Nawa o..some guys sabi vex sha...ontop truth well truth is bitter lyk dey say jst passing tho

redwriter:

Answer na.

See me see jamb question o... Come see d answer for Jos

Specialbaby:
Majority of those who will dispute this well articulated thread are broke guys who don't want to get their hands dirty!



Why date or marry when you are not financially stable only to belive in better days ahead??it just crazy!!

you seriously think owning a house and car makes a guy financially stable? I laugh at your very poor understanding of what being able to take care of ones family is

olajizz01:
@OP,i think your father had all what u mention b4 he married your mother,gold diggers everywhere,they are not ready to work,but they can spend all what u accululate for years within few days.

swear down, dose kind jobless girls with lack of home trainning and are also too lazy to fend for themselves but rather derive pleasure from looking fly n cute at the expense of an innocent guy who tinks d girl truely loves him.

@ op what of those dude that has all those things u mentioned b4 marriage and after getting married something came along the way and snuff it out.you see marriage is beyond what the eyes sees though a guy should be financially and mentally ready b4 settling down.

efonat:
[size=30pt]what rubbish 're u talking about? Re u God that give riches? Did ur dad have a house or a car wen she married ur father? [/size]

Lolzzzz

his dad is a she-male

JoeCutie:
Kazi, you've never lied to me before, don't start now. Are you sure?

True no me.
But it has happened to me.

Since u asked, all dese does not matter to me. I have dated guys in dia parents houses and no bike talkmor of car. That dey dnt av now doesnt mean they wont av later. I consider much more serios things wen am tryin to date. PS:Now they av cars and have houses so who is to say wah d future luks like?

Eyepencil:
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Pinkpebbles... What's ur opinion about this thread?

frakdon:
hmmm, nodded..

you be agama lizard?

Well, I have nothing when I married my wife.......I mean absolutely nothing........except one empty room at Shasha in Akowonjo Area of Lagos State.

But today.......all glory to God Almighty, I have my own HOUSE built with burnt brick, no car yet but a motorcycle.

If I should follow what that OP wrote, maybe my first child will just be around two years old!........and very soon my first child will be writing her junior WAEC.

Most of the chicks supporting ops are way above 30yrs and they are still waiting for a house and car.

yemsai:
Nawa o..some guys sabi vex sha...ontop truth well truth is bitter lyk dey say jst passing tho

hey wat truth? wonder y u girls are after ready made guys who own a house n a car. while on the other end u girls come into the guys house with nothing, no job, no money, n expect manner to fall from heaven. who then is the one suffering from poverty? the average guy trying to make ends meet or the hungry girl who doesnt want to work bt wanna marry a rich guy.

vivalavida:

This is a wife material

ankara abi?

Vinshu:


My father, wasn't rich! I repeat! If you did not read, read it again:


Someone who could cater for 7 people conveniently, who never lacked anything, obviously, had a house and a car. I'm way smarter than you are. You cant prey on my intelligence. I am aware of what i've written and it doesnt change. You should read it again for better understanding.

Thanks

You know nothing about life Sweetheart! My advice is that you keep quiet and learn a bit more. You come across as someone who hasn't experienced the ups and downs of life on your own and if you do, one thing is sure, you'll be a lot humbler than your current mindset. Respect those who hustle in Nigeria cos if you are put in their shoes, you may not match them in achievements and if they are put in your shoes, you'll have cause to respect them a lot more. As for your write up, it's not entirely true.

How many cars does ur dad have b4 marrying ur mum even now?

kaziblake:
True no me.
But it has happened to me.

Awww, poor soul. *wipes her tears*

So...what? You're over it now?
And do you wanna talk about it?

1 Timothy 5:8;

"But if anyone does not provide for his own, and especially for those of his household, he has denied the faith and is worse than an unbeliever."-NKJV

kevinscore:
Most of the chicks supporting ops are way above 30yrs and they are still waiting for a house and car.

lol deep

I don talk my own o

Vinshu:
In order to reduce the level of poverty amongst homes, in my opinion I think a man who has not enough money to buy a house of his own not rent at least a 3 bed room flat and a car to move him and his family around should not get married.

Do you think divorce should follow if things change and the well-to-do man loses his wealth?

Vinshu:
In order to reduce the level of poverty amongst homes, in my opinion I think a man who has not enough money to buy a house of his own not rent at least a 3 bed room flat and a car to move him and his family around should not get married.

When he gets married in his low credit, the family tends to suffer. The probability that he will get rich is actually 0.5 not up to 1 because Sundry expenses will now become expenses when married. Things he could ignore when single will now be important.

When children arrive, the probability of getting rich falls to an all time low of 0.2. Have you observed that most men have a higher credit score when single? If you have $500 at the end of every week when single if your job/income doesn't change or upgrade when you get married your $500 falls to $200 because you no longer feed yourself but feed a woman and probably a child.

When the child grows older school fees will set in. And other bad debts will be incured .

Don't get me wrong, I ain't saying he will never make it but in the mean time, why bring a child to the world to suffer? Even if it's for 6 years before you make it? Why take a woman from her father's comfy house to hardship in the name of marriage?

I advice ladies never to get married no matter how cool a guy is unless he is proven to be able to cater for your needs and that of your children financially in all ramifications both expenses and sundry expenses.

