Adeniyimi:
People are getting this wrong.. even in d USA if u are poor u will hardly find a gf. Though u may not have a car and young guy having a house in d US is out of it, guyz cant afford it only rich can afford to pay mortgage. But atleast u most have a nice apartment b4 u can marry a beautiful white girl or if reverse is d case lots fats white fat and ugly girls are there anyway

KashyBaby:



Oohh yeah! Ur head is full of bug! U don't analyze the problem,u juz want to jump in...

Whose "people" ur talking abt? Its better to stay single for the rest of my life than settling down with a man who can't stand up with his feet..I don't wanna see my children suffering..

Now,if u can't accept that..then go get marry while ur unstable & see for urself..

JoeCutie:
Hey! The lady is Nigerian! The picture isn't she. And before you continue, you should go to the very first page and read what some 'Nigerian women' are already saying about her post, agreeing with everything she said, which isn't surprising at all. And let's be honest here, it doesn't surprise even you.

Ioannes:
hilarious. so let me get this straight. rich dudes should marry BROKE girls?

yeah that sounds right...or NOT.

Specialbaby:
Majority of those who will dispute this well articulated thread are broke guys who don't want to get their hands dirty!



Why date or marry when you are not financially stable only to belive in better days ahead??it just crazy!!

adeaks:
Only guys with houses and cars should even date.


Simple question: when your dad was dating your mom, did he have a house and a car?

Let's start from there.

Zceesneh:
buh na mate i knack finish on friday?

charliboy654:

My belle o, my chest, chisos, I can't stop laffing

Tallesty1:
And Childishness too, the op is a typical example of how ladies act when they come across money for the first time.

She's got something in common with Linda Ikeji.

Estharfabian:

Vinshu:


Oh yes, i can fend for myself because i am an entrepreneur. (If you know what that means)

Better go out there and pass along your CV(If you have any) to get a better paying job and have a life. Not wasting away

Specialbaby:
it better to remain single than marry a liability as a husband!

Vinshu:


No not really. I'm actually an Economist.

adeaks:



And the majority of girls who will support this are lazy, gold diggers who are only looking for already-made men that they can just pop out babies for without any thought of adding something tangible to the guy's life.

adeaks:



And the majority of girls who will support this are lazy, gold diggers who are only looking for already-made men that they can just pop out babies for without any thought of adding something tangible to the guy's life.

adeaks:



And the majority of girls who will support this are lazy, gold diggers who are only looking for already-made men that they can just pop out babies for without any thought of adding something tangible to the guy's life.

chimkaire:
How's this a topic
Op, igata alu onye yahoo ma o bu onye money ritual

Vinshu:


My father wasn't "Rich"! He was able to cater for himself, his wife, Myself, and my 3 Brothers and 2 sisters. Six Kids! Thats what matters. Don't modify my post. I never said a man must be "Rich". Riches are dynamic depending on the individual

Vinshu:
In order to reduce the level of poverty amongst homes, in my opinion I think a man who has not enough money to buy a house of his own not rent at least a 3 bed room flat and a car to move him and his family around should not get married.

When he gets married in his low credit, the family tends to suffer. The probability that he will get rich is actually 0.5 not up to 1 because Sundry expenses will now become expenses when married. Things he could ignore when single will now be important.

When children arrive, the probability of getting rich falls to an all time low of 0.2. Have you observed that most men have a higher credit score when single? If you have $500 at the end of every week when single if your job/income doesn't change or upgrade when you get married your $500 falls to $200 because you no longer feed yourself but feed a woman and probably a child.

When the child grows older school fees will set in. And other bad debts will be incured .

Don't get me wrong, I ain't saying he will never make it but in the mean time, why bring a child to the world to suffer? Even if it's for 6 years before you make it? Why take a woman from her father's comfy house to hardship in the name of marriage?

I advice ladies never to get married no matter how cool a guy is unless he is proven to be able to cater for your needs and that of your children financially in all ramifications both expenses and sundry expenses.

It doesn't make any sense, what you enjoy when single as a lady why stop enjoying it because your husband has no money or your money now goes to supporting him?

They say women ain't equal to men. Ok let the men be rich and rich enough to take care of their wives 101% before getting married. In fact, studies show most men marry for sex.

Bavis:
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It Is Good To Be Single Hoping To Be Married, Than Been Married And Hoping To Be Single Again.
POVERTY NO GOOD O

Specialbaby:
life has evolve the stage of sitting down and waiting for a guy and shitting babes out like watery stool,majority of ladies these days are making plans on how to better their lot and making headways but that not withstanding,no sensible and focus lady will settle for a guy with the future sha be bright mentality!


If i am working and toiling to better my self,what prevented the guy from doing so?see ehn,poverty is a curse,try being broke and you will hate your existence!

Vinshu:


And where is it written that Vinshu doesnt have a car or house and her father wasnt rich when he married her mother?

adeaks:
The fallacy in this thread is the assumption that the man's income and his life generally would remain at the same level before he got married, after he got married, and even when the kids start arriving. For someone to keep earning exactly the same income over a couple of years shows there is something wrong somewhere.

The second fallacy is that the wife wont add anything to the man or the upkeep of the house. While I am not saying the wife should be the bread winner, but why should all the expenses be on the man's $500 income alone? It means the wife is a liability and even if you are earning $10,000 such a wife will fritter it away.

How about the wife supporting and collaborating with the husband to grow his $500 income to $2000. No one wants to marry a wife who is only prepared to spend without thinking of how to earn more.

frakdon:
like he has a personal beef with you?

JoeCutie:
So why did you modify your initial post? Why the sudden upsurge

Are You sure You Know what "UPSURGE" is?