Toks2008:


How i wish i could take advantage of ladies...my nature wont allow it..I AM AN ALPHA MALE.

You sure of that? well i'm not happy with you

Lol, you crack me up OP. But who taught these guys how to gold-dig?

Jadekitana:
I'm quite disappointed seeing the way guys in lagos behave these days! This thread is based on stories i'v heard from friends and my experience as well.

Recently a friend in access bank borrowed her boyfriend 800k to start a business but got the shocking news that her boyfriend of 3years has eloped to UK without a trace.

As a pretty tall lady I get to have a lot of these guys as "toasters" even though i'm not always interested but I always have one or 2 things to add to my smartness. These are the questions an average lagos guy ask these days:

1) where do you live? Island or mainland
Once they hear lekki, oniru, ajah the next question is "do u live alone" if the answer is no, you would instantly see the disappointment but if it's yes, the next question is "when am I visiting, hope u cook well, is it a flat or self-con, I would sleep over o......... you can imagine!

2) where do you work? If they hear kpmg,gtb,acceSs, chevron etc instantly they become available for dating! They discharge any side chick to avoid complications as they wouldn't have to spend a dime on you.

If they hear: sorry i'm an applicant or a company that pays 40k e go be later for that babe

3) Do u have a car? Dude seriously? U wanna be driving my car? I buy fuel with my hard earned money while you park yours and you think i'm gonna release my keys to you to tour round lagos? Have a re-think.

4) what's your net worth? How much do you have in your account? How much do they pay you! Trust me they have other ways to check. I once dated a guy who called his cousin in my company to confirm how much I earn. Next thing he started complaining about low funds,how he needed to get a house bla bla bla. I kicked his ass to the curbs!

5) what do your parents do? Are they retired? Does your dad have companies? How many are you guys? Are u the first daughter(to know if u entitled to properties) how many cars do they have? Does your dad play gulf? Is he a member of polo club? no be only polo club na palmwine drinkers club e dey, rubbish!

Have you been out of the country before?? Yes dude i'v been to Somalia, that's abroad as well

Ladies who have no experience in relationship matters or those who are blinded by love tend to talk too much and become victims of these scammers. Next thing u hear is baby we must get married this year, I must settle down with you, this is my last bus stop, u are everything I want in a woman, meeeeen u'v got class babe, and the mumu would be blushing and putting his pics on BlackBerry and instagram with #mybooforages

Fast forward 3months later, u start hearing stories like I borrowed the ediot 300k he eloped, he took my 500k and when I asked he threatened to release my nude pictures etc

So these days it's all a game,the smart ones scale through! It not just ladies who do all that,guys have now adopted this new style and a lot get away with it. So y'all should not come here weeping and wailing about ladies, guys now have a degree in gold digging although some just enrolled in the university of gold diggers, others now have masters and phd.

Jesus!

You are cute!

Can I buy you a drink?

seangy4konji:
Broke people make the loudest of noises.

If you help a nigha when he was knacking you and later cry foul cos a flint 2000k dollars that no one heard about when his prick was like sugar then u need to pray for more money like Mariah careh,Toni Braxton and big women who take care of women without crying of such.

I feel your pain though.

Another fraudster or gigolo sighted!

I pee on this dry thread

sinistermind:
No offence to the OP but why do u girls see ursefs as victims in relationships? Because a guy is yet to post something of such doesn't exonerate ladies. A vast majority of Nigerian ladies sees nothing wrong asking a guy some of those questions above.

We were created as weaker vessels.

3rdlegxxx:


No, u see ur problem, you don't appreciate the small gifts, how then do you expect me to offer bigger things, i am so disappointed in you..

Lolz. Same here, and you called yourself a friend. 3rdlegxxx why

Jadekitana:

You sure of that? well i'm not happy with you

lol
over sure worry me...even if you are a princess of kuwait king i no send you.
I will still take care of you regardless.
Im not bragging but i dont believe a sane guy should depend on a lady for cash.
To ask woman for loan sef na war.
And btw wettin i do?

warripekin:
Op my classmate and friend at the university is a classical case of what u are referring to. Right from our university days , this stingy guy know how to prey on rich girls or girls from wealthy homes. I remember when he visited me in dolphin estate after school, it took him one week to know all the pretty girls from wealthy homes. He gatecrashed theirs parties and would beg for my car to show off .He even suggested we go to bimbos singles and married program back then because they have a gathering of rich singles. He finally got married to the daughter of a former bank director in 2012. But the shocker he got after the wedding was that all that glitters are not gold since his father in law refused to release money for his business proposals to him. But through the wisdom of his wife, they built a house some where in ikorodu. Indeed, their are gold digger guys.

Omg I should give you a really wet kiss for this! Thank heavens some guys ain't biased afterall. A guy just typed this? Lemme check your moniker again, you should be number 1 on my good book.

