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How Can I Stop My Affair With My Neighbour? by Nobody: 10:52pm On Mar 06, 2016 |
I live and work in one of the cities in Southwest Nigeria. I'm single, male with a female working class neighbour who is also single. For some months now, we've been seeing each other and it's now driving me nuts. It's clear than we can't date talk more of getting married. Our romance started sometimes mid last year after we spent some time gisting in my apartment and has continued since then. I have tried to keep away from her but after a month at most, we come back together. She has started to fall in love with me and I've got to stop this as soon as possible. I need advice please. 14 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: How Can I Stop My Affair With My Neighbour? by SUPERPACK: 10:53pm On Mar 06, 2016 |
Fuckgratulations 342 Likes 14 Shares |
Re: How Can I Stop My Affair With My Neighbour? by phlame(m): 10:53pm On Mar 06, 2016 |
AVRS: ![]() 5 Likes |
Re: How Can I Stop My Affair With My Neighbour? by ipledge10(m): 10:55pm On Mar 06, 2016 |
Excuse me Mr Op...why can't you date? Ethnicity or Religion 26 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Can I Stop My Affair With My Neighbour? by greatbrian(m): 10:56pm On Mar 06, 2016 |
If u are a Christian or muslem the Bible or holy koran still preaches prayer in such a situation check proverb 6 vs 32 to 33 dz d best I can offer may God help u in Ur decision 2 Likes |
Re: How Can I Stop My Affair With My Neighbour? by jamex93(m): 10:57pm On Mar 06, 2016 |
why u go start waitin u no fit finish?? U better finish waiting u start jor 27 Likes |
Re: How Can I Stop My Affair With My Neighbour? by Topestbilly(m): 10:59pm On Mar 06, 2016 |
![]() You ar single yet u don't wanna date ur crush? Weytin u think say we fit do? 13 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Can I Stop My Affair With My Neighbour? by jamesversion: 11:07pm On Mar 06, 2016 |
ipledge10: AVRS 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: How Can I Stop My Affair With My Neighbour? by Pheals(f): 11:08pm On Mar 06, 2016 |
Op no one as giving u advice .....(comment. Above), get a broom and .... Away) |
Re: How Can I Stop My Affair With My Neighbour? by Johnnoah1st: 11:10pm On Mar 06, 2016 |
AVRS:explain more on the bold statement if u want a reasonable advice here 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Can I Stop My Affair With My Neighbour? by ipledge10(m): 11:11pm On Mar 06, 2016 |
jamesversion:but you have been fvcking her?that's how guys marry what we don't like 11 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Can I Stop My Affair With My Neighbour? by Nobody: 11:18pm On Mar 06, 2016 |
ipledge10:Actually neither. She's not physically and intellectually my kind of person (I don't mean to sound arrogant). 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Can I Stop My Affair With My Neighbour? by kaziblake(f): 11:29pm On Mar 06, 2016 |
AVRS:You are. 80 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: How Can I Stop My Affair With My Neighbour? by firstking01(m): 11:35pm On Mar 06, 2016 |
To me, this story looks half baked ![]() 5 Likes |
Re: How Can I Stop My Affair With My Neighbour? by Blakjewelry(m): 11:47pm On Mar 06, 2016 |
Why you go bite meat wey you no go fit swallow 9 Likes |
Re: How Can I Stop My Affair With My Neighbour? by 6fit(f): 11:47pm On Mar 06, 2016 |
AVRS:but her pvssy is yur type of pvssy? 256 Likes 7 Shares |
Re: How Can I Stop My Affair With My Neighbour? by HARDDON: 11:50pm On Mar 06, 2016 |
AVRS: from your post, the following can be deduced: 1) she isnt really your type of girl but one thing lead to the other, and you guys had it and trust nija babes, emotions must always be attached after having it. ![]() 2) you never asked her out, you tot you could just releive some tension cheaply with this super abundant availability, she tot both of you are single and marriage is a prospect. two tots off at a tangent 3) u realized yourself after the first deed, though u hated d idea of rolling on hay with her( she aint your spec), the other part that like forbidden fruits wudnt let you reason straight, and before u knew it, she was in ur arms again and again