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10 Reasons Why You Shouldn't Date A Nigerian Guy Of Today by Nobody: 11:18am On Mar 11, 2016 |
Disclaimer: This thread is not to insult anyone, it's just based in the few observations I've made and it doesn't also apply to every Nigerian guy. So take a moment to read before you release your venom(if this write up refers to you). 1) He is broke: The average Nigerian guy is Broke! Yes. It's either he has no job or he has a ridiculously low paying job. As a result of this, when their girlfriends make demands on them, they come on Nairaland to pour their anger and frustration over their inability to meet these demands. They tag them as hungry, money loving, gold digging sluts. And one way to know the jobless ones is that they spend a lot of time online on various social websites and it leaves one wondering when they actually work. The answer simply is, they have no jobs! 2) He is most probably a fůck boy : Most Nigerian dudes are fůck boys. You just meet a guy and you've barely talked for two days and he's already asking for nudes, like, Wth?? Or he's already trying to initiate a sex chat. That's how one of my friends got introduced to a guy online by a mutual friend. They had barely talked for a week and the goat was already asking her for X-rated Skype video Calls! Hian! You see them on social media, sending PMs,sliding into DMs, inboxing on Facebook to different girls hoping to get lucky with one of them. And from a lot of stories I've heard on NL, they want nothing but sex once they meet a hot girl. They strategise and plan all sorts of ways of luring a girl in to their homes on order to have their way with her. Guys, please stop this fůck boy behaviour of yours, don't try to get into a ladies panties without first trying to get into her heart. 3) He is polygamous in nature : "All Nigerian men Cheat! " This was implied proudly by one body builder who impregnated his ex girlfriend whilst still married to his celebrity wife. I can't count the number of times I've come across that statement both online and offline. I don't know if nigerian guys should be given a pat on the back for admitting their 'weakness' and saving lots of girls from heartache and high blood pressure from wondering if their boyfriends are faithful or not as they would already know there's another chick somewhere, or if they should be shot in the head for admitting such foolishness. And it amazes me that they always admit this with a tinge of pride. Well, it's up to you. It seems the spirit of our polygamous forefathers have not left the Nigerian men as they cannot cope with having just one woman in their life. Smh 4) Thinks he is God's gift to women : He thinks you're lucky to have him as there are several other girls that would kill to be in your place , therefore you should be grateful to God almighty for making you find such rare treasure like him . He thinks he is the black adonis fallen from heaven. He thinks you are highly fortunate to have someone like him and most of this time, they ain't worth shįt Girls, please find someone who would appreciate you, not someone that would depreciate your value 5) Poor Personal hygiene: Nigerian guys Stink! I don't know if they think it's manly to walk around looking unkempt and smelling nasty but please, that's an archaic way of thinking as we're in the 21st century. Nothing turns most ladies on more than a well groomed, nice smelling man. Most nigerian dudes have terrible body odour and bad breath. Please please and please deodorant or body spray is not that expensive. For those of you who actually take your bath, you should also think of deodorising as you tend to sweat a lot and bathing will not be enough to mask unwanted odours. You don't have to use expensive perfumes to smell good, no one is asking you to be a metrosexual, just practise simple hygiene and you're good to go. And please, it's not a crime to change your boxers and socks everyday instead of repeating them and creating horrific odours 6) Would most definitely cheat on you: Do I really need to talk about This? Number 3 has explained this. 7) Super inflated ego : All men tend to be egotistical, there's nothing wrong with that but when you have a super inflated ego, there's