Madam kitana..we all know how it rolls with naija babes and guys..girls are greedy and the guys are now smarter..coming to partially accuse Lagos boys is just unjust..

menabae:
Haba that no 5 is very annoying,it brings out the real gold digging in him by asking such question,someone like me don't waste time in discarding asap

Teespice:
mainland is fast becoming another island.

if you doubt me, check out places like gbagada.

Ofcourse my family house is in Ogudu. Mainland anytime, anyday.

Leriebloom:

Lolz. Same here, and you called yourself a friend. 3rdlegxxx why

ahah!! am i not being a friend, see oooo, i offer u my heart thought out gift, a very expensive 6 gear bicycle ( you go fear gear na...) and still u turn me down, i'm really sad right now

Jadekitana:

you never jam, if you like complain to eternity, girls do more gold diggin than men, cus niggaz work their a$$ off, well i dated a girl here in Enugu who have more money than i do(By money i mean tens of millions), when i was going for her i thought she was salary earner, she would never spend a dim, and i don't care becos i'm comfortable myself... well, i see you're a pretty lady, if they come for the money and S£X, then you have a very bad behaviour, you better check urself very well, men tend to convert a girl with a very bad behaviour to money machine or s£x machine... If you're unable to tell yourself the truth

anigbajumo:


Nonsense!!

Is it a force to mingle with them?? Una just gat sitted and type poo,complied a fake story wif lotz of illusion just to bash nigga nd some useless mods will move it to front page......

Let high BP not kill you o, be happy.

Nt all guys in lag r gold diggers. Btw where do u work?

3rdlegxxx:


ahah!! am i not being a friend, see oooo, i offer u my heart thought out gift, a very expensive 6 gear bicycle ;D9 you go fear gear na...) and still u turn me down, i'm really sad right now

That makes the both of us.

Jadekitana:


Ofcourse my family house is in Ogudu. Mainland anytime, anyday.

koko is whether island or mainland, it is still obvious that there are guys who are gold diggers.

but then, they know it is true hence the backlash you will get today.

Jadekitana:


Hahaha that's quite serious, I can bet those ladies get laid in your apartment thinking it's their boos apartment. Such guys don't dream big cos their mentality is restricted to cheating others!

This comment is typical of an OKPO. We know your type, no matter how hard you pretend... sha dont end in SHILOH!

Toks2008:


lol

over sure worry me...even if you are a princess of kuwait king i no send you.

I will still take care of you regardless.

Im not bragging but i dont believe a sane guy should depend on a lady for cash.

To ask woman for loan sef na war.

And btw wettin i do?

I called you but you wanted more that's too fast! One step at a time.

Monalisa185:
okpo

stupid girl! Calling a woman like you prostitute for cheap likes. Someone like you gives women bad reputation.
swear with your life if u re still a virgin.
Metchweer always quick to put down a fellow woman like you. You are jealous becos she is working class lady. While you u ve to open your legs for men to get tip compare to what she earn in a month.

Trapnews:

This comment is typical of an OKPO. We know your type, no matter how hard you pretend... sha dont end in SHILOH!

My signature Egbon, it would help you.

Jadekitana:


Check my signature, I have no time for such rubbish.

babe try me, I wouldnt ask money. Just to stay by u is my concern, hmm op la cute, la have money.

Jade this is the first time I'm hearing this kinda complaint about guys asking questions and being gold diggers cus of those kinda questions. Women actually ask those kinda questions more. But honestly when it gets to the point where a guy/girl asks those questions, they are obviously into you, and want to know more about you. I don't really see anything wrong with those questions. Besides it's not like they are just asking those questions without you indulging them.

I was even like let me see the lady that is saying she's tall and pretty, you actually are. But it doesn't seem like your "guy hating" threads befits you.

Jadekitana:


I called you but you wanted more that's too fast! One step at a time.

lol

ok take all the time u want in the world..If you know me so well..you will...

@op u are so right about that... Men dis days are so lazy esp here in lagos..... They don turn to chics now... Looking for who to steal from.. Anyways na ladies fault sha always desperate to settle down wt anytin.

ireneony:
stupid girl! Calling a woman like you prostitute for cheap likes. Someone like you gives women bad reputation.
swear with your life if u re still a virgin.
Metchweer always quick to put down a fellow woman like you. You are jealous becos she is working class lady. While you u ve to open your legs for men to get tip compare to what she earn in a month.

My dear forget that asslicker! She's looking for a nairaland boyfriend desperately. I believe after wasting 20yrs in the okpo industry she has come to pitch tent here hoping to catch her class of guys. Unfortunately she wouldn't see any here, she should go to badoo to mingle with okpos her calibre. She didn't in anyway bring me down, she disgraced womanhood.

Hustlers chasing fake packages...A big romantic pyramid scheme!

On a good day I'll ignore this but today being an awesome day I'll ask you the same question? Whyr girls gold diggers?? Why do they think it's always their right to be spent On whether u date them or not?? And then if u decide not to foot their bill you are tagged stingy.

