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Re: How Can I Stop My Affair With My Neighbour? by Nobody: 11:16am On Mar 07, 2016
Angelberry:

Stop the rant my friend! did u marry all the ladies u dated? I know it all

Did you read the post? and did you read mine? obviously not. How old are you? undecided
Re: How Can I Stop My Affair With My Neighbour? by christopher123(m): 11:17am On Mar 07, 2016
It is either you go rent another crib or you wiull end up giving her belle...then u will marry her

She will not allow other babes to visit you..if you tell her to leave you..she will jazz you down


in short you are fuckkeedd presently


MOVE OUT or Insanity MOVES IN WITH YOU


AVRS:
I live and work in one of the cities in Southwest Nigeria. I'm single, male with a female working class neighbour who is also single.
For some months now, we've been seeing each other and it's now driving me nuts. It's clear than we can't date talk more of getting married. Our romance started sometimes mid last year after we spent some time gisting in my apartment and has continued since then.
I have tried to keep away from her but after a month at most, we come back together.
She has started to fall in love with me and I've got to stop this as soon as possible.
I need advice please.

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Re: How Can I Stop My Affair With My Neighbour? by kunlesmiles(m): 11:17am On Mar 07, 2016
HARDDON:


from your post, the following can be deduced:

1) she isnt really your type of girl but one thing lead to the other, and you guys had it and trust nija babes, emotions must always be attached after having it. wink

2) you never asked her out, you tot you could just releive some tension cheaply with this super abundant availability, she tot both of you are single and marriage is a prospect. two tots off at a tangent

3) u realized yourself after the first deed, though u hated d idea of rolling on hay with her( she aint your spec), the other part that like forbidden fruits wudnt let you reason straight, and before u knew it, she was in ur arms again and again and again...... cry cry

4) u tried to put things in perspective with yourself; that it's just a game but recently, she's started to call up them female demands/drama and make you commit for the long haul because your body language and behaviors is telling her u are just using her. this is getting you all worked up. you didnt plan this boo thingy. grin grin tongue

specs is finally outa ya eyes and you are like, but i never really liked her in the first place and you wano get rid of her before this escalates.
everytime you try, she always comes back and blows ur minds with horizontal tangling and u dip again. then the drama rares and u just grow off.


SOLUTION?
none from me. because u are still very much njoying the tangling. when u are ready to quit for real, u wud. itz in ur mind.

but what ever you do, after the break up, it wud be better you move out of the said apartment.... trust me on this cool
someone is speaking from experience grin

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Re: How Can I Stop My Affair With My Neighbour? by Nobody: 11:21am On Mar 07, 2016
lestat:


Did you read the post? and did you read mine? obviously not. How old are you? undecided
You were blaming the op as if you're a saint.

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Re: How Can I Stop My Affair With My Neighbour? by Nobody: 11:25am On Mar 07, 2016
My guy want run after porting, no way u must continue lol
Re: How Can I Stop My Affair With My Neighbour? by cold(m): 11:25am On Mar 07, 2016
Haha..this bone don hook you for throat. It's a catch 22. You just need the contents without the bottle. Yet,can't have the contents without the bottle. I can relate.
Re: How Can I Stop My Affair With My Neighbour? by Amplitron: 11:25am On Mar 07, 2016
Many people often think the power of sex and the desire for it can be reasoned away. Nothing further from the truth.
Regardless of whether there is love between them or not a single man and lady seeing each other daily and on good talking terms will sooner or later have sex unless there are other factors that will make such not to happen. Such factors include the guilt of sleeping with a partner that belongs to someone else.

So, @OP, unless either of you gets a more suitable partner AND stop being in close proximity you won't be able to help the situation. The feeling of attempting to stop the madness and failing several times is not good for you.

Also, going forward. Make it a personal policy never to get too close to anybody of the opposite sex unless you can marry them.

