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Re: 10 Reasons Why You Shouldn't Date A Nigerian Guy Of Today by omoharry(f): 2:12pm On Mar 11, 2016
Fabulocity:
For the last time, I didn't generalise, you did not read the post completely before you jumped to attack undecided Pls read the disclaimer.
And it's only the guilty ones that would be quick to tear me apart. I must have hit lots of nerves though.
op..you dont need to apologize for generalizing...men on nairaland have always generalize that we girls are all gold diggers and Oloshos..we got tire of defending ourselve that not all girl are like that but they refuse to listen..we decided to let them be. so..let them also feel what it means for the good egg to be included among the bad egg...we women no longer answer them as they continue to generalize and bash us unecessarily..let them take the bitter pill also as we always done,so that they will know what it means to be called something you are not.

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Re: 10 Reasons Why You Shouldn't Date A Nigerian Guy Of Today by Nobody: 2:12pm On Mar 11, 2016
Amen! cry
Nigerian guys are full of bullshit sad
sucess001:
@ OP...

take heart...and try to move on...


God will give you another guy.,...

@fabulocity

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Re: 10 Reasons Why You Shouldn't Date A Nigerian Guy Of Today by XclusiveDee(m): 2:14pm On Mar 11, 2016
Ehyah,,,i feel your pain ma'am ..
Re: 10 Reasons Why You Shouldn't Date A Nigerian Guy Of Today by ourchoice(m): 2:15pm On Mar 11, 2016
zeongeon:

What these girls fail to understand is that there is an awakening to the double standards, greed, selfishness and hypocrisy of most women...Men are beginning to realize that when women call a man a "true man" is when they love the man for what he is i.e rich guy, business guy, celebrity, successful etc.

Whether you date Nigerian men or not tonight and going forward till will still be many Nigeria women and non Nigerian women warming our beds and being baby mamas the write up doesn't change the fact that many babes will be laid tonight and going forward for just 500 naira and roasted fish, while some will be laid for like 5k, some 500thousand and some laid for 1million, a house, contracts, jobs, cars, shops etc.

The Irony is that the men you Nigerian women screw with, get preggo for and happily become baby mama for used to be jobless, some use to do some menial jobs, some had body odour and bad breathe but all off a sudden when he became successful most of the women will be happy to get screwed by him.

You say Nigerian men are polygamous but why is it that you women are happy being wife, girl friend or baby mama 3, 4 or 5 when the man becomes a success.

The men are just treating some women the way they deserve to be treated after all when he was jobless, struggling with his bad odour and breathe most women didn't see what he could become and now that he is successful they see him as the ideal man...why didn't they see him as an ideal man when he was still a raw material...The rough time some guyz go through coupled with the treatment of neglect and disdain girls give them cause they are still struggling make them wise enough when they make it that the women just like them for the success and so he would just treat them as Mistresses.

The girls should truthfully answer this questions and then may be you will give the guyz reasons they should date you probably wife you and not turn you into a screwing material.

- Can most Nigeria girls on this Nairaland and even beyond date and stay with a jobless dude, menial working or meagre salary dude?

- Can you girls date a jobless or broke dude and still remain faithful?

- Would you be happy being approached by a broke dude or jobless dude?

- The girls your bf or whoever cheats with are they not attracted to the success or money that attracted you to him?

- With the rate of baby mama and desperation of women I.e 3 women clinging on to a man just to answer mrs, booming porn industry, prostitution isnt it enough prove to show that men are the best things to happen to women?
How many female celebrities have baby daddy Guys are not interested in a lady's wealth....but almost all male celebrities have baby mamas which shows that ladies are only after men's wealth and financial favors!!! That's the simple proof!!

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Re: 10 Reasons Why You Shouldn't Date A Nigerian Guy Of Today by Nobody: 2:16pm On Mar 11, 2016
Don't mind the fucktards oh.
But if it is to call a woman Olosho, they will open their smelly, halitosis breath mouths to say it with all joy. Any Imbecíle that quotes me will surely get a hot reply from me. Let me Go and charge my phone first. Oni iranus
omoharry:
op..you dont need to apologize for generalizing...men on nairaland have always generalize that we girls are all gold diggers and Oloshos..we got tire of defending ourselve that not all girl are like that but they refuse to listen..we decided to let them be. so..let them also feel what it means for the good egg to be included among the bad egg...we women no longer answer them as they continue to generalize and bash us unecessarily..let them take the bitter pill also as we always do,so that they will know what it means to be called something you are not.

