ajaylee1:
Months ago, I was OK, had no girl friend but I have friends that always try to be close even though I didn't ask them out,we were all good, after that I decided to ask dis girl out and she was fine, d relationship started OK but on its way I suspect something fishy, she'll hav call and try to hide it, I saw some messages on her phone that she can't explain, and I'm fed up, nd wanted to giv myself a breathing space, and I've been trying to get close to another girl but It's not just going as it used to be and I'm just confused. Pls I need ur advice,

Pennsylvania:


Focus more on yourself, getting a job if you don't have one and also making money. Don't be too desperate for a gf cos in your desperation you won't find any.

Smellymouth:
U re broke

Burnnotice:
hey bro' no picture reference this time?

cruzita:
no be una dey bash dem anyhow ?dey shout #TeamForeignGirls.now karma is at work .after all those wh*res are not loyal right?

Monalisa185:
to start with, whats your business with your partner's phone? is it your phone?

the best and easiest way to get a serious heart attack in a relationship is to go through your partner's phone....

next time, mind your own phone and watch your relationship go on smoothly, except you fish out that thing red handed...

besides, you must not have a girlfriend na, it's not like having one guarantees your ticket to riches...save yourself the stress and do something better

Monalisa185:
to start with, whats your business with your partner's phone? is it your phone?

the best and easiest way to get a serious heart attack in a relationship is to go through your partner's phone....

next time, mind your own phone and watch your relationship go on smoothly, except you fish out that thing red handed...

besides, you must not have a girlfriend na, it's not like having one guarantees your ticket to riches...save yourself the stress and do something better

Smellymouth:
OP, U re broke ..

No offeinse .focus more on yourself bro and work hard to make money!!!,

check my siggy

liftedud:
Final year no GF,u b virgin boy? Pls work on urself n see hw it goes, dnt go rubbing it on ur face dat u need her n u r new into it

ajaylee1:
Months ago, I was OK, had no girl friend but I have friends that always try to be close even though I didn't ask them out,we were all good, after that I decided to ask dis girl out and she was fine, d relationship started OK but on its way I suspect something fishy, she'll hav call and try to hide it, I saw some messages on her phone that she can't explain, and I'm fed up, nd wanted to giv myself a breathing space, and I've been trying to get close to another girl but It's not just going as it used to be and I'm just confused. Pls I need ur advice,

ajaylee1:


Eyyo smelly mouth. I'm not too rich and I'm not closer to poor, I can afford anything my average aged dude can afford, but I don't believe in buying relationship, it's disgusting.

ajaylee1:
Months ago, I was OK, had no girl friend but I have friends that always try to be close even though I didn't ask them out,we were all good, after that I decided to ask dis girl out and she was fine, d relationship started OK but on its way I suspect something fishy, she'll hav call and try to hide it, I saw some messages on her phone that she can't explain, and I'm fed up, nd wanted to giv myself a breathing space, and I've been trying to get close to another girl but It's not just going as it used to be and I'm just confused. Pls I need ur advice,

Smellymouth:


Egbon, you shouldn't have checked her phone..

Word of advice for some of you guys. If a woman is going to cheat on you, there is absolutely nothing you can do to prevent it. They are more calculating than us and they actually plan everything from start to finish before they even attempt it.

If you have to check their phone, chances are they have been stepping out on you for a while and they're already 2 steps ahead of you.

Tallesty1:
Of what use is keeping a girlfriend that you can touch anyhow, Bleep left and right but cannot touch her phone?


Is she a secret agent?

Monalisa185:


first of all, keeping off a partner's phone does not only apply to a lady staying off her man's phone, means both parties staying off each others phone, I'm sure I implied that in my above statement...

now, you bleep your girlfriend left and right, she bleeps you as well, which is on a mutual agreement...no one does so without the other's consent...

everybody deserves his/her privacy in every relationship....

Monalisa185:


first of all, keeping off a partner's phone does not only apply to a lady staying off her man's phone, means both parties staying off each others phone, I'm sure I implied that in my above statement...

now, you bleep your girlfriend left and right, she bleeps you as well, which is on a mutual agreement...no one does so without the other's consent...

a lot of people go through their partner's phone without their consent..

i believe everybody deserves his/her privacy in every relationship....

ajaylee1:

To be straight forward, I didn't go straight to her phone, some leads to something nd a message pops and she asked, who sent me message, miss, do I hav to say com and collect ur phone? And thanks for d advice

ajaylee1:
Months ago, I was OK, had no girl friend but I have friends that always try to be close even though I didn't ask them out,we were all good, after that I decided to ask dis girl out and she was fine, d relationship started OK but on its way I suspect something fishy, she'll hav call and try to hide it, I saw some messages on her phone that she can't explain, and I'm fed up, nd wanted to giv myself a breathing space, and I've been trying to get close to another girl but It's not just going as it used to be and I'm just confused. Pls I need ur advice,

Tallesty1:
If you're not working for the CIA or some other equivalent Intelligence organization then there's nothing private about your smartphone. I have a friend whose wife cannot answer his call, so I was at a site one day and a man came there looking for a plumber. I called this my friend many times but he didn't pick, meanwhile the wife was around all the time that the phone was ringing.

