Ndukings92:
u mean we should clap for her for sleeping with a guy she didn't know for d 1st time she visited his apartment?I want to know

Yes!!!

I can as well wonder what type of man you are. I don't believe in having sex with someone you are not going to marry. I don't see the difference in what she has done and how you also go about sleeping with ‘familiar' strangers.

Does this look like sliverbird show house, ur story is unbelievable. how close can friends be to the extent of bedding ladies together when dem no be Ankara. In this bros U are a Mumudini o. It can only happen in the movies. Naija films to be specific.

You reap what you sow.
And for that Anita, James what make you think that is the first time she has been sleeping with him.

Well since you were there when the whole started, you shouldn't bother yourself over it. Anita is not a wife-material but a cheap prostitute. So get her behind you and do something better.

Broken courtship/dating is better that broken marriage.

foreveryours:
Fake story

Not just fake,but as stupid as the writer.

The type that hates girls that fail to reason with their brain instead of their body.

You take female friends to your married "friend" to nyansh as a routine. Are you a kinda love-vendor?
Is that how you are going to be shagging other ladies after marrying this girl? Then you both deserve each other.

glimpse33:
BÍTCH AIN'T LOYAL.



DO NOT WED HER

You should read well before commenting...

I thank God i escaped women like you

TreasureP:
So what's d big deal...u know d person that's y ur fuming about it..what of those she's had sex wif n u dnt know...what av u don bout them? Is dah ao u go abt feelng sad? Dats in d past,if u love ha,let it go n if u can't take it off ur mind, free her,someone else wl come after her.

You encouraged it so you shouldn't feel sad... In my opinion the lady should actually feel bad not you so if you propose to her nd she refuses then it's your fault...

flokii:
look for d girl ur good friend cherish most and sleep with her likewise..

abi?

You mean his wife?

Delay they say is always dangerous!!!!

xcuggsm:


You mean his wife?

Don't mind me o... I was only joking

the guy in question sef is funny.. girl wey you never marry dey bother you..

how am I even sure it wasn't d girl he wanted to marry that slept with his good friend..

probably that one was cuter and wealthier.. you know hoe.s of nowadays na.. they ain't loyal

First u sick. Second u no well. Third ur head dey touch.
U allow her to meet the guy alone while u stand outside.... U think they will be in prayer session bah.
Bros u need spiritual cleansing.

Ndukings92:
let's be sincere here.u took a girl to ur guys house for d 1st time and they eventually fu*k,I mean what type of girl does that?and here u have d temerity to tell us that had it been u declined that she wouldn't have fu*k him.is she a fool?is she wayward or something?to me that means she is not a virtuous woman and a sex opportunist, i will not think twice and have my share of d cake later on cos any hidden affection i had towards her died that day and no negotiations. even if she is a virgin b4 then her type of virginity is not dignity but lack of opportunity. No Marry Her! check my signature to understand my type of being

true talk......

AlexReports:
A blog reader just sent this:‎



I have this friend whom I never had plans of dating when we met but we got close. I went out with her to see a friend, though she believed so much in me which usually makes her to seek my decision for anything. ‎

On this Faithful night, I was with her in a friend's place whom I usually let my girls sleep over his place or let them have fun with him. When the guy (James- not real name) saw her he was practically all over her and eventually invited her inside but before she went in she was looking at me for a rejection sign or reaction but I did nothing. 

After about 30mins she came out of the room with the guy (James) only for her to tell me she had slept with the guy that she would not have if I told her what I was up to. I felt sad but did not confront the guy because we were close. From that moment it dawn on me that I was loving this same girl (Anita -not real name).

James was not interested in a relationship with Anita because he was already married. Now my challenge is that I have not slept with her but we seem to be both in love. Even her parents are known to me well and I desire to marry her but the thought of my friend (James) haven slept with her which ofcourse he will play a good role in my wedding kills me silently.

Do I still go ahead and propose to her since we are now dating or she won't be a wife material?

The truth is that James is not aware yet we are now dating, Anita tells me everything and has long apologised. 

