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Anti-feminism; A War That Men Cannot Win by daxlasaint(m): 1:02pm On Mar 16, 2016 |
Feminism means different things for different people... For me it means aspiring for the chance to attain equal opportunities for both sexes... The removal of societal restraints that consign certain dreams and aspirations to a certain gender or sex... Unfortunately feminism , in the eyes of many of the malefolk has become synonymous with non-submission of women to their men... This thought process while understandable is totally wrong. The going philosophy seems to be that if as a guy you support feminism then you are a sissy, a woman wrapper or an ass kisser.... Only a weak and insecure man requires total submission from his woman to make him feel like he's in charge. Feminism is the only reason many of us guys on Nairaland can proudly brag bout our 'literate' mothers, our 'successful' mothers, aunts, sisters, etc etc Most guys tell you they can't date or marry an uneducated and unenlightened girl without reasoning far ahead enough to realise that the only reason these educated women are available is because of the 'loathed' feminist movement. My family is a perfect case study... My dad though being British, still holds strongly to our African traditional values but there was never a time while i was growing up that my mom wasnt working full time... Never a time when my mom couldnt speak her mind and didnt have an equal say in what went down in our home, and guess what? It never eroded her respect for my dad or vice versa... Even my step mom is richer than my dad and more business oriented too, it never caused an issue that i know of, my father has never demanded submission from his wife/ wives and this is someone who like i stated earlier is a full proper traditional African man... Women may not have the physical strength of men but they can be and are usually smarter... Feminism doesnt literally translate to a woman being able to do all things men can do but it means a woman should be allowed to aspire to the goals men have traditionally reserved for themselves, the right to decide what they want to become or the goals they want to pursue without first considering whether its allowed women by societal norms... In a way i think the problem of feminism is actually its name... Its only human to strive for the equality of both sexes... Feminism should probably be called humanism because equality of the sexes should be a universal human aspiration not just a fight by the female half of the population Feminism doesn't mean anti submission just has submission doesnt mean a woman having to grovel and bow after her man and his ego.... Submission is a product of mutual respect and only weak men should be afraid of a woman who speaks her mind on issues concerning their relationship and basic existential issues... I can only say in closing, there was a time when all men were not considered equal.... And there were people who fought to keep the status quo, they lost. Same way those who fight to keep the status quo on gender inequality would one day be consigned to history books as bitter losers in a cause whose outcome may be delayed but never changed.... 18 Likes 8 Shares |
Re: Anti-feminism; A War That Men Cannot Win by Nobody: 1:03pm On Mar 16, 2016 |
okay ![]() On a more serious note there is nothing like gender equality, Men are superior, and women should be submissive. That's how it should be ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: Anti-feminism; A War That Men Cannot Win by dharay99: 1:07pm On Mar 16, 2016 |
naaa, I don't read long notes...next! |
Re: Anti-feminism; A War That Men Cannot Win by naijaboiy: 1:09pm On Mar 16, 2016 |
The women have not even won the war yet. ![]() 4 Likes |
Re: Anti-feminism; A War That Men Cannot Win by naijaboiy: 1:09pm On Mar 16, 2016 |
dharay99:Wucked! ![]() |
Re: Anti-feminism; A War That Men Cannot Win by dharay99: 1:12pm On Mar 16, 2016 |
naijaboiy: Dee, it won't add to ma g.p abeqi... |
Re: Anti-feminism; A War That Men Cannot Win by Nobody: 1:12pm On Mar 16, 2016 |
OP you and your children will be blessed for these statements Claim it ![]() 7 Likes |
Re: Anti-feminism; A War That Men Cannot Win by naijaboiy: 1:13pm On Mar 16, 2016 |
dharay99:True talk sha! ![]() But you go learn na. ![]() |
