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Is Relationship Just All About Sex? by Nobody: 10:29pm On Mar 15, 2016 |
Hi, Am just curious whether relationships are just all about sex and fun..can't there just be a sex-free relationship at all? after all sex isn't everything. I've read countless threads on people saying they can't stay in a relationship and not have sex A guy once said that he can't be spending on a girl and not have sex with her. Is it all about spending? What then it's d difference between paying a prostitute for sex and paying your girlfriend for the same? Can't there be intimacy without sex? I no say no be me holy pass sha but one man's meat is another's poison What's your opinion on this? 1 Like |
Re: Is Relationship Just All About Sex? by SUPERPACK: 10:35pm On Mar 15, 2016 |
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Re: Is Relationship Just All About Sex? by falconey(m): 10:35pm On Mar 15, 2016 |
Sex others follow |
Re: Is Relationship Just All About Sex? by Strahovski1(m): 10:37pm On Mar 15, 2016 |
Perverts are all over the street. 98% men are perverts. And they make ladies prostitutes because they have sex because they spend on er and they spend for sex. It's all sex sex sex and more s3x. 1 Like |
Re: Is Relationship Just All About Sex? by vizkiz: 10:39pm On Mar 15, 2016 |
sex = 60% ![]() |
Re: Is Relationship Just All About Sex? by Nobody: 10:48pm On Mar 15, 2016 |
Sister we have more boys going into relationships this days than men, thats the reason this sex issue is bein supported wildly, but i tell u sister, relationship is all about love, understanding, commitment and building a life together then the sex part comes after marriage. 7 Likes |
Re: Is Relationship Just All About Sex? by Arian11(m): 10:49pm On Mar 15, 2016 |
If she says no pre-marital sex in the relationship I won't argue as far as she would agree to the terms that pre marital spending is bad, pre marital shopping in Dubai is bad , let her wait till marriage then every other thing follows until then. 6 Likes |
Re: Is Relationship Just All About Sex? by amokeme(f): 11:01pm On Mar 15, 2016 |
It's not... depends on who you are with tho... Geraldyne:At the bold, the answer is yes!.. but once you take that out, then you have your freedom. Allowing your boyfriend spend on you is like a bondage. He feels he is entitled to your spirit soul and body... (which is actually true) so if you want a sex free relationship, do a no money relationship and have your peace ![]() 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Is Relationship Just All About Sex? by mackhunter77: 11:06pm On Mar 15, 2016 |
relationships are always about sex when there's 0% in both partners' brains . . . . 1 Like 2 Shares |
Re: Is Relationship Just All About Sex? by Nobody: 11:06pm On Mar 15, 2016 |
A relationship shouldn't be all about sex,but then again... It depends on the individuals involved and on what they decide to define their relationship. For some,yeah,it's all about sex. For others, it's basically companionship and for a lot others still,it's companionship, intimacy/bonding,sex,understanding, mutual support amd whatever else. Everyone's got to define their relationship in a way that's best suited for them. . 1 Like |
Re: Is Relationship Just All About Sex? by BiafraBushBoy(m): 11:08pm On Mar 15, 2016 |
Nonsense!!!! You don't want pre marital sex, But you want pre marital Care and Spending!!! I dey vex for this heat, don't let me vent it on you Op!! *Spits on the thread and walks out* 4 Likes |
Re: Is Relationship Just All About Sex? by amokeme(f): 11:21pm On Mar 15, 2016 |
BiafraBushBoy:you need sex to show care to your gf? |
Re: Is Relationship Just All About Sex? by izospindle(m): 11:29pm On Mar 15, 2016 |
its not all about sex.........but the thing is not all ladies can stay or want a sex free relationship......and they normally not ask just look for who will give them what they want :' |
Re: Is Relationship Just All About Sex? by Michizzy(f): 12:30am On Mar 16, 2016 |
Some guys believe that sex is the "thank you" they get from spending on a lady. So to have a sex-free relationship, don't let him spend much on you else he will feel cheated. Like he's the only one "giving" in the relationship and you are not appreciating. Not a fact but My opinion... 1 Like |
Re: Is Relationship Just All About Sex? by bastien: 12:40am On Mar 16, 2016 |
We all learn this dating/relationship from the western world, back then our forefathers only admire beauty and shape.... Then make it open to her parent that he wants to marry her. Simple isn't it? ![]() But now things have changed, what the purpose of relationship? Why do we keep lying to ourselves? We all know sex will be involved yet we still not ready to have sex(talking to the girls here)... Relationship is all about closeness, romance, companionship, sex and lot more. No guy will force a girl into a relationship, so I will advise you OP, if u cannot give in, stay outta relationship, is it a crime to be single? Is it a crime to use intimacy gadgets when konji visits u? No.... Most single guys with the spirit of konji will mast! Everybody needs somebody 5 Likes |
Re: Is Relationship Just All About Sex? by bastien: 12:46am On Mar 16, 2016 |
Michizzy:why do you use the word "don't let him spend on you too much? ![]() Any girl who haven't take her bf on a date doesn't have anything to offer in the relationship. ![]() 3 Likes |
Re: Is Relationship Just All About Sex? by Michizzy(f): 12:52am On Mar 16, 2016 |
