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Re: My Hatred For My Father by bukatyne(f): 10:56am On Mar 12, 2016 |
byvan03:Absolutely on point. |
Re: My Hatred For My Father by bukatyne(f): 11:00am On Mar 12, 2016 |
byvan03: Lols! She should forgive him to rid herself of bitterness and move on. |
Re: My Hatred For My Father by bukatyne(f): 11:02am On Mar 12, 2016 |
cococandy: How are you, hubby & princess? |
Re: My Hatred For My Father by sweetcocoa(f): 11:05am On Mar 12, 2016 |
Well sha, I know if I were you, that man would be out of my life for a very long time, if I can't say forever. Father or not, after all, I didn't ask to be his daughter, so I don't see why I have to accept /love a heartless and irresponsible man cos his sperm is part of my DNA. But I'm not you, so......... |
Re: My Hatred For My Father by sweetcocoa(f): 11:06am On Mar 12, 2016 |
bukatyne:She can choose to not be bitter without forgiving him, it's all in her hands. ![]() |
Re: My Hatred For My Father by byvan03: 11:07am On Mar 12, 2016 |
Re: My Hatred For My Father by sweetcocoa(f): 11:10am On Mar 12, 2016 |
cococandy:Lol, and I thought we were being subtle. ![]() |
Re: My Hatred For My Father by byvan03: 11:10am On Mar 12, 2016 |
bukatyne: Nah to forgive nah, as long he doesn't need anything from her and he isn't seeking a lovey dovey daughter/ dada relationship ![]() |
Re: My Hatred For My Father by sweetcocoa(f): 11:12am On Mar 12, 2016 |
pinceprinz:I'm sorry but this is just some fine bullshyte. No offence for real. |
Re: My Hatred For My Father by sweetcocoa(f): 11:18am On Mar 12, 2016 |
rubsaphy:I guess it's a good thing I'm not your sibling cos by the time I speak just small grammar on the matter to the rest, they'll understand that accepting that man ever is tantamount to a heinous crime. ![]() |
Re: My Hatred For My Father by sweetcocoa(f): 11:26am On Mar 12, 2016 |
sarutobie:Yea right,forgive those who trespass against us indeed. Why haven't god and Satan mended fences then?abegi. |
Re: My Hatred For My Father by sarutobie(m): 12:00pm On Mar 12, 2016 |
sweetcocoa:. My post was for the op and for Christians..you can mock it for all you want..I hope the op will act wisely than let the hate gnaw away at her soul.. |
Re: My Hatred For My Father by sweetcocoa(f): 12:04pm On Mar 12, 2016 |
J sarutobie:Just as god hating Satan is gnawing away at his soul. I understand. ![]() |
Re: My Hatred For My Father by Nobody: 1:34pm On Mar 12, 2016 |
sweetcocoa:lol. Anyway, bullshyte is still useful in Agriculture ![]() ![]() 1 Like |
Re: My Hatred For My Father by Nobody: 1:53pm On Mar 12, 2016 |
daretodiffer:The truest paradox you should realise is that If you can love until it hurts, there can be no more hurt, only more love .... and when you get to love this intensely, it doesn't measure, it just gives... Ponder! |
Re: My Hatred For My Father by kaboninc(m): 2:16pm On Mar 12, 2016 |
sweetcocoa: Hahahaha... Sweet cocoa |
Re: My Hatred For My Father by sarutobie(m): 4:33pm On Mar 12, 2016 |
sweetcocoa:Whatever girl.. |
Re: My Hatred For My Father by greatgod2012(f): 4:41pm On Mar 12, 2016 |
sweetcocoa: Dear, I'm sorry for asking, are you the same person using the moniker "Freecocoa"? |
Re: My Hatred For My Father by sweetcocoa(f): 4:56pm On Mar 12, 2016 |
Re: My Hatred For My Father by iPopAlomo(m): 6:44pm On Mar 12, 2016 |
daretodiffer: That's why you're daft nah... |
Re: My Hatred For My Father by Nobody: 6:51pm On Mar 12, 2016 |
iPopAlomo: Father figures have always represented such men and it has not caused any wahala, stop being stupid ![]() |
Re: My Hatred For My Father by cococandy(f): 12:31am On Mar 13, 2016 |
Re: My Hatred For My Father by cococandy(f): 12:33am On Mar 13, 2016 |
sweetcocoa: ![]() |
Re: My Hatred For My Father by LegatusGlaber(m): 9:05am On Mar 13, 2016 |
jopretty: You are a genius 1 Like |
Re: My Hatred For My Father by Penielme: 10:00am On Mar 13, 2016 |
When you forgive, you release yourself from bitterness, hatred etc. Forgiveness doesn't mean trusting again nor acting like nothing happened, it means you have decided to free yourself from unnecessary hurt and you're wiser now not to allow a repeat. Happy Sunday! 1 Like
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Re: My Hatred For My Father by greatgod2012(f): 4:40pm On Mar 13, 2016 |
Re: My Hatred For My Father by bukatyne(f): 6:44pm On Mar 13, 2016 |
Re: My Hatred For My Father by bukatyne(f): 6:45pm On Mar 13, 2016 |
Re: My Hatred For My Father by bukatyne(f): 6:48pm On Mar 13, 2016 |
byvan03: Nor be Naija we dey? If OP is not married, he will most likely walk her down the aisle. |
Re: My Hatred For My Father by greatgod2012(f): 7:03pm On Mar 13, 2016 |
bukatyne: Thank you ma. I was busier, so I have to give NL some break. How're you and the oga at the top ma. |
Re: My Hatred For My Father by byvan03: 7:51pm On Mar 13, 2016 |
bukatyne: She better not allow that, I doubt if someone must walk one down the aisle. I don't have any memory of me and pops hand in hand, abi I don forget? ![]() |
Re: My Hatred For My Father by Analysiscorner: 3:06pm On Mar 22, 2016 |
Actually, the issue of forgiveness is not for him 100 percent, but rather for your own sake. God wants constant purity of the heart, and there is no way for you to have it without forgiving. Then, for his own benefit, when you forgive him, you are poised to show him real love, like you would have wanted him to show but he failed. Under the atmosphere of love, he might change for good and stop his beastly behaviour, to become a loving father. You have a right to punish him, but remember that your objectiveof punishing him is not to do away with him but to make him think like a human being,to the place that he acts responsibly. And it is on this issue of acting responsibly that I would like you to do everything within your power to make him realise the damages he has caused, and start to live up to his duties. |
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