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Re: 10 Reasons Why You Shouldn't Date A Nigerian Guy Of Today by toprealman: 2:16pm On Mar 11, 2016
Try men from Eritrea then.....MTCHEW zzzz

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Re: 10 Reasons Why You Shouldn't Date A Nigerian Guy Of Today by Nobody: 2:17pm On Mar 11, 2016
dungburu:
The op has been a victim of serial heartbreak. We Nigerian guys are smart, we reason straight from our head not our heart like the women do.

Nigerian ladies go for highest bidder and that's the reason their asses will be abandoned adinfinitum.

They want their men to be handsome, rich and very stupid. We Nigerian guys are naturally born and trained by our national economic predicament to be smart right from the days of IBB.

It is not our fault that this op gat a bad luck tailing her, Nigerian men are for real. We understand the fact that you can not make us rich but stupid and that's why we do our calculation well.

All Nigerian ladies want is sex, money and love.
Untill you swerve you thinking faculty to the right direction and change your mindset about us, you can't get the right man.



Argumentum ad hominem
Re: 10 Reasons Why You Shouldn't Date A Nigerian Guy Of Today by XclusiveDee(m): 2:18pm On Mar 11, 2016
SmoothCruiz:
Let me start with this:

If you're a gold-digging oppurtunistic leech, don't date a Nigerian man. We will find you out. It's not a one-off that an 18-year-old Nigerian boy can con a 56-year-old British professor. WE ARE WORLD-FAMOUS FOR BEING SMART.

Of course, the thieving Nigerian girls wouldn't want smart Nigerian men. We'd screw you girls and pass you on to our friends when we discover you're unfaithful.

Who wants a woman who's always at the receiving end of favours? Nigerian women always beg for favours!

When was the last time you visited your boyfriend, do his laundry then prepare him a meal with YOUR OWN MONEY? You can't remember? I thought as much.

How many girls on this thread bought the phones they're using with their OWN money? The fake wigs? The eyelashes? Heck! You even beg to purchase sanitary pads.


The average Chinese and American girl starts getting wages for job done from age 13. She babysits, runs errands, sort out groceries... Anything.

Nigerian girls? They sit on their lazy, buttpadded behinds!

The average Nigerian girl fantasizes about Marriage from age 16. No, it's not because she's romantic or homely. It's because she wants a man who'd take care of her financial needs while she brings only her unshaved _vagina to the table.


Oops! Bad for them, my Nigerian brothers are getting wiser.

Until you girls learn to be homely, loving and stoic like our mothers past, we'd continue to play and prey on you.

You guessed right- IT'S A MAN'S WORLD.


Cry us a river!


hahahaha tell them!!! BTW its a relationship not a fucking job opportunity

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Re: 10 Reasons Why You Shouldn't Date A Nigerian Guy Of Today by Nobody: 2:19pm On Mar 11, 2016
I'll be right Back. By the time I'm done with all you nature's errors, you'll regret the day you popped out of your mother's vaginas.

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Re: 10 Reasons Why You Shouldn't Date A Nigerian Guy Of Today by Greg007(m): 2:19pm On Mar 11, 2016
Fabulocity:
Disclaimer: This thread is not to insult anyone, it's just based in the few observations I've made and it doesn't also apply to every Nigerian guy. So take a moment to read before you release your venom(if this write up refers to you).

1) He is broke: The average Nigerian guy is Broke! Yes. It's either he has no job or he has a ridiculously low paying job. As a result of this, when their girlfriends make demands on them, they come on Nairaland to pour their anger and frustration over their inability to meet these demands. They tag them as hungry, money loving, gold digging sluts. And one way to know the jobless ones is that they spend a lot of time online on various social websites and it leaves one wondering when they actually work. The answer simply is, they have no jobs!

