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Am Getting Bordered About My Relationship Status by PANACHE2: 10:25pm On Mar 16, 2016 |
As asked on www.fixmeblog.com Hi fixmeblog, i chose to be anonymous. I’ll start by saying, i am a pretty lady who’s got adequate body physique that anyone could desire. am a graduate from a prestigious university in Nigeria. i have a well paying job. But for a year now i am beginning to get bordered about something. I’ll be 30 in September and yet there’s no suitor. i mean, am not even in a relationship. i had a very good friend in my university years, the guy was all over me then, he was so nice to me, but i never wanted to get involved with anyone until after school. during NYSC i had a few well meaning guys trying to impress, but i never gave them a chance. Here at work, I’ve got colleagues who were singe but now married, they tried coming close at the slightest opportunity they had to talk to me but i guess they were too scared coz must f them are under me in hierarchy here in the office, I’ve moved out of my parents house because of the distance to the office, i stay all by myself in a neighborhood that’s relatively mind- ur-biznes settings. though there’s no pressure from my parents yet but that does not mean they are not thinking about it, as am the last of three, and my other siblings are not in the country but they are both married with kids. For a couple of years now my life has been from home to the office and back at home except for weekends when i meet up with a few friends at the gym, am always in my car and that doesn’t help too because it streamline the kind of people you meet. this didn’t use to mean much to me but it has become an issue now. please i need your advice on this. |
Re: Am Getting Bordered About My Relationship Status by halfricanadian(f): 10:29pm On Mar 16, 2016 |
If you truly know your worth real MEN and not BOYS will find you Who told you those your friends that got married are happy? Or dey married true virtous Men Just cos u wanna av mrs title doesnt mean u loose ur value to it pray for MR right in ur closet even if it takes time God will surely pick up ur call one day dats why jesus said * pray without cease* |
Re: Am Getting Bordered About My Relationship Status by PastorSammy(m): 10:30pm On Mar 16, 2016 |
Go to sleep. The brother would come. In other words, don't allow your worries be your covering. The man that loves you will come to you. |
Re: Am Getting Bordered About My Relationship Status by naijaboiy: 10:33pm On Mar 16, 2016 |
She should go out more, attend functions like wedding of her friends, hang out with friends and be free and open minded to guys who approach her. Going to and from the office everyday to her house will not help. I hope this helps. |
Re: Am Getting Bordered About My Relationship Status by Pennsylvania: 10:34pm On Mar 16, 2016 |
How will our explanation reach the writer? |
Re: Am Getting Bordered About My Relationship Status by halfricanadian(f): 10:35pm On Mar 16, 2016 |
PastorSammy: Best advise dont know why women worry bou marriage liks its a free ticket to heaven An institution dat has landed many to hell nd still counting |
Re: Am Getting Bordered About My Relationship Status by Laveda(f): 10:38pm On Mar 16, 2016 |
halfricanadian: The way you read meaning to things is totally surprising.. She's worried about it reason she brought it here, and she isn't even talking about happiness rather finding a man Op..she should just be a bit friendly sometimes this happens when she's always too serious. 2 Likes |
Re: Am Getting Bordered About My Relationship Status by halfricanadian(f): 10:40pm On Mar 16, 2016 |
Laveda: Noted ma wait let me get my lecture note to jot it down Ny more motivational talks u got? |
Re: Am Getting Bordered About My Relationship Status by Nobody: 10:43pm On Mar 16, 2016 |
halfricanadian:u would find love too. stop being bitter |
Re: Am Getting Bordered About My Relationship Status by Nobody: 10:46pm On Mar 16, 2016 |
naijaboiy: |
Re: Am Getting Bordered About My Relationship Status by halfricanadian(f): 10:46pm On Mar 16, 2016 |
chayomastic: Why not i sure will find im not bitter mind u Im only defending d fact dat a lady shdnt b pressured to marry cos of age factor It shd b willingly well i am praying she finds love too I am one of d happiest people to watch odas fall in love i feel so happy seeing ladies been happy in d arms of d one who truly loves them So im not bitter wen its nt a jam to a bread meal |
Re: Am Getting Bordered About My Relationship Status by Nobody: 10:49pm On Mar 16, 2016 |
PANACHE2:its even copied from a blog |
Re: Am Getting Bordered About My Relationship Status by Maamin(m): 10:49pm On Mar 16, 2016 |
Wait! did you said, you u dont show interest to guys that approached u earlier? May be ur husband was among them..anyways! P-square are now separated and single..what do you think? |
Re: Am Getting Bordered About My Relationship Status by Realhommie(m): 10:51pm On Mar 16, 2016 |
Stop worrying coz it's never gonna change anything... I think Naijaboiy's got good points, however i'd like to add prayers.. Prayer changes situations and turn them around, best believe and all will be well. |
Re: Am Getting Bordered About My Relationship Status by PANACHE2: 10:53pm On Mar 16, 2016 |
Pennsylvania: you can drop your comments on www.fixmeblog.com/am-getting-bordered-about-my-relationship-status/ she will be glad you did |
Re: Am Getting Bordered About My Relationship Status by Nobody: 10:55pm On Mar 16, 2016 |
Pennsylvania:he/she wants u to visit their blog. |
Re: Am Getting Bordered About My Relationship Status by Pennsylvania: 11:01pm On Mar 16, 2016 |
chayomastic: Not a fan of blog |
Re: Am Getting Bordered About My Relationship Status by Bhella5(m): 11:03pm On Mar 16, 2016 |
PM me i might be able to help. |
Re: Am Getting Bordered About My Relationship Status by pet4ril(f): 11:35pm On Mar 16, 2016 |
The poster above me is one of those colleagues under you. So, don't mind him |
Re: Am Getting Bordered About My Relationship Status by fistonati(m): 12:19am On Mar 17, 2016 |
Marriage is an institution that must be well tutored and tailored and maybe you don't know this and that's why you ignored boys in school and NYSC days. Now its bothering you and I assume you must have learnt your lesson by not thinking because the guys below you in rank in your office can't be a good and God fearing soul you want. May God lead you and pick up your Call and give you the man you desires |
Re: Am Getting Bordered About My Relationship Status by AfroKnight: 12:48am On Mar 17, 2016 |
This lady should prepare for a long wait. Why? Most of the guys who would fit her spec are no longer single. I personally know some ladies like this. I don't know if it is a feat among you ladies to turn down the advances of good men. Maybe it's something to brag about. It is sweet when you play "princess" in your 20s. Then suddenly, you're no longer chic. You can no longer keep up with the pretty younger girls. You don't realize that you are beginning to look like a mommy (a woman who has settled down). And you wonder why strangers assume that you are no longer available. Then you go about telling whoever cares to listen that "not everyone wants to be married", or "marriage is not for everybody". Nice story. Your friends know the truth of the matter. You're not deceiving yourself or your parents. Well, maybe if you say it long enough, you'd begin to believe it. You will have to be patient till a good man comes knocking. If you like, turn him away just like the others. Men and women a different. We have different "clocks". 1 Like |
Re: Am Getting Bordered About My Relationship Status by NemzySeries(m): 2:03am On Mar 17, 2016 |
Laveda:same tin on ma mind.....pple dunt even understand d posts dey comment on |
Re: Am Getting Bordered About My Relationship Status by PastorSammy(m): 3:51pm On Mar 17, 2016 |
Same institution takes many to heaven. Let every responsible student learn with humility and fear, and both couples will MOVE UP. halfricanadian: |
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