Strahovski1:
I agree with everything up there.

Sad but true, most guys marry for sex. You see broke dudes looking to settle down. Settle down with what? That's why poverty rate is increasing. Why give birth when yo cannot even eat 3 times a day?

If only women will understand.

P.s are you an accountant? Love the thread

you sound more like a woman

...and this is that type of post that makes me want to kill somebody!
Whoever said girls should find fulfillment only im marriage?
Op, go and make money and stop thinking of men!

My darling Op,

Did daddy buy house and car before mummy gree ?.

When you are 35 your opinion go dey flexible.

For now, thumbs up

Boeing777pilot:
I always tell ladies around me especially those from Nigeria that whenever I'm ready to marry, I can't marry a lady who is not well off financially. God has blessed me abundantly with financial and other resources.

There's something about dating women with the poverty mindset. E.g the OP

Read what I wrote carefully and if you don't comprehend it, don't bother quoting me.

any man with a steady source of income and his apartment can get married

Tallesty1:
See people that want gender equality.

Hypocrisy at its peak....

True if you remove Gods favour out of the picture, and also know that fraudsters, ritualist and armed robbers can afford a house and a car. my advice is strive to be not dependent on your man and also encourage your man to get his hands busy in legal things if employment is not fort coming.

Number of unmarried ladies will sky rocket and you will end up seeing ladies pay groom price

Vinshu:
In order to reduce the level of poverty amongst homes, in my opinion I think a man who has not enough money to buy a house of his own not rent at least a 3 bed room flat and a car to move him and his family around should not get married.

When he gets married in his low credit, the family tends to suffer. The probability that he will get rich is actually 0.5 not up to 1 because Sundry expenses will now become expenses when married. Things he could ignore when single will now be important.

When children arrive, the probability of getting rich falls to an all time low of 0.2. Have you observed that most men have a higher credit score when single? If you have $500 at the end of every week when single if your job/income doesn't change or upgrade when you get married your $500 falls to $200 because you no longer feed yourself but feed a woman and probably a child.

When the child grows older school fees will set in. And other bad debts will be incured .

Don't get me wrong, I ain't saying he will never make it but in the mean time, why bring a child to the world to suffer? Even if it's for 6 years before you make it? Why take a woman from her father's comfy house to hardship in the name of marriage?

I advice ladies never to get married no matter how cool a guy is unless he is proven to be able to cater for your needs and that of your children financially in all ramifications both expenses and sundry expenses.

It doesn't make any sense, what you enjoy when single as a lady why stop enjoying it because your husband has no money or your money now goes to supporting him?

They say women ain't equal to men. Ok let the men be rich and rich enough to take care of their wives 101% before getting married. In fact, studies show most men marry for sex.

the most stupid post ever...guess you will stay unmarried till the next world. #rubish

This op really needs to change this Nigerian orientation... Go to the USA and learn from their ladies, they don't make themselves burden to their man!

You get sense so?

repogirl:
Lmao, OP if na like that, some men will be bachelors for life.

See as all the broke guys dey hala on top OP head. Thank goodness some good hearted females pity the broke ones and marry them.

Ehn ehn..... Tell me something....

Vinshu:
In order to reduce the level of poverty amongst homes, in my opinion I think a man who has not enough money to buy a house of his own not rent at least a 3 bed room flat and a car to move him and his family around should not get married.

When he gets married in his low credit, the family tends to suffer. The probability that he will get rich is actually 0.5 not up to 1 because Sundry expenses will now become expenses when married. Things he could ignore when single will now be important.

When children arrive, the probability of getting rich falls to an all time low of 0.2. Have you observed that most men have a higher credit score when single? If you have $500 at the end of every week when single if your job/income doesn't change or upgrade when you get married your $500 falls to $200 because you no longer feed yourself but feed a woman and probably a child.

When the child grows older school fees will set in. And other bad debts will be incured .

Don't get me wrong, I ain't saying he will never make it but in the mean time, why bring a child to the world to suffer? Even if it's for 6 years before you make it? Why take a woman from her father's comfy house to hardship in the name of marriage?

I advice ladies never to get married no matter how cool a guy is unless he is proven to be able to cater for your needs and that of your children financially in all ramifications both expenses and sundry expenses.

It doesn't make any sense, what you enjoy when single as a lady why stop enjoying it because your husband has no money or your money now goes to supporting him?

They say women ain't equal to men. Ok let the men be rich and rich enough to take care of their wives 101% before getting married. In fact, studies show most men marry for sex.

What a shameless woman. Do you not have a brain like a man? Are you physically or mentally handicapped? Nonsense

Was this not the same Vinshu that was involved in a financial fraud sometime ago?

Specialbaby:
Majority of those who will dispute this well articulated thread are broke guys who don't want to get their hands dirty!



Why date or marry when you are not financially stable only to belive in better days ahead??it just crazy!!

