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Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by Vinshu(f): 11:40am On Mar 20, 2016 |
thundafire: Oh yes, i can fend for myself because i am an entrepreneur. (If you know what that means) Better go out there and pass along your CV(If you have any) to get a better paying job and have a life. Not wasting away 1 Like |
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by Jostico: 11:43am On Mar 20, 2016 |
[quote author=Vinshu post=43937563] HI dearie! I'm cool. Hope you're good too?[/quote yea i'm. could you do me a favour? 2 Likes |
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by thundafire: 11:51am On Mar 20, 2016 |
Vinshu: entrepreneur very funny ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() 38 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by Mty4real(m): 12:00pm On Mar 20, 2016 |
I no of many highly earning working class people that failed to acquire house, car etc. It all borders on how you can plan and be supported by God, or what if you have all these cars and houses before marriage, and it vanquish after marriage, will you divorce her or kill the children that were born,so all that mentioned by op is not the essence of marriage, they are all necessaries that must be acquired Gradually and eventually and may not be instantly as some women wanted it, it's not INDOMIE noodles that gets cooked instantly 26 Likes |
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by Jostico: 12:02pm On Mar 20, 2016 |
thundafire: bros no vex. abeg mo una dey help pipo wey nor get like me.eh 4 Likes |
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by TIDDOLL(m): 12:05pm On Mar 20, 2016 |
issorite....moving a motion on this..in the next senate sitting.. 1 Like |
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by Uchesis: 12:11pm On Mar 20, 2016 |
Vinshu:if guys take dis ur advice, husband scarcity will rise like d dollar. U will den create anoda thread.."WHY DO MEN RUN FRM MARRIAGE?" 68 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by tempex88(m): 12:12pm On Mar 20, 2016 |
Op, I disagree with u, marriage is suppose to help d family achieve more except what u mean in ur write up is that the wife will not have any income. 5 Likes |
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by firstking01(m): 12:15pm On Mar 20, 2016 |
Vinshu:i actually buy what you said, but answer this question with all sincerity of heart, how rich was your dad before marrying your mum ![]() 8 Likes |
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by Uchesis: 12:28pm On Mar 20, 2016 |
Specialbaby: dnt 4get menopause is around ur corner 15 Likes |
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by Ahmed0336(m): 12:41pm On Mar 20, 2016 |
Specialbaby:Sure it is |
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by Gebbson007(m): 12:48pm On Mar 20, 2016 |
Fr33born:u no dey shame team wY dey carry league cup back 2 back get plenty head abi or lescister world class club |
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by ba7man(m): 12:55pm On Mar 20, 2016 |
Is a lady supposed to date the house and car as well ![]() True a man needs a roof over his lady's head and some financial stability to support kids...... 1 Like |
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by Toks2008(m): 1:00pm On Mar 20, 2016 |
Vinshu: If i say you are not making sense i guess i will be fooling myself but then i always ask;"Does it make any logical sense to date a man who can not buy a car or lives in a face me i face you and scrws you front and back with reckless abandon,you cook for him,sleep over at his place and infact does virtually what a wife does yet can't marry him in that position and hope for the better while you also strife for financial independence? Waiting for your response. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by LaurelP(m): 1:01pm On Mar 20, 2016 |
Delusion. Like the man is your ATM that shiits out money whenever you want it? Better go and develop yourself if u want to find a man that will marry u. I wonder why women of nowadays see marriage and relationship as winning a Jackpot. That mentality of "I am coming to enjoy" is so rife, none wants to help and build their man, stand by him anymore. And they wonder why men don't wanna settle down. Its because they know that most ladies want to come in and reap where they didn't sow, even the rich guys know this. Its all about me me and me. No lady ever plans on how she's going to stand by her man and encourage him even if it means going hungry. Now my question is what if the money somehow goes. Will you run away? 25 Likes |
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by Kanyekels(m): 1:02pm On Mar 20, 2016 |
In marriage both the husband and wife should be able to contribute not just the man or woman...... Or you want the husband to take care of everything from school fees to the pants u wear and the only thing you bring to the table is waist trainers,gossips,silly thread and hole between your legs. Gold diggers everywhere. 11 Likes |
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by Cutehector(m): 1:23pm On Mar 20, 2016 |
Just look at dem.. God has mercy on whomever he wishes. 2 Likes |
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by Nobody: 1:45pm On Mar 20, 2016 |
Will such theories stop the inevitable? Poor people marry and rich people marry and nothing will ever change that. 9 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by Vinshu(f): 1:53pm On Mar 20, 2016 |
