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Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by Adeniyimi: 4:53pm On Mar 20, 2016 |
Specialbaby: U are right o. They said only fools believe in miracle |
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by Nobody: 4:53pm On Mar 20, 2016 |
Vinshu:I'm also an Economist. Which school did you graduate from? Should not date nor marry is a little bit harsh. I propose "should not have kids" 2 Likes |
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by kinibigdeal(m): 4:53pm On Mar 20, 2016 |
Strahovski1: ![]() |
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by IVORY2009(m): 4:53pm On Mar 20, 2016 |
adeaks: To help nail the coffin, perhaps the dad may have even married his mum on credit ![]() 3 Likes |
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by san316(m): 4:54pm On Mar 20, 2016 |
Vinshu: I will understand if you are not a religiously inclined person. But consider this... Wealth is relative and transient. You have a house and a car today doesn't guarantee that you will still have it in two years time. You are poor and wretched today doesn't mean you will not be rich tomorrow. Fact is, rich or poor, marriage gives u a level of direction and purpose in life. So when you say most guys marry for se.x, I say you are very wrong because most guys have access to free intimacy hence they don't need marriage for that. My point is, nothing is guaranteed in life, nothing is given. All you need is to give yourself direction and pursue your dreams regardless of the challenges you face. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by Nobody: 4:54pm On Mar 20, 2016 |
Specialbaby: Nd u tink its nt better to stay as bachelor dan to marry a gold digger whose stock in trade is to eat where she dd nt sow? I ve seen som rich guys dat got married to gold diggers lik some of u nd OP inclusive they bcame poor. Atleast I knw one in my estate. gold diggers r just liability? All they tink dat dey can bring in d marriage is 'bedmatics'- sex, sex noting bt sex. Have u nt seen wia a lady's great idea turned to gold. No wonder my friend is sapiosexual, vry crazy abt ladies wit creative mind. 2 Likes |
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by AleAirHub(m): 4:54pm On Mar 20, 2016 |
Sorry Op you really get it wrong these time around... Two Questions For You... }}}}} Did Your Dad&Mum Had A House & Car Before Both Date... }}}}} What Is The Financial Status Of Your Husband/Dude... Lastly How Come Out Of Your 600 + Comment Choose To Refer To Relationship , Romance Is Like You Are Have Great Time ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by Nobody: 4:55pm On Mar 20, 2016 |
What is the op saying sef. Only the topic discourage me from reading the post. What kind of stupid opinion is that. Gold diggers marrying already made guys will not reduce the level of poverty. |
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by datopaper(m): 4:56pm On Mar 20, 2016 |
I agreed. Not hands are equal. This life! Category by category 1 Like |
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by bumi10(m): 4:56pm On Mar 20, 2016 |
adeaks: I dnt know if you are a man or a woman but i got to tell you, you are the best. The question you asked summed up everything I mean that OP is not real at all. You will have to build a house or rent a 3 bedroom apart and buy a car before you have a pass mark to marry. I have not heard any worst info since my life than this. rubbish |
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by leofab(f): 4:56pm On Mar 20, 2016 |
Specialbaby:what of the ladies? Or has dating and marrying become a 'Job Opportunity' for ladies.. 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by melroseeddy(m): 4:57pm On Mar 20, 2016 |
Dis z d reason y we r having soo many baby mama in d country cos u ladies want a ready made husband cos most of dem(ladies) dnt hav anything to offer compare to dis guys. |
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by flamingREED(m): 4:57pm On Mar 20, 2016 |
Hahaha.. Women always pretending to be queens and royal highnesses.. Mtcheww.. Even God says we should be godly and contented because the gain in it is great.. Be contented and marry.. Just negodu! Eh? Mtchwww.. Contentment is yet to be understood and learned. Marry only for love.. |
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by dhamiethekid(m): 4:58pm On Mar 20, 2016 |
y is d burden only on man. y cant d ladies also work. do u expect d man 2 work and then bring money home so that d wife can spend it. am not agaisnt wat u said bt do nt put it only at d side of men. u ladies say wat a man can do a woman cn do better bt wen it comes to working so as to help ur family u keep shut. really!!! 1 Like |
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by Nobody: 4:58pm On Mar 20, 2016 |
adeaks: ![]() ![]() |
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by Tonymegabush1(m): 4:58pm On Mar 20, 2016 |
Ladies n comfort... No body want to suffer |
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by Nobody: 4:59pm On Mar 20, 2016 |
Na women like marriage. |
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by amtaken(f): 4:59pm On Mar 20, 2016 |
No comment today, tomorrow or next year. No comment means no comment. |
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by JoeCutie(m): 4:59pm On Mar 20, 2016 |
I'm so not surprised this is coming from a lady. Every responsibility should be taken up by the man. That's the very poor mentality that African women guide their judgements with, and it doesn't help at all. Many of these people obsessively delve into the very controversial discussion of feminism, and they advocate for equality, but how on earth is this possible? Is it even feasible in Africa in the foreseeable future, with this mentality? It's in Africa that women see men as being responsible for everything in the family, yet they want to be equal with those men solely taking up those responsibilities. Because they say men are the heads of the families, they should literary carry the family on top their head abi? I'd really love a society where the women would stop fighting for equality, but do well to earn it themselves. And as far as I'm concerned, they haven't earned it one bit. Not with this mentality. So all the education, the job hunting, finally getting a job and getting paid, then what? It's just for you to sit somewhere and selfishly enjoy your money while your husband - your partner and supposed 'better half' - does the whole work, which includes taking care of you, around the house with his own money? What if you're the one who has the money, using it to take care of your family? Would that make you less a woman? Or it'd make your husband a loser? A failure? That's the problem with us Africans: always wanting to reap where we did not sow. An average American lady comes to you basically for who you are, and not what you are and or have. No wonder they keep progressing beyond measures in all ramifications. You want something? Earn it yourself! 14 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by Nobody: 5:00pm On Mar 20, 2016 |
repogirl: ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by frakdon(m): 5:00pm On Mar 20, 2016 |
repogirl:Maddam! Repogirl..honestly your words here, always describes to me the kinda woman I need in my life, you made sense here 'again'..thank you. Let's see if she'll come and then,stick around or not. 1 Like |
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by Nobody: 5:01pm On Mar 20, 2016 |
I sense it in the content of the post already, the guy is an Economist, that is how we reason. Rationalize all your activities including your brain output. I support, Yes I have ladies begging me to take their hands and this is exactly how I always make them to understand. If you can stay is allowed, if otherwise then wishing you good luck. |
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by Kyllahmc(m): 5:01pm On Mar 20, 2016 |
adeaks:seconded! Naija girls and their annoying mentality! I bet even the op is as broke as f.uck |
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by DJEhimond(m): 5:01pm On Mar 20, 2016 |
Realone92: I need not write anymore ... you just helped out. 1 Like |
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by bayinq25(m): 5:01pm On Mar 20, 2016 |
Vinshu:betch alert!!! |
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by sirlop(m): 5:02pm On Mar 20, 2016 |
leofab:Thank you my sis.....what an intelligent question.. |
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by greatbrian(m): 5:02pm On Mar 20, 2016 |
If Dz measures hv been taken a long time ago maybe u won't hv created Dz thread.......... |
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by dam4wummy(m): 5:02pm On Mar 20, 2016 |
Strahovski1: If and only if, they will start telling you 'm i complaining? |
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by shollybeauty116: 5:02pm On Mar 20, 2016 |
Wow, sad reality for the guys. ![]() |
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by Harbay0101(m): 5:02pm On Mar 20, 2016 |
adeaks: just what I was about to ask |
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by marcusaurelio(m): 5:03pm On Mar 20, 2016 |
The question is..the parents that gave birth to you 40% out of 100 don't even have a car or a house..that's damn too much of criteria for dating or marriage. . |
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by garrimallam: 5:03pm On Mar 20, 2016 |
[quote author=adeaks post=43937613]Only guys with houses and cars should even date. ![]() ![]() Simple question: when your dad was dating your mom, did he have a house and a car? Let's start from there. Bros to be candid things don change ooo!!!, so , for posterity sake don't even go there. But i think the op should reconsider his position by using been financially dependent.On a normal scale, No right thinking man would want to bring a child to the world and watch d kids suffer.But most men jump into marriage because of sex not even pressure.Note 'EVENT CHANGES WITH TIME'. 1 Like |
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