bukatyne:


It is only on NL men don't fancy marriage and marrying women is doing them a favor...

Just coming from a wedding and the groom was dancing like someone who won a lottery.... He was not showing his dancing skills.... He was expressing his joy.

Again it is only here women turn down good men because of career. If he said studies I.e.First Degree, I will agree.

Acidosis:


Men think more about raising a family, while women think more about getting married (wedding)

tearoses:


The average man with his head screwed on right also will love to have a happy family; beautiful wife & children & looking forward to going home each evening
I dont think that any man wants to be buying food from buka every day and with no one to care if his socks match or not

@thread I have never met anyone who found Mr right, but decided not to marry him because of her career
If anything, I see more women rushing to the alter for the wrong reasons

tearoses:


Who told you that
After the wedding nko? is it not marriage?
Or do they go back to their fathers house after the honeymoon

Acidosis:



Most women spend the first week of their marriage crying... reason is because they lay more expectation on that 'day'. Some marry for the wrong reason.

Hardly would you see a man get married for the wrong reasons. That's why some flirts marry virgin Mary sisters.

temi4fash:


What are the wrong reasons and what are the right reasons cos am sure some ladies don't know that.

tearoses:


I Am sure they do
Just that they choose to give excuses and think that they are the messiah who can change a bad boy to good.

tearoses:

Jokes

lezz:



Marriage isn't for everyone!
But I doubt I'll find a woman who doesn't want a kid of her own!!!

So instead of wasting all of her years in a career and fantasising about a mythical husband , she should worry about her ability to produce children from her own ovaries!!!

Natascha:


Children are not for everyone too!!!!

Moana:
why are you looking for trouble?

mineANDurs:


Their house is on fire and they r busy chasing Rats.
Can u Imagine?

lezz:
My queen, firsteva!

It's heart warming to see you here.

firstEVA:
how are you dear? I actually didn't see you around. Happy weekend

lezz:
I'm fine, dear.

What do you think is the percentage ratio of women who don't want their own children and those who want?

Within the scope of Nigeria, that is.

firstEVA:
honestly, I am yet to meet a woman who doesn't visualize having her own baby, those who don't want to have their own may exist, but in a very tiny percentage.

doublex:




since my few months of being here on nairaland.i have come to realise that many men here are patriachal(immoral) and still trying to hold on to the "good old days" when the society was completely about their selfishness and enforced immoral control of us women.

doublex:


the poster is probably one of those.thats why he made a topic like this

doublex:



(and a simple review of some of his other topics and comments also prove this).

doublex:


The figure of 1/16 is not a big figure,its 6.25%.which isnt big.

doublex:


better yet i can give an example that they are male rapist,pedofiles,murderes etc where by the figure is bigger than what you quoted.

doublex:



so first before you 'guide' us female focus on your menfolk flaws since you claim to care about society,that should be easier since you are a male yourself.....further more stop with your obsession with what us modern female are doing since what we are doing is for the positive benefit of society..

doublex:




and lastly you are a liar(which is typical of patriachals),because when another poster said that marriage isn't as important to female as it used to be,you then claimed this isn't about marriage but about her having her own kids,when clearly in your topic it shows about marry before that age.

lezz:
What's immoral about a patriarchal society? Societal morals and values are never forced, rather that are the conventions and ethics of a vast majority of society that became the standard acceptable practice and code of lawful conducts. Women especially, were participants and acquiescent to all codes of civility in the good old days: they were never forced: they obeyed, unlike you with a double xx chromosome




The spirit and intent of this thread is noble, an attempt to bring to the fore what today's and tomorrow's mothers (our wives) should put into consideration in pursuit of life's goals.

If you misconstrue the import and subject it to personal and twisted interpretation, I won't take the blame for that. please cease the libellous, defamatory remarks.

I've had my share of controversies and this thead is in no way in direct relation to that .

I should be given a medal for this, not thorns.

This , ordinarily, should be the responsibility of your health providers!!! But I have brought it for you gratis!

Few months you say you've spent here, and a great amount of that has been invested in profiling me, my threads and posts. Thanks!

1 in 6 women hitting menopause before age 40 is worrisome, if not to you, it certainly is to me and alot more people.

After all, we plant the seed deep in you, and it is expected of you to grow and nurture it.

'Sides who can tell who's going to fall into that doomed number?

Moreover, 6% is what obtains in developed countries with advanced medical care and better standard of living conditions and diet. It is alarmingly high in developing climes like Africa. What do you ascribe to the sudden surge of surrogacy, child adoption, complex parentage, and baby factories in Nigeria, nay, the world at large?

I fail to see how this happen to bear on what this thread is about!!!

It is uncorrelated, derailing and trouble-hunting. I will have to consign it to the dumpster!!!

You mean you spent all those time home-working on my threads and posts, and you didn't come up with my call and vociferation for men and society in general to stay afloat in this era of fleeting morality and vain fads? Interesting!!! Don't ruin your make-up crying over what I say, I speak the truth whose weight you couldn't bear!



Now your emotions had the better of your understanding .
A poster opined not everyone wants marriage and I countered that by saying the majority of women do.

Another claimed not every woman wants kids and I debunked that for the falsity of it. The vast majority want their own kids from their own wombs.

It is one of the most marked feature and core of your womanhood; to be able to conceive after being fücked! Nope?

And yes this thread is subject to the interpretation of getting married on time or even if you don't want marriage, then fück and conceive on time instead of unwittingly encouraging child trafficking and theft!!!

doublex:
since my few months of being here on nairaland.i have come to realise that many men here are patriachal(immoral) and still trying to hold on to the "good old days" when the society was completely about their selfishness and enforced immoral control of us women.the poster is probably one of those.thats why he made a topic like this(and a simple review of some of his other topics and comments also prove this). The figure of 1/16 is not a big figure,its 6.25%.which isnt big.better yet i can give an example that they are male rapist,pedofiles,murderes etc where by the figure is bigger than what you quoted.so first before you 'guide' us female focus on your menfolk flaws since you claim to care about society,that should be easier since you are a male yourself.....further more stop with your obsession with what us modern female are doing since what we are doing is for the positive benefit of society..and lastly you are a liar(which is typical of patriachals),because when another poster said that marriage isn't as important to female as it used to be,you then claimed this isn't about marriage but about her having her own kids,when clearly in your topic it shows about marry before that age.

postmann:



You're one dissatisfied female who regrets being a woman. You're comment was a easy give-off.

You're a man vampire! A man hater. And that's just the beginning of your downfall, except you turn around quickly and retrace your lost steps.

The topic the OP raised has a lot of point in it. And only a disatisfied, angry, greedy woman will take your stand.
It's not possible to write two topics at the same time. So if he wrote about the need for women to marry earlier, I don't see how that is patriarchal and how patriarchal equates to immorality.

You're an unhappy soul. Your likes are everywhere. They think they know more than their parents or grand parents. But wisdom ensured they went to their graves far happier, than the modern day feminist who is yet to understand that she was created for man.

Keep your hatred and illustrations burning.
But know this: IT was a man's world, and is a man's world and will always man's world.

Now since you're good at checking up people's profiles, go check mine, and boil over in disgust!!!!

lezz:
brutally precise but factual and on point. AhahahAhahaha!!!

She might be one of the burried and resurrected feminist here.

lezz:
brutally precise but factual and on point. AhahahAhahaha!!!

She might be one of the burried and resurrected feminist here.

Hi Lezz did you get my mention?

jashar:
I wish I had the energy and time to call out the OP on some points... too tired.
So, i'll just

haywire1:
CORRECT, I PITY THOSE LADIES SHOWING HARD TO GET SKILLS


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