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Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by pinkpebbles(f): 6:44pm On Mar 20, 2016 |
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Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by Nobody: 6:44pm On Mar 20, 2016 |
As the saying goes, 'love is blind', 'love can conquer all' bla bla bla bla... For me, the mist important thing before marriage is that: the couple should ensure the are finacially stable and secured before bringing any kid(s) to the earth. What bother me most with the poor man's mentallity is the rate at which they gives birth l. one need to know that poverty wont smile when it strike. |
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by Afroconnect: 6:44pm On Mar 20, 2016 |
I support the Op on this...most guys are selfish,just want a piece of ass,and most broke girls from poor backgrounds just want a roof over her head. |
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by uthlaw: 6:45pm On Mar 20, 2016 |
good opinion but if I also start making it I think I also go for already made babe because money plus money make all necessary things available liability lady will not help mater. 3 Likes |
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by Nobody: 6:45pm On Mar 20, 2016 |
OLUJOSHINS:Mbanu! ![]() Maka why? ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by Code45: 6:45pm On Mar 20, 2016 |
Jadekitana: Even if you come early, do you have anything sensible to contribute? 1 Like |
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by kaziblake(f): 6:46pm On Mar 20, 2016 |
JoeCutie:I was 18yrs then, dating this guy thinking he like me,Had one admire then(stanley)stanley spoilt me with gift,still couldn't develop feelings for him. Anytime Stanley buys gift or give me money,i will make sure I give chuks(my bf)part of it and keep the rest to myself. Stanley Got me a phone,i gave it to chuks,Never knew the guy was going out with someone else,gave my gift and money I gave to him to her. I was phoneless then but I gave him the phone outa love. He betrayed me and I vowed to make him and other guys pay. I Loved him so much,was crazy about him but now,my heart is loveless ![]() I can't fall in love anymore and I enjoy making guys cry for me the way I cried for him ![]() One guy wanted to break the jinx recently but I no gree ![]() 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by Danfuster(m): 6:46pm On Mar 20, 2016 |
olihilistic: Just been checking out my notification. I'm a die hard as well but this yeye man is just moral killer. |
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by umehmj(m): 6:47pm On Mar 20, 2016 |
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by yemsai(f): 6:48pm On Mar 20, 2016 |
porozhniy:Tank u.. 2 Likes |
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by hayfloze(m): 6:50pm On Mar 20, 2016 |
Specialbaby: Broke bitches should pray they don't fall into the hand of a stingy rich dude... Afterall, u girls are the ones hoping for gender equality... I see nothing wrong with a wife giving full support for sustainability and maintainabilty of the home... If otherwise the case, I think dudes should only marry to made-ladies and not some hungry lil gold digging gender equality and rights b*tches. #just saying
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Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by Weah96: 6:51pm On Mar 20, 2016 |
Marriage is an egotistical mistake. Nobody can play watchman to the vagina for that long. 1 Like |
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by babadem2much(m): 6:52pm On Mar 20, 2016 |
umehmj: You just made my day I swear LWKM 1 Like |
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by erico2k2(m): 6:52pm On Mar 20, 2016 |
Vinshu:Poor girls cannot go to where rich dudes go to |
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by Cutehector(m): 6:52pm On Mar 20, 2016 |
pinkpebbles: ![]() |
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by Vinshu(f): 6:54pm On Mar 20, 2016 |
erico2k2: Yes. True. I agree |
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by Nobody: 6:55pm On Mar 20, 2016 |
Vinshu:What is your fico credit score |
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by charlsecy(m): 6:55pm On Mar 20, 2016 |
Vinshu: Do you think divorce should follow if things change and a well-to-do husband loses his financial juice? |
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by Nobody: 6:56pm On Mar 20, 2016 |
Hmmmn...I remember your post; what to offer him asides your body. You are really a sensible lady Pink. Love ya pinkpebbles: |
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by August17(m): 6:56pm On Mar 20, 2016 |
I just don't understand this op... My Dad didn't have anything when he married my mum, but gradually they both struggled, gave birth to 8 children, 7 graduate the last is in 300 level right now. Now my point is this, op if you get married to a man that owns a house and car but gets broke within a year, what will you do? |
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by whytepawn1(m): 6:56pm On Mar 20, 2016 |
KashyBaby:It's still you ladies that will bug and nag the guy for marriage... |
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by erico2k2(m): 6:56pm On Mar 20, 2016 |
Specialbaby:When successful ladies get to the age of 40+ and not married no child the become desperate. Any man would do at this point broke/rich or struggling. |
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by NaWetinDey(m): 6:56pm On Mar 20, 2016 |
Bags of sh*t from the 'feminist house of bigotry.' I thought it was a solution on how old-enough-to-marry men who are finding it difficult because of financial strains in the society can cope and still have a family of theirs, instead, I'm seeing balderdash from a misquided female who thinks men should either have 'all the money' or be square. Babe, I dont know the family background and the financial settings. But if you have struggling brothers who are of age but have neither bought a car nor built a house, your topic would be different...unless you are from the wrong tree. |
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by FreemanDave(m): 6:57pm On Mar 20, 2016 |
adeaks: YOU MAY NOT KNOW THIS.... BUT YOU ARE A LEGEND....
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Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by frakdon(m): 6:57pm On Mar 20, 2016 |
repogirl:smiles* alright ma'am, it will be anytime this week, thanks.. 1 Like |
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by pinkpebbles(f): 6:57pm On Mar 20, 2016 |
Awww. Thank you so much. Am glad u took ur time to read my post ![]() Snipes009: |
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by Nobody: 6:58pm On Mar 20, 2016 |
san316:Very sound reasoning! 2 Likes |
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by JoeCutie(m): 6:58pm On Mar 20, 2016 |
Estharfabian:All these for me? Omg! I'm even in a lot of trouble than I thought. Lmao! But I'm cutting off some troubles by not continuing with this 'argument'. Nevertheless, I'd like to know what you mean "we" being sensitive. Enlighten me again, Esther. |
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by August17(m): 6:58pm On Mar 20, 2016 |
To be sincere, economist don't think the way you do Op. |
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by Nobody: 6:58pm On Mar 20, 2016 |
yemsai:are u tellin me i wasnt tinkn well? u dnt wana disrespect som1 u dnt knw online, i shudnt av to teach u ow to talk, u shud know better. marriage isnt for hungry girls who are seeking financial freedom and redemption. yea a man needs to put couple tinz in place before marriage, but they arent for liabilities. d op is speaking from the standpoint of a liablity whoz seekin a man for the purpose of financial freedom. is that why u supporting the op? take a look at this, in a situation whre its only the man dats fending for the family while the wife has no job, den one day the man's source of income suddenly goes away, the family will thus remain in abject poverty. but if d wife had somfin doin, she will b able to take care of d family pending the time d man gets bak on his feet. dats what marriage is n not some charity organization u girls think it to be. 2 Likes |
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by bibiking7(m): 6:58pm On Mar 20, 2016 |
I beg to differ. considering the economic shituation of the country, if a guy should wait till he hits it big, then by the time he gets married and starts having kids, he might have hit 50 years before his kids get to secondary school. He might end up being too old to even cater for his kids properly. Plus naija life expectancy is kinda low, so da dude might not see his kids grow.. Even if its a room that the guy is able to rent, if the lady loves him and sees potential. I think they should carry go. |
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