Money is not a criteria for marrying. If we go by the postulations of the OP it then means that there will be more crimes in the society and prostitution will be greatest and many kids will be given birth to without proper care. Some poor couples living in one room or two room apartment are more contented and fulfilled than rich couples in super wealth

Okay lemme be serious....

Vinshu, there are boys and there are men.... There are men that you know have the sense and will to make something of their lives. Even if he doesn't have much going now, you know he has the brains and will power to take him where he wants to be.

There are men who want more for themselves than what they presently have and then ofcourse, there are those boys who are very comfortable in their mediocrity and lasckluster lives.

A man who's got vision will surely get to his destination and he will appreciate the woman who sticks with him till he gets there.

Learn to sift the men from boys.

Specialbaby:
fortunatly enough,i can never be in such shoes again!!!

What if he looses his job six months after your weeding? Oh! Onto the next one abi?

Women coming here to say MOST men marry for sex. I dont understand. Maybe 15 yrs ago, but today, sex is everywhere. Its only deprived men who cant get it when they want that use marriage to get it.

@Vinshu
let me ask you a few questions, if i may:
- do you believe that marriage is a do or die event?
- does renting a 2bed (or less) house for your family considered suffering in your opinion?
- equally, must EVERY couples focus on having a big family at all costs against having the family that they can afford to support?
- is there anything wrong with families taking public transport?
- do you believe that only rich families are happy?
- dont you think that it isnt logical/plausible for women to demand so much while expecting to bring so little to the table?
- dont you find it a bit strange that in ALL your fancy calculations, you havent written ONE thing about what would women CONTRIBUTE to that said family wellbeing?
- it seems like you think that women are doing men a favor when marrying men?
- if women were "that" comfortable single while living at their daddys home, why would they remotely want to marry them?

the reality of it all is that many men wouldnt even get married if there wasnt so much social/family/religious/peer pressure for them to do so.

U see! Condemed human u r

Vinshu:


No not really. I'm actually an Economist.

Haba... Which kind of thread is dis. No wonder its now rear to find humble women who can see a man with vision and stick with him till the vision manifest.. They all want a ready made man.. Met my wife during nysc didn't Av a car or house,was just a guy from a humble background 2 years after service we got married but didn't have a car.. Our first child came late last year n God being faithful immediately the child came he blessed us with a good car... Our 1st year wedding anniversary is tomorrow. And am sure dis is just the beginning of great things.. Not preaching sticking with a visionless poverty person but don't write off people cos of deir present circumstances

Vinshu:
In order to reduce the level of poverty amongst homes, in my opinion I think a man who has not enough money to buy a house of his own not rent at least a 3 bed room flat and a car to move him and his family around should not get married.

When he gets married in his low credit, the family tends to suffer. The probability that he will get rich is actually 0.5 not up to 1 because Sundry expenses will now become expenses when married. Things he could ignore when single will now be important.

When children arrive, the probability of getting rich falls to an all time low of 0.2. Have you observed that most men have a higher credit score when single? If you have $500 at the end of every week when single if your job/income doesn't change or upgrade when you get married your $500 falls to $200 because you no longer feed yourself but feed a woman and probably a child.

When the child grows older school fees will set in. And other bad debts will be incured .

Don't get me wrong, I ain't saying he will never make it but in the mean time, why bring a child to the world to suffer? Even if it's for 6 years before you make it? Why take a woman from her father's comfy house to hardship in the name of marriage?

I advice ladies never to get married no matter how cool a guy is unless he is proven to be able to cater for your needs and that of your children financially in all ramifications both expenses and sundry expenses.

It doesn't make any sense, what you enjoy when single as a lady why stop enjoying it because your husband has no money or your money now goes to supporting him?

They say women ain't equal to men. Ok let the men be rich and rich enough to take care of their wives 101% before getting married. In fact, studies show most men marry for sex.

thats ur opinion

Vinshu:
In order to reduce the level of poverty amongst homes, in my opinion I think a man who has not enough money to buy a house of his own not rent at least a 3 bed room flat and a car to move him and his family around should not get married.

When he gets married in his low credit, the family tends to suffer. The probability that he will get rich is actually 0.5 not up to 1 because Sundry expenses will now become expenses when married. Things he could ignore when single will now be important.

When children arrive, the probability of getting rich falls to an all time low of 0.2. Have you observed that most men have a higher credit score when single? If you have $500 at the end of every week when single if your job/income doesn't change or upgrade when you get married your $500 falls to $200 because you no longer feed yourself but feed a woman and probably a child.

When the child grows older school fees will set in. And other bad debts will be incured .

Don't get me wrong, I ain't saying he will never make it but in the mean time, why bring a child to the world to suffer? Even if it's for 6 years before you make it? Why take a woman from her father's comfy house to hardship in the name of marriage?

