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Re: Anti-feminism; A War That Men Cannot Win by postmann: 9:27pm On Mar 16, 2016 |
daxlasaint: Look, if we all want to be godless, i dont really care about feminism. woman will lose. if men should treat women as equal in the society, women will die of agony. Children are already paying the price as a result of feminism. women are abandoning little children for career. and the society is bearing the brunt. |
Re: Anti-feminism; A War That Men Cannot Win by daxlasaint(m): 9:42pm On Mar 16, 2016 |
postmann: With or without feminism there would still be bad mothers out there.... i know hoisewives who children eat out all day and are ill cared for... i know career women who balance their homes beautifully.... am not advocating for men hating, competitive feminism... thats what most guys against this thread dont seem to get.... even the slave owners of infamous memory felt their slavery of the blavk man was divinely ordained and just.... 2 Likes |
Re: Anti-feminism; A War That Men Cannot Win by AVRecruit: 10:01pm On Mar 16, 2016 |
daxlasaint: most women now see children and marriage as an obstruction to their progress and career. Who convinced these women they need to grind 40-50hr weeks for corporations to have a career. again shows many ppl cant think. Invest in the career of motherhood and reap the financial and non financial rewards. These modern day women sha. |
Re: Anti-feminism; A War That Men Cannot Win by postmann: 10:01pm On Mar 16, 2016 |
daxlasaint: that there are bad mothers out there doesnt mean women should be inductrinated to dump their infants some as young as a month to some nanny or daycare because she is career minded. career and child nurturing dont really mix. children aint dogs or some poultery animals that you can leave and come back to. they need attention. these children are exposed to a lot of indecencies during this period of neglect. and what about their husbands? thats a whole topic of its own. personally ive told some people who care to listen: i see very little difference between marring a career woman and marrying a woman who is still schooling. man that will cheat will cheat, so they say, but a career woman practically put her husband in the arms of a maid or some other woman. nothing goes for nothing. something has to give. feminism is the total break down of the family system. |
Re: Anti-feminism; A War That Men Cannot Win by AVRecruit: 10:29pm On Mar 16, 2016 |
postmann: You forgot to mention: why work to pay for day care when you can give BETTER care yourself and save ur energy and $$$. Feminism is already affecting women. In my workplace guys are afraid of talking to women for fear of harassment charges. Less office collaboration. Women also pay for feminism through cheating. Your man is sleeping with a hot young girl with standing breasts as you no gree marry go dey do career/ phd. Again women could do phds they should marry on time and have the support of their husbands for such courses. Finally females pay through loneliness. 1 Like |
Re: Anti-feminism; A War That Men Cannot Win by itzhanie001(m): 10:35pm On Mar 16, 2016 |
Being a stay home mom doesn't mean you will nurture your children well. I have an uncle who married a lazy woman, lazy being that she doesn't care for work at all. She can't even wash her own undies talk more take care of children well, a married woman with with female children will openly display pornographic videos. The highest no of teenage pregnancy cases I see around me have housewives as the mothers. The most important thing is the values and morals you lay in your children right from childhood. And we have lots of mothers at the apex of their careers nurturing and taking good care of their homes and children and equally producing brilliant children. My mum and grandma being great examples. It's hypocrisy when we all know what you want is for a woman to be like a rag to a man, one he can decide to do whatever he wish to. Makes me remember a man that asked his wife (a principal in one of the federal Colleges in Nig) to quit her job unknown to her he was planning to marry another wife, thank God she saw past his selfishness, he wld have rendered her dependent on him so he can toss her however he likes..Now she has her own school, big one and is doing well. I'av seen men who ask their wives not to work supposedly to take care of children make those wives suffer and even the children. They want her at the mercies of their selfish tendencies. Even if a woman sits home all day, a man with no self control will still cheat, they'll just bring pregnancy come meet her for house. If you don't want career women, good. There.are lots of women out there.who don't mind being housewives. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Anti-feminism; A War That Men Cannot Win by AVRecruit: 10:42pm On Mar 16, 2016 |
itzhanie001: i was talking of a general trend/ mentality of seeing children as obstruction. What exactly is career? Paid employment is the least tax efficient way to make money or amass wealth. Why are women scrambling for paid employment? It has little glory. All men are advocating is that women should see raising kids as a blessing not an obstruction to their career ambitions as if wage slavery was noble. Modern women have it upside down. if the babes were successful bloggers or business women then thats good for any marriage. |
Re: Anti-feminism; A War That Men Cannot Win by postmann: 10:43pm On Mar 16, 2016 |
AVRecruit: Youre perfectly correct! so petty! so greedy! the wise and humble will be satisfied. but the restless she-devils, its a life of unfulfilment. go to europe and see women in their late 20s and and30s unmarried, looking for anythng with _dick for company. its a society wth its head upside down as as morality goes. |
