donbenedict:
Well I wouldn't say u should call it quits cuz love is like a seed that germinates and grows into smth big with time...


At Dat stage u dnt need to rush into marriage with him yet, I believ he should do more in making u see reasons why u should love him more instead of askin u to marry him... den when the love has blossomed, u can go ahead and marry him...

Smellymouth:
I think love is overrated .  If I share the same faith with her, she is homely, a great mother ,we love many of the same things, share the same views about the direction of our future, have the same goals, etc. 
A great woman makes a great partner. I dont know how many times I have seen men put up with CRAP simply because, "I love her." "What do you love about him?"  "I dont know, I just love him."  Love is not needed for marriage.  But respect is.  Also I recommend men marry women on their intellectual and motherly level.

LuveU2:
I can manage him if he is cute

pinkpebbles:
Hmmm, wat if there is no passion. You knw that kind of fire burning passion. Doest it count? Can one stil go ahead wt d marriage?

pinkpebbles:
Hmmm, wat if there is no passion. You knw that kind of fire burning passion. Doest it count? Can one stil go ahead wt d marriage?

pinkpebbles:
Hes not cute. Buh he is nice

Smellymouth:


The very thing that ignites passion is friction and instability. Once again, look at your past. Passion is usually brief, intense and rocky. Comfort, on the other hand, tends to be softer and more nurturing.

Comfort, therefore, is not nearly as exciting, but it tends to last longer. Studies say that passion usually dissipates in 18-24 months. Which is why people who expect their passion to last for 40 years, in essence, are trying to defy the laws of nature.

In marriage, you’re not making a decision for the next six months. You’re making a decision that’ll last the next 30 years. And just like one might choose different career paths for passion or comfort, people choose partners for similar reasons.

Smellymouth:


The very thing that ignites passion is friction and instability. Once again, look at your past. Passion is usually brief, intense and rocky. Comfort, on the other hand, tends to be softer and more nurturing.

Comfort, therefore, is not nearly as exciting, but it tends to last longer. Studies say that passion usually dissipates in 18-24 months. Which is why people who expect their passion to last for 40 years, in essence, are trying to defy the laws of nature.

In marriage, you’re not making a decision for the next six months. You’re making a decision that’ll last the next 30 years. And just like one might choose different career paths for passion or comfort, people choose partners for similar reasons.

donbenedict:
Well I wouldn't say u should call it quits cuz love is like a seed that germinates and grows into smth big with time...


At Dat stage u dnt need to rush into marriage with him yet, I believ he should do more in making u see reasons why u should love him more instead of askin u to marry him... den when the love has blossomed, u can go ahead and marry him...

Ray360:

Bro, Do you know that passion-seasoned love is actually the rationale behind some people sticking with a partner despite the partner's many shortcomings? When you love someone passionately, infinitesimal wrongs and even mammoth wrongs are played down and overlooked. Not because the person is too fragile to walk away, but because there is a deeper part of that person that is rooted in the other party. the passion you described that fades in month is mere infatuation. when it comes to true and refined love, The passion burns like an inferno which cannot be tamed easily.

VickyRotex:
I'm a Nigerian. So I'm answering your question with a question.

How do you know the quantity of love "enough" to marry a Man?


PS: I learnt it takes morethan loving a Spouse to say
"I do"

pinkpebbles:
Again, I see ur reasons. And as a young lady that wants to get into marriage, you guys are ar confusin me.

Ray360:

Don't be confused, dear. the bottom line is, Give it time! that's the summary. certain things fall into place as time wheels events. You seem like a lady that's not so sure of what she feels. only time can reveal certain things. cheers.

LuveU2:
What is character without beauty

pinkpebbles:
The quantity? You know all doz kinda love dt makes u quiver wen wen u think abt d person. I think that is enof for me if u ask me

pinkpebbles:
Yeaa, I would giv it time. Buh If I dont feel dt fire, shud I leave?

donbenedict:
yes of course u should... u dnt want to meet ur soulmate just after u got married to d wrong guy

pinkpebbles:
. Dt wud b epic

databoy247:
OP, the truth is that I think you may have already made up your mind to leave him and you are just looking for a reason to justify it. You dont want to be consumed with self loath for breaking the heart of an innocent man who cares deeply for you.

But before you leave him, search and downlaod "The myth of singleness"- by Dr Myles Munroe (RIP). You will understand why they say its not love that actually makes a marriage work.

Am just trying to make common sense

donbenedict:
hehe. Funny as it seems buh it happens.. ..


So just take ur time pebbles...

pinkpebbles:
Again, I see ur reasons. And as a young lady that wants to get into marriage, you guys are ar confusin me.

Synzu:


Marry me then


I'm nice and I'm cute too

pinkpebbles:
If you do not love a man enough to marry him, can you go ahead and marry him hoping you would love him later or u shud call it quits?

dejt4u:
What happened to parrothouz.com??

Smellymouth:
I think love is overrated .  If I share the same faith with her, she is homely, a great mother ,we love many of the same things, share the same views about the direction of our future, have the same goals, etc. 
A great woman makes a great partner. I dont know how many times I have seen men put up with CRAP simply because, "I love her." "What do you love about him?"  "I dont know, I just love him."  Love is not needed for marriage.  But respect is.  Also I recommend men marry women on their intellectual and motherly level.