wife's Approval On This? by Sixix: 9:05pm On Mar 03, 2016
linusbnn:



I'm the head. Go to hell if you are not ok with it

Losers cannot be the head

You are the head to some insecure PR troubled woman. I will dismiss you in real life. The only power you are going to have would be within your home.

You should be gladsmiley
Re: Is It Polite For Husband To Seek Wife's Approval On This? by Sixix: 9:06pm On Mar 03, 2016
linusbnn:


Bring your smelling ass forwrd

Go hump your brother's
Re: Is It Polite For Husband To Seek Wife's Approval On This? by linusbnn(m): 9:11pm On Mar 03, 2016
misreal:
brother,the problem is witht the word "submission".women generally believe that when you ask them to submit ,it means you want them as dumb slaves.the holy bible says men should love their wives as christ loves the church,and women should submit to their husbands..they only look at the submission part but forgetting the love part..it takes more than physical attraction to love a wife the way christ loves the church.for instance,christ died for the church,how many men can actually give up their limb for their wives talkless of dieing.so i ask,what is then so dificult to submit to a man who can love you unconditionally,just as christ loves the church.absolutely nothing! but our ladies are just being blinded by,their ego.not wanting to submit,thinking that it is easy to love them unconditionally...if the bible was wrong,i dont think women would be so crazy about men showering them with love.


Very true. The truth is that when a woman lower herself to the husband,she gains more. Just look at this scenario, my old friend is coming to town for something resourceful nd probably needed to stay in my huse for 2days and I told my wife so she should be aware,only for her to tell me no,even when she doesn't know him. Then that woman must be wicked because this would have been a time to show your husband great love by treating our guest with a lasting memories. I will only tell her please Madam, I only want to inform you on his visit and not for you to concur or not.
Re: Is It Polite For Husband To Seek Wife's Approval On This? by linusbnn(m): 9:13pm On Mar 03, 2016
Sixix:


Go hump your brother's

Smelling ass and I can't stand the odour
Re: Is It Polite For Husband To Seek Wife's Approval On This? by tosyne2much(m): 9:14pm On Mar 03, 2016
silverr:


So he's the only one allowed to make a wrong abi?
Instead of locking horns with the "head", I decided to travel and u say its wrong?
I hate being treated as less. I believe marriage is give and take, not some alpha male lording over me. I just hope we have kids in the house. They will spend the week dealing with Pampers and poo. Head indeed.
You are wicked cheesy
Re: Is It Polite For Husband To Seek Wife's Approval On This? by linusbnn(m): 9:15pm On Mar 03, 2016
Sixix:


Losers cannot be the head

You are the head to some insecure PR troubled woman. I will dismiss you in real life. The only power you are going to have would be within your home.

You should be gladsmiley

I show my strength where it is to be shown. In my family and not yours,i'm the HEAD. Why e hard you to understand?
Re: Is It Polite For Husband To Seek Wife's Approval On This? by Sixix: 9:16pm On Mar 03, 2016
linusbnn:


I show my strength where it is to be shown. In my family and not yours,i'm the HEAD. Why e hard you to understand?

I agree now

You are going to be the head of an insecure or a troubled womansmiley

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Re: Is It Polite For Husband To Seek Wife's Approval On This? by Sixix: 9:17pm On Mar 03, 2016
linusbnn:


Smelling ass and I can't stand the odour

Eeyah, have you taken him to the hospitalsmiley
Re: Is It Polite For Husband To Seek Wife's Approval On This? by linusbnn(m): 9:17pm On Mar 03, 2016
Sixix:


Frustrate me?shocked. You are kidding rightsmiley

You clearly have no idea who is behind this moniker. The truth is I won't look at you twice if you aired this opinion in front of me. I will treat you like an animal!

Hahahaha, I dey shame for you
Re: Is It Polite For Husband To Seek Wife's Approval On This? by linusbnn(m): 9:21pm On Mar 03, 2016
Sixix:


Ewu!
Ode!

Ole!

Ole!


Alaye!

Agbero!

Olochi!

Lebanese!