a problem. Yes, these group of men feel that we ladies should worship the ground they walk on and if that they leave us, that would be the end of our lives. They are very proud, arrogant and they tend to look down on ladies. They would never call you first, they believe you should be the one scrambling for their attention, you dare not argue or disagree with them If not your own had finished. In fact, it remains for you to start calling them 'sir'. A big, fat liar: How do you know when a Nigerian guy is Lying? The answer is, when his lips are moving! Even the devil is flabbergasted at the way these men lie. They lie about everything and most especially when they are cheating on you. They can also deny for Africa, even when they are caught red handed. You see some very steamy and compromising text messages he sent to another girl and they swear to you it's their sister. Ndi okwu asi 9) Take you for granted: They tend to take their women for granted. They feel the average nigerian woman is a desperate gold digger looking for a man to ensnare into marriage. They don't know that you should be loved, respected, appreciated, treated like a queen that you are.. Instead, they disrespect, violate, abuse and demean their women. It's a pity indeed. 10) Very immature : Finally, they could be so immature! I always shake my head in disgust when I see grown ass men behaving like babies. What would make a grown ass man who has gone through formal education and the four walls of a university do immature things like releasing the nudes of an ex (again, fůck boy syndrome), beat up a woman, ask his babe to return everything he got her while they were dating after they break up. Like Seriously?? Just because they might have a penis and they grow beards doesn't mean they are mature individuals. They are just kids in adult clothing. In conclusion, I did not do this to offend anyone oh, just for you guys to get a taste of your own medicine when you open your numerous female bashing threads and rain all sorts of profanities on nigerian girls. no one is perfect, even we ladies have our own imperfections. Note: feel free to insult the Op, get offended, spew profanities,have hypertension because of this post. You're all welcome 190 Likes 29 Shares |
Re: 10 Reasons Why You Shouldn't Date A Nigerian Guy Of Today by Nobody: 11:19am On Mar 11, 2016 |
are you dating a heavenly dude 119 Likes 1 Share |
Re: 10 Reasons Why You Shouldn't Date A Nigerian Guy Of Today by Nobody: 11:19am On Mar 11, 2016 |
You asked for it. Seat tight. Daddy will be back! 14 Likes 1 Share |
Re: 10 Reasons Why You Shouldn't Date A Nigerian Guy Of Today by Nobody: 11:20am On Mar 11, 2016 |
I'm waiting This will be fun SmoothCruiz: 15 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: 10 Reasons Why You Shouldn't Date A Nigerian Guy Of Today by Project400: 11:20am On Mar 11, 2016 |
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Re: 10 Reasons Why You Shouldn't Date A Nigerian Guy Of Today by kajoula(m): 11:24am On Mar 11, 2016 |
I NOR DEY THERE OOH. 5 Likes |
Re: 10 Reasons Why You Shouldn't Date A Nigerian Guy Of Today by Nobody: 11:26am On Mar 11, 2016 |
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Re: 10 Reasons Why You Shouldn't Date A Nigerian Guy Of Today by Nobody: 11:27am On Mar 11, 2016 |
You generalised but its true for so many. Me am tired of them already, i want a foreign/European partner. 47 Likes |
Re: 10 Reasons Why You Shouldn't Date A Nigerian Guy Of Today by MrCork: 11:29am On Mar 11, 2016 |
Fabulocity: 11 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: 10 Reasons Why You Shouldn't Date A Nigerian Guy Of Today by Nobody: 11:29am On Mar 11, 2016 |
I did not generalise. Read the disclaimer Stupedinluv: 13 Likes 1 Share |
Re: 10 Reasons Why You Shouldn't Date A Nigerian Guy Of Today by cosby02(m): 11:30am On Mar 11, 2016 |
You wrote all these without providing an alternative You are married to a man from a village close to yours and you are inciting our young girls against Nigeria men... Are you a woman or a sex dolly recently made in china 216 Likes 12 Shares |
Re: 10 Reasons Why You Shouldn't Date A Nigerian Guy Of Today by MrCork: 11:32am On Mar 11, 2016 |