2) He is most probably a fůck boy : Most Nigerian dudes are fůck boys. You just meet a guy and you've barely talked for two days and he's already asking for nudes, like, Wth?? Or he's already trying to initiate a sex chat. That's how one of my friends got introduced to a guy online by a mutual friend. They had barely talked for a week and the goat was already asking her for X-rated Skype video Calls! Hian! You see them on social media, sending PMs,sliding into DMs, inboxing on Facebook to different girls hoping to get lucky with one of them. And from a lot of stories I've heard on NL, they want nothing but sex once they meet a hot girl. They strategise and plan all sorts of ways of luring a girl in to their homes on order to have their way with her. Guys, please stop this fůck boy behaviour of yours, don't try to get into a ladies panties without first trying to get into her heart.

3) He is polygamous in nature : "All Nigerian men Cheat! " This was implied proudly by one body builder who impregnated his ex girlfriend whilst still married to his celebrity wife. I can't count the number of times I've come across that statement both online and offline. I don't know if nigerian guys should be given a pat on the back for admitting their 'weakness' and saving lots of girls from heartache and high blood pressure from wondering if their boyfriends are faithful or not as they would already know there's another chick somewhere, or if they should be shot in the head for admitting such foolishness. And it amazes me that they always admit this with a tinge of pride. Well, it's up to you. It seems the spirit of our polygamous forefathers have not left the Nigerian men as they cannot cope with having just one woman in their life. Smh

4) Thinks he is God's gift to women : He thinks you're lucky to have him as there are several other girls that would kill to be in your place , therefore you should be grateful to God almighty for making you find such rare treasure like him undecided. He thinks he is the black adonis fallen from heaven. He thinks you are highly fortunate to have someone like him and most of this time, they ain't worth shįt angry Girls, please find someone who would appreciate you, not someone that would depreciate your value

5) Poor Personal hygiene: Nigerian guys Stink! I don't know if they think it's manly to walk around looking unkempt and smelling nasty but please, that's an archaic way of thinking as we're in the 21st century. Nothing turns most ladies on more than a well groomed, nice smelling man. Most nigerian dudes have terrible body odour and bad breath. Please please and please deodorant or body spray is not that expensive. For those of you who actually take your bath, you should also think of deodorising as you tend to sweat a lot and bathing will not be enough to mask unwanted odours. You don't have to use expensive perfumes to smell good, no one is asking you to be a metrosexual, just practise simple hygiene and you're good to go. And please, it's not a crime to change your boxers and socks everyday instead of repeating them and creating horrific odours

6) Would most definitely cheat on you: Do I really need to talk about This? Number 3 has explained this.

7) Super inflated ego : All men tend to be egotistical, there's nothing wrong with that but when you have a super inflated ego, there's a problem. Yes, these group of men feel that we ladies should worship the ground they walk on and if that they leave us, that would be the end of our lives. They are very proud, arrogant and they tend to look down on ladies. They would never call you first, they believe you should be the one scrambling for their attention, you dare not argue or disagree with them If not your own had finished. In fact, it remains for you to start calling them 'sir'.

cool A big, fat liar: How do you know when a Nigerian guy is Lying? The answer is, when his lips are moving! Even the devil is flabbergasted at the way these men lie. They lie about everything and most especially when they are cheating on you. They can also deny for Africa, even when they are caught red handed. You see some very steamy and compromising text messages he sent to another girl and they swear to you it's their sister. Ndi okwu asi

9) Take you for granted: They tend to take their women for granted. They feel the average nigerian woman is a desperate gold digger looking for a man to ensnare into marriage. They don't know that you should be loved, respected, appreciated, treated like a queen that you are.. Instead, they disrespect, violate, abuse and demean their women. It's a pity indeed.

10) Very immature : Finally, they could be so immature! I always shake my head in disgust when I see grown ass men behaving like babies. What would make a grown ass man who has gone through formal education and the four walls of a university do immature things like releasing the nudes of an ex (again, fůck boy syndrome), beat up a woman, ask his babe to return everything he got her while they were dating after they break up. Like Seriously?? Just because they might have a penis and they grow beards doesn't mean they are mature individuals. They are just kids in adult clothing.