Re: Anti-feminism; A War That Men Cannot Win by AVRecruit: 10:47pm On Mar 16, 2016 |
postmann: house maids na dem dey hot pass :-) Anyway, the later a woman marries the higer the probability a man will pursue young babes outside at least for a while to make up for the deficiency The younger a woman marries, the more satisfied the husband will be with the carnal lusts of their youth and if a good man, wont look outside even when the babe gets older. with feminism came boyfriends. boyfriends are not jn the best interest of women. all women should be encouraged to get married before going to university or shortly afterwards. just because its not happening today does not mean its not the right thing. Why isnt feminism truly saying wat im saying? See it doesnt have womens best interests at heart. 1 Like |
Re: Anti-feminism; A War That Men Cannot Win by itzhanie001(m): 10:52pm On Mar 16, 2016 |
AVRecruit: I haven't met any woman who sees childbirth as an obstruction to career, I don't know maybe they abound around you. Women with such mind will rather not marry sef. Ok, so women should just be bloggers and business women? The female Drs, nurses, lawyers, bankers, scientists, accountants, etc should all just bury their dreams already. They have no right to aspire for greatness in other things other than popping out babies, taking care of them and licking their husband' s feet, they are women afterall. When they some depend on men, the same men will still come here shouting women are gold diggers, they don't want liabilities, etc. An advice after training your female child through school, tell her to throw away her dreams and certificate and go be an housewife for a man. Or better still don't train her through school, does she really need education to give birth to children and stay home? Paid jobs have no glory. 4 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Anti-feminism; A War That Men Cannot Win by AVRecruit: 10:56pm On Mar 16, 2016 |
itzhanie001: i used business women as an example. female doctors command presence and i respect them a lot. All I am saying is if such a doctor is desirous of marriage she should get married before starting to pursue those dreams or find a serious relationship. now if that doctor has no interest in men then she should do watever she likes with her life. its all so simple yet ppl make it complicated. by and large it is men who marry women. if a man is not showing interests in you or undertakes to marry you then just keep dating ur numerous boifriends till you kpai. |
Re: Anti-feminism; A War That Men Cannot Win by postmann: 10:58pm On Mar 16, 2016 |
itzhanie001: miss, your quote is laughable and full of hypocricy. the highest number of teenage pregnacy you ve seen has house wives as their mothers. you either live in mars or you cant define what is a housewife. look, you have been indoctrinated to be financially independent of your husband while being ambitious, and to see men as untrustworthy with sinister motive. the feminist egg has been deposited in you already. it is clear from your submission. just be truthful with your husband wen mariage comes and be straight with him. so he knows early what he's dealing with. |
Re: Anti-feminism; A War That Men Cannot Win by postmann: 11:01pm On Mar 16, 2016 |
AVRecruit: Another wisdom! |
Re: Anti-feminism; A War That Men Cannot Win by itzhanie001(m): 11:01pm On Mar 16, 2016 |
postmann: Excuse me |
Re: Anti-feminism; A War That Men Cannot Win by itzhanie001(m): 11:08pm On Mar 16, 2016 |
AVRecruit: So you met a woman in medical school, you went ahead to ask her out, then you tell her to throw away her license and certificate. You aren't even making any sense. So it will be easier getting married and combining medical school with marriage then eventually working. If you know you can't marry a working woman let her know right from time so she can dump your ass for men who will share the joy of her success with her. I have a lovely family I look up to, 2 professors with such lovely children all doing good for themselves. That is going to be my story by God's grace. What are you even saying? And the childishness comes in, what were your last statements all about. 5 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Anti-feminism; A War That Men Cannot Win by AVRecruit: 11:21pm On Mar 16, 2016 |
itzhanie001: you know them (feminists) when they start accusing you of childishness. Men have spoken. We are the ones who propose to you. If you think the men on this thread have spoken foolishly, then keep being liberated, keep pursuing your dreams and ambitions and keep living the better life. |
Re: Anti-feminism; A War That Men Cannot Win by itzhanie001(m): 11:29pm On Mar 16, 2016 |
AVRecruit: Yes, we will keep pursuing our dreams, and even make impact in your lives while married to men who don't feel threatened by his wife's success but celebrates and take pride in her. Raise your daughters to be dependent dolls with no ambitions, it's your problem. 4 Likes |
Re: Anti-feminism; A War That Men Cannot Win by AVRecruit: 11:31pm On Mar 16, 2016 |
itzhanie001: Good luck! |
Re: Anti-feminism; A War That Men Cannot Win by itzhanie001(m): 11:32pm On Mar 16, 2016 |
AVRecruit: Good luck to you too |
Re: Anti-feminism; A War That Men Cannot Win by AVRecruit: 11:48pm On Mar 16, 2016 |
to other sane and rational thinkers who are fathers. in order to avoid ur daughters defiling themselves with numerous boyfriends and potentially destroying their lives because they want to be doctors. i propose giving away my/our daughter to a responsible man under the arrangement i will pay my daughters fees to be a medical doctor while she is married to the guy and she will be free to pursue her ambitions still. she will emerge the envy of her peers. |