Fabulocity: ....SAY WOT?...homebase nigeria guys that lookLIKe lagos roadside mechanic or we London Nigerian guys? 12 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: 10 Reasons Why You Shouldn't Date A Nigerian Guy Of Today by Maxi112: 11:34am On Mar 11, 2016 |
some body should call this op to order, Am not just in a good mood this morning 13 Likes |
Re: 10 Reasons Why You Shouldn't Date A Nigerian Guy Of Today by Nobody: 11:35am On Mar 11, 2016 |
Fabulocity:Oh okay just saw it. You write very well btw. 17 Likes |
Re: 10 Reasons Why You Shouldn't Date A Nigerian Guy Of Today by Nobody: 11:36am On Mar 11, 2016 |
Sorry Maxi112: 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: 10 Reasons Why You Shouldn't Date A Nigerian Guy Of Today by Nobody: 11:37am On Mar 11, 2016 |
Maxi112:No Nigerian men need to be called to order. 33 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: 10 Reasons Why You Shouldn't Date A Nigerian Guy Of Today by Maxi112: 11:38am On Mar 11, 2016 |
some body should call this op to order, Am not just in a good mood this morning 1 Like 2 Shares |
Re: 10 Reasons Why You Shouldn't Date A Nigerian Guy Of Today by Nobody: 11:38am On Mar 11, 2016 |
Let me start with this: If you're a gold-digging oppurtunistic leech, don't date a Nigerian man. We will find you out. It's not a one-off that an 18-year-old Nigerian boy can con a 56-year-old British professor. WE ARE WORLD-FAMOUS FOR BEING SMART. Of course, the thieving Nigerian girls wouldn't want smart Nigerian men. We'd screw you girls and pass you on to our friends when we discover you're unfaithful. Who wants a woman who's always at the receiving end of favours? Nigerian women always beg for favours! When was the last time you visited your boyfriend, do his laundry then prepare him a meal with YOUR OWN MONEY? You can't remember? I thought as much. How many girls on this thread bought the phones they're using with their OWN money? The fake wigs? The eyelashes? Heck! You even beg to purchase sanitary pads. The average Chinese and American girl starts getting wages for job done from age 13. She babysits, runs errands, sort out groceries... Anything. Nigerian girls? They sit on their lazy, buttpadded behinds! The average Nigerian girl fantasizes about Marriage from age 16. No, it's not because she's romantic or homely. It's because she wants a man who'd take care of her financial needs while she brings only her unshaved _vagina to the table. Oops! Bad for them, my Nigerian brothers are getting wiser. Until you girls learn to be homely, loving and stoic like our mothers past, we'd continue to play and prey on you. You guessed right- IT'S A MAN'S WORLD. Cry us a river! 664 Likes 112 Shares |
Re: 10 Reasons Why You Shouldn't Date A Nigerian Guy Of Today by nikkypearl(f): 11:38am On Mar 11, 2016 |
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Re: 10 Reasons Why You Shouldn't Date A Nigerian Guy Of Today by Nobody: 11:40am On Mar 11, 2016 |
MrCork:mumu why are you quoting the whole post? 16 Likes 1 Share |
Re: 10 Reasons Why You Shouldn't Date A Nigerian Guy Of Today by Maxi112: 11:43am On Mar 11, 2016 |
Fabulocity:thank u |
Re: 10 Reasons Why You Shouldn't Date A Nigerian Guy Of Today by NemzySeries(m): 11:45am On Mar 11, 2016 |
nice post but unfortunately itz d most irrelevant tin av see on nairaland itz like asking fishes to relocate frm d water to no place in particular.........so if all d gals decide to follow dis derailing post who are dey suppose to marry or date? & den d men here wud b left 4 who?.........go & do ur research well nigerian men are one of d best specs of mankind in d world weda in terms of Romance, care, affection, passion, luv, sex, handsomeness, magas, free givers, flexers, chillers.....jst name it.....if d ones U've bin meeting are bad den it's not our fault dat U've bin dating possessed men........healing is coming upon u soon 47 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: 10 Reasons Why You Shouldn't Date A Nigerian Guy Of Today by firstking01(m): 11:46am On Mar 11, 2016 |
This is a heap of flawfullness...nonetheless i foresee a counter thread coming with the speed of usain bolt 3 Likes |
Re: 10 Reasons Why You Shouldn't Date A Nigerian Guy Of Today by Maxi112: 11:46am On Mar 11, 2016 |
Stupedinluv:Whais this :- 5 Likes |