In conclusion, I did not do this to offend anyone oh, just for you guys to get a taste of your own medicine when you open your numerous female bashing threads and rain all sorts of profanities on nigerian girls. smiley no one is perfect, even we ladies have our own imperfections.
Note: feel free to insult the Op, get offended, spew profanities,have hypertension because of this post. You're all welcome smiley


This is all wrong. When you say Nigerian guys you are referring to all guys in Nigeria which is very very wrong. Do your research well my dear any you will find out that Nigerian guys are the best
Re: 10 Reasons Why You Shouldn't Date A Nigerian Guy Of Today by noblegrex: 2:20pm On Mar 11, 2016
Fabulocity:
The more you all speak, the more you validate my Points! Gosh, you're so fvcking immature it's sickening. "A pair of my shoes can pay your school fees" I mean who says That? Isn't that what kids use to insult Themselves? And how did attending a private university enter the Matter? Are you that lost for words? I could go down to your level and have a proper exchange of words with you but I'll not debase myself so. Look at him, he can't even spell "afford". You're a lost cause! I can't be having a conversation with a child.
its a very good thing that your big head is not only full of poverty striking mentality,you can also comprehend atleast to some extent.therefore,no apologies for my typo error.I'm glad to be a child(for ever young) ask.JZ. I mentioned private schools cos I knw their fees are 5,6,7,8k to 1m and I don't have a pair of shoe that cost that amount atleast for now. But some fed govt or state unis' fees are not up to 100k. If you knw what I mean.well,I've got soft spot for women.if not,you'll be sorry for the tread you oppened. I enjoy bashing with guyz like me. But it seems you've got guts. But anyways, its not your fault. A hungry man is an Angry man. Go to God in prayers.he'll turn your situations around. SiNAJ is a classic chic. Classic chic don't look for men to spend on them.as much a money is good,you have to work for your own money too.it doesn't stop any responsible man to shower you with care.

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Re: 10 Reasons Why You Shouldn't Date A Nigerian Guy Of Today by Nobody: 2:23pm On Mar 11, 2016
omoharry:
stop dating students and come her to generalize that all women beg for money...if you date students you are bound to give them money..but when you date a working class lady..its rearely happens, except for few gift at different occasions..stop generalizing...no man has ever bought any phone for me...starting from my first phone to this present one..i always had a phone even when men come to my life and leave .. i dont ask them for money..becos i am content with what i have..so you guys should get over yourself and come down from your high horse..
she said one reason u shouldn't date Nigerian guys is they are broke, how do u know that someone is broke, if u don't beg abi ask him for money, why would she create such a thread? Is she mad? Majority of Nigerian girls beg their spouse for money, if he don't give, she will tell her friends that my bf is a broke ass nigga, he can't afford to mantain me, am dumping his asshole
Re: 10 Reasons Why You Shouldn't Date A Nigerian Guy Of Today by crazyclown07(m): 2:23pm On Mar 11, 2016
SmoothCruiz:
Let me start with this:

If you're a gold-digging oppurtunistic leech, don't date a Nigerian man. We will find you out. It's not a one-off that an 18-year-old Nigerian boy can con a 56-year-old British professor. WE ARE WORLD-FAMOUS FOR BEING SMART.

Of course, the thieving Nigerian girls wouldn't want smart Nigerian men. We'd screw you girls and pass you on to our friends when we discover you're unfaithful.

Who wants a woman who's always at the receiving end of favours? Nigerian women always beg for favours!

When was the last time you visited your boyfriend, do his laundry then prepare him a meal with YOUR OWN MONEY? You can't remember? I thought as much.

How many girls on this thread bought the phones they're using with their OWN money? The fake wigs? The eyelashes? Heck! You even beg to purchase sanitary pads.


The average Chinese and American girl starts getting wages for job done from age 13. She babysits, runs errands, sort out groceries... Anything.

Nigerian girls? They sit on their lazy, buttpadded behinds!

The average Nigerian girl fantasizes about Marriage from age 16. No, it's not because she's romantic or homely. It's because she wants a man who'd take care of her financial needs while she brings only her unshaved _vagina to the table.


Oops! Bad for them, my Nigerian brothers are getting wiser.

Until you girls learn to be homely, loving and stoic like our mothers past, we'd continue to play and prey on you.

You guessed right- IT'S A MAN'S WORLD.