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Re: How Can I Stop My Affair With My Neighbour? by josite: 11:27am On Mar 07, 2016
do the affairs in such a way that it became exposed and someone might be provoked enough to cut off your head,dat way it will surely stop.eleriburuku.
Re: How Can I Stop My Affair With My Neighbour? by muller101(m): 11:27am On Mar 07, 2016
herbie27:
you must be one heartless fellow
u are welcome
Re: How Can I Stop My Affair With My Neighbour? by Swarthyy(m): 11:28am On Mar 07, 2016
After u don fvck her toto finish baa? Bia Nwokem u must marry that girl oh else!!...
Re: How Can I Stop My Affair With My Neighbour? by Viktor1983(m): 11:31am On Mar 07, 2016
greatbrian:
If u are a Christian or muslem the Bible or holy koran still preaches prayer in such a situation check proverb 6 vs 32 to 33 dz d best I can offer may God help u in Ur decision

What if he's not any of the two? maybe budhist or even atheist?
Re: How Can I Stop My Affair With My Neighbour? by emmylion: 11:35am On Mar 07, 2016
my brother if u can change your apartment or else before you know what u don't want will come to you.
she can claim u have pregnant her and that will even put you in more confusion, so make you run for or life ooo that all I can tell u woman these days are desperate hmm experience is what am sharing to you.
Re: How Can I Stop My Affair With My Neighbour? by atoleybaba(m): 11:42am On Mar 07, 2016
kaziblake:
You are.
it is not pride it is self esteem....everhe likes
Re: How Can I Stop My Affair With My Neighbour? by missKiffy(f): 11:46am On Mar 07, 2016
AVRS:

Actually neither. She's not physically and intellectually my kind of person (I don't mean to sound arrogant).
But you are sleeping with her, smh for you
Re: How Can I Stop My Affair With My Neighbour? by Nobody: 11:50am On Mar 07, 2016
AVRS:

Actually neither. She's not physically and intellectually my kind of person (I don't mean to sound arrogant).

But she is Fuuckically your kind of person abi?

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Re: How Can I Stop My Affair With My Neighbour? by Nobody: 11:52am On Mar 07, 2016
AVRS:

Actually neither. She's not physically and intellectually my kind of person (I don't mean to sound arrogant).

But her toto is physically and intellectually your kind of toto abi , iranu abasha
Re: How Can I Stop My Affair With My Neighbour? by Donniefred(m): 11:55am On Mar 07, 2016
HARDDON:


from your post, the following can be deduced:

1) she isnt really your type of girl but one thing lead to the other, and you guys had it and trust nija babes, emotions must always be attached after having it. wink

2) you never asked her out, you tot you could just releive some tension cheaply with this super abundant availability, she tot both of you are single and marriage is a prospect. two tots off at a tangent

3) u realized yourself after the first deed, though u hated d idea of rolling on hay with her( she aint your spec), the other part that like forbidden fruits wudnt let you reason straight, and before u knew it, she was in ur arms again and again and again...... cry cry

4) u tried to put things in perspective with yourself; that it's just a game but recently, she's started to call up them female demands/drama and make you commit for the long haul because your body language and behaviors is telling her u are just using her. this is getting you all worked up. you didnt plan this boo thingy. grin grin tongue

specs is finally outa ya eyes and you are like, but i never really liked her in the first place and you wano get rid of her before this escalates.
everytime you try, she always comes back and blows ur minds with horizontal tangling and u dip again. then the drama rares and u just grow off.


SOLUTION?
none from me. because u are still very much njoying the tangling. when u are ready to quit for real, u wud. itz in ur mind.

but what ever you do, after the break up, it wud be better you move out of the said apartment.... trust me on this cool
Lmao! This is WORD!

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Re: How Can I Stop My Affair With My Neighbour? by Nobody: 11:55am On Mar 07, 2016
Amplitron:


Also, going forward. Make it a personal policy never to get too close to anybody of the opposite sex unless you can marry them.


A lot of guys make this mistake , they don't have a strong will to refuse sex , never smell what you can not eat.
Re: How Can I Stop My Affair With My Neighbour? by 9jatatafo(m): 11:59am On Mar 07, 2016
OP after you have fhucked her now you want to dump her. Finish the business you started
Re: How Can I Stop My Affair With My Neighbour? by sucess001(m): 12:00pm On Mar 07, 2016
AVRS:
I live and work in one of the cities in Southwest Nigeria. I'm single, male with a female working class neighbour who is also single.
For some months now, we've been seeing each other and it's now driving me nuts. It's clear than we can't date talk more of getting married. Our romance started sometimes mid last year after we spent some time gisting in my apartment and has continued since then.
I have tried to keep away from her but after a month at most, we come back together.
She has started to fall in love with me and I've got to stop this as soon as possible.
I need advice please.


i see you fraudulently removed the part where u fvked her...


carry your cross o jare
Re: How Can I Stop My Affair With My Neighbour? by boma95(f): 12:04pm On Mar 07, 2016
HARDDON:


from your post, the following can be deduced:

1) she isnt really your type of girl but one thing lead to the other, and you guys had it and trust nija babes, emotions must always be attached after having it. wink

2) you never asked her out, you tot you could just releive some tension cheaply with this super abundant availability, she tot both of you are single and marriage is a prospect. two tots off at a tangent

3) u realized yourself after the first deed, though u hated d idea of rolling on hay with her( she aint your spec), the other part that like forbidden fruits wudnt let you reason straight, and before u knew it, she was in ur arms again and again and again...... cry cry

4) u tried to put things in perspective with yourself; that it's just a game but recently, she's started to call up them female demands/drama and make you commit for the long haul because your body language and behaviors is telling her u are just using her. this is getting you all worked up. you didnt plan this boo thingy. grin grin tongue

specs is finally outa ya eyes and you are like, but i never really liked her in the first place and you wano get rid of her before this escalates.
everytime you try, she always comes back and blows ur minds with horizontal tangling and u dip again. then the drama rares and u just grow off.


SOLUTION?
none from me. because u are still very much njoying the tangling. when u are ready to quit for real, u wud. itz in ur mind.

but what ever you do, after the break up, it wud be better you move out of the said apartment.... trust me on this cool

Lol... This one is a speech cheesy

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Re: How Can I Stop My Affair With My Neighbour? by FxDominion(m): 12:04pm On Mar 07, 2016
AVRS:
I live and work in one of the cities in Southwest Nigeria. I'm single, male with a female working class neighbour who is also single.
For some months now, we've been seeing each other and it's now driving me nuts. It's clear than we can't date talk more of getting married. Our romance started sometimes mid last year after we spent some time gisting in my apartment and has continued since then.
I have tried to keep away from her but after a month at most, we come back together.
She has started to fall in love with me and I've got to stop this as soon as possible.
I need advice please.

What advice do you need? Would you dance and throw party at this if same happens to your daughter or sister? You should have thought before you do. Mind you, do unto others as you want them to do unto you. That is a golden rule. Men running away from nemesis, how funny?

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Re: How Can I Stop My Affair With My Neighbour? by Briteiyobo1(m): 12:06pm On Mar 07, 2016
My guy enjoy yourself this one you nor dey spend T.fair

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Re: How Can I Stop My Affair With My Neighbour? by Nobody: 12:09pm On Mar 07, 2016
Angelberry:

You were blaming the op as if you're a saint.

WTF? undecided
@Mods please include age filters to prevent comments from under aged teens, commenting on certain topics that they lack the mental capacity to understand
Re: How Can I Stop My Affair With My Neighbour? by greatbrian(m): 12:12pm On Mar 07, 2016
Viktor1983:


What if he's not any of the two? maybe budhist or even atheist?
All holy books negatifies adultery it's a grievous offence to whatsoever u believe in and even against Ur own body and spouse
Re: How Can I Stop My Affair With My Neighbour? by FreeBoss: 12:12pm On Mar 07, 2016
what if i advise you and you continue with your lustful desire. for all i can say, every action you take has a reward or risk attached. but be warned
Re: How Can I Stop My Affair With My Neighbour? by amitycris(m): 12:16pm On Mar 07, 2016
Story teller.. Why you no tell us the other part.. ?
Re: How Can I Stop My Affair With My Neighbour? by Nobody: 12:18pm On Mar 07, 2016
lestat:


WTF? undecided
@Mods please include age filters to prevent comments from under aged teens, commenting on certain topics that they lack the mental capacity to understand
See who's talking of age! are u up to 20?
Re: How Can I Stop My Affair With My Neighbour? by esonuu(m): 12:26pm On Mar 07, 2016
Relocate..in as much as u'r in dat compound,u cant quit..lots of reason wont let u e.g konji dat wil cum wen no one else wil be vry close to cure it except her,sumtyms u'l feel lonely and d 1st person ur mind wil signal u to kal is her since shes close, lastly,u see her almost evry day,sumtyms wen shes on bumshorts or home outfits dat reveals her assets,i dnt need to remind u wat else gona happen

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Re: How Can I Stop My Affair With My Neighbour? by Nobody: 12:35pm On Mar 07, 2016
relocate na. having a trivial affair is one of the worst thing that can happen to a man .

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Re: How Can I Stop My Affair With My Neighbour? by ffo(m): 12:36pm On Mar 07, 2016
cruzita:
undecided u better no break that girl heart before she go swear for your head
what do you mean by "swear for head"?

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