Re: 10 Reasons Why You Shouldn't Date A Nigerian Guy Of Today by Nobody: 11:49am On Mar 11, 2016 |
Stupedinluv: Check the statistics. Foreign men do not consider black women attractive so they're less likely to settle with you except you're rich and maybe, fair-skinned . They are less likely to marry you. All white women ,on the other hand, have a fetish for African men. They, for some odd reason, consider us better in bed than white men. Heck! We're better hung and more masculine than the white, pale sissies. It's more common to find a white woman cheating with a black man than a white man cheating with a black woman. You all should be glad we roll with you. For the record, we would easily eat a white woman's _vagina than a black woman's which is all dark, bumpy and smelly. Eewwwh! 244 Likes 19 Shares |
Re: 10 Reasons Why You Shouldn't Date A Nigerian Guy Of Today by Nobody: 11:54am On Mar 11, 2016 |
SmoothCruiz:You are so stup1d i dont even know where to start from. Which yeye statistics, they one conducted by pink swollen white american men? who no black woman wants. LMao. For your information, hate to say this but real whities/europeans have this fetish for african women. And guess what these ones are 100 times more attractive than those fat pigs. Have you forgotten the only white women black men can "afford" are usually fat or obese? We see it all the time. The left overs of white men are your pride. If they were slim and good looking they wont even look at you twice BECAUSE MOST DON'T FIND BLACK MEN ATTRACTIVE. Sorry but that's the fvcking truth right there. You asked for it. You should have kept quiet if i were you One more thing white men often go for dark/caramel black women if they are going interracial. Now kill yourself monkey. Black women are really doing black men s favour. Normally they should be the last pick of every woman. 61 Likes 9 Shares |
Re: 10 Reasons Why You Shouldn't Date A Nigerian Guy Of Today by firstking01(m): 11:55am On Mar 11, 2016 |
Stupedinluv:what are you waiting for, sand full ground na, mould one yourself or berra still visit the foundry factory, they can help you 8 Likes |
Re: 10 Reasons Why You Shouldn't Date A Nigerian Guy Of Today by MrCork: 11:55am On Mar 11, 2016 |
Stupedinluv: ..you come to nairaland looking for nigeria man to maary(read yorrr last post)) ...sweethatt...the question is who's gonnno marry you witthis kinnnda gronkolopopick atitude?.(SHAME) 75 Likes 10 Shares |
Re: 10 Reasons Why You Shouldn't Date A Nigerian Guy Of Today by Nobody: 11:56am On Mar 11, 2016 |
Why do i have a funny feeling that this OP was used by a sharp naija guy who's jobless, stinky, Bleep,er, etc acording to her description and she came here to rant on nairaland like the jobless naija guys she claimed we are, you that has a job how come you are on nairaland, and i believe your imaginary husband is also from the moon. She goat 80 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: 10 Reasons Why You Shouldn't Date A Nigerian Guy Of Today by pointblank247(m): 11:56am On Mar 11, 2016 |
hey woman your whole write up only says things about ur class and level and the level and class of men you can attract or are attracted to u in the whole of 170million population of Nigeria and your myopia makes you to think that your small world is were we end. we real men are demanding apologies or....... 29 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: 10 Reasons Why You Shouldn't Date A Nigerian Guy Of Today by Nobody: 11:59am On Mar 11, 2016 |
Guy calm down. This isn't a battle of the sexes. The purpose of this thread is not to compare and contrast nigerian men to their women counterparts or to demean anyone. If you read the whole post, I also mentioned that nigerian women also have their imperfections. Both men and women have their own awful sides. And I guess the irony of the story is, that makes us perfect for each other. SmoothCruiz: 8 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: 10 Reasons Why You Shouldn't Date A Nigerian Guy Of Today by Gebbson007(m): 12:01pm On Mar 11, 2016 |
Stupedinluv:u no ear say dollar don go up elp bring am down by dating a naija made guy I am Gebbson n I just wanna make common sense 4 Likes |
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