Cry us a river!
Hahaha you deserve an automatic employment from buhari. U nailed it I call that T.K.O
This bi*ches aint Loyal
Re: 10 Reasons Why You Shouldn't Date A Nigerian Guy Of Today by sucess001(m): 2:24pm On Mar 11, 2016
Fabulocity:
Amen! cry
Nigerian guys are full of bullshit sad

now you are stereotyping cos of a bad experience

#notfair
Re: 10 Reasons Why You Shouldn't Date A Nigerian Guy Of Today by Eminentsaint(m): 2:25pm On Mar 11, 2016
pucelle:

Mr Eminentsaint,you just agreed with me that Nairaland may be or rather is anti-women,
The number of female respect inclined men is dwindling by the day,all from what young boys/men learn and assimilate from most media forum as this.



PS- my accession is right after all because my first post have been wiped off from this thread grin
Maybe so but tell me, are all males on nairaland 'anti-women?'
Re: 10 Reasons Why You Shouldn't Date A Nigerian Guy Of Today by Nobody: 2:25pm On Mar 11, 2016
SmoothCruiz:
Let me start with this:

If you're a gold-digging oppurtunistic leech, don't date a Nigerian man. We will find you out. It's not a one-off that an 18-year-old Nigerian boy can con a 56-year-old British professor. WE ARE WORLD-FAMOUS FOR BEING SMART.

Of course, the thieving Nigerian girls wouldn't want smart Nigerian men. We'd screw you girls and pass you on to our friends when we discover you're unfaithful.

Who wants a woman who's always at the receiving end of favours? Nigerian women always beg for favours!

When was the last time you visited your boyfriend, do his laundry then prepare him a meal with YOUR OWN MONEY? You can't remember? I thought as much.

How many girls on this thread bought the phones they're using with their OWN money? The fake wigs? The eyelashes? Heck! You even beg to purchase sanitary pads.


The average Chinese and American girl starts getting wages for job done from age 13. She babysits, runs errands, sort out groceries... Anything.

Nigerian girls? They sit on their lazy, buttpadded behinds!

The average Nigerian girl fantasizes about Marriage from age 16. No, it's not because she's romantic or homely. It's because she wants a man who'd take care of her financial needs while she brings only her unshaved _vagina to the table.


Oops! Bad for them, my Nigerian brothers are getting wiser.

Until you girls learn to be homely, loving and stoic like our mothers past, we'd continue to play and prey on you.

You guessed right- IT'S A MAN'S WORLD.


Cry us a river!
bros I don't know you, but if we ever meet in this life I owe you ten crates of odeku

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Re: 10 Reasons Why You Shouldn't Date A Nigerian Guy Of Today by pasco30(m): 2:26pm On Mar 11, 2016
Did your ex release your nudes grin.

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Re: 10 Reasons Why You Shouldn't Date A Nigerian Guy Of Today by daxon001(m): 2:26pm On Mar 11, 2016
Who's this OP undecided angry

Re: 10 Reasons Why You Shouldn't Date A Nigerian Guy Of Today by Nobody: 2:27pm On Mar 11, 2016
Oliviaarims:


Lol...ur own problem,ehn...smoking hot ,pink-lipped...
That's all that matters nah! tongue




Re: 10 Reasons Why You Shouldn't Date A Nigerian Guy Of Today by Eminentsaint(m): 2:27pm On Mar 11, 2016
pucelle:

cc Eminentsaint cheesy
Why is my username up there?
Re: 10 Reasons Why You Shouldn't Date A Nigerian Guy Of Today by rawgame(m): 2:27pm On Mar 11, 2016
This 'OP' must be a chronically bitter person with an antagonistic mindset exhibiting ruthless verbal and emotional cruelty.
Re: 10 Reasons Why You Shouldn't Date A Nigerian Guy Of Today by cyprus000: 2:30pm On Mar 11, 2016
Fabulocity:
Typical example of number one.
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Yeah! Why won't a sybaritic promiscuous simpleton lyk you open the cesspool of putrid effluvium you call mouth to call me broke? when all a heap of gold digging loathsome repulsiveness lyk you knows is weigh net worth of men on first sight.

Well, I don't have time for poverty stricken boorish lowlife.
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Re: 10 Reasons Why You Shouldn't Date A Nigerian Guy Of Today by amokeme(f): 2:30pm On Mar 11, 2016
ourchoice:


And I am sure that if you are sure that a guy haven't bought you any of the aforementioned things the guy listed, then you must be below 25yrs of age and still under your parents' care.

In Nigeria, ladies believe that their boyfriends and husbands ought to buy them their phones, wigs, hair fix, clothes, etc...and its very absurd to say!

It speaks ill of our societal values cry cry
let me start with the bold, true I'm below 25 but may I remind you that it has nothing to do with age.. We have Nigerian ladies of above 25 and not depending on any man for nothing.
We also have girls of 16 alrdy depending on a bf or just any man for stuffs(in most cases iv seen, not that their parents are not financially capable. No, some girls just see it as a right which is totally wrong. And I don't blame guys who treat such girls like trash. I mean, what do you expect??) No man can look me in the face and say "I got this for you" never. And if you got a gift for me and you feel it gives you an edge to disrespect me, ill buy you double of what you got and that's it! I always say this life is simple we humans just tend to complicate it by all means.
I don't see anything wrong in my parent still providing for me before i can stand on my feets. I am their responsibility and not any man's responsibility. And when I get married I will be responsible for my own self and my parents and not depend on my husband. It's that simple!


And the second part, please can everybody stop generalising??! Not all and I repeat not all Nigerian women are men dependent! I can speak for myself and some of my friends too. Men are alrdy domineering by nature. I always tell ladies, giving them the opportunity to buy stuffs for you is like fueling their alrdy alrdy domineering spirit.

The OP went off with her number 1 point. She speaks for herself and not every Nigerian lady.

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Re: 10 Reasons Why You Shouldn't Date A Nigerian Guy Of Today by lovely17(m): 2:31pm On Mar 11, 2016
Stupedinluv:
You are so stup1d i dont even know where to start from. Which yeye statistics, they one conducted by pink swollen white american men? who no black woman wants. LMao. For your information, hate to say this but real whities/europeans have this fetish for african women. And guess what these ones are 100 times more attractive than those fat pigs.

Have you forgotten the only white women black men can "afford" are usually fat or obese? grin We see it all the time. The left overs of white men are your pride. If they were slim and good looking they wont even look at you twice BECAUSE MOST DON'T FIND BLACK MEN ATTRACTIVE. Sorry but that's the fvcking truth right there. You asked for it.

You should have kept quiet if i were you

One more thing white men often go for dark/caramel black women if they are going interracial. Now kill yourself monkey.

Black women are really doing black men s favour. Normally they should be the last pick of every woman.
what is this one saying Bayi undecided
Stupedinluv:
You are so stup1d i dont even know where to start from. Which yeye statistics, they one conducted by pink swollen white american men? who no black woman wants. LMao. For your information, hate to say this but real whities/europeans have this fetish for african women. And guess what these ones are 100 times more attractive than those fat pigs.

Have you forgotten the only white women black men can "afford" are usually fat or obese? grin We see it all the time. The left overs of white men are your pride. If they were slim and good looking they wont even look at you twice BECAUSE MOST DON'T FIND BLACK MEN ATTRACTIVE. Sorry but that's the fvcking truth right there. You asked for it.

You should have kept quiet if i were you

One more thing white men often go for dark/caramel black women if they are going interracial. Now kill yourself monkey.

Black women are really doing black men s favour. Normally they should be the last pick of every woman.
what is this one saying Bayi

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Re: 10 Reasons Why You Shouldn't Date A Nigerian Guy Of Today by JeffreyJamez(m): 2:31pm On Mar 11, 2016
Nigerian guys are this, Nigerian girls are that.... but people keep getting married every weekend...

Nah only for NL una dey get mouth.... awon smellos.

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Re: 10 Reasons Why You Shouldn't Date A Nigerian Guy Of Today by Nobody: 2:31pm On Mar 11, 2016
I didn't even read to the end
You're pathetic. That's all I can say
Last reply.
noblegrex:
its a very good thing that your big head is not only full of poverty striking mentality,you can also comprehend atleast to some extent.therefore,no apologies for my typo error.I'm glad to be a child(for ever young) ask.JZ. I mentioned private schools cos I knw their fees are 5,6,7,8k to 1m and I don't have a pair of shoe that cost that amount atleast for now. But some fed govt or state unis' fees are not up to 100k. If you knw what I mean.well,I've got soft spot for women.if not,you'll be sorry for the tread you oppened. I enjoy bashing with guyz like me. But it seems you've got guts. But anyways, its not your fault. A hungry man is an Angry man. Go to God in prayers.he'll turn your situations around. SiNAJ is a classic chic. Classic chic don't look for men to spend on them.as much a money is good,you have to work for your own money too.it doesn't stop any responsible man to shower you with care.
Re: 10 Reasons Why You Shouldn't Date A Nigerian Guy Of Today by designgurus: 2:32pm On Mar 11, 2016
Fabulocity:
I'm waiting
This will be fun grin