and again...... ![]() ![]() 4) u tried to put things in perspective with yourself; that it's just a game but recently, she's started to call up them female demands/drama and make you commit for the long haul because your body language and behaviors is telling her u are just using her. this is getting you all worked up. you didnt plan this boo thingy. ![]() ![]() ![]() specs is finally outa ya eyes and you are like, but i never really liked her in the first place and you wano get rid of her before this escalates. everytime you try, she always comes back and blows ur minds with horizontal tangling and u dip again. then the drama rares and u just grow off. SOLUTION? none from me. because u are still very much njoying the tangling. when u are ready to quit for real, u wud. itz in ur mind. but what ever you do, after the break up, it wud be better you move out of the said apartment.... trust me on this ![]() 196 Likes 8 Shares |
Re: How Can I Stop My Affair With My Neighbour? by HARDDON: 12:02am On Mar 07, 2016 |
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Re: How Can I Stop My Affair With My Neighbour? by Nobody: 12:57am On Mar 07, 2016 |
First of all, frequent interaction creates bond then bond leads to intimacy that's socialization circle. If you gone pass interaction to forming bond, there is likelihood for intimacy but with conscious self control and mind reprogramming and discipline, you would respect each others space and not over step bound. But after intimacy she has the key as you cannot regulate your territory no more but to relocate completely from that area or she's like gonna be you girlfriend or friend with benefit. 4 Likes |
Re: How Can I Stop My Affair With My Neighbour? by duduade: 1:34am On Mar 07, 2016 |
Start bringing a new hot chick to the house... She has to see you both together... Or Change accommodation 7 Likes |
Re: How Can I Stop My Affair With My Neighbour? by AfroKnight: 1:57am On Mar 07, 2016 |
Bro, it's too late to avoid heartbreak. You have already cracked her heart. Better to shatter it now than later, when she go nakèd herself swear for you. ![]() Tick tock says the clock, What you have to do, DO QUICK! 8 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: How Can I Stop My Affair With My Neighbour? by falseman(m): 4:35am On Mar 07, 2016 |
Avoid her as much as you can and don't renew your rent when it's due 1 Like |
Re: How Can I Stop My Affair With My Neighbour? by cruzita(f): 6:27am On Mar 07, 2016 |
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Re: How Can I Stop My Affair With My Neighbour? by realestworld(m): 7:28am On Mar 07, 2016 |
U must b 1 hell of a chop and clean mouth nigga. Abeg pass her giv me afta u don taya na we 2 dey 1 lane 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Can I Stop My Affair With My Neighbour? by thorpido(m): 7:37am On Mar 07, 2016 |
It's too late Op,she's pregnant already. 4 Likes |
Re: How Can I Stop My Affair With My Neighbour? by Jtmanager(m): 9:12am On Mar 07, 2016 |
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Re: How Can I Stop My Affair With My Neighbour? by skywalker240(m): 9:25am On Mar 07, 2016 |
AVRS:Yeah and so u justs wanna fork her wait her future husband abi? Let me get dis right, so u wan take am take follow up and clear konji mattaz..hmmm? Am waiting for answer's Befor any advice 1 Like |
Re: How Can I Stop My Affair With My Neighbour? by Qualer: 10:07am On Mar 07, 2016 |
AfroKnight: it was the 'quick quickie' that got him in the situation to start with! ![]() ![]() 1 Like |
Re: How Can I Stop My Affair With My Neighbour? by Nobody: 10:54am On Mar 07, 2016 |
Just do it 1 Like |
Re: How Can I Stop My Affair With My Neighbour? by winkmart: 10:54am On Mar 07, 2016 |
pack out of the area |
Re: How Can I Stop My Affair With My Neighbour? by wolesmile(m): 10:55am On Mar 07, 2016 |
It's obvious you are enjoying the free s*x too. Else, what is the big deal in breaking off a relationship? What you are having is not even a relationship. Ordinary S*X ROMP!!! If you can't stop it with determination, then it means you like it...... 2 Likes |
Re: How Can I Stop My Affair With My Neighbour? by Nobody: 10:55am On Mar 07, 2016 |
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