Good morning house. I think i am convinced it is time to break up with my boyfriend after all the drama that happened last week. You can check my previous thread to avoid much stories here. Like two weeks after i gave him the 50K he said he needs 10k for some production stuff, after much pleading and explanation i promised to give him the money. My system got spoilt two days to when i was supposed to send him the money so i was confused about wether or not to send him cos i need my system for project stuff. I told him i was going to repair my system first, he got angry and deleted me from his bbm and what's app. He said i insulted him and all that, this is the second time he'd be doing such. He even said there are big girls that can help him with the money, all he has to do is sleep with them, that means am the reason why he has not been getting help from the supposed big girls. Anyway, after all that i feel like i really need a break from him, now he says hes missing me and when will i come and visit, i will just tell him i dont have transport fare since he probably would not gimme anyway.
Here are some of our chat pics. The pictures are not in order but am sure u would get the point

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Do u really need any other sermon 4rm a pastor to let his asssss go .

Is dis ur 1st relationship

Take a bold step and let him go sis. He's just after ur money!! Adonbilivit self!! He did not even care about d system u wanna use 4 ur career but concerned about d money he needs .

If u happens 2 be my frnd/sis ehn, I will just give u a reset slap! Simple.

Let him go Asap

He is missing your money not you.. just leave him and let him go and meet the "big girls"
You will get over him, tho it will take time. You deserve better

Seriously, do we still have girls like OP in this country?


OP, has your boyfriend ever spent on you? How much have you gotten from him in cash/gift since you met him?

I need this information to give my unbiased opinion.

I can bet you're dating a 27-28 year old shameless dreamer whose Role Model is the 19 year old Wizkid.

I pity you, this is is the reason I nearly supported the motion that girls should not date/marry poor guys with unachievable dreams.

Listen up....
That guy is simply playing mind games on you...making you believe he's the best thing that could happen to you and u can't afford to loose him to other girls.

That guy is actually shameless, conning a girl of her money and at the same time, acting as though he is doing you a favor. Cant he go and work? All these baby boys trying to be like Wizkid in the name of musicians, deceiving girls into giving them money.
Dump his sorry asss before its too late.

Acidosis:
Seriously, do we still have girls like OP in this country?


OP, has your boyfriend ever spent on you? How much have you gotten from him in cash/gift since you met him?

I need this information to give my unbiased opinion.

I can bet you're dating a 27-28 year old shameless dreamer whose Role Model is the 19 year old Wizkid.

I pity you, this is is the reason I nearly supported the motion that girls should not date/marry poor guys with unachievable dreams.

He will be 25 soon. Cash/gift?? I cant say but it cant be up to 10K eversince like 4 years now. I dont even feel like i love him anymore

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But...but...Nairaland has taught me all men are wonderful and perfect, that women are the golddiggers and leeches... so confused right now...

Tell him "it was lovely dating you and I pray you make it in your career. Wish me well, goodbye" and walk, no, RUN away from this pathetic dude. Even if he makes it big tomorrow and you're still dating him, you are going to be no better than all the girls D'banj has enjoyed, Wizkid has played (including the one he dated that kept fighting off chicks desperately) and Davido is going to snap sleeping selfie with in his bedroom, nekkid. Get on your knees and thank God, infact give a testimony in church this Easter about this matter. You have no idea what God has done for you. Truly ya mama is a prayerful mama

If however, that is what you want with your life, please send him that money and reconcile see you on the next gossip page, uploading well-lit selfies and quotes, desperately fighting for "your man".

Juliusdaughter:


He will be 25 soon. Cash/gift?? I cant say but it cant be up to 10K eversince like 4 years now. I dont even feel like i love him anymore

wow!

and how much have you spent on him/his career since the past 4 years?

dat dude will make u cry a river when he eventually blows as he said

Acidosis:

wow!

and how much have you spent on him/his career since the past 4 years?

Hmmm. Fromdays of 5k to 3k to 10k and all the small small changes, its much dear. U can check my previous thread

If you want to know his true intentions, ask him to introduce you to his family as his spouse. If you have a spiritual father, make him realize he needs to see your spiritual father/pastor immediately and watch his reaction.


These two requests scare the hell out of unserious guys.


I'm talking to you based on my experiences and my good wishes for you as a sister.

Juliusdaughter:


Hmmm. Fromdays of 5k to 3k to 10k and all the small small changes, its much dear. U can check my previous thread

I did, I realized you've spent so much already. Please, refer to my previous message, and make your judgment...

I wish you all the best.

Reading dis post just got me angry. Just let go of d gold_digger. Shikena

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Juliusdaughter:
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(Reads again)

Fowolero

The last pic got me rolling

The guy is playing mind games,

There is no rich girl anywhere

Onegai:





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Why are you laughing

Dear,d hand writing is clear on d wall,ok.U ain't in a r/ship;u re just his 'moni bag'......N here,guyz keep lashn out @ ladies on hw materialistic n parasitic dy'v become,when dy also ve same disposition too!

Nne,u deserve bera.Don't let him make u feel dat he's d best tin dat has ever happened to u..Break -up n let him scram! N let diz b a wake-up call.......Dia re good guys out dia.

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i bet you no matter what you say op will not leave her man i ..........so make another suggestion oooo

Babe
Enough of the screenshots

It happens
If you don't have it, tell him you can't
If it leads to your break up
So be it

Shit happens
Even some of those that would condemn you here have done worse and prolly still being stupid

That's life
Let it go

hi my wife

amokeme:
He is missing your money not you.. just leave him and let him go and meet the "big girls"
You will get over him, tho it will take time. You deserve better

where are all the alpha males and all those boys who say that women are gold diggers and leeches.

dem Don disappear.

op, this dude is using mind games for you or should I even say reversed psychology. it's better you re evaluate things and figure out whether you want out or you still want to be a father Christmas or a mother new year.

you are an adult who can make rational decisions. all the best.

Its onlya foolish girl that will comtemplate on dropping, blocking and insulting this slowpoke of a guy. He has notin, he only dreams, no clear future whatsoever. Although, u are even more foolish than he is for stickingwith an animal for this long

izospindle:
i bet you no matter what you say op will not leave her man i ..........so make another suggestion oooo

Sounds true. She's hopelessly in love with a dreamer whose vision is based on luck (when I blow).

She needs to understand that out of 1,000,000 upcoming artists, only 10 "blow", and out of these 10, only 2 last 10 years in the market.

The fear of late marriage is the only reason that will make her RUN, nothing else would.

Op, before I go further I would need a link to one of his tracks so I would be able to predict if he would blow/explode anytime soon, and secondly a guy with this kind of mentality would make it a point of duty to dump you by 11:01am if he gets signed by 11:00am cos people like him never thinks of the good things people have done for them, he would remember the bad ones first and lastly, he would spend his money on the big girls whom have never given him a kobo through the struggling yrs.

You seem to really need a break and some peace of mind.

There is no need to lie about the transport fare let him know his constant demand for money from you even at your own expense is too heavy for you to bear.

If he leaves just take heart. I don't think he is in a good place to do relationship anyway so hanging around him at this time is not in your best interest.

Op, is it the Seun we know

the guy is really lazy.. If he carries blocks or cement, he can raise the 10k in less than two days.. I've heard of guys who did manual jobs during the day and go into the studio in the evenings and released one monster hit that changed their lives