By the time he called back, the man has already gone to look for a plumber that someone else recommend. He lost the contract because of useless privacy

Tallesty1:
We humans like giving people reason to distrust us. Why?

Tallesty1:
any person who's in a truly loving and committed relationship shouldn't lock or forbid his/her significant other from touching his/her phone. It is a seed of distrust and a prove that you have some sneaky shits in there. It is not good even if there's nothing going on in there because it does seem like you're trying to hide something from your partner.

Tallesty1:
personally , the woman that brought me up taught me from a very early age never to peep into a woman's handbag or deep hand in it for any reason. I grew up with that mentality and it is with me till today. I don't check a ladies bag or phone but I don't hide mine from my gf.

Tallesty1:
when I started dating my ex, she's the kind that locks every lockable gadget with pin. I told her my pin, then one day we were chatting and she was like only God knows what your inbox is like so I forwarded my username and password to her, I hid nothing, not even my ATM pin.

I did all that without asking for her own and she wasn't comfortable with that but gradually, she came to realize the seed I was planting and keyed in

The trust in the relationship was 100% until we amicably parted ways.

every time "Una ex, Una ex" e no dey ever be 'my current girlfriend'..guys ehhhh? I troway cap for una ooo (na joke oo)

okay, back to the topic...you gave her your pin, by yourself, which means you gave her a go ahead to check your inbox meaning your permission was sought, good of you, very good...

giving her all you mentioned does not even guarantee any 100% trust, laye!! how does that stop you from being unfaithful off your phone?

if someone does not trust you, no amount of pin-sharing can make the person trust you? trust goes way beyond what happens on one's phone or on the person's social media inbox.. and please, a piece of advice, no matter who it is, always keep your ATM pin safe

Tallesty1:
you have no sneaky shits in your inbox then don't hide your phone because someone is really attached to you automatically become hyper sensitive to anything that may suggest you're doing anything untoward cheating.

Monalisa185:


a message entered and she asked 'who sent me a message'....hello? she didn't ask the content of the message...there's a way you can easily see the sender without opening it, if you didn't have something in mind to fish out, even after reading that particular one, you went ahead to read others...insecurity alert!!

anyways, the blame ain't on you, I guess you
didn't know that staying off your partners phone would save you alotta heart attack, now you know...when next your new girlfriend says "WHO SENT ME A MESSAGE?" you go on and say "BABE, I WOULDN'T KNOW NA, COME GET YOUR PHONE"

ajaylee1:

Why do people just think around what they can see, think out of d box bro, yes I'm annoyed I'm heart broken but I'm happy I realize d truth and I didn't regret it. I prefer to cry over d truth than keep myself a prisoner, thinking someone is there for u when they are really not there, u want to keep yourself from heart attack? Continue, d day u wil realize d truth, heart attack will be too small.

Monalisa185:


a message entered and she asked 'who sent me a message'....hello? she didn't ask the content of the message...there's a way you can easily see the sender without opening it, if you didn't have something in mind to fish out, even after reading that particular one, you went ahead to read others...insecurity alert!!

anyways, the blame ain't on you, I guess you
didn't know that staying off your partners phone would save you alotta heart attack, now you know...when next your new girlfriend says "WHO SENT ME A MESSAGE?" you go on and say "BABE, I WOULDN'T KNOW NA, COME GET YOUR PHONE"

Monalisa185:


this oga is still misunderstanding me sf...seems you are still hurt...take cold water and chill abeg...Pele

johnson232:
what rubbish are u saying? shut up if u have nothing reasonable to say...
are u by any way trying to justify cheating?
worthless b!tch...

Monalisa185:


OKAY

Pennsylvania:


Focus more on yourself, getting a job if you don't have one and also making money. Don't be too desperate for a gf cos in your desperation you won't find any.

Monalisa185:
to start with, whats your business with your partner's phone? is it your phone?

the best and easiest way to get a serious heart attack in a relationship is to go through your partner's phone....

next time, mind your own phone and watch your relationship go on smoothly, except you fish out that thing red handed...

besides, you must not have a girlfriend na, it's not like having one guarantees your ticket to riches...save yourself the stress and do something better