This is the most stupid write up I have ever read on nairaland. Your ego jus pissued me off. Wish you all the best in your search for foreign dude. But remember there is no place like home. We are still the best!
Re: 10 Reasons Why You Shouldn't Date A Nigerian Guy Of Today by Nobody: 2:33pm On Mar 11, 2016
Yes. Yes I am.
rawgame:
This 'OP' must be a chronically bitter person with an antagonistic mindset exhibiting ruthless verbal and emotional cruelty.
Re: 10 Reasons Why You Shouldn't Date A Nigerian Guy Of Today by cognize: 2:33pm On Mar 11, 2016
SmoothCruiz:
Let me start with this:

If you're a gold-digging oppurtunistic leech, don't date a Nigerian man. We will find you out. It's not a one-off that an 18-year-old Nigerian boy can con a 56-year-old British professor. WE ARE WORLD-FAMOUS FOR BEING SMART.

Of course, the thieving Nigerian girls wouldn't want smart Nigerian men. We'd screw you girls and pass you on to our friends when we discover you're unfaithful.

Who wants a woman who's always at the receiving end of favours? Nigerian women always beg for favours!

When was the last time you visited your boyfriend, do his laundry then prepare him a meal with YOUR OWN MONEY? You can't remember? I thought as much.

How many girls on this thread bought the phones they're using with their OWN money? The fake wigs? The eyelashes? Heck! You even beg to purchase sanitary pads.


The average Chinese and American girl starts getting wages for job done from age 13. She babysits, runs errands, sort out groceries... Anything.

Nigerian girls? They sit on their lazy, buttpadded behinds!

The average Nigerian girl fantasizes about Marriage from age 16. No, it's not because she's romantic or homely. It's because she wants a man who'd take care of her financial needs while she brings only her unshaved _vagina to the table.


Oops! Bad for them, my Nigerian brothers are getting wiser.

Until you girls learn to be homely, loving and stoic like our mothers past, we'd continue to play and prey on you.

You guessed right- IT'S A MAN'S WORLD.


Cry us a river!
I CONCUR
Re: 10 Reasons Why You Shouldn't Date A Nigerian Guy Of Today by maryrosz(f): 2:33pm On Mar 11, 2016
Fabulocity:
Disclaimer: This thread is not to insult anyone, it's just based in the few observations I've made and it doesn't also apply to every Nigerian guy. So take a moment to read before you release your venom(if this write up refers to you).

1) He is broke: The average Nigerian guy is Broke! Yes. It's either he has no job or he has a ridiculously low paying job. As a result of this, when their girlfriends make demands on them, they come on Nairaland to pour their anger and frustration over their inability to meet these demands. They tag them as hungry, money loving, gold digging sluts. And one way to know the jobless ones is that they spend a lot of time online on various social websites and it leaves one wondering when they actually work. The answer simply is, they have no jobs!

2) He is most probably a fůck boy : Most Nigerian dudes are fůck boys. You just meet a guy and you've barely talked for two days and he's already asking for nudes, like, Wth?? Or he's already trying to initiate a sex chat. That's how one of my friends got introduced to a guy online by a mutual friend. They had barely talked for a week and the goat was already asking her for X-rated Skype video Calls! Hian! You see them on social media, sending PMs,sliding into DMs, inboxing on Facebook to different girls hoping to get lucky with one of them. And from a lot of stories I've heard on NL, they want nothing but sex once they meet a hot girl. They strategise and plan all sorts of ways of luring a girl in to their homes on order to have their way with her. Guys, please stop this fůck boy behaviour of yours, don't try to get into a ladies panties without first trying to get into her heart.