Re: Anti-feminism; A War That Men Cannot Win by Nobody: 4:54am On Mar 17, 2016 |
daxlasaint: Your first statement is at direct odds with the official definition of feminism. fem·i·nism ˈfeməˌnizəm/ noun noun: feminism the advocacy of women's rights on the grounds of political, social, and economic equality to men. that exact statement is more true of egalitarianism. you know what, just stop. stop it. if you really want equality, be an egalitarian. I don't understand why many people prefer to be feminists, rather than egalitarian. the definition of feminism isn't even equality. It's advocacy for women's rights, which is assuming, from the start, that women don't have these rights. when all evidence is to the contrary. women have every right men have. go to http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Fundamental_rights and tell me which men have that women don't. It's not that women don't have these rights, it's they're note exploiting it to the same level as men. and feminists can't explain this. so they reach the bizarre conclusion that men are Oppressing women. what . . . the Bleep? not enough female engineers means male engineers are oppressing women? not enough female physicists and mathematicians are men oppressing women? that in itself is sexist and misandrist. and if you tell them this, they'll instantly call you misogynist! they even coined the word "patriarchy" to describe a world where men are conniving to oppress women. and they've added a lot of baggage and nonsense like "male privilege." as if linda Ikeji isn't a thing. all those powerful women don't exist. No, men are oppressing women. They claim that women are "Sexually objectified." by men. Yes, of course.we all are, it's not misogyny. it's a celebration of the human form. and we've been doing it for centuries to both sexes. The point is, What feminism is fighting for, they have gotten, but the results they expected, are yet to be found. I dunno, maybe they expected women to build spaceships and giant buildings if they ended up "liberating" them. only to realize that women are not as ambitious as men and simply want to live normal lives. so, they've resorted to blatant sexism, by treating the male sex like crap to try and "balance the scale." all while committing logical fallacies everywhere. As a skeptic, I am not fooled by propaganda. I judge an Ideology on the effect it has on the society. and feminism has had a good effect on it. but feminism is like a lollipop. we've finished the sweet candy. we need to quit chewing on it and throw away the plastic rod. |
Re: Anti-feminism; A War That Men Cannot Win by daxlasaint(m): 7:26am On Mar 17, 2016 |
AVRecruit: If a salaried job is slavery... why do we practically die to get jobs.... and in what dictionary is definition of career limited to having a salaried job? In anycase what gives you as a man to choose the life path and choices for another human being .... simply because she is of a female gender |
Re: Anti-feminism; A War That Men Cannot Win by daxlasaint(m): 7:35am On Mar 17, 2016 |
AVRecruit: I will pass .... i wish you the best of luck dealing with the heartbreak you experience when this plan fails as it is bound to... 1 Like |
Re: Anti-feminism; A War That Men Cannot Win by daxlasaint(m): 7:42am On Mar 17, 2016 |
Teempakguy: I said my post was bout what think feminism SHOULD be about.... and we both know women can fully exploit the opportinities men take for granted because society have spend millenia subjugating the dreams of the average female to be anything other than a good and sumisdive mate to man.... its like freeing the slaves on paper and continuing to keep them enslaved or close to it in reality |
Re: Anti-feminism; A War That Men Cannot Win by Fulaman198(m): 7:48am On Mar 17, 2016 |
I think that men should just give it up already and let women control everything. 1 Like |
Re: Anti-feminism; A War That Men Cannot Win by Joy1706(f): 8:16am On Mar 17, 2016 |
Lezzlie:I find it strange that you want your wives to lick your asses but you have no problem with submitting to the authority of your female bosses. I find it strange that you beat up your wives for 'daring' to talk when you talk but you can't even cough when your female bosses berate you. SATANISTS!!!! 2 Likes |
Re: Anti-feminism; A War That Men Cannot Win by AVRecruit: 8:42am On Mar 17, 2016 |
daxlasaint: you have not even made any valid point. train your daughters to be prostitutes then. |
Re: Anti-feminism; A War That Men Cannot Win by daxlasaint(m): 10:07am On Mar 17, 2016 |
AVRecruit: And you made a valid point? Good luck telling your daugther at what age she should bring home a husband and if she fails to comply by all means go out an arrange one for her... is that point valid enough for you.... btw if you still have unmarried sisters start practising this your neo-medieval proposition on them. |
Re: Anti-feminism; A War That Men Cannot Win by lezz(m): 8:40pm On Mar 17, 2016 |
Joy1706:You came late with a bunch of uncorrelated rubbish of plagiarism of my post! Go home and get a bathe, you stink of anger and boredom! |
Re: Anti-feminism; A War That Men Cannot Win by lezz(m): 8:41pm On Mar 17, 2016 |
who do I find viewing this thread in isolation? Bwahahaha |
Re: Anti-feminism; A War That Men Cannot Win by AVRecruit: 11:35pm On Mar 17, 2016 |
daxlasaint: depart from me ye idiot into ur satanic brothel. idiot. |
Re: Anti-feminism; A War That Men Cannot Win by daxlasaint(m): 3:21pm On Mar 18, 2016 |
AVRecruit: and when they run outta reasonable argument, they result to insults.... nice one my man |
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