Specialbaby:
a guy who have a house and a car can pass for financially stable!


What do you think?

PrettyClare7:
I dont know what op is saying. but as long as I can eat and feed my family 3 times a day, pay my rent and meet the NEEDS of my children, I am good to go. as long as in all these I have the man I love and who loves me. life goes beyond money and cars. it is beyond material things. people who don't have cars have not died.

redwriter:

I am sorry o but what have you been doing for the past 10 years?

adeaks:



And the majority of girls who will support this are lazy, gold diggers who are only looking for already-made men that they can just pop out babies for without any thought of adding something tangible to the guy's life.

redwriter:

I am sorry o but what have you been doing for the past 10 years?

umehmj:
You are right my child but the truth remains we can't end poverty, even Christ affirmed it. We can only continue to try.

an elderly word before i leave; nothing confuses a girl more than being in a relationship with a broke guy that is extremely good in bed. *drops phone and picks up my snuff box*

tefund:
then Rich Girls Should Marry Broke Guys To Ballance The Equation

Specialbaby:
Majority of those who will dispute this well articulated thread are broke guys who don't want to get their hands dirty!



Why date or marry when you are not financially stable only to belive in better days ahead??it just crazy!!

kaziblake:
Who doesn't like the good things of life?
Some guys aren't worth the stress.

I know a lady that suffered and stayed with a broke guy till he made Money,when money came, he realised the girl wasn't his type.

kaziblake:
Who doesn't like the good things of life?
Some guys aren't worth the stress.

I know a lady that suffered and stayed with a broke guy till he made Money,when money came, he realised the girl wasn't his type.

Vinshu:


My father wasn't "Rich"! He was able to cater for himself, his wife, Myself, and my 3 Brothers and 2 sisters. Six Kids! Thats what matters. Don't modify my post. I never said a man must be "Rich". Riches are dynamic depending on the individual

CosmicJames:
Picture of ur dad driving the car and the house or....

redwriter:


Or Nothing. Take a hike brother. The lady doesn't have to prove anything to you.

Vinshu:
In order to reduce the level of poverty amongst homes, in my opinion I think a man who has not enough money to buy a house of his own not rent at least a 3 bed room flat and a car to move him and his family around should not get married.

When he gets married in his low credit, the family tends to suffer. The probability that he will get rich is actually 0.5 not up to 1 because Sundry expenses will now become expenses when married. Things he could ignore when single will now be important.

When children arrive, the probability of getting rich falls to an all time low of 0.2. Have you observed that most men have a higher credit score when single? If you have $500 at the end of every week when single if your job/income doesn't change or upgrade when you get married your $500 falls to $200 because you no longer feed yourself but feed a woman and probably a child.

When the child grows older school fees will set in. And other bad debts will be incured .

Don't get me wrong, I ain't saying he will never make it but in the mean time, why bring a child to the world to suffer? Even if it's for 6 years before you make it? Why take a woman from her father's comfy house to hardship in the name of marriage?

I advice ladies never to get married no matter how cool a guy is unless he is proven to be able to cater for your needs and that of your children financially in all ramifications both expenses and sundry expenses.

It doesn't make any sense, what you enjoy when single as a lady why stop enjoying it because your husband has no money or your money now goes to supporting him?

They say women ain't equal to men. Ok let the men be rich and rich enough to take care of their wives 101% before getting married. In fact, studies show most men marry for sex.

porozhniy:
Bros na u get am wrong, according to her a man should have a house & car b4 marriage...good, but what does the woman bring to the table? Nothing!

Greenback:


confused damsel in distress..so a guy whossgat a house n car aint rich,huh?

Go n marry mc oluomo,lagos agbero chairman...hessgot cars n house...ur likes doesnt deserve hard working,prospective well2do nigggas...
Didnt i see estharfab.ian somewhere? Cos this where u gonna find her biitch_arsse..but alas,she was silent,kinda not on da same page widda fellow femine gold diggn op....

LoL!


Love You too babe!

damn! You're in spirit. A bottle of Moet for ya.

adeaks:
Only guys with houses and cars should even date.


Simple question: when your dad was dating your mom, did he have a house and a car?

Let's start from there.

Aroh48:
Good one op,mine his, any lady with sagging boobs should not get married.Just want to make common sense.

Danfuster:


Don't mind that yeye thing...i know her type. My pitty for naija girls who buys thus cos we gon see them later at MFM holy ghost crusade

lekjons:
hmm. ok. pls what time is man. u. vs man. city match?

KashyBaby:



Oohh yeah! Ur head is full of bug! U don't analyze the problem,u juz want to jump in...

Whose "people" ur talking abt? Its better to stay single for the rest of my life than settling down with a man who can't stand up with his feet..I don't wanna see my children suffering..

Now,if u can't accept that..then go get marry while ur unstable & see for urself..

JoeCutie:
Good question. Perfecto!

"Good things of life", huh? When someone else makes it? Why can't you, as a lady, go and make it if you're so in love with the so called 'good things of life'? Must it be from a guy who has suffered to make his? Whatever happened to "what a man can do, a woman can do even better"?

And a word of advice to your lady friend who "suffered and stayed with a broke guy till he made money". You don't just SIT and wait for someone else to make it. You hustle along and try making it too. You too can do it. She should have hustled her way through too, and had she made it, the guy would see no reason in ditching her. Maybe she became too much of a liability.

Specialbaby:
Majority of those who will dispute this well articulated thread are broke guys who don't want to get their hands dirty!



Why date or marry when you are not financially stable only to belive in better days ahead??it just crazy!!

adeaks:



And the majority of girls who will support this are lazy, gold diggers who are only looking for already-made men that they can just pop out babies for without any thought of adding something tangible to the guy's life.

Vinshu:


Oh yes, i can fend for myself because i am an entrepreneur. (If you know what that means)

Better go out there and pass along your CV(If you have any) to get a better paying job and have a life. Not wasting away

PrettyClare7:
I dont know what op is saying. but as long as I can eat and feed my family 3 times a day, pay my rent and meet the NEEDS of my children, I am good to go. as long as in all these I have the man I love and who loves me. life goes beyond money and cars. it is beyond material things. people who don't have cars have not died. experience has shown me that a man doesn't remain poor forever. things change. even the rich man with cars and houses can become homeless tomorrow

adeaks:
Only guys with houses and cars should even date.


Simple question: when your dad was dating your mom, did he have a house and a car?

Let's start from there.

adeaks:



And the majority of girls who will support this are lazy, gold diggers who are only looking for already-made men that they can just pop out babies for without any thought of adding something tangible to the guy's life.

Adeniyimi:


Women are known as gold diggers, they have nothing to offer.

Specialbaby:
life has evolve the stage of sitting down and waiting for a guy and shitting babes out like watery stool,majority of ladies these days are making plans on how to better their lot and making headways but that not withstanding,no sensible and focus lady will settle for a guy with the future sha be bright mentality!


If i am working and toiling to better my self,what prevented the guy from doing so?see ehn,poverty is a curse,try being broke and you will hate your existence!