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When You Suffer With A Man And He latter Dumps You When He Becomes Rich. by Toks2008(m): 10:19pm On Mar 24, 2016 |
Ok lets take a look at this scenario..Shade meets Tunde,a struggling dude and she remains with him,loves him and remains faithful to him and latter fortune smiles on Tunde and he becomes rich and leaves shade to start an affair with another lady... In the world of most ladies especially of Nigeria descend,Tunde is not just a heart breaker but an ungrateful guy. ok pause ladies,get a glass of cold water,sit on your sofa and take a chill pill then answer these questions? 1.When shade was dating the struggling tunde,was she so sure he was going to be rich one day? 2.Was Shade doing Tunde a favour by dating him in his struggling times or was it because of mutual love? 3.Is there a guaranty that if shade dates a made dude,he won't also dump her. In-fact many ladies now use these words"Of what use is loving and staying with a struggling guy when he is likely to dump you if he becomes rich? abeg i no fit suffer with any man o" Please this is not a female bashing thread but a pragmatic approach to this anomalous mindset many ladies have.Now get this straight and tell your friends to tell their friends this fact. "If you want to stay with a man please do regardless of his status and if you have a struggling guy as a bae and you see another made man you desire please dump his ass and go your way" You are not doing any struggling guy a favor by dating him and you are never compelled to stay with a struggling guy...every affair is a risk And please get this guy's code straight from me....That you suffer with a guy in his trying times may earn you his respect,undying love and most likely earn you a ring but will not always earn you his 100% sexual faithfulness and this in most cases is what many ladies term as ungratefulness which is not only funny but awkward. I hope this makes sense. 122 Likes 14 Shares |
Re: When You Suffer With A Man And He latter Dumps You When He Becomes Rich. by Nobody: 10:21pm On Mar 24, 2016 |
We are still saying the same thing What use is marrying a poor man that might leave you when he becomes rick and a rich man that might also leave you too? Easy Peasy Life is easy 35 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: When You Suffer With A Man And He latter Dumps You When He Becomes Rich. by Smellymouth: 10:22pm On Mar 24, 2016 |
Love is a myth.. 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: When You Suffer With A Man And He latter Dumps You When He Becomes Rich. by Toks2008(m): 10:24pm On Mar 24, 2016 |
daretodiffer:Funny enough they say they prefer a rich man that may latter leave them. 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: When You Suffer With A Man And He latter Dumps You When He Becomes Rich. by Nobody: 10:26pm On Mar 24, 2016 |
Toks2008: Which one is logical and rational? The poor man, in your own opinion may cheat, may abuse them etc etc And a rich who may do the same Which one will you choose? 37 Likes 1 Share |
Re: When You Suffer With A Man And He latter Dumps You When He Becomes Rich. by Abbeyunique2(m): 10:26pm On Mar 24, 2016 |
Oto oro 1 Like |
Re: When You Suffer With A Man And He latter Dumps You When He Becomes Rich. by delishpot: 10:27pm On Mar 24, 2016 |
Toks2008: If reverse was the case would you say the same thing? If they reject a guy because he is poor, you come here to cry foul and say they don't see potential. If they follow the one with money, you cry that they are gold diggers. If they hang with broke on who finally gets rich, you say it was a gamble and they should not expect any reward for staying with him when he was poor rather they should have worked on themselves. Na wetin dem go do wey boys no go cry foul? If a woman does this same thing, una go rain abuses on her. 135 Likes 8 Shares |
Re: When You Suffer With A Man And He latter Dumps You When He Becomes Rich. by Nobody: 10:30pm On Mar 24, 2016 |
I wouldn't call it a favor but I'd sho' wish I had'uh come cross him when he was already rich then ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: When You Suffer With A Man And He latter Dumps You When He Becomes Rich. by Bisjosh(f): 10:32pm On Mar 24, 2016 |
Must all your crazy write ups be about bashing women? I have read through series of your stories/write up and I can boldly say they try to castigate/belittle/put women down. Anyway, goodluck with whoever would still be reading your stories. 61 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: When You Suffer With A Man And He latter Dumps You When He Becomes Rich. by Nobody: 10:34pm On Mar 24, 2016 |
Dating,Relationship,Marriage,Friendship all are means to an end. let's not discuss what's right or wrong cos dre nothing like dat. why? its individual; personal...u cant use ur wrongs or rights as a yardstick judge or depict hw other people's relatnshp should be. FVCK LOVE..... for dis 21 century?? heart for Man-God Relationship, rational thinking; brain for Man-Man Relationship. It should be mutual exclusive, about each other selfless and selfish contributions in d Relationships to achieve dat ends(whareva). u dey date me for my money fine wetin me sef dey get in return?(forget toto matta oo, what happens to oloshos and ashewos anyway?) after i don see wetin i want. oya cum dey carry ur load dey go...i don achieve my own end be dat. na to move find oda relatnsp achieve anoda end be d nxt. datz hw life be. nt one yeyestic "i dey do am favour" by dating him or her ni. every relationship no be means?? 5 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: When You Suffer With A Man And He latter Dumps You When He Becomes Rich. by Richardonald(m): 10:39pm On Mar 24, 2016 |