Pipiro! grin grin my guy
Re: Is It Polite For Husband To Seek Wife's Approval On This? by aumeehn: 9:22pm On Mar 03, 2016
Adaeze003:
The African type marriage is just scary... sheesh...


Note that I really didn't want to quote you...

Anyhoo... you do know you're still sleeping on a pole right

It's funny how you guys carry the submission thing on your head but when someone implies that submitting to a man is master-slave you guys start looking for ways to soften it up. The man can bring in who the hell ever to stay with them but the wife must get his approval when she will be the one to basically take care of the guest? She has no say and can't object to whatever "final decision" the said husband makes? And the marriage is a union and not slavery?

Oh well... good luck to ya wife sha.

And try and wake up from that pole before you'll be forming head and end up beheading the family...
listen to yourself...mtsw if he divorce her you will come here and scream all men are thesame..marry him (pay groom price buy house feed him) before you think of making any decision in your marriage...Good luck to your husband thats if you are lucky to get one!
Re: Is It Polite For Husband To Seek Wife's Approval On This? by Sixix: 9:28pm On Mar 03, 2016
linusbnn:



Alaye!

Agbero!

Olochi!

Lebanese!

Pipiro! grin grin my guy

Lebanese? You are pathetic losertongue
Re: Is It Polite For Husband To Seek Wife's Approval On This? by Sixix: 9:29pm On Mar 03, 2016
linusbnn:


Hahahaha, I dey shame for you

That would get to me if I considered you humansmiley
Re: Is It Polite For Husband To Seek Wife's Approval On This? by Sixix: 9:31pm On Mar 03, 2016
aumeehn:
listen to yourself...mtsw if he divorce her you will come here and scream all men are thesame..marry him (pay groom price buy house feed him) before you think of making any decision in your marriage...Good luck to your husband thats if you are lucky to get one!

And so?

Did she put a gun to his head and ask him to all that? If he wasn't interested, he should become a monk na.

What on earth amkes you think she can't feed herself or buy her own house? He should be happy someone decided to stick with his BS.

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Re: Is It Polite For Husband To Seek Wife's Approval On This? by misreal(m): 9:43pm On Mar 03, 2016
linusbnn:



Very true. The truth is that when a woman lower herself to the husband,she gains more. Just look at this scenario, my old friend is coming to town for something resourceful nd probably needed to stay in my huse for 2days and I told my wife so she should be aware,only for her to tell me no,even when she doesn't know him. Then that woman must be wicked because this would have been a time to show your husband great love by treating our guest with a lasting memories. I will only tell her please Madam, I only want to inform you on his visit and not for you to concur or not.
i agree with you.sir.submission gives women more power in the sight of their men.even sarah called abraham "lord"......funny most of them are xtians...lol

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Re: Is It Polite For Husband To Seek Wife's Approval On This? by aumeehn: 9:45pm On Mar 03, 2016
Sixix:


And so?

Did she put a gun to his head and ask him to all that? If he wasn't interested, he should become a monk na.

What on earth amkes you think she can't feed herself or buy her own house? He should be happy someone decided to stick with his BS.
am done talking to you it seems you are an infidel
Re: Is It Polite For Husband To Seek Wife's Approval On This? by Sixix: 9:48pm On Mar 03, 2016
aumeehn:
am done talking to you it seems you are an infidel

And you are a terrorist and an illogical losersmiley
Re: Is It Polite For Husband To Seek Wife's Approval On This? by preggi(m): 10:01pm On Mar 03, 2016
misreal:
mr op,this is your answer.if you expect a woman to ever agree to such request,then u dont know women.all you need is to lovingly inform her before time.