Re: Anti-feminism; A War That Men Cannot Win by dharay99: 1:16pm On Mar 16, 2016 |
naijaboiy: The topic alone is a bluff, It always Men 1st den 'maybe' women next... 2 Likes |
Re: Anti-feminism; A War That Men Cannot Win by Nobody: 1:16pm On Mar 16, 2016 |
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Re: Anti-feminism; A War That Men Cannot Win by dharay99: 1:18pm On Mar 16, 2016 |
MrsPhyno: for supporting d 0p plz nne manage ds... www.nairaland.com/attachments/2793014_slappingbarbaraeden_jpeg348e8cd37b3c0c87263e6bdb23dddf69 ![]() ![]() 7 Likes |
Re: Anti-feminism; A War That Men Cannot Win by MrCork: 1:21pm On Mar 16, 2016 |
daxlasaint: ...GREAT THREAD....ok...we expet (Nairaland feminist) Kashybaby, Mrs Chima, QueenValerie, Missclassy, Onila or KingCheezyPuff to show up any time from now like Superman.......they love to argue!! ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: Anti-feminism; A War That Men Cannot Win by Lezzlie(m): 1:25pm On Mar 16, 2016 |
Op, you're confused!! If the women behind Feminism don't have usurpation as their long term goal why not call it gender rights or equality. Feminist seeks to bully everyone inuding women who don't share their ideas. Feminist lobby for women to take up stem courses when the majority of women just don't like it. Feminists castigate and bully housewives who enjoy just being house wiveswives into working to prove their womanhood. Feminist lobby governments to make reservations for top political and appointment hierarchy for women without merit. But we never see them argue for lower position to be equally represented by women. No one stops any woman from education or airing her views at home, the husband simply has the final say. I find it strange that you seek women to disobey the authority of their husbands at home and fall onto themselves to carry out the instructions and command of their bosses in the office. Satanists!!! Feminism is a doomed project. It failed in Scandinavia after 100 years and it is killing Europe already. German's Markel always makes a fool of herself in EU like Tatcha did in UK. I promise you, we will crush them feminist in Africa whenever Its big head surfaces. 9 Likes |
Re: Anti-feminism; A War That Men Cannot Win by wilybebsy(m): 1:28pm On Mar 16, 2016 |
Mtcheeeeew 2 Likes |
Re: Anti-feminism; A War That Men Cannot Win by wilybebsy(m): 1:32pm On Mar 16, 2016 |
Lezzlie:were this woman na, Mama Chibuzor!! Bia biko give this man one bottle of ORIGIN ![]() ![]() 5 Likes |
Re: Anti-feminism; A War That Men Cannot Win by Nobody: 1:34pm On Mar 16, 2016 |
What a man can do, a woman can do it,even better. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Anti-feminism; A War That Men Cannot Win by dharay99: 1:42pm On Mar 16, 2016 |
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Re: Anti-feminism; A War That Men Cannot Win by Tallesty1(m): 1:46pm On Mar 16, 2016 |
Feminism is no longer a movement for equal right for both genders. It is now a movement by people who want to be given everything on a earth because they have breast. Gender equality is a noble goal, but feminism not it, rather, feminism perpetuates sexism. It is now a movement by people who want to blame men for every little thing that goes wrong on earth. Who ridicules men to make a point. It is now a movement by lazy women who thrown knives, scissors and chairs, etc at their man to try to get him to hit her so she could have something to hold over his head in court and claim half of everything he worked for. Thieves and potential thieves that do not know that there are thieves yet. To be honest, feminism's original goal, which is equality was reached and surpassed long ago. Now it's about hating men and inventing reasons and ways to attack them, openly and subtly. Solange was spotted hitting Jay Z repeatedly in an elevator and women were like "Jay Z is a gentle man" "He's a matured man". Now tell me, would they say thesame thing if the reverse was the case? Solange was lucky it wasn't 2Pac, he would have buried 2 bullets in her left breast. "We want equal rights. Men and women shall be treat equal. God created us equal" *na im I raise hand to slap am* "No! You can't hit her, she's a woman" 10 Likes |
Re: Anti-feminism; A War That Men Cannot Win by Nobody: 1:47pm On Mar 16, 2016 |
