Jadekitana:


We were created as weaker vessels.

jidesp:
Thanks for sharing this. But honestly, I think we see the signs we just choose to ignore them. Just an honest advice, don't be wit a man who is willing to come to your home, or know how you spend your money perhaps your financial status. Date guys who are interested in being your friends. I know i'm being subjective but the truth is when you put yourself out there as being single and search, all types of weirdo's with crazy oddities come lurking too including the type of guys you mentioned.

ciao

shejane:
Once they ask for ur name d next question is where do u work forgetting what is called student or unemploy.... From the name of ur company they will help u calculate how much u earn monthly.... Hungry niggas

Toks2008:


i hve made you realized from the onset that im a hard nut to crack..in my world i dont run after ladies but i carefully pick who i want to roll with.

I like you for your intelligence and not because of the uncomfirmed nice looks on your profile page.

Nevertheless if i extend a hand of friendship and you form a firewall around you..i turn my back instantly.

Im too precious to bother any chic no matter how sweet she looks.

Qualer:


but i have found you already!! and we will both live long and healthy in peace!! just say yes!!!

Amelian:




Lol... U r so funny..... that's if I have 6Mil to drop..
If I don't have nko? Will I go rob a bank?
He can drop if he wants, to show he's Baba nla, abi? that's his choice.. I didn't ask him to..
But requesting for money higher than what he gave me? Later on?

Mehn he's a dreamer... am not Insurance bank o.
Am simply me, taking things easy in life... and spending prudently ...those Baba nla them should go find their leagues... or else na anger and rage them go use drop my tent..
Shikena

RoyalBlak007:


am a lagos..

...guy na

holluwai:
Many of the girls on here making mouth can't even feed themselves o... And a couple of them will still fall for a gold digger. Lol

Jadekitana:
I'm quite disappointed seeing the way guys in lagos behave these days! This thread is based on stories i'v heard from friends and my experience as well.

Recently a friend in access bank borrowed her boyfriend 800k to start a business but got the shocking news that her boyfriend of 3years has eloped to UK without a trace.

As a pretty tall lady I get to have a lot of these guys as "toasters" even though i'm not always interested but I always have one or 2 things to add to my smartness. These are the questions an average lagos guy ask these days:

1) where do you live? Island or mainland
Once they hear lekki, oniru, ajah the next question is "do u live alone" if the answer is no, you would instantly see the disappointment but if it's yes, the next question is "when am I visiting, hope u cook well, is it a flat or self-con, I would sleep over o......... you can imagine!

2) where do you work? If they hear kpmg,gtb,acceSs, chevron etc instantly they become available for dating! They discharge any side chick to avoid complications as they wouldn't have to spend a dime on you.

If they hear: sorry i'm an applicant or a company that pays 40k e go be later for that babe

3) Do u have a car? Dude seriously? U wanna be driving my car? I buy fuel with my hard earned money while you park yours and you think i'm gonna release my keys to you to tour round lagos? Have a re-think.

4) what's your net worth? How much do you have in your account? How much do they pay you! Trust me they have other ways to check. I once dated a guy who called his cousin in my company to confirm how much I earn. Next thing he started complaining about low funds,how he needed to get a house bla bla bla. I kicked his ass to the curbs!

5) what do your parents do? Are they retired? Does your dad have companies? How many are you guys? Are u the first daughter(to know if u entitled to properties) how many cars do they have? Does your dad play gulf? Is he a member of polo club? no be only polo club na palmwine drinkers club e dey, rubbish!

Have you been out of the country before?? Yes dude i'v been to Somalia, that's abroad as well

Ladies who have no experience in relationship matters or those who are blinded by love tend to talk too much and become victims of these scammers. Next thing u hear is baby we must get married this year, I must settle down with you, this is my last bus stop, u are everything I want in a woman, meeeeen u'v got class babe, and the mumu would be blushing and putting his pics on BlackBerry and instagram with #mybooforages

Fast forward 3months later, u start hearing stories like I borrowed the ediot 300k he eloped, he took my 500k and when I asked he threatened to release my nude pictures etc

So these days it's all a game,the smart ones scale through! It not just ladies who do all that,guys have now adopted this new style and a lot get away with it. So y'all should not come here weeping and wailing about ladies, guys now have a degree in gold digging although some just enrolled in the university of gold diggers, others now have masters and phd.

shejane:
Once they ask for ur name d next question is where do u work forgetting what is called student or unemploy.... From the name of ur company they will help u calculate how much u earn monthly.... Hungry niggas

Jadekitana:


They ask them 247, maybe u different.