What should I do? Do I go ahead with her or should I seek someone else?

I love Anita, I believe Anita loves me, James is my pal whom I believe will feel guilty if he finds out he actually slept with a girl I finally wish to marry

marry gini? bross I tell u even after u marry her they will still continue banging each other.....either u join the banging team or find a decent wife

Seriouly u mean ur 1st met her n hz sex with her under 30mins? Dat bitch is cheaper dan 2naira5kobo chewingum.

G0ldcircle:
Marry both of them. Didn't read ur story. Just ur topic. Its like carrying wahala is ur thing.



Wait o!!!! Just did now, did she just meet james for d first time and den slept with him. I know u guys were nt dating den but...... Hmmm, u can give her a trial if u like her that much. Maybe she was on heat that particular day so ur presence meant nothing sef. She just waka leave u folo james enter rm lock door. Una get mind.

True talk my sister. The story is jst like one of fake naija movie. o dikwa egwu

You cant marry her again, except you are also guilty before this time

You can never marry her again except you are also guilty before this time in such sin then both of you can settle it. Stay clear I beseech you bro

marry her man,dat the ur best gift ever,just incase ur friend visits and dere is nothing in the house,dey can as well have her as lunch or breakfast,even dinner will be much better

G0ldcircle:
Marry both of them. Didn't read ur story. Just ur topic. Its like carrying wahala is ur thing.



Wait o!!!! Just did now, did she just meet james for d first time and den slept with him. I know u guys were nt dating den but...... Hmmm, u can give her a trial if u like her that much. Maybe she was on heat that particular day so ur presence meant nothing sef. She just waka leave u folo james enter rm lock door. Una get mind.

So, if a single girl or a marrried woman is on her heat period n her husband is nt anywhere around as in d case of d married woman or d single girl without her fiance around, wil u advice them to go n Bleep anybody around? If ur answer is no then what wil b ur advice

Lovetinz:


Change your name to Mumuni.

It is either a fake story or d guy used to arrange girls for his friend.

It is either d story is fake or d guy used to arrange girls for his friend

This is nothing but a fake love story of a promiscuous man and loosed lady. Why should you not marry her? Birds of a feather flock together. Note that none of you is better than the other.

cooked story... iró burúkú

foreveryours:
Fake story

Thank u jare.
The author of this book is mad because if not,both of u dey for parlour and your friend just call her,she enter room fvck under 30 minutes wey no be say the guy rape her,u no even hear noise say she dey fvck inside and dem no date before?that 1 na real ashewo nah,fvck and pay instantly

she is a cheap asha..... for her to do something like dat in your presents, the possibility is dere she will repeat the same thing with that your friend or even do it with anoda guy when you have her as a wife. she is shameless cheap woman even if you guys are not dating, for facts dat you guys are close friends and you came dere with her, she should have respected you for dat. dat woman will not make a good wife to so look for a beta woman who understand the meaning of respect.

callJesu:
You can never marry her again except you are also guilty before this time in such sin then both of you can settle it. Stay clear I beseech you bro

why are u giving him such advice? Is he less guilty? remember, he has been sharing his girls with his married friend. and on this occasion, he took this girl by himself to his friend as usual. do you know as a man what he possibly told this girl on their to james' house? why did the girl had to look at his face for a possible rejection? was she not trying to ask him: are you sure of this? the guy's silence simply meant yes go ahead. he is hiding facts while trying to paint the black for a crime they both committed. he should marry her period.

I can't believe u r still thinking about marrying her...If she can't stop opening her legs anyhow for strange men wen she's not urs, definitely she would do dat even in ur marriage..To me, a woman who sleeps around so easily is not worth it. ..For eg, She just met ur friend n sleep wit him within 1hr..Is dat person worth marrying? ...Use ur brain..There r many oda more awesome gurls everywhere

i advice u sleep with her wella before u can conclude that u are deeply in love with her.

if na only kiss e for beta
he slept wit ha!!...dnt marry ha.....u cn neva outlive d worry of tinkin ur friend will Bleep ha in future again