It doesn't make any sense, what you enjoy when single as a lady why stop enjoying it because your husband has no money or your money now goes to supporting him?

They say women ain't equal to men. Ok let the men be rich and rich enough to take care of their wives 101% before getting married. In fact, studies show most men marry for sex.

Thread you created today, has managed 13 pages already? It's either you are telling the truth or you are annoying some people!!!
Back to the matter, me nko still living with my parents, but wants to get married? Not forgetting, I still don't own a car, but/and age is moving far ahead?

pinkpebbles:
Since u asked, all dese does not matter to me. I have dated guys in dia parents houses and no bike talkmor of car. That dey dnt av now doesnt mean they wont av later. I consider much more serios things wen am tryin to date. PS:Now they av cars and have houses so who is to say wah d future luks like?

Guys_how many of them pink

True word! I know a lot of guys who got sweet jobs after their wedding and some got better offers when their first child came. I am a testimony too.. Got married when I wasn't earning much. God answered my call on the day my daughter was born that I called her Grace! That was when the company I currently work for called me. Remember that He that finds a wife finds a good thing and obtains favor from GOD.

Lytech:
Nice quote thou..
But for how long will a man remain single because of money..
A man at the age 30 with master degree without a car or a house(talkless of a well paid job) should remain single till he gt one?
Our government and economy makes this quote invalid..
You never can tell,your wife might be the source of God picking up ur call....(getting married to otedola daughter lol)

adeaks:



And the majority of girls who will support this are lazy, gold diggers who are only looking for already-made men that they can just pop out babies for without any thought of adding something tangible to the guy's life.

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Vinshu:
In order to reduce the level of poverty amongst homes, in my opinion I think a man who has not enough money to buy a house of his own not rent at least a 3 bed room flat and a car to move him and his family around should not get married.

When he gets married in his low credit, the family tends to suffer. The probability that he will get rich is actually 0.5 not up to 1 because Sundry expenses will now become expenses when married. Things he could ignore when single will now be important.

When children arrive, the probability of getting rich falls to an all time low of 0.2. Have you observed that most men have a higher credit score when single? If you have $500 at the end of every week when single if your job/income doesn't change or upgrade when you get married your $500 falls to $200 because you no longer feed yourself but feed a woman and probably a child.

When the child grows older school fees will set in. And other bad debts will be incured .

Don't get me wrong, I ain't saying he will never make it but in the mean time, why bring a child to the world to suffer? Even if it's for 6 years before you make it? Why take a woman from her father's comfy house to hardship in the name of marriage?

I advice ladies never to get married no matter how cool a guy is unless he is proven to be able to cater for your needs and that of your children financially in all ramifications both expenses and sundry expenses.

It doesn't make any sense, what you enjoy when single as a lady why stop enjoying it because your husband has no money or your money now goes to supporting him?

They say women ain't equal to men. Ok let the men be rich and rich enough to take care of their wives 101% before getting married. In fact, studies show most men marry for sex.

I laugh in greek dats why baby mamas keep increasing on daily basis and also marriage which God created as a simple tin is now turning into miracle everyday anyway continue waiting for bill gate while wise girls like patience keep preparing future presidos no say I talkooo

yemsai:
I don talk my own o

u cud say dat on one hand tho but on the flip side, which man who has laboured to become rich will want to marry a liability as a wife?

muymacho:


Noted. so if the guy is bringing the house, car and feeding all mouths, what will the woman bring to the table?

her yansh.

frakdon:
indeed...

One of these days, I go love to share some personal stuffs with you for an advice, hope you no go mind?

Not at all, although I dont know if i make a good adviser . Send a PM when you're ready.

Vinshu:

In fact, studies show most men marry for sex.

I guess all those guys u have sex with are married to u

Monalisa185:


ankara abi?

Lol
Is that the most valuable material out there?

JoeCutie:
You're known to be a strong feminist, and always supporting the opinions of females, which you rightfully did with your initial post on this thread. But after some time, you replaced it with something that suggests your disapproval of that same topic you approved of moment before. So that would mean you going against the females, and it shows something that suggests that you, with this clarification in mind, should go right back and check for the meaning of "upsurge".

And...save the apologies, please, you need it more.

[i] A little bit Overly sensitive, aren't we Joe?


Firstly, I had my disapproval With The thread.
I Still Have The "Copied" Version Incase You Wanna whine about It.

not that it's any of Your business Joe, Buh I Had a change in prospection.
Why? Because I saw the comments The Op made. And I Clearly Wasn't in support of it. hence, My comment modifications.

I Get that before Marriage, A GUY should atleast be financially stable. and that'd include Buying a car. I don't want my kids jumping from Taxi To keke. sorry.

I Kinda Wasn't Into the dating Part. A broke Nigga could date. so far they ain't making babies.

@bolded, OGa....Re-Read the Post I made. I wasn't 100% in support of what the OP Said.

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And for the records, being A feminist doesn't Necessarily mean i have to be in support of Everything Members of my gender Do! Sorry! I'm not that bias.

PS---That's the definition of upsurge sir Joe.

to tell you the truth when I saw the heading, automatically I know its coming from a lady