I advice ladies never to get married no matter how cool a guy is unless he is proven to be able to cater for your needs and that of your children financially in all ramifications both expenses and sundry expenses.

It doesn't make any sense, what you enjoy when single as a lady why stop enjoying it because your husband has no money or your money now goes to supporting him?

They say women ain't equal to men. Ok let the men be rich and rich enough to take care of their wives 101% before getting married. In fact, studies show most men marry for sex.

Noted. so if the guy is bringing the house, car and feeding all mouths, what will the woman bring to the table?

lekjons:
hmm. ok. pls what time is man. u. vs man. city match?

5pm naija time.
Mcfc all the way

The OP is smoking POVERTY WEED.... When ladies of today just want to marry you irrespective of your status..... The OP must be in her early 20's......don't worry you think say guys won marry self... Na una ladies dey force guys for marriage dis days after serious pleading..... You think guy wey no get property now no get future?...... Don't worry keep it up...... But I bet your philosophy is wrong...

Vinshu:
In order to reduce the level of poverty amongst homes, in my opinion I think a man who has not enough money to buy a house of his own not rent at least a 3 bed room flat and a car to move him and his family around should not get married.

When he gets married in his low credit, the family tends to suffer. The probability that he will get rich is actually 0.5 not up to 1 because Sundry expenses will now become expenses when married. Things he could ignore when single will now be important.

When children arrive, the probability of getting rich falls to an all time low of 0.2. Have you observed that most men have a higher credit score when single? If you have $500 at the end of every week when single if your job/income doesn't change or upgrade when you get married your $500 falls to $200 because you no longer feed yourself but feed a woman and probably a child.

When the child grows older school fees will set in. And other bad debts will be incured .

Don't get me wrong, I ain't saying he will never make it but in the mean time, why bring a child to the world to suffer? Even if it's for 6 years before you make it? Why take a woman from her father's comfy house to hardship in the name of marriage?

I advice ladies never to get married no matter how cool a guy is unless he is proven to be able to cater for your needs and that of your children financially in all ramifications both expenses and sundry expenses.

It doesn't make any sense, what you enjoy when single as a lady why stop enjoying it because your husband has no money or your money now goes to supporting him?

They say women ain't equal to men. Ok let the men be rich and rich enough to take care of their wives 101% before getting married. In fact, studies show most men marry for sex.

okay ooo... If u married or settle down with him jus becos of money and cars.. And tinzz later turn down for him... After marriage... U will divorce him rty?... Odeee ni eee....
Gold digger like u.... Plzz gt life...

Shey Ogun laye ni ??





Even talika get dream

Specialbaby:
a guy who have a house and a car can pass for financially stable!


What do you think?

You be itiboribo! Can you boast of riches if you own an unpainted bungalow in Mowe and an old noisy, smoky Passat

adeaks:



And the majority of girls who will support this are lazy, gold diggers who are only looking for already-made men that they can just pop out babies for without any thought of adding something tangible to the guy's life.

I support u. Don't mind some of them here making noise that they won't date not to talk of marry someone who's still struggling to make ends meet. By the time they get to 30yrs, u'll see a different opinion that at least they should marry or date to help the guy. Arrant.........

Vinshu:
In order to reduce the level of poverty amongst homes, in my opinion I think a man who has not enough money to buy a house of his own not rent at least a 3 bed room flat and a car to move him and his family around should not get married.

When he gets married in his low credit, the family tends to suffer. The probability that he will get rich is actually 0.5 not up to 1 because Sundry expenses will now become expenses when married. Things he could ignore when single will now be important.

When children arrive, the probability of getting rich falls to an all time low of 0.2. Have you observed that most men have a higher credit score when single? If you have $500 at the end of every week when single if your job/income doesn't change or upgrade when you get married your $500 falls to $200 because you no longer feed yourself but feed a woman and probably a child.

When the child grows older school fees will set in. And other bad debts will be incured .

Don't get me wrong, I ain't saying he will never make it but in the mean time, why bring a child to the world to suffer? Even if it's for 6 years before you make it? Why take a woman from her father's comfy house to hardship in the name of marriage?

I advice ladies never to get married no matter how cool a guy is unless he is proven to be able to cater for your needs and that of your children financially in all ramifications both expenses and sundry expenses.

It doesn't make any sense, what you enjoy when single as a lady why stop enjoying it because your husband has no money or your money now goes to supporting him?

They say women ain't equal to men. Ok let the men be rich and rich enough to take care of their wives 101% before getting married. In fact, studies show most men marry for sex.

You are trying to say that I am not man enough to get married?

This thread should be given an award as the gold digging thread of the year

Very shallow reasoning.
How many cars and 3 bedroom flats did your grand father have?
Op how many houses did your father purchase?

Where did you learn that a wife should be a liability and allow the husband to cater to all her whims and caprices.