HateU2:
I'm simple in my dressing. Trouser, top(any1) and a sneakers or sandals.

Some even over-dress, I don't blame them thou. We all have diff upbringing. I cut my coat according to my size

Amelian:



Amin Jesu..!... I have to be wise or else na high bp, the golddiggers go use finish me.. it's better to be single and at peace, i will live long and age like a fine red wine, with God .. my own husband will locate me ...than to be delusional one is getting married to a fake and a con artist.

My dear U will live long too in peace and prosperity.. amen.

HateU2:

That's was then .
Smellymouth, help me beg my boo biko

Jadekitana:


That's an igbo man with sense talking!

refiner:
read from page one....will say am really impressed!

thought I was d only one dat has experienced dis!....I admit some gals are golddiggers buh there's are more preferreble to d guys'...cos after a guy finished digging out ur golds u will have little or nothing to hold unto again!!

ladies,pls don't be deceived by dere honey coated tongue!...when u spot dem,u run for ur dear life!!!

my2pense!

ireneony:
stupid girl! Calling a woman like you prostitute for cheap likes. Someone like you gives women bad reputation.
swear with your life if u re still a virgin.
Metchweer always quick to put down a fellow woman like you. You are jealous becos she is working class lady. While you u ve to open your legs for men to get tip compare to what she earn in a month.

holluwai:
Many of the girls on here making mouth can't even feed themselves o... And a couple of them will still fall for a gold digger. Lol

ilawanson44:


i tell you! When i saw this thread, i could relate well to the truth in it cos my cousin who stays in lagos almost suffered the same fate. And the guys who carry out these shameless acts are from "one particular region" where it's ok for a 40 yr old man to still live with his parents

ilawanson44:


i tell you! When i saw this thread, i could relate well to the truth in it cos my cousin who stays in lagos almost suffered the same fate. And the guys who carry out these shameless acts are from "one particular region" where it's ok for a 40 yr old man to still live with his parents

Jadekitana:

I sense pride

ib22003:
confirm, but some have already fallen and will still fall again.

Monalisa185:


this one is a mentally deranged somebody....I would have loved to reply you the same way you just commented, buh I choose not to stoop to your level of stupidity...just ensure you Bleep off the mentions. thank you...


Mrs jadekitana, for the records, OKPO doesn't mean prostitution in my dialect.... it's either your level of comprehension is too low for you to ask the meaning before spewing trash with your fingers or that you are too frustrated in reality which makes you unstable to be on a public forum ... you were neither mentioned nor quoted, I see no reason for you to direct that piece of crap at me.. continue your display of stupidity on every thread... ain't gat no time for biiitches.

Toks2008:


i hve made you realized from the onset that im a hard nut to crack..in my world i dont run after ladies but i carefully pick who i want to roll with.

I like you for your intelligence and not because of the uncomfirmed nice looks on your profile page.

Nevertheless if i extend a hand of friendship and you form a firewall around you..i turn my back instantly.

Im too precious to bother any chic no matter how sweet she looks.

warripekin:
Op my classmate and friend at the university is a classical case of what u are referring to. Right from our university days , this stingy guy know how to prey on rich girls or girls from wealthy homes. I remember when he visited me in dolphin estate after school, it took him one week to know all the pretty girls from wealthy homes. He gatecrashed theirs parties and would beg for my car to show off .He even suggested we go to bimbos singles and married program back then because they have a gathering of rich singles. He finally got married to the daughter of a former bank director in 2012. But the shocker he got after the wedding was that all that glitters are not gold since his father in law refused to release money for his business proposals to him. But through the wisdom of his wife, they built a house some where in ikorodu. Indeed, their are gold digger guys.

Monalisa185:


this one is a mentally deranged somebody....I would have loved to reply you the same way you just commented, buh I choose not to stoop to your level of stupidity...just ensure you Bleep off the mentions. thank you...


Mrs jadekitana, for the records, OKPO doesn't mean prostitution in my dialect.... it's either your level of comprehension is too low for you to ask the meaning before spewing trash with your fingers or that you are too frustrated in reality which makes you unstable to be on a public forum ... you were neither mentioned nor quoted, I see no reason for you to direct that piece of crap at me.. continue your display of stupidity on every thread... ain't gat no time for biiitches.

holluwai:
Very true some stupid and gullible ones have fallen and so they wanna classify all men as gold diggers, well sorry for your loose but you're stewpid as fucckk

You can tell by the aggression and anger, next time you look before you leap, while good men slip off your hands because you wanna roll with a dude that's all packaged with lies from hell, I can't laugh.