I came across this snapshot online and it's quite an interesting question, but am throwing it open, it's not restricted to the ladies alone, guys feel free to comment as well. If you catch your partner cheating a night before the wedding, will you call it off? as for me, hell yeah, I will call it off

Lalasticlala pls let's get more opinions

Well, its dependent on a lot of things.

Last night as a bachelor or spinster is usually characterized with lots of drinking and getting high. So unless the person you caught pants down with your partner has been a suspect, then the romp with the random chick or guy may just have been the aftermath of highness...

Otherwise, like i said, then there may be sufficient grounds to put the wedding on hold pending when things are resolved

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bang the random bit*ch like its ur last
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It depends sha

Most will tink i wont bt i av a suprising kind of nature

If i love him deep rooted deep deep rooted i will accept him bt only if he promised to b a great hubby nd father
But if im nt deep rooted i will show him d exit nd dab as he leaves as a sign of a bow

Why should i call it off

It was just a night

Hell yea. No second chances with cheats.

If he is very cute and endowed downstairs i wont call it off

I'll DEFINITELY call it off.
I don't need to fool myself

It will hurt me pretty bad


But what will happen to my family nd friends.




I think d disappointment will hurt more


Xo I won't call it off.

halfricanadian:
It depends sha

Most will tink i wont bt i av a suprising kind of nature

If i love him deep rooted deep deep rooted i will accept him bt only if he promised to b a great hubby nd father
But if im nt deep rooted i will show him d exit nd dab as he leaves as a sign of a bow

Please, how would you define "deep deep rooted" and "not deep rooted"?

By the way, the speed at which nairalanders reply romance related questions eh!

am goona fool her for a while, before fucking the bitch out of my life

No. . Just that i d look for another impromptu bride. .

odimbannamdi:


Please, how would you define "deep deep rooted" and "not deep rooted"?

By the way, the speed at which nairalanders reply romance related questions eh!

Deep rooted means i av planned my future with u

I have thought of it severally wat i wanna do d future with him
i dont just see myself without him in d future it means he is a need cant do without

Not deep rooted i just day dream bou him just wish he was in d future with me for future sake means he is a want nd if i cant have him i look for anoda

No Second Chance According To Matthew19, No Man Shall Put His Wife Away Except It Be For Fornication

sinaj:
It will hurt me pretty bad


But what will happen to my family nd friends.




I think d disappointment will hurt more


Xo I won't call it off.

ahba,sinaj are u sleepy?how can u say sumthing like thismarry sumone who cheated on ya wedding night;there not even an excuse to justify such an action;;me marry u?tah i rather stay unmarried

joshuamoses101:
ahba,sinaj are u sleepy?how can u say sumthing like thismarry sumone who cheated on ya wedding night;there not even an excuse to justify such an action;;me marry u?tah i rather stay unmarried

yea m sure 98% guyz will call off the wedding, but it's not so with women coz they can absorb the shock better dan u guyz.

Throwing off months of courtship to d wind coz of a silly mistake?

If he feels remorseful, I will forgive him.

After all it Rains everywhere

It all bolls down to individual difference tho.

Try am and discover later that you are the loser. But not gallant one

I won't , but .......

halfricanadian:


Deep rooted means i av planned my future with u

I have thought of it severally wat i wanna do d future with him
i dont just see myself without him in d future it means he is a need cant do without

Not deep rooted i just day dream bou him just wish he was in d future with me for future sake means he is a want nd if i cant have him i look for anoda

you strike me as someone who knows exactly what she wants, unlike most gals out there.

odimbannamdi:


you strike me as someone who knows exactly what she wants, unlike most gals out there.

thank u u strike me too cos u are d guys dat go for girls with directions nd purpose

sinaj:
yea m sure 98% guyz will call off the wedding, but it's not so with women coz they can absorb the shock better dan u guyz.

Throwing off months of courtship to d wind coz of a silly mistake?

If he feels remorseful, I will forgive him.

After all it Rains everywhere

It all bolls down to individual difference tho.

make it 99.3% nd wats dat abt mistake,i.p.o sumtin that was done @such a time,hmm he don tay wen d cheating start,u probably nd most likely were too blind in luv to see it..nd if i luv her like crazy,i swear i fit shoot both her nd d nigga or give dem both a scare dey will never 4get infact anybody wen even try advice me ma take her back might share dsame fate or lose my friendship

If he or she can cheat before the wedding, they will definitely cheat in the marriage. Better walk awa

halfricanadian:


thank u u strike me too cos u are d guys dat go for girls with directions nd purpose

**smiles** thanks for the compliment. In a world as dynamic ours, it would be suicidal for a man to wife a bimbo.

Meanwhile, has he forgiven you? hope u grab

odimbannamdi:


**smiles** thanks for the compliment. In a world as dynamic ours, it would be suicidal for a man to wife a bimbo.

Meanwhile, has he forgiven you? hope u grab

He? I av left he long time ago

I wish he d best if he hasnt forgiven me

I wanna have a good life nd gain all i lost bck double period!!!

sinaj:
It will hurt me pretty bad

But what will happen to my family nd friends.



I think d disappointment will hurt more

Xo I won't call it off.

Who is getting married to the guy??.. You or your "Family and friends"?

See question?...Why won't I call it off when no bi say we do "blood covenant"....The partner must get mind to cheat on me a night to our wedding...That partner fit even kill person sef....

I would.

sinaj:
yea m sure 98% guyz will call off the wedding, but it's not so with women coz they can absorb the shock better dan u guyz.

Throwing off months of courtship to d wind coz of a silly mistake?

If he feels remorseful, I will forgive him.

After all it Rains everywhere

It all bolls down to individual difference tho.

Speak for yourself and not for 'women'. I have no shock absorber abeg.

5 years down the line, no family or friend would be able to alleviate the torture of a randy husband. And just cos he promises to be a good hubby does not mean he'll keep his promise

Its bachelor's eve ain't it?, i might get annoyed at that moment, but come thats is his last se.x outside na, cox after marriage na me and him all d way, i cant deny him that....so hell yes am going ahead with the wedding, would even invite the random chick to the wedding o....

It depends sha

halfricanadian:
It depends sha

Most will tink i wont bt i av a suprising kind of nature

If i love him deep rooted deep deep rooted i will accept him bt only if he promised to b a great hubby nd father
But if im nt deep rooted i will show him d exit nd dab as he leaves as a sign of a bow

madam which one is deep rooted love again? You are going to marry him the next day the love shouldn't be in question. That it's deep rooted or not is just semantics. You either love him or not. As for grading the love, something ain't right.