Creamish:
What U have posted really does apply to some women..but not all are biologically wired same. Some are unable to birth a child all thru their marital years regardless of the age they got married...while some birth beyond 40.

One really needs to consider your aforementioned valid points but then again, a woman who finds her partner before 25 is indeed fortunate. Some will read this piece and jump into a disastrous marriage just to avoid the age-induced issues and end up far worse than they would have been childless..

My point is.. Ceteris Paribus, ur aforementioned applies..but we know all things are not always equal.

No marriage is sure or guaranteed!

It's just a leap of faith and determination!

A woman can marry late out of desperation and still end up with the wrong guy.

She csn marry early and have enough time to remedy her health and marriage.


Time is a factor here.

The reproductive ability of today's women is on the decline and many are unaware.

You wonder at the escalating rates of adoption, child trafficking and baby factories recently.

Acidosis:
As far as I'm concerned, ALL Nigerian women want to get married.


Let's stop the deception. I've never seen a woman who frowns at a beautiful matrimony. They all love it, fantasize about that ring, the wedding gown, the proposal, the baby, the baby bump, etc.

No room for deception.

...yeah, so? it is called life! its irritating the way people shame women especially Nigerian women for wanting what nature demands of them...abegi, enough of all of these Nigerian women are this, Nigerian women are that...

mizquote:


and you feel women must get married before they can bear kids?

with the high level of technology and choices ranging from ivf, adoption to surrogacy.

Nawoa for some reasoning sha.

You should have done a research on the consequences of single parenthood before posting.

Lol.

The expiry date for these heaux has been shifted from 30 to 25, no? Lol

You lot are crazy. You will make a lot of these expired biitches fasting, praying, and begging God for husbands with pastor offering to commit suicide lol.

Move it to 27, biitches need love.

Acidosis:
As far as I'm concerned, ALL Nigerian women want to get married.


Let's stop the deception. I've never seen a woman who frowns at a beautiful matrimony. They all love it, fantasize about that ring, the wedding gown, the proposal, the baby, the baby bump, etc.

No room for deception.

Hi Acid...
But shouldn't the topic be directed at men including the broke and immature ones, all of them should marry their girlfriends before they get to 25, because even if a lady wanna get married for these reasons, the men would still have to make the call of which the lady has to wait for.

Valeree:

Hi Acid...
But shouldn't the topic be directed at men including the broke and immature ones, all of them should marry their girlfriends before they get to 25, because even if a lady wanna get married for these reasons, the men would still have to make the call of which the lady has to wait for.

Honestly, I don't believe a lady must marry at 25 or before 30. It takes only 9 months to reproduce a child, so even if a lady gets married at 35, she's good to have a baby.

A woman should get married when the right one comes, at 24, 27, 30 or any time.

Women should do this, women must do that... I doubt if some of you guys sleep at night on top woman matter. The appropriate age for marriage for women has now become a matter of grave concern, worthy of quality periods of research, by a man, eh kwa? Make una no develop high bp o.

Acidosis:


Honestly, I don't believe a lady must marry at 25 or before 30. It takes only 9 months to reproduce a child, so even if a lady gets married at 35, she's good to have a baby.

A woman should get married when the right one comes, at 24, 27, 30 or any time.

Trisomony 21.

stevecantrell:

Trisomony 21.

what's that?

Valeree:

Hi Acid...
But shouldn't the topic be directed at men including the broke and immature ones, all of them should marry their girlfriends before they get to 25, because even if a lady wanna get married for these reasons, the men would still have to make the call of which the lady has to wait for.

No, The truth is so few ladies are ready to settle down at 25 and when they finally are, they have a preconceived notion of a husband who only exists in romantic novels.

Not mentioning the demands of education and career.

Men will always ask for marriage, women will always live in dreams

ameenahz:
Women should do this, women must do that... I doubt if some of you guys sleep at night on top woman matter. The appropriate age for marriage for women has now become a matter of grave concern, worthy of quality periods of research, by a man, eh kwa? Make una no develop high bp o.

I love my women genuinely!

Especially the NL ones.

I just brought up a priceless information and dropped it on your laps for your perusal!

If the reproductive ability of our ladies is threatened by societial and economic lifestyles brought about by modern fad, only a caring dude like me, who has honest love for women will bother to bring it to the fore.

Don't you find it strange the increase in adoption of children, baby factories and all in recent times ?

mineANDurs:
If that is a problem, then it's left for women to solve. U guys shuld leave woman matter, focus ur attention on finding a solution to d ever increasing erectile dysfunction cos It is becoming a topic at most female gathering these days.

Advice those in the gatherings to tell their husbands to quit drinking and smoking.

lezz always on point!

they won't get serious and settle down with a man now that they still blossom. but reality dawns on them when they cross 30... hence they resort to age slashing in a bid to stay relevant with the younger folks. confused beings!

ameenahz:
Women should do this, women must do that... I doubt if some of you guys sleep at night on top woman matter. The appropriate age for marriage for women has now become a matter of grave concern, worthy of quality periods of research, by a man, eh kwa? Make una no develop high bp o.

so you don't know, eh? the younger the better......your value as a woman diminishes as you advance in age because your oyel and grease gradually dry up and rust follows next. in a saner clime, you'd be given out free of charge once you're 30+, because you've become a liability to your family. yerima spent 100 thousands of dollars to get the beautiful Egyptian 14-year-old teen.......she was worth it!

Fairytales:
old school talk, you think every woman is interested in marriage? We are talking about developing ourselves, attaining even higher heights than our male counterparts, you are here talking marriage, mtshew.

madam, stop deceiving yourself. your philosophy today's woman is not in harmony with the nigerian system. you'll marry your career, fvck your career and end up a fat and single lady with a low-cut like onyeka onwenu

mizquote:


and you feel women must get married before they can bear kids?

with the high level of technology and choices ranging from ivf, adoption to surrogacy.

Nawoa for some reasoning sha.

na another woman pikin you want adopt abi?

FTBOY:
na another woman pikin you want adopt abi?

How will she know that adoption has become so lucrative these days because many women are increasingly having premature ovarian failure and hitting the menopausal phase too early?

And she doesn't know that ivf technology is prone to failure once the woman can't produce eggs. In fact the chances are so slim even in countries with advance health care!

mineANDurs:
If that is a problem, then it's left for women to solve. U guys shuld leave woman matter, focus ur attention on finding a solution to d ever increasing erectile dysfunction cos It is becoming a topic at most female gathering these days.

why are you looking for trouble?

It's cute when small girls think the world will wait for them to have it all. It's also sad knowing exactly where the path leads. Just a few facts to ponder:

1. Women in their 30s are less attractive and desirable than those in their 20s.

2. The fertility rate drops the older you get. There's also a big risk of having children with deformities, but hey, a career will compensate for an autistic child.

3. Men, proper men, do not desire a rich woman, thy require an industrious woman who can handle their business in their absence.

4. Work for a man is a matter of practicality and seldom passion. Single women generally make more money than single men on average, once a man can feed himself and afford decent accommodation, he's good. Married men make more money than married women, because the breadwinnership requires them to. If a man has no family, he becomes less productive than a woman because he doesnt need to spend as much as a woman would.

5. When you're finally ready to start a family, men no longer look at you. Your value as a mate drops. You can only get lower quality men. Men with higher quality are looking for a higher quality woman. Your bobby done soft. Your skin done dey do somehow, etc.

6. You already have baggage. Wise men will do well to avoid you.

7. For the "I don't need a man and can adopt" crowd. Take note: children raised in single-parent homes are 9 times more likely to turn to crime, prostitution and substance abuse. 70% of the prison population were raised in single-parent homes.

Margaret Thatcher, Indira Gandhi and Dora Akunyili had their children before conquering the world, but, of course, you're wiser than these women. Feel free to continue in your wisdom.

Good luck, yall.

Acidosis:
As far as I'm concerned, ALL Nigerian women want to get married.


Let's stop the deception. I've never seen a woman who frowns at a beautiful matrimony. They all love it, fantasize about that ring, the wedding gown, the proposal, the baby, the baby bump, etc.

No room for deception.

The average man with his head screwed on right also will love to have a happy family; beautiful wife & children & looking forward to going home each evening
I dont think that any man wants to be buying food from buka every day and with no one to care if his socks match or not

@thread I have never met anyone who found Mr right, but decided not to marry him because of her career
If anything, I see more women rushing to the alter for the wrong reasons

tearoses:


The average man with his head screwed on right also will love to have a happy family; beautiful wife & children & looking forward to going home each evening
I dont think that any man wants to be buying food from buka every day and with no one to care if his socks match or not

@thread I have never met anyone who found Mr right, but decided not to marry him because of her career
If anything, I see more women rushing to the alter for the wrong reasons

Men think more about raising a family, while women think more about getting married (wedding)

lezz:
No, The truth is so few ladies are ready to settle down at 25 and when they finally are, they have a preconceived notion of a husband who only exists in romantic novels.

Not mentioning the demands of education and career.

Men will always ask for marriage, women will always live in dreams

25 is too old oh. the problem is they think the attention they get from senior high school will last forever. a 40 year old guy go de chase 25 year olds. Guys in late twenties and early 30s if they are smart can pick up 18 to 22 year olds and groom them. This age bracket is good for the womans kids as well, her children will receive care and attrntion from d public becos she is a young mother.

Sheybi Bible talk say to prevent adultery and fornication let every man have his own wife.

Me its early 20s max or no marriage as I am 100% dedicated to my babes and dont cheat.

@Post

Why are many of you Nigerian bred males so obsessed about your women? Your white counterparts in the western world are coming up with cures for many emerging illnesses, advancing in technology and contributing to the advancement of the human race.

You sit here on Nairaland opening threads upon threads about women and their need to reproduce and marry. With all the marrying and reproducing you do, Nigeria still remains a failed third world country where poverty, epileptic power supply, fuel scarcity, ritualism, cultism, 419, illiteracy, corruption and more rule supreme. Its not like you are producing productive citizens of the world like people in the Western world.

By the way, when are you going to open threads that address pedophilia and rape? I read somewhere that 3 in 5 Nigerian men will rape or have raped a girl or woman. When are threads discouraging sexual crimes going to be discussed on nairaland?

Keep permanently damaging your girls and women with your HIV and syphillis infected dicks and then sit there wondering why getting married is becoming less of a priority for some of your women.

dasparrow:
@Post

Why are many of you Nigerian bred males so obsessed about your women? Your white counterparts in the western world are coming up with cures for many emerging illnesses, advancing in technology and contributing to the advancement of the human race.

You sit here on Nairaland opening threads upon threads about women and their need to reproduce and marry. With all the marrying and reproducing you do, Nigeria still remains a failed third world country where poverty, epileptic power supply, fuel scarcity, ritualism, cultism, 419, illiteracy, corruption and more rule supreme. Its not like you are producing productive citizens of the world like people in the Western world.

By the way, when are you going to open threads that address pedophilia and rape? I read somewhere that 3 in 5 Nigerian men will rape or have raped a girl or woman. When are threads discouraging sexual crimes going to be discussed on nairaland?

Keep permanently damaging your girls and women with your HIV and syphillis infected dicks and then sit there wondering why getting married is becoming less of a priority for some of your women.

We dont care. We are only advicing them.

AVRecruit:


25 is too old oh. the problem is they think the attention they get from senior high school will last forever. a 40 year old guy go de chase 25 year olds. Guys in late twenties and early 30s if they are smart can pick up 18 to 22 year olds and groom them. This age bracket is good for the womans kids as well, her children will receive care and attrntion from d public becos she is a young mother.

Sheybi Bible talk say to prevent adultery and fornication let every man have his own wife.

Me its early 20s max or no marriage as I am 100% dedicated to my babes and dont cheat.

You always leave some fruits of truth and wisdom behind from your bountiful farm of knowledge each time you pass by.

But don't expect all to appreciate your wisdom. They'll prefer junk for true nourishment.

postmann search for my recent man liberation thread i started, how feminism has liberated men. Let me know what you think.

I must be clear from my responses that I am NOT God. There are legitimate God fearing womem who are over 25 who for one legitimate reason or another are not married, I pray God provides for them and I trust that God will.

However, for abusers of male interest, hard to get players, cock carousel riders, ur on ur own.

dasparrow:
@Post

Why are many of you Nigerian bred males so obsessed about your women? Your white counterparts in the western world are coming up with cures for many emerging illnesses, advancing in technology and contributing to the advancement of the human race.

You sit here on Nairaland opening threads upon threads about women and their need to reproduce and marry. With all the marrying and reproducing you do, Nigeria still remains a failed third world country where poverty, epileptic power supply, fuel scarcity, ritualism, cultism, 419, illiteracy, corruption and more rule supreme. Its not like you are producing productive citizens of the world like people in the Western world.

By the way, when are you going to open threads that address pedophilia and rape? I read somewhere that 3 in 5 Nigerian men will rape or have raped a girl or woman. When are threads discouraging sexual crimes going to be discussed on nairaland?

Keep permanently damaging your girls and women with your HIV and syphillis infected dicks and then sit there wondering why getting married is becoming less of a priority for some of your women.

So what has been holding you foreign-bred male from creating the suggested topics?

A look at your profile doesn't suggest you're capable of such.

You're just like some low parasitic worm, leeching off the back of a true intellect.

The OP raised a valid topic worthy of discussion and it didn't warrant your moronic, uncouth backlash.

AVRecruit:
postmann search for my recent man liberation thread i started, how feminism has liberated men. Let me know what you think.

Sure! I will.

AVRecruit:
I must be clear from my responses that I am NOT God. There are legitimate God fearing womem who are over 25 who for one legitimate reason or another are not married, I pray God provides for them and I trust that God will.

However, for abusers of male interest, hard to get players, cock carousel riders, ur on ur own.

tearoses:


The average man with his head screwed on right also will love to have a happy family; beautiful wife & children & looking forward to going home each evening
I dont think that any man wants to be buying food from buka every day and with no one to care if his socks match or not

@thread I have never met anyone who found Mr right, but decided not to marry him because of her career
If anything, I see more women rushing to the alter for the wrong reasons

It is only on NL men don't fancy marriage and marrying women is doing them a favor...

Just coming from a wedding and the groom was dancing like someone who won a lottery.... He was not showing his dancing skills.... He was expressing his joy.

Again it is only here women turn down good men because of career. If he said studies I.e.First Degree, I will agree.