bastien:Because a typical man will like to spend,even if it's a little, on his lady. Proud men feel insulted when you pay for their meal, fare or any type of bill. |
Re: Is Relationship Just All About Sex? by geni340(f): 12:54am On Mar 16, 2016 |
yh, sexx is importaaaaant... |
Re: Is Relationship Just All About Sex? by bastien: 1:03am On Mar 16, 2016 |
Michizzy:you are always siding your gender..... A typical man will teach his lady how to be independent, we are talking about relationship and not marriage. Most guy (Nigeria guy) will be amazed if thier gf can ask for a date and still handle the bill.... There is no law that state that man should always handle the bill. |
Re: Is Relationship Just All About Sex? by bastien: 1:04am On Mar 16, 2016 |
geni340:coming from a lady, I big bottle for you ma'am |
Re: Is Relationship Just All About Sex? by gykes(m): 2:09am On Mar 16, 2016 |
Geraldyne: That's the difference between having a female friend without sex and having a girlfriend. We rather just remain friends with no obligatory roles whatsoever than be in a onesided fairytale of a relationship. I would readily be celibate for my God and not because it was imposed on me by a Gf who wouldn't be entirely faithful. Cheating and having multiple sex partners is now being considered old-fashioned for most responsible male folks and for that reason, its either the bae holds up to her own end of the deal or no deal....its a "relationship" for a reason. |
Re: Is Relationship Just All About Sex? by IsaacBuchi(m): 3:00am On Mar 16, 2016 |
Geraldyne: I have been asking the same questions. Today's relationships are even worse than prostitution. Many don't even spend and have it every night. They disguise it as boyfriend & girlfriend relationship when they are only in a sexual relationship. My sister, there can be a sex free relationship & for those who don't know it is even sweeter. What fun is left from unwrapping a gift that was meant to be opened after marriage? That said I leave everybody to his own values & opinions. 1 Like |
Re: Is Relationship Just All About Sex? by ministeriallist: 4:54am On Mar 16, 2016 |
I think women will never believe u luv them if u don't touch them. I've had this problem in d past. My gf always asked me: "do u really luv me?". Despite my affirmative answer she kept asking. Women n $ex sha! |
Re: Is Relationship Just All About Sex? by BiafraBushBoy(m): 8:22am On Mar 16, 2016 |
amokeme: Because that is the only care she can give!! If you are waiting for a 9ja girl to shower you with gifts and money, then you are on a long thing!! |
Re: Is Relationship Just All About Sex? by amokeme(f): 8:45am On Mar 16, 2016 |
BiafraBushBoy:what is your defination of care? I'm really interested in knowing.... |
Re: Is Relationship Just All About Sex? by BiafraBushBoy(m): 8:54am On Mar 16, 2016 |
amokeme: You are not really interested in knowing, you just want to lookout for a lopehole in my definition to hang me! Fact remains that.... Relationships without sex don't always work in Nigeria because: 1) She will see you as not man enough and keep cheating on you in secret! 2) She will see you as the new Maga 3) She will assume that she is playing on you 4) That is the only way for a girl to love you fully in Nigeria. Without sex, she will still be seeing as "Just a friend" 5) Nigerian girls put a whole lot of emphasis on sex. Making it the only ROI in any relationship! She believes that it is only Sex she has to offer and that is why I am after her!! A whole lot of them.... But if you are different, God has blessed your BF!! Peace |
Re: Is Relationship Just All About Sex? by halfricanadian(f): 8:57am On Mar 16, 2016 |
Strahovski1: thank you o ![]() |
Re: Is Relationship Just All About Sex? by amokeme(f): 9:31am On Mar 16, 2016 |
BiafraBushBoy: ![]() ![]() I can't hang you na... I was just wondering how you expect sex in return for care. I mean, we show care to even strangers. Now do you expect sex from every stranger you show care to?? BiafraBushBoy:you are not suppose to worry about all this since you won't be spending on her na. I mean, you both have nothing to loose that way. And stop with the generalising ![]() |
Re: Is Relationship Just All About Sex? by BiafraBushBoy(m): 9:39am On Mar 16, 2016 |
amokeme: Me not spending? She not spending nor giving anything in return, Then she won't believe that we are in a relationship! ![]() |
Re: Is Relationship Just All About Sex? by tomdon(m): 12:26am On Dec 06, 2016 |
Imagine that this might be somebody's future wife. Lol I pity some guys Sha. 1 Like |
Re: Is Relationship Just All About Sex? by Nobody: 2:42am On Dec 06, 2016 |
tomdon:Na dat 5 rounds of drilling thread inspire this comment ![]() But some girls dey try sha, imagine make one huge dicked nigga dey smash person daughter 5 times everyday ![]() |
Re: Is Relationship Just All About Sex? by Nobody: 5:46am On Dec 06, 2016 |
It's not about sex as in just the physical act it's about the chemistry shared and how you relate and compliment each other which makes the sex exceptionally great ...never underestimate the importance of sex in any relationship. Even if you start getting your freak on after marriage it can put strain on a relationship if things are lacking .So back to the question ...yes it is about sex. About guys spending and expecting favours in return there are bottom feeders who interact with likeminded individuals and there are classy individuals who know to stay away from scenarios that are only about placing a monetary value on every action. Take what you will from that. 1 Like |
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