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Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by ADBOK: 5:24pm On Mar 20, 2016 |
Specialbaby:Finally the world is at an end! What if along the line your rich hubby experiences the hit that broke him to poverty, would you stay to help him pick things up or you'd take the hike? The true test of a partner's loyalty is in times of hardship!... |
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by Alwaystruth: 5:24pm On Mar 20, 2016 |
OP, you are very stupid raising this topic and those supporting you.. Hope your father built his house and bought his first car before marrying your mom?. If not, you are a hypocrite. B4 you labels me a broke dude...note that i live abroad and cars and houses are necessities to us and not luxuries. Once a guy has a good job and perhaps his wife has also,what stops him from getting married. what weigh blacks Africans down most times is the overload of family and siblings... |
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by Prdo: 5:25pm On Mar 20, 2016 |
The Op is right in her summation for the present, but assumed that buildings and cars are permanent. The bible says in Proverbs 3:5-6 Trust in the LORD with all thine heart; and lean not unto thine own understanding. In all thy ways acknowledge him, and he shall direct thy path. Cars and houses are to bring hapiness and for convenience, but only God can tell how tomorrow will be. It is better to hook up with the one that holds tomorrow and turn that care over to him. |
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by samuel051: 5:25pm On Mar 20, 2016 |
Y do nland ladies always post nonsense on Sundays, is everybody destined to be rich,if everyone own houses and cars will there be space on the planet for other activities.make una stop to dey reason with d left part of una brain àbeg. |
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by frakdon(m): 5:26pm On Mar 20, 2016 |
repogirl:like he has a personal beef with you? |
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by bughead: 5:26pm On Mar 20, 2016 |
KashyBaby:and you people are the one who is deteriorating very fast and when ya reach the menopause age without a husband, ya will be the one desperately looking for a man. ya all (especially female should think before ya talk) 1 Like |
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by vkon2(m): 5:27pm On Mar 20, 2016 |
Well, I don't need to read people opinion before I coment here. First and foremost, I disagree to concur With your post A guy must have a house and a car, before he can settle down, hmm I laugh in hindi In some part of lagos expecially Ajah axis, a plot of land is nothing less than #800,000 no matter how bad it is. And building a 3 bedroom flat is nothing less than #6m, at least.. Now maybe I got a fairly use clean car for #800,000. Now everything sum up to #7.6m....... Well not bad. Cos if me VKON am to have this amount of money first before marrying a lady, excluding the marriage expense. I bet u, if every body is thinking like me, there will be a lot of single broke ladies roaming the street. Well I don't really need to write much, For the strong hard working pretty lady, work with your man, and God will bless your hustle. 3 Likes |
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by tosyne2much(m): 5:28pm On Mar 20, 2016 |
You mean you expect this much from a man yet you're disturbing the senate to give you a chance to rub shoulders with a man with the notion that both genders are equal ? This write-up is biased and lacks in dept thinking that would captivate only a deluded person. Your write-up never made reference to the wife's contribution to the family which means you're encouraging women to be lazy while men should work their lives out Tell this hugwash you call advice to those who have no focus not someone like me 7 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by kengodson: 5:28pm On Mar 20, 2016 |
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by knackz(m): 5:29pm On Mar 20, 2016 |
whether the threat is positive or not all i know is "my family"..i repeat, my own family will not suffer in this life whether the devil like it or yes ..shikenan |
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by kay29000(m): 5:29pm On Mar 20, 2016 |
adeaks: Exactly! When the guy now treats them like thrash for being liabilities, they will come and say all men are dogs. |
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by Medsimon01(m): 5:29pm On Mar 20, 2016 |
GOOD ADVICE
1. Success is not sexually transmitted; so stop
sleeping with successful men and work hard.
2. Please do not wear the same weave for nine
months, its not pregnancy.
3. Half naked girls are hot, well dressed girls are
beautiful, hell is hot, heaven is beautiful.
4. Stop saying you cannot date a man who lives
with his mother when you are dating a man who
lives with his wife.
5. Do not look at what a guy drives but what drives
him.
6. Before you call a guy ugly, remember 95% of
your beauty can be removed by a towel.
7. When you were on campus you dated married
men, when you get married you say you can't
share a man, relax ma sister its pay time.