Its so bad that it's become a psychological trend, that when they finish school, one made man would come and marry them... Pls how does this work??

Jadekitana:
I'm quite disappointed seeing the way guys in lagos behave these days! This thread is based on stories i'v heard from friends and my experience as well.

Recently a friend in access bank borrowed her boyfriend 800k to start a business but got the shocking news that her boyfriend of 3years has eloped to UK without a trace.

As a pretty tall lady I get to have a lot of these guys as "toasters" even though i'm not always interested but I always have one or 2 things to add to my smartness. These are the questions an average lagos guy ask these days:

1) where do you live? Island or mainland
Once they hear lekki, oniru, ajah the next question is "do u live alone" if the answer is no, you would instantly see the disappointment but if it's yes, the next question is "when am I visiting, hope u cook well, is it a flat or self-con, I would sleep over o......... you can imagine!

2) where do you work? If they hear kpmg,gtb,acceSs, chevron etc instantly they become available for dating! They discharge any side chick to avoid complications as they wouldn't have to spend a dime on you.

If they hear: sorry i'm an applicant or a company that pays 40k e go be later for that babe

3) Do u have a car? Dude seriously? U wanna be driving my car? I buy fuel with my hard earned money while you park yours and you think i'm gonna release my keys to you to tour round lagos? Have a re-think.

4) what's your net worth? How much do you have in your account? How much do they pay you! Trust me they have other ways to check. I once dated a guy who called his cousin in my company to confirm how much I earn. Next thing he started complaining about low funds,how he needed to get a house bla bla bla. I kicked his ass to the curbs!

5) what do your parents do? Are they retired? Does your dad have companies? How many are you guys? Are u the first daughter(to know if u entitled to properties) how many cars do they have? Does your dad play gulf? Is he a member of polo club? no be only polo club na palmwine drinkers club e dey, rubbish!

Have you been out of the country before?? Yes dude i'v been to Somalia, that's abroad as well

Ladies who have no experience in relationship matters or those who are blinded by love tend to talk too much and become victims of these scammers. Next thing u hear is baby we must get married this year, I must settle down with you, this is my last bus stop, u are everything I want in a woman, meeeeen u'v got class babe, and the mumu would be blushing and putting his pics on BlackBerry and instagram with #mybooforages

Fast forward 3months later, u start hearing stories like I borrowed the ediot 300k he eloped, he took my 500k and when I asked he threatened to release my nude pictures etc

So these days it's all a game,the smart ones scale through! It not just ladies who do all that,guys have now adopted this new style and a lot get away with it. So y'all should not come here weeping and wailing about ladies, guys now have a degree in gold digging although some just enrolled in the university of gold diggers, others now have masters and phd.

donbenedict:
a very dumb one for dat. Mchew. Honestly wat I felt was that u were referring to the guys as okpo, na him d ode from nowhere just took it personally as d chief okpo wey she be begin rant...


Teenage girls sha...

guy u know damn well she was not referring to guys.

Op, U are kinda right in some cases... another way of separating the gold diggers from the real sincere one is this:
Firstly, if U stay alone be sincere about it But U have to know his own place first. And thats where U catch the gold digging ones.. they will come up with excuses that he lives with his parents or elder brother, so coming over is kind of complicated.... really?
At your age? And yur talking trash about marriage? ..
I see.....dear, such guys? Abeg run!..cause U can't get hold of them at anytime.. they breeze into Yur life and breeze out when their plot don over ready.

Secondly, yea if U have a car as a lady. Its not Yur fault U work over the edge to be comfortable and achieve certain things in life. But if he requests for the car keys and expect U to take a bus or bike to work and back home? ... my dear run for your dear life... the gold digging is like a placard on his forehead.. for Christ sakes how inhuman can he be? And if U fall for such trick? Mehn, the babe needs to be taken for deliverance..

Thirdly, if he stylishly complains about money and ask for loan to backup his biz? Babe, U r not a bank neither are U thrift and saving commercial bank... let him know the bills too, U have piled up waiting for U to clear up in rents and other stuffs. . And say eeyah, don't worry I will always pray with U... my God will do it for U in Jesus name.. as soon as U tell him Yur own financial problems, anytime he brings his own up... trust me he won't disturb U anymore for huge sums of money..

And lastly, please don't send unclad pics no matter how.much U love him cause he will definitely use it against U.. be sensible... if he persists on unclad pics, my dear.. block him from Yur chats.. and bye bye to good riddance.. in my own case I have a reputation to protect sorry, I can't send it.. if my sexy pose with clothes In pics, are not OK with U, Abeg shift! No time to waste!.

Working class ladies shine Yur eyes and be smart, so you are not left broken emotionally and financially.. with time, the good sincere guy will come around U.. who doesn't need a dime from U but simply your company and trust.
Its well...

Toks2008:


lol

ok take all the time u want in the world..If you know me so well..you will...

Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm