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Re: My Fiance Complains That I'm Too Fat by Lilimax(f): 4:02pm On Mar 23, 2016 |
Sister, I will advise to try and loose weight but as for the guy, place him on your shoulder instead of your heart cos he may end up breaking your precious heart ![]() 1 Like |
Re: My Fiance Complains That I'm Too Fat by Richy4(m): 4:03pm On Mar 23, 2016 |
Based on my little experience, it might be u that asked him that question if you look fat in one outfit or the other... This particular scene repeats itself any time a loving man accompanied a girl to a boutique....or when they were dressing up for a function.....and when he gave an honest opinion, it became a different thing.... And if he says u were good the way u were, u will feel he was avoiding the truth....and changing the subject.....He loves u but some times, some ladies tends to put words into a guy's mouth... 1 Like |
Re: My Fiance Complains That I'm Too Fat by bxcode(m): 4:03pm On Mar 23, 2016 |
If he criticize you before marriage about your body, what will he do after you have given birth to your kids? His love for you (if at all it's love) is not at heart, it's a love that satisfies him because he wants to have you fit and appealing before him. Simply put, you are his trophy and once you fall beyond his standards, then lights out on that love. How long will you continue to go the gym not because you want to exercise your body and prevent sickness, but because you want to please someone? Look beyond the present and imagine how you will be in 15 years time, will he still see you as his pretty wifey who had everything intact? It's a pity on what relationships and marriages has been reduced to today. 7 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Fiance Complains That I'm Too Fat by gbaskiboy: 4:03pm On Mar 23, 2016 |
YorubaWoman:yorubawoman you don talk am finish, I owe you one bottle of Alomo ![]() 1 Like |
Re: My Fiance Complains That I'm Too Fat by cbrass(m): 4:04pm On Mar 23, 2016 |
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Re: My Fiance Complains That I'm Too Fat by Ekakamba: 4:04pm On Mar 23, 2016 |
The moment a man compare your physical attributes to another lady, run baby run. I can only compare by baƩ bad attitude to another especially after a long run of advice without her adhering. Your man don dey fantasize another bushmeat which he will soon pounce on whether you slim down or remain fatty bombom. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiance Complains That I'm Too Fat by Dyt(f): 4:05pm On Mar 23, 2016 |
sas91: I weigh 75-78kg Not even up to 5.5 I don't have a flat tummy either But I sm hawt Seriously Tell that guy to feck his asshole He's killing your self esteem I am big Bold Black and beautiful 6 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Fiance Complains That I'm Too Fat by satuma10: 4:06pm On Mar 23, 2016 |
well my candid advice is ,please find your way when it is bright before its dark.it is obvius he will drop you after bearing a child for him because you will definitely add up later in the day.please i know it is difficult to quit but you have to summon courage to make decision now.secondly you never can tell if he is not connected to your friend in any way before comparing both of you 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Complains That I'm Too Fat by Nobody: 4:07pm On Mar 23, 2016 |
ellacute45:......... Yes woooo! Me like them Fat and Curvy ![]() 2 Likes
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Re: My Fiance Complains That I'm Too Fat by Nobody: 4:07pm On Mar 23, 2016 |
Why are people complaining now? If she is of average height, she is tilting to the bigger side You need to lose weight for yourself and for him 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Fiance Complains That I'm Too Fat by dulux07(m): 4:07pm On Mar 23, 2016 |
Funny how ladies feel a guy doesnt love them cos he complains about their weight. " he should love me the way i am" continue deceiving yourself. I guess doctors hate fat people too. And besides the lady benefits more from loosing weight than the partner who complains. 4 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Complains That I'm Too Fat by funnynation(m): 4:08pm On Mar 23, 2016 |
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Re: My Fiance Complains That I'm Too Fat by ngmgeek(m): 4:09pm On Mar 23, 2016 |
Both of you should look for love and happiness first. I'm glad you are making efforts to lose weight, that good for both of you. |
Re: My Fiance Complains That I'm Too Fat by Otsealu1(f): 4:10pm On Mar 23, 2016 |
sas91: My dear dont kill yourself. If you know naturally you dont have a flat tummy, just try your best not to eat too much and above all, LOVE YOURSELF and tell that dude to go hug transformer. The man that loves you will not care about how you look but will love you because you are you. Go listen to kirk franklyn "imagine me" 1 Like |
Re: My Fiance Complains That I'm Too Fat by Jabioro: 4:10pm On Mar 23, 2016 |
shaibu123:O boy! what are comparing ? haba! that thing,that foto death trap. |
Re: My Fiance Complains That I'm Too Fat by swaggprofessor(m): 4:11pm On Mar 23, 2016 |
ellacute45:She asked for an advice n not a complain. I even doubt if you know anything abt marriage 1 Like |
Re: My Fiance Complains That I'm Too Fat by shearer1982(m): 4:11pm On Mar 23, 2016 |
My type BBW Back Beautiful Woman! |
Re: My Fiance Complains That I'm Too Fat by steve308(m): 4:12pm On Mar 23, 2016 |
sas91:look aunty... my advise to u is that YOU do wat it takes to keep your man cos men are hard to come by now and stopping complaining on social media those gals advising you to leave him are they same people that will tell you that they will sacrifice any thing to keep their MAN 5 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Complains That I'm Too Fat by Untainted007: 4:12pm On Mar 23, 2016 |
Vinshu: You said some guys dont like fat ladies!!!!! Was he blind before asking her out or was she forced on the guy. The guy is looking for a silly excuse jare. My dear Op, the guy is not urs, if he loves you he's meant to support you on how to look slimmer not to condemn you or compare you with someone. If u force yourself to do his will, there's no how u will not add weight in the future if u av the trait in your blood and he will always complain. Never go against ur will to please anynody at ur own detriment. I'm not saying u shud not work out on ur stature but not to please someone who dont appreciate what he has. 3 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Complains That I'm Too Fat by tizzle(m): 4:13pm On Mar 23, 2016 |
LOOSE WEIGHT 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Complains That I'm Too Fat by slimzypink(f): 4:14pm On Mar 23, 2016 |
most fat ladies hav bad smell 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Complains That I'm Too Fat by Nobody: 4:14pm On Mar 23, 2016 |
steve308: Yeah, you will soon go extinct too Make you wait for me, I am coming to send you to Baba God ![]() Nonsense! 1 Like |
Re: My Fiance Complains That I'm Too Fat by swaggprofessor(m): 4:15pm On Mar 23, 2016 |
Dyt:She isn't asking for how to maintain a relationship but her marriage so if u don't have a reasonable advice u can kindly shut da fvck up 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Complains That I'm Too Fat by Apitch(m): 4:16pm On Mar 23, 2016 |
As much as I avoid this kind of thread but I have to write here. Op and others looking for emotional advice on NL are making a big mistake cos we have a lot of sadist n bitter people around, also some others reason with sentiment n bias so please sieve what u read Op personally I love ur sincerity and I commend u for that, u said he told u that u are not as beautiful as u were before n that means he met u a slim babe so please get back ur shape, again u said u are trying ur best but let me tell u that ur best isn't doing u much good, get serious and make it a priority please, and finally for those telling u that he doesn't love u with all assurance without even knowing the guy, I just laugh at their ignorance. The truth is everyone in love should fight for what they want and leave the ego thing out for those who enjoy staying single or divorced Daalu nu 3 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Complains That I'm Too Fat by nsedet: 4:17pm On Mar 23, 2016 |
I don't know how old you are but 70kg isn't a bad weight @ all. I work in a gym and I'v seen fat people. I mean fat. As par your guy I don't tink you should be with someone that discorages u. Your self esteem alone is very important. Now if you have to loose weight do it for yourself and not to impress any1. I think u'll do just fine, jus believe in yourself and always have it in mind dt being fat isn't a sin sas91: 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Complains That I'm Too Fat by sas91(f): 4:17pm On Mar 23, 2016 |
Dyt:i'm just about your height |
Re: My Fiance Complains That I'm Too Fat by Heart2heart(m): 4:17pm On Mar 23, 2016 |
This question is ruffing my head here comes op's 1 Like
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Re: My Fiance Complains That I'm Too Fat by Dyt(f): 4:17pm On Mar 23, 2016 |
swaggprofessor: You are an idiot If you dunno Now you know 1 Like |
Re: My Fiance Complains That I'm Too Fat by ezendiigbonine: 4:17pm On Mar 23, 2016 |
eziokwu di na okwu a ikwuru bu na, nwata nwoke ahu ahuchaghi gi n'anya. or...... o na acho i gwa gi ka ijiri ehihie chowa ewu ojii tupu chi ejie, my dear!. gbalia fechanata otu ira, ka anyi mara style ozo o ga eji abia. |
Re: My Fiance Complains That I'm Too Fat by Nobody: 4:18pm On Mar 23, 2016 |
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Re: My Fiance Complains That I'm Too Fat by Guyman02: 4:18pm On Mar 23, 2016 |
Tell him you are making efforts to slim down but he should stop comparing you with your friends. Watch what you eat, eat balanced diet and avoid those things that make you to put on weight. |
Re: My Fiance Complains That I'm Too Fat by tizzle(m): 4:18pm On Mar 23, 2016 |
Richy4:Dude dont u read? He said her friend had a better structure... He couldn't havd said it in a boutigue... Smh |
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