Some men did not even read through the thread or rather they are blinded by their hate for challenge from the opposite sex(usually referred to as the weaker sex) Only a weak and insecure man requires total submission from his woman to make him feel like he's in charge. This is a very important part of this write up,the OP nailed it here,this is the silently whispered fear of the haters of Feminism 4 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Anti-feminism; A War That Men Cannot Win by wilybebsy(m): 1:47pm On Mar 16, 2016 |
Adaure4ever:come be president 4 9ja na |
Re: Anti-feminism; A War That Men Cannot Win by wilybebsy(m): 1:49pm On Mar 16, 2016 |
Tallesty1:ur head dey there |
Re: Anti-feminism; A War That Men Cannot Win by Nobody: 1:50pm On Mar 16, 2016 |
I think women are foolish to pretend they are equal to men, they are far superior and always have been. 11 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Anti-feminism; A War That Men Cannot Win by Nobody: 1:51pm On Mar 16, 2016 |
wilybebsy:we are ruling germany and about to rule america. So keep the nigeria presidency. Lol 2 Likes |
Re: Anti-feminism; A War That Men Cannot Win by daxlasaint(m): 1:52pm On Mar 16, 2016 |
Lezzlie: Feminism like every other movt in this world has fanatics and zealots... it doesnt change the ultimate aims and goals of that movt.... islam and xtianity have fanatics and zealots.... dkesnt change the original idealogy of said religious movts.... btw... feminism you scorn so much was responsible for woman having things like the right to sufferage and the opportunity to adequate formal education.... would you call these examples satanic too 6 Likes |
Re: Anti-feminism; A War That Men Cannot Win by daxlasaint(m): 1:54pm On Mar 16, 2016 |
Re: Anti-feminism; A War That Men Cannot Win by Nobody: 1:54pm On Mar 16, 2016 |
MzNelly:sister, u really wrote this? Smh. How do gender determine superiority biko kwa nu |
Re: Anti-feminism; A War That Men Cannot Win by Nobody: 2:07pm On Mar 16, 2016 |
Adaure4ever: I've said my own.. |
Re: Anti-feminism; A War That Men Cannot Win by wilybebsy(m): 2:10pm On Mar 16, 2016 |
Adaure4ever:yeah we gonna keep that, and that's the only one that has importants to u |
Re: Anti-feminism; A War That Men Cannot Win by Nobody: 2:11pm On Mar 16, 2016 |
MzNelly: So, let me guess: The VICTORIABEE character is gone - disgraced and banished to the extremities of our consciousness, that is - and this overzealous, provocative, extreme perspective of yours is your attempt at filling Wrong way to seek attention. Wrong way. For a Jehovah's witness whose place of worship - slightly liberal as it is- places men above women,this is ironic. Nice try. First get a grip of your ravaging hormones, teenager. 4 Likes |
Re: Anti-feminism; A War That Men Cannot Win by Nobody: 2:15pm On Mar 16, 2016 |
MzNelly:O please shut the fĂșck up. Confused soul. ![]() 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Anti-feminism; A War That Men Cannot Win by Lezzlie(m): 2:16pm On Mar 16, 2016 |
daxlasaint:Feminism is Feminism and its long term goal is to enshrine homosexuality and lesbianism. This small powerful group had so much lobby strategy they have taken over Western media. Watching CNN or BBC, you get a false impression feminism and gays are popularly accepted there. But even in your Western society, you know the vast majority still views feminism with discontent. daxlasaint:Let me allow your false claims of feminism to go unchallenged. Since women have attained full suffrage in Nigeria even before some Western European countries, and have free unrestrained access to education, career path, choice courses and to work anywhere they please, Why are you people still drumming the feminism war chants? What more do you want? You want to produce _sperm or you want our diick? 2 Likes |
Re: Anti-feminism; A War That Men Cannot Win by postmann: 2:19pm On Mar 16, 2016 |
daxlasaint: I see you're probably brought up in the West, and your dad is a good and tolerant man. There're many self-inflicted damages from your submission but the stress of the day is slowing my assault. But, I want to ask you: what happened between your dad and your mom. You mentioned a step mom so I reckoned they aren't together. Truthfully tell me, pls. |
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