firstking01: My father wasn't "Rich"! He was able to cater for himself, his wife, Myself, and my 3 Brothers and 2 sisters. Six Kids! Thats what matters. Don't modify my post. I never said a man must be "Rich". Riches are dynamic depending on the individual 2 Likes |
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by Vinshu(f): 1:55pm On Mar 20, 2016 |
thundafire: You realize you cannot compare a government worker in Nigeria with an Entrepreneur in Europe! Can you compare? My currency alone is bigger than yours. Perhaps you don't know who you quoting. Again, get a life. Speaking of a house, yes i do have a house. Our government is sooooo good that every working class person is entitled to housing. I bet your government couldn't do that for you thats why you all run down here. 5 Likes |
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by DaGeneral(m): 2:03pm On Mar 20, 2016 |
@Op.. Really a car and house that's your prerequisites for marriage? Mehn dis generation is in trouble, no wonder people do all it takes legal and illegal to make money. Obviously you are bereft of understanding what marriage is my friend. I am one those who believe no man should venture into marriage without a stable income to atleast feed 2 extra mouth but then life has uncertainties,even the super rich can crumble. So @Op what happens if you marry that man with a duplex and cars and God forbid he goes broke, will you pack and leave him? Pls don't give me that not my portion answer 17 Likes |
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by Fadman4real(m): 2:10pm On Mar 20, 2016 |
This post is meaningless, I do not blame the OP after all she is abroad and doesn't understand the struggle here, but I blame the Nigerian breed girls who know how real the struggle is. Firstly, I agree with the points that a car and a house are needed for a family at least to make everyone comfortable. But such is not a compulsory assets that a lady should look at before getting married, what if God forbids he loses everything what do you do. Dump his sorry ass, divorce him, become a prostitute? The most important thing I believe a lady should look at is does he love me? Do I love him? Is he industrious and hard working? Does he make me happy? Does are much more important than Cars or houses. All fingers are not equal, not everyone would make it at the same time. 11 Likes |
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by oloyede252(m): 2:10pm On Mar 20, 2016 |
Vinshu:still doesnt change the fact that you dont have a car or house.and also your father wasnt rich when he married your mother meaning he didnt have a car or house..so why the thread? 9 Likes |
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by Vinshu(f): 2:14pm On Mar 20, 2016 |
oloyede252: And where is it written that Vinshu doesnt have a car or house and her father wasnt rich when he married her mother? |
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by Rotab4life: 2:18pm On Mar 20, 2016 |
lol Many are still getting married without the things you listed. Deal with it 3 Likes |
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by Strahovski1(m): 2:20pm On Mar 20, 2016 |
Rotab4life: And they are suffering and wallowing in poverty. Not me or you. Listen to op |
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by ryanfletcher: 2:21pm On Mar 20, 2016 |
yea right,like all of your parents had cars and houses before they brought your sorry ass into this world, better not let buhari hear you! 1 Like |
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by firstking01(m): 2:30pm On Mar 20, 2016 |
Vinshu:your father wasn't rich ba ![]() ![]() ![]() 22 Likes |
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by Vinshu(f): 2:32pm On Mar 20, 2016 |
firstking01: My father, wasn't rich! I repeat! If you did not read, read it again: He was able to cater for himself, his wife, Myself, and my 3 Brothers and 2 sisters. Six Kids! Thats what matters. Don't modify my post. I never said a man must be "Rich". Riches are dynamic depending on the individual Someone who could cater for 7 people conveniently, who never lacked anything, obviously, had a house and a car. I'm way smarter than you are. You cant prey on my intelligence. I am aware of what i've written and it doesnt change. You should read it again for better understanding. Thanks 5 Likes |
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by Rotab4life: 2:35pm On Mar 20, 2016 |
Strahovski1: Wow so every couple without a car and a three bedroom flat over their head are suffering and wallowing in poverty. Interesting 19 Likes |
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by smithmadu(m): 2:38pm On Mar 20, 2016 |
If you aren’t happy on the inside, neither wealth nor poverty will make you happy. Pray to God always to make your wife and family a happy one irrespective of the situations you find yourself. There are Rich but broken homes, there are rich and happy homes vice versa. 3 Likes |
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by ba7man(m): 2:39pm On Mar 20, 2016 |
Vinshu:Two of my friends didn't have a car or a house before they got married but their wives look at them today and they're glad they did. They had a plan for their lives, that's most essential. Car + House does not automatically make a man. 4 Likes |
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