From your response, it's like you are married. You are 100 percent right
Re: Is It Polite For Husband To Seek Wife's Approval On This? by paschu: 10:04pm On Mar 03, 2016
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Error, her cooperation, yes, but never her consent. Anything that has too heads is a MONSTER. I think I now understand why more poor and less edicated folks enjoy better marriage while most of those who seem to have all the best things of life waste their span of years in endless rows and strife.
Re: Is It Polite For Husband To Seek Wife's Approval On This? by ghostwritter(m): 10:06pm On Mar 03, 2016
Adaeze003:


It's your type that'll never let his wife stay on top because of his own insecurities... tongue tongue
Taaaah!!
I shall be the head and not the tail.
sorry to say Ma, if you can't let me stay 'on top' while I fucckk you then I guess you go fucckk yourself....Men are meant to be d head, i guess u should go ask ur Dad.
I've got a feeling u were brought up by a single mum.
Re: Is It Polite For Husband To Seek Wife's Approval On This? by misreal(m): 10:07pm On Mar 03, 2016
preggi:

From your response, it's like you are married. You are 100 percent right
lol
Re: Is It Polite For Husband To Seek Wife's Approval On This? by aumeehn: 10:08pm On Mar 03, 2016
Sixix:


And you are a terrorist and an illogical losersmiley
get the Bleep out nincompoop there can only be one head on one neck! Am sure ur fada is not your mamas slave husband both religion islam and Christianity says the man is the leader of the family!! If you are a woman am sorry to tell you that am done trading cancer with you cus you have a very low memory (thinking capacity) and if you are a man..the your mama should be ashamed of giving birth to a woman in mens image!!
Re: Is It Polite For Husband To Seek Wife's Approval On This? by Sixix: 10:09pm On Mar 03, 2016
aumeehn:
get the Bleep out nincompoop there can only be one head on one neck! Am sure ur fada is not your mamas slave husband both religion islam and Christianity says the man is the leader of the family!! If you are a woman am sorry to tell you that am done trading cancer with you cus you have a very low memory (thinking capacity) and if you are a man..the your mama should be ashamed of giving birth to a woman in mens image!!

Rants of another pathetic loser!

You are beneath me, bro

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Re: Is It Polite For Husband To Seek Wife's Approval On This? by Sixix: 10:10pm On Mar 03, 2016
ghostwritter:

Taaaah!!
I shall be the head and not the tail.
sorry to say Ma, if you can't let me stay 'on top' while I fucckk you then I guess you go fucckk yourself....Men are meant to be d head, i guess u should go ask ur Dad.
I've got a feeling u were brought up by a single mum.

Cc Thesonofmark

I swear to God you really need a shrink
Re: Is It Polite For Husband To Seek Wife's Approval On This? by Sixix: 10:12pm On Mar 03, 2016
paschu:


Error, her cooperation, yes, but never her consent. Anything that has too heads is a MONSTER. I think I now understand why more poor and less edicated folks enjoy better marriage while most of those who seem to have all the best things of life waste their span of years in endless rows and strife.

Poor and less educated people do not enjoy marriage better.


Stop deceiving yourself

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Re: Is It Polite For Husband To Seek Wife's Approval On This? by MarieSucre(f): 10:12pm On Mar 03, 2016
Kondomatic:
I hate what I am about to type but I kinda agree with the person you quoted and technically speaking, wives in down here are being bought which places them well below their husbands.

To begin with, a man owns the house, I mean the building they live in, most girls cannot marry a guy who doesn't own a house. The man most times pays the rent if they're staying in a rented apartment which makes it his house not their house so he can bring in whoever he wants to so far the person is not a crook.

Finally, consider what the men pass through, when you see a woman you want to marry, her family will tax you mightily and when you pay everything they asked for and pay a certain amount of bride price, they will hand the girl over to you.(isn't that business?) keep love aside please, this is pure business arrangement, you pay for their daughter before she becomes you wife.

So she was bought and cannot be equal with you.

A lot of things need to change for our women to enjoy certain privileges in their marriage.

There's this outdated mentality of some ladies that "her money is her money but her husbands money is their money" meaning that the pays almost all the bills and yet they clamour for equal rights.

It smells like nonsense.

But all the house work rests on the wife.
Re: Is It Polite For Husband To Seek Wife's Approval On This? by Kondomatic(m): 10:25pm On Mar 03, 2016
MarieSucre:

But all the house work rests on the wife.
I am not aware.

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