3) He is polygamous in nature : "All Nigerian men Cheat! " This was implied proudly by one body builder who impregnated his ex girlfriend whilst still married to his celebrity wife. I can't count the number of times I've come across that statement both online and offline. I don't know if nigerian guys should be given a pat on the back for admitting their 'weakness' and saving lots of girls from heartache and high blood pressure from wondering if their boyfriends are faithful or not as they would already know there's another chick somewhere, or if they should be shot in the head for admitting such foolishness. And it amazes me that they always admit this with a tinge of pride. Well, it's up to you. It seems the spirit of our polygamous forefathers have not left the Nigerian men as they cannot cope with having just one woman in their life. Smh

4) Thinks he is God's gift to women : He thinks you're lucky to have him as there are several other girls that would kill to be in your place , therefore you should be grateful to God almighty for making you find such rare treasure like him undecided. He thinks he is the black adonis fallen from heaven. He thinks you are highly fortunate to have someone like him and most of this time, they ain't worth shįt angry Girls, please find someone who would appreciate you, not someone that would depreciate your value

5) Poor Personal hygiene: Nigerian guys Stink! I don't know if they think it's manly to walk around looking unkempt and smelling nasty but please, that's an archaic way of thinking as we're in the 21st century. Nothing turns most ladies on more than a well groomed, nice smelling man. Most nigerian dudes have terrible body odour and bad breath. Please please and please deodorant or body spray is not that expensive. For those of you who actually take your bath, you should also think of deodorising as you tend to sweat a lot and bathing will not be enough to mask unwanted odours. You don't have to use expensive perfumes to smell good, no one is asking you to be a metrosexual, just practise simple hygiene and you're good to go. And please, it's not a crime to change your boxers and socks everyday instead of repeating them and creating horrific odours

6) Would most definitely cheat on you: Do I really need to talk about This? Number 3 has explained this.

7) Super inflated ego : All men tend to be egotistical, there's nothing wrong with that but when you have a super inflated ego, there's a problem. Yes, these group of men feel that we ladies should worship the ground they walk on and if that they leave us, that would be the end of our lives. They are very proud, arrogant and they tend to look down on ladies. They would never call you first, they believe you should be the one scrambling for their attention, you dare not argue or disagree with them If not your own had finished. In fact, it remains for you to start calling them 'sir'.

cool A big, fat liar: How do you know when a Nigerian guy is Lying? The answer is, when his lips are moving! Even the devil is flabbergasted at the way these men lie. They lie about everything and most especially when they are cheating on you. They can also deny for Africa, even when they are caught red handed. You see some very steamy and compromising text messages he sent to another girl and they swear to you it's their sister. Ndi okwu asi

9) Take you for granted: They tend to take their women for granted. They feel the average nigerian woman is a desperate gold digger looking for a man to ensnare into marriage. They don't know that you should be loved, respected, appreciated, treated like a queen that you are.. Instead, they disrespect, violate, abuse and demean their women. It's a pity indeed.

10) Very immature : Finally, they could be so immature! I always shake my head in disgust when I see grown ass men behaving like babies. What would make a grown ass man who has gone through formal education and the four walls of a university do immature things like releasing the nudes of an ex (again, fůck boy syndrome), beat up a woman, ask his babe to return everything he got her while they were dating after they break up. Like Seriously?? Just because they might have a penis and they grow beards doesn't mean they are mature individuals. They are just kids in adult clothing.

In conclusion, I did not do this to offend anyone oh, just for you guys to get a taste of your own medicine when you open your numerous female bashing threads and rain all sorts of profanities on nigerian girls. smiley no one is perfect, even we ladies have our own imperfections.
Note: feel free to insult the Op, get offended, spew profanities,have hypertension because of this post. You're all welcome smiley
very correct i no3 esspecially. all men cheat is a must do for dem. just likesolomon in d bible

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Re: 10 Reasons Why You Shouldn't Date A Nigerian Guy Of Today by Nobody: 2:34pm On Mar 11, 2016
No doubt about that. I still feel very much attracted to certain classes of nigerian guys. If you can't see the humour in this, well....
designgurus:


This is the most stupid write up I have ever read on nairaland. Your ego jus pissued me off. Wish you all the best in your search for foreign dude. But remember there is no place like home. We are still the best!

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Re: 10 Reasons Why You Shouldn't Date A Nigerian Guy Of Today by Nobody: 2:34pm On Mar 11, 2016
lezz:
I need to buy you a drink, man! What's your brand?

Hidden in the open, I am. cheesy


Since they want a battle of the sexes, we'd bring war to them!

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