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Am Seriously In Love With Two Ladies And Don