Universities are hotbeds for all kinds of relationships, from
everlasting true love to awkward one-night stands.
Arriving at uni straight from an all-girls grammar school, I
was completely delighted with the huge number of guys dt wooed me back den..

But I've learned a few things along the way. Relationships at
uni are important; they make you grow up a lot quicker, u learn hw to tolerate ur partner etc


However, there are some kinds of relationships that you
should steer clear of.
So freshers, I offer you my list of things not to
do; third-years, hold your heads (and aching hearts) in shame
if you've ever made these mistakes.


1. Relationship wit ur lecturer
Yes! Dis is veeerrryyy common in evry institution..even secondry skul. U date_sleep wit ur lecturer, bcus of marks or money or jxt for d fun of it.
Some of dem evn threaten to fail u if u dnt sleep wit dem. Its nt a vry wise thing to do cos at some point d relatnshp wil come to an end and you'll have to endure the awkwardness and
pain of forced contact with an ex who still holds the position
of power over you.
Plus don't think ur coursemates dunno oo, 50prcnt r gossipin abt it


2. Relationship wit ur flatmate
Having a relationship with someone you already live with
escalates everything; you can get close really quickly, but
that makes it harder if you then split up. "Don't do
It, he is der to c all d new guys ure with nd he might be a bone in ur neck

3. Relationship with ur fellow church worker_choir mate, ushering unit etc

Rilli? I mean wu does dt? Banging each oda overnyt nd waking up d nxt morning to praise God in church? Rilli?
Lord hav mercy
Lol how awkward.

Pls feel free to add urs. Cc seun lalasticlala abeg do d needful

naughtynaughty:
Universities are hotbeds for all kinds of relationships, from
everlasting true love to awkward one-night stands.
Arriving at uni straight from an all-girls grammar school, I
was completely delighted with the huge number of guys dt wooed me back den..

But I've learned a few things along the way. Relationships at
uni are important; they make you grow up a lot quicker, u learn hw to tolerate ur partner etc


However, there are some kinds of relationships that you
should steer clear of.
So freshers, I offer you my list of things not to
do; third-years, hold your heads (and aching hearts) in shame
if you've ever made these mistakes.


1. Relationship wit ur lecturer
Yes! Dis is veeerrryyy common in evry institution..even secondry skul. U date_sleep wit ur lecturer, bcus of marks or money or jxt for d fun of it.
Some of dem evn threaten to fail u if u dnt sleep wit dem. Its nt a vry wise thing to do cos at some point d relatnshp wil come to an end and you'll have to endure the awkwardness and
pain of forced contact with an ex who still holds the position
of power over you.
Plus don't think ur coursemates dunno oo, 50prcnt r gossipin abt it


2. Relationship wit ur flatmate
Having a relationship with someone you already live with
escalates everything; you can get close really quickly, but
that makes it harder if you then split up. "Don't do
It, he is der to c all d new guys ure with nd he might be a bone in ur neck

3. Relationship with ur fellow church worker_choir mate, ushering unit etc

Rilli? I mean wu does dt? Banging each oda overnyt nd waking up d nxt morning to praise God in church? Rilli?
Lord hav mercy
Lol how awkward.

Pls feel free to add urs. Cc seun lalasticlala

Relationship with your course mate whose same level as you. it breeds jealousy as both of you won't be free to interact with other people and so many eyes will be on your matter.

You should not have any kind of relationship especially when you're not ready for marriage

I did not even have any self, Tank God.
Even when one lecturer wan kill me with CO nd missing script.

malikombi:
You should not have any kind of relationship especially when you're not ready for marriage

Laveda:
All your reasons are flawed...

I'll consider relationship with a lecturer, it doesn't always end well.

And as for dating a flat mate it has to do with choice and a certain level of tolerance and maturity, I've seen such relationships work, my room mate is currently in one and I tell you it's moving very well.

Your number 3. Not everything has to do with sex some can still flow without the sex .. At a certain stage in life, sometimes true love is all that matters.

to evry rule there is an exception

If ladies don't date these people, who will?

In all honesty, ladies don't go into these relationships for serious purpose, they go into these relationship for the benefits. You date a lecture, he gives you mark, you date a course mate, he does your assignment and even write your exam for you, you date your cm, he makes you the lead vocalist almost everytime, so what are you saying?

malikombi:
You should not have any kind of relationship especially when you're not ready for marriage

lmaoooo off point

HateU2:
I did not even have any self, Tank God.
Even when one lecturer wan kill me with CO nd missing script.

smh, story of ur life. Tell us abt it

Hmmm, naughtynaughty

Relationship with a Niaralander..

naughtynaughty:
smh, story of ur life. Tell us abt it

ok, amebo . I will kuku tell u.

No boyfrnd withing d schl truout my stay. Twas a distance thing.

Lecturer palava started right 4rm 100L. He sighted me during our drama pratical(dra101 is a compulsory course as english students, 80% practical ni o. We go act normal stage play). I was given d role of a 'cultist'. I smoked on stage to perfect my role cox mehn, u gats to make it real or come nxt year nd do it again.

In short sha, dis man called me and said he wanna f?ck me . (not d lecturer in charge oo) but aa lecturer in our dept

B4 I knw sha, I carried dis man's course(i sabi book small o). 200L, same nooni. I waited till 400L to write it again and to God be d glory, he gave me missing script palava .


I jejely invited my 'powerful peeps' I sabi to help out. He don spoil my CGPA already but I stood my ground dat 'laye laye, ur deekee will neve enter me''. After d stuff, I went 2 his office aand say "f?ck off oga".

firstking01:
Hmmm, naughtynaught.y

wat I do? r u guilty of any?

HateU2:
ok, amebo . I will kuku tell u.

No boyfrnd withing d schl truout my stay. Twas a distance thing.

Lecturer palava started right 4rm 100L. He sighted me during our drama pratical(dra101 is a compulsory course as english students, 80% practical ni o. We go act normal stage play). I was given d role of a 'cultist'. I smoked on stage to perfect my role cox mehn, u gats to make it real or come nxt year nd do it again.

In short sha, dis man called me and said he wanna f?ck me . (not d lecturer in charge oo) but aa lecturer in our dept

B4 I knw sha, I carried dis man's course(i sabi book small o). 200L, same nooni. I waited till 400L to write it again and to God be d glory, he gave me missing script palava .


I jejely invited my 'powerful peeps' I sabi to help out. He don spoil my CGPA already but I stood my ground dat 'laye laye, ur deekee will neve enter me''. After d stuff, I went 2 his office aand say "f?ck off oga".

omg! R u fuc.kn kiddin me? No b small thing ooo

TnkGod fr me oooo, no wickd ecturer yaf toast me ooo ha! Ore? Lol

darkenkach:
Relationship with a Niaralander..

I tell u, relatnshp wit. A nairalandr is beta dan all dis.

naughtynaughty:
omg! R u fuc.kn kiddin me? No b small thing ooo

TnkGod fr me oooo, no wickd ecturer yaf toast me ooo ha! Ore? Lol

No be smaall thing o ore.

U knw dem dey get 'group', he informed dem and I also suffered. Na so so cry I dey cry until tears no come out(I no fine, no yansh, no boobs and no swags). I don't understand wetin he want 4rm me gan gaan.

Tank God 4 ur life ooo.
Na every morni, I dey his name and curse him.

Laveda:
All your reasons are flawed...

I'll consider relationship with a lecturer, it doesn't always end well.

And as for dating a flat mate it has to do with choice and a certain level of tolerance and maturity, I've seen such relationships work, my room mate is currently in one and I tell you it's moving very well.

Your number 3. Not everything has to do with sex some can still flow without the sex .. At a certain stage in life, sometimes true love is all that matters.

true lust rather .

HateU2:
No be smaall thing o ore.

U knw dem dey get 'group', he informed dem and I also suffered. Na so so cry I dey cry until tears no come out(I no fine, no yansh, no boobs and no swags). I don't understand wetin he want 4rm me gan gaan.

Tank God 4 ur life ooo.
Na every morni, I dey his name and curse him.

eeeyyyaaa. *wippingtears* its now ova shey?

naughtynaughty:
eeeyyyaaa. *wippingtears* its now ova shey?

I tank God oo.
It's over

HateU2:
I tank God oo. It's over

survivor!

naughtynaughty:
wat I do? r u guilty of any?

nope, but thinking what you told me yesternite

firstking01:
nope, but thinking what you told me yesternite

lol. Wt did I tel u sir

bastian5050:

Relationship with your course mate whose same level as you. it breeds jealousy as both of you won't be free to interact with other people and so many eyes will be on your matter.

Hmmmm..

I had quite a number of course mates then in uni who actually got married, afterwards. There wss even a couple who got married as students then. We all thought they were mad then, but their kids are much older now and they're gradually getting over childrearing

HateU2:
ok, amebo . I will kuku tell u.

No boyfrnd withing d schl truout my stay. Twas a distance thing.

Lecturer palava started right 4rm 100L. He sighted me during our drama pratical(dra101 is a compulsory course as english students, 80% practical ni o. We go act normal stage play). I was given d role of a 'cultist'. I smoked on stage to perfect my role cox mehn, u gats to make it real or come nxt year nd do it again.

In short sha, dis man called me and said he wanna f?ck me . (not d lecturer in charge oo) but aa lecturer in our dept

B4 I knw sha, I carried dis man's course(i sabi book small o). 200L, same nooni. I waited till 400L to write it again and to God be d glory, he gave me missing script palava .


I jejely invited my 'powerful peeps' I sabi to help out. He don spoil my CGPA already but I stood my ground dat 'laye laye, ur deekee will neve enter me''. After d stuff, I went 2 his office aand say "f?ck off oga".

I wonder how these kinda lecturers are allowed to get away scot free like that.

That's why our education system is a joke.

Corruption everywhere, that it's become a norm.

naughtynaughty:
lol. Wt did I tel u sir

oh, you forgotten

eyinjuege:


Hmmmm..

I had quite a number of course mates then in uni who actually got married, afterwards. There wss even a couple who got married as students then. We all thought they were mad then, but their kids are much older now and they're gradually getting over childrearing

some end up so while others are very disastrous. had few in my class which after the whole years of school marriage didn't get married.

i pray i dont face this kind of shi* at uni..GOD save we freshers frm temptation ijn.

you never know who your Mr right is

eyinjuege:


I wonder how these kinda lecturers are allowed to get away scot free like that.

That's why our education system is a joke.

Corruption everywhere, that it's become a norm.

My bro, no be small matter o.

Where are these female freshers?? A sister's admonition is on your beck

Team chop and clean mouth.