Cutehector:
see make I marry u

OLUJOSHINS:



my dear, pls don't follow tag along with this Op's view oooooo

Mbanu!






Maka why?

Jadekitana:
I came late to this thread and it's too cumbersome reading from page1

JoeCutie:
Awww, poor soul. *wipes her tears*

So...what? You're over it now?
And do you wanna talk about it?

olihilistic:
you've been following me right?? I'm not just a fan but a lover and a die hard fan

Daniel058:
OKWA joke biko ooooooooooooooo..

porozhniy:
I don't think young men should be worked up by the op's post. Ideally, we're expected to attain some level of financial stability b4 puttin down roots. So i'd say hustle like ur life depends on it while single (me sef wan retire by 45). You're are going to meet these categories of women as u make ur way thru life (a) the hardworking traditional woman who wants u to lead while she supports wit everything she's got (ai) a variant of the traditional woman who will invest in acquiring assets for a secure for for ur family. (b) women who feel like the op. Whatever u do, pls get a prenup to protect ur assets...girls ain't smilling. Pls feel free to have fun with category (b) but abeg no marry so u no go die young.

Specialbaby:
Majority of those who will dispute this well articulated thread are broke guys who don't want to get their hands dirty!



Why date or marry when you are not financially stable only to belive in better days ahead??it just crazy!!

umehmj:
You are right my child but the truth remains we can't end poverty, even Christ affirmed it. We can only continue to try.

an elderly word before i leave; nothing confuses a girl more than being in a relationship with a broke guy that is extremely good in bed. *drops phone and picks up my snuff box*

Vinshu:
In order to reduce the level of poverty amongst homes, in my opinion I think a man who has not enough money to buy a house of his own not rent at least a 3 bed room flat and a car to move him and his family around should not get married.

When he gets married in his low credit, the family tends to suffer. The probability that he will get rich is actually 0.5 not up to 1 because Sundry expenses will now become expenses when married. Things he could ignore when single will now be important.

When children arrive, the probability of getting rich falls to an all time low of 0.2. Have you observed that most men have a higher credit score when single? If you have $500 at the end of every week when single if your job/income doesn't change or upgrade when you get married your $500 falls to $200 because you no longer feed yourself but feed a woman and probably a child.

When the child grows older school fees will set in. And other bad debts will be incured .

Don't get me wrong, I ain't saying he will never make it but in the mean time, why bring a child to the world to suffer? Even if it's for 6 years before you make it? Why take a woman from her father's comfy house to hardship in the name of marriage?

I advice ladies never to get married no matter how cool a guy is unless he is proven to be able to cater for your needs and that of your children financially in all ramifications both expenses and sundry expenses.

It doesn't make any sense, what you enjoy when single as a lady why stop enjoying it because your husband has no money or your money now goes to supporting him?

They say women ain't equal to men. Ok let the men be rich and rich enough to take care of their wives 101% before getting married. In fact, studies show most men marry for sex.

pinkpebbles:
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erico2k2:

Poor girls cannot go to where rich dudes go to

Vinshu:
In order to reduce the level of poverty amongst homes, in my opinion I think a man who has not enough money to buy a house of his own not rent at least a 3 bed room flat and a car to move him and his family around should not get married.

When he gets married in his low credit, the family tends to suffer. The probability that he will get rich is actually 0.5 not up to 1 because Sundry expenses will now become expenses when married. Things he could ignore when single will now be important.

When children arrive, the probability of getting rich falls to an all time low of 0.2. Have you observed that most men have a higher credit score when single? If you have $500 at the end of every week when single if your job/income doesn't change or upgrade when you get married your $500 falls to $200 because you no longer feed yourself but feed a woman and probably a child.

When the child grows older school fees will set in. And other bad debts will be incured .

Don't get me wrong, I ain't saying he will never make it but in the mean time, why bring a child to the world to suffer? Even if it's for 6 years before you make it? Why take a woman from her father's comfy house to hardship in the name of marriage?

I advice ladies never to get married no matter how cool a guy is unless he is proven to be able to cater for your needs and that of your children financially in all ramifications both expenses and sundry expenses.

It doesn't make any sense, what you enjoy when single as a lady why stop enjoying it because your husband has no money or your money now goes to supporting him?

They say women ain't equal to men. Ok let the men be rich and rich enough to take care of their wives 101% before getting married. In fact, studies show most men marry for sex.

Vinshu:
In order to reduce the level of poverty amongst homes, in my opinion I think a man who has not enough money to buy a house of his own not rent at least a 3 bed room flat and a car to move him and his family around should not get married.

pinkpebbles:
Oh, money is good.buh it shudnt be a prerequisite for someone to choose a partner. Afterall, no condition is permanent

KashyBaby:
I totally agree with u OP...the thing is so many men wanna marry but their are not financially stable...a lot of couple lives in paycheck to paycheck & kids are the one suffering from the things they never asked for...

Specialbaby:
life has evolve the stage of sitting down and waiting for a guy and shitting babes out like watery stool,majority of ladies these days are making plans on how to better their lot and making headways but that not withstanding,no sensible and focus lady will settle for a guy with the future sha be bright mentality!


If i am working and toiling to better my self,what prevented the guy from doing so?see ehn,poverty is a curse,try being broke and you will hate your existence!

adeaks:



And the majority of girls who will support this are lazy, gold diggers who are only looking for already-made men that they can just pop out babies for without any thought of adding something tangible to the guy's life.

repogirl:
Not at all, although I dont know if i make a good adviser . Send a PM when you're ready.

Snipes009:
Hmmmn...I remember your post; what to offer him asides your body. You are really a sensible lady Pink. Love ya

san316:


I will understand if you are not a religiously inclined person.

But consider this...

Wealth is relative and transient. You have a house and a car today doesn't guarantee that you will still have it in two years time.

You are poor and wretched today doesn't mean you will not be rich tomorrow.

Fact is, rich or poor, marriage gives u a level of direction and purpose in life. So when you say most guys marry for se.x, I say you are very wrong because most guys have access to free intimacy hence they don't need marriage for that.

My point is, nothing is guaranteed in life, nothing is given. All you need is to give yourself direction and pursue your dreams regardless of the challenges you face.

Estharfabian:
[i] A little bit Overly sensitive, aren't we Joe?


Firstly, I had my disapproval With The thread.
I Still Have The "Copied" Version Incase You Wanna whine about It.

not that it's any of Your business Joe, Buh I Had a change in prospection.
Why? Because I saw the comments The Op made. And I Clearly Wasn't in support of it. hence, My comment modifications.

I Get that before Marriage, A GUY should atleast be financially stable. and that'd include Buying a car. I don't want my kids jumping from Taxi To keke. sorry.

I Kinda Wasn't Into the dating Part. A broke Nigga could date. so far they ain't making babies.

@bolded, OGa....Re-Read the Post I made. I wasn't 100% in support of what the OP Said.

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And for the records, being A feminist doesn't Necessarily mean i have to be in support of Everything Members of my gender Do! Sorry! I'm not that bias.

PS---That's the definition of upsurge sir Joe.

yemsai:

Y won't I support her? a guy has to put some things in place bfr getting married.. marriage is nt for fucking nd eating alone.. oda things are involved with big responsibilities..so tink well