We all know about that, there are men who do that but women also do this when u are financially paying for them E.g sponsors their school fees, their upbringing, spending big on them, they will dump u when they finally hit the !!Level don change!! or finally found a rich tomboy they are running after... Both men are women are like that, not only men alone. Lols... 4 Likes |
Re: When You Suffer With A Man And He latter Dumps You When He Becomes Rich. by Pheals(f): 10:39pm On Mar 24, 2016 |
I yaff finished reading your epistle to ladies sir !. U are right sir 2 Likes |
Re: When You Suffer With A Man And He latter Dumps You When He Becomes Rich. by Toks2008(m): 10:40pm On Mar 24, 2016 |
delishpot: You and who dey cry fowl? na goat you for cry. Iif you dont see my point no wahala. |
Re: When You Suffer With A Man And He latter Dumps You When He Becomes Rich. by Toks2008(m): 10:42pm On Mar 24, 2016 |
daretodiffer: Great question. The answer is simple...I WILL FOLLOW MY HEART and face the consequence. This is exactly mi point. 3 Likes |
Re: When You Suffer With A Man And He latter Dumps You When He Becomes Rich. by Cholls(m): 10:44pm On Mar 24, 2016 |
my brother let me not say anything o. |
Re: When You Suffer With A Man And He latter Dumps You When He Becomes Rich. by Julietcutie(f): 10:45pm On Mar 24, 2016 |
leave gals alone ooo 5 Likes |
Re: When You Suffer With A Man And He latter Dumps You When He Becomes Rich. by Nobody: 10:45pm On Mar 24, 2016 |
Angels don't fall in love to that extend. In fact I love according to my duties 1 Like |
Re: When You Suffer With A Man And He latter Dumps You When He Becomes Rich. by Nobody: 10:45pm On Mar 24, 2016 |
Toks2008: Suicide mission I will follow my brain then my heart. I believe you choose who you fall in love with 5 Likes |
Re: When You Suffer With A Man And He latter Dumps You When He Becomes Rich. by alvin20: 10:46pm On Mar 24, 2016 |
ok |
Re: When You Suffer With A Man And He latter Dumps You When He Becomes Rich. by Toks2008(m): 10:47pm On Mar 24, 2016 |
KingCheezyPuff: Favour indeed. |
Re: When You Suffer With A Man And He latter Dumps You When He Becomes Rich. by Toks2008(m): 10:49pm On Mar 24, 2016 |
daretodiffer: As in following your heart a suicide mission? LOBATAN So you will choose a ricj guy even when your heart craves for the struggling guy? |
Re: When You Suffer With A Man And He latter Dumps You When He Becomes Rich. by ClassCaptain(m): 10:52pm On Mar 24, 2016 |
Thou shall not labour in vain |
Re: When You Suffer With A Man And He latter Dumps You When He Becomes Rich. by Omotayor123(f): 10:53pm On Mar 24, 2016 |
@ Toks it's common sense for a mouth that drink garri to crave for fried rice when it is readily available! 2 Likes |
Re: When You Suffer With A Man And He latter Dumps You When He Becomes Rich. by Nobody: 10:56pm On Mar 24, 2016 |
Toks2008: How is that possible? The only consideration would be their behaviors bearing in mind that money changes people. My heart cannot crave. Let's stop it at that 1 Like |
Re: When You Suffer With A Man And He latter Dumps You When He Becomes Rich. by Richardonald(m): 10:56pm On Mar 24, 2016 |
Toks2008:u talk truth, as if they are playing nairabet, to win big. the guy force u to struggle with am. |
Re: When You Suffer With A Man And He latter Dumps You When He Becomes Rich. by refiner(f): 10:59pm On Mar 24, 2016 |
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Re: When You Suffer With A Man And He latter Dumps You When He Becomes Rich. by halfricanadian(f): 11:00pm On Mar 24, 2016 |
![]() Op also do not complain When a guy spends for a girl care for her and she dumps him nd marry anoda guy 1. She never said she was going to be with him for life 2. She really doesnt even av to love such guy he is just an helper 3. He must av been so so not attractive she needed sumtin better 4. A sissy is better than him Wat is good for d girls is good for the guys 33 Likes 1 Share |
Re: When You Suffer With A Man And He latter Dumps You When He Becomes Rich. by Nobody: 11:04pm On Mar 24, 2016 |
Toks2008:Mmm,You misunderstand.I meant I wouldn't call me bein' with him when he was low a favor. Though I will say this man left a rider. Isn't this the type of woman men say they want ![]() One that will be there whether he's high or he's low 1 Like |
Re: When You Suffer With A Man And He latter Dumps You When He Becomes Rich. by tosyne2much(m): 11:06pm On Mar 24, 2016 |
And Oga Tok, the Commissioner for Women Affairs, has said it all ![]() 1 Like |
Re: When You Suffer With A Man And He latter Dumps You When He Becomes Rich. by Toks2008(m): 11:07pm On Mar 24, 2016 |
daretodiffer: issorite. |
Re: When You Suffer With A Man And He latter Dumps You When He Becomes Rich. by Toks2008(m): 11:08pm On Mar 24, 2016 |
KingCheezyPuff: I see. |
Re: When You Suffer With A Man And He latter Dumps You When He Becomes Rich. by Nobody: 11:11pm On Mar 24, 2016 |
Toks2008: ![]() |
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