8. Lastly learn to call and consult God and not your
neighbour.... 4 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by wristbangle: 5:29pm On Mar 20, 2016 |
In as much as I agree with u OP, also rich guys should not date nor marry marry broke ladies. 1 Like |
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by Nobody: 5:30pm On Mar 20, 2016 |
Lustig: I am sorry o but what have you been doing for the past 10 years? 1 Like |
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by Nobody: 5:30pm On Mar 20, 2016 |
Lustig: I am sorry o but were you doing for the past 10 years? |
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by kengodson: 5:30pm On Mar 20, 2016 |
Vinshu:so op,first of all happy Sunday, secondly if u want to marry a 419ner, a politicians son, or even sugar daddy , pls let us know na, who ever u marry is your business, After all 'together forever in sickness and in health, for rich or poor'.......btw watching both rivers rerun and Man U vs mancity |
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by JoeCutie(m): 5:30pm On Mar 20, 2016 |
kaziblake:Hey! The lady is Nigerian! The picture isn't she. And before you continue, you should go to the very first page and read what some 'Nigerian women' are already saying about her post, agreeing with everything she said, which isn't surprising at all. And let's be honest here, it doesn't surprise even you. 2 Likes |
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by donkachy: 5:31pm On Mar 20, 2016 |
And we are angry with the Nigerian senate for not passing the gender equality bill. Well if women think it is the responsibility of the men only to take care of the family @ this 21st century then it is a pity. I now see why so many are single and frustrated. Looking for a man that is already made!. Well remember at 35 you will start looking for even the poorest of all men to answer his name. Irony of life indeed. Go to churches and see how plenty who missed their husband are now the so called church workers, looking for a young man to deceive into marriage. 1 Like |
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by Nobody: 5:31pm On Mar 20, 2016 |
Vinshu:Someone said what of if the house and car disappear after marriage? Will you divorce your man? Smh! Kid's mentality everywhere! |
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by FreemanDave(m): 5:32pm On Mar 20, 2016 |
Tallesty1: Her business... No wonder rich dudes play them like soccer ball... Issashame. |
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by bughead: 5:33pm On Mar 20, 2016 |
Vinshu:are you the new appointed ministry of poverty eradication scheme who are you to just come up with conclusion? did your father have mansion or car before he married your mother you FOOLISH WOMEN will be coming here and be talking RUBBISH. so you want to encourage babymama and discourage marrying. you are a wasted SPERM from ya father. RUBBISH. 1 Like |
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by Emaprince: 5:33pm On Mar 20, 2016 |
Tallesty1:I tire o! They want gender equality but when it comes to financial responsibities, they'll tell you that a man is the head of the familly and should carry all the burden. Naija women are something else. I don't know.. Hypocrites may not be enough to describe them. As for this thread, I'm surprised that people are actually taking it serious. To me, the OP is a troll. No sensible woman will post this on a public forum. A lot women wants an already made man but they'll rather wish for it within them than brazening it out. This OP is only making women look like gold diggers and species that adds nothing positive to a man's life apart from leeching his hardworks off him. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by Nobody: 5:34pm On Mar 20, 2016 |
bughead: Oohh yeah! Ur head is full of bug! U don't analyze the problem,u juz want to jump in... Whose "people" ur talking abt? Its better to stay single for the rest of my life than settling down with a man who can't stand up with his feet..I don't wanna see my children suffering.. Now,if u can't accept that..then go get marry while ur unstable & see for urself.. |
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by paschu: 5:34pm On Mar 20, 2016 |
Vinshu: The irony is that when he gets rich and therefore (in your weired way of reasoning) qualifies to date or get married, he will NEVER ever choose a woman who feels like you. (I chose "feel" because you are definitely NOT thinking). Piss. |
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by james2man: 5:35pm On Mar 20, 2016 |
You really don't have to marry, since you are of the opinion not to support your man if you get married. It isn't obligatory that you get married if all you can offer is only the hole between you legs for hard work the poor guy is doing... Girls like you are parasite in any man's life, a good wife is a homemaker, supportive and also a good planner supporting her husband. I hope your mentality wasnt from your mum, if it was from her. I cant imagine the presure your dad will go through raising you and ur siblings. I pity him. |
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by pulsa(m): 5:35pm On Mar 20, 2016 |
DeeTus:didn't say she is, but she sure as hell sounds cocky with her vile tone to my countryman, and I couldn't let that fly. 3 Likes |
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by zeelo2014: 5:35pm On Mar 20, 2016 |
@ Vinshu. I understand your view point, but what u wrote up there is totally not correct. These days marriage is like a partnership. In the western world and even Nigeria, a lot of women are excelling in their career, many are doing better than the men. Hope u know u stand a better chance getting a mortgage approval as working couple than as a single individual. Car is not a big deal, a decent job will get u a car easily. I'll only say, a jobless man has no business marrying a jobless woman if they intend having kids. But if their combined income can provide a level of comfort for the family and in their 30s, in love with each, nothing stops them from getting married. 2 Likes |
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by annita88(f): 5:35pm On Mar 20, 2016 |
U have a point dear but in another round some men marrybeen poor i deir lives became a change so let us not just conclude just lik dat b/cos ori taye yato si ti keinde |
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by CosmicJames(m): 5:36pm On Mar 20, 2016 |
Vinshu:Picture of ur dad driving the car and the house or.... |
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by zynzyn(m): 5:36pm On Mar 20, 2016 |
I agree and yet I DON'T AGREE! It easier to manage a family when u are made!! If u are broke, u may not have patience for most women!! That been said. Once a guy like me makes it, I cannot trust 99.9% of women because I will ask myself how they would have treated me when Ihad nothing!! If ppl follow your formula op MOST girls no go marry o! They will now be aspiring Baby Mamas for Married Big Boys! It is already happening!! 2 Likes |
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by Nobody: 5:36pm On Mar 20, 2016 |
JoeCutie:i liked this post! |
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by Aroh48(m): 5:36pm On Mar 20, 2016 |
Good one op,mine his, any lady with sagging boobs should not get married.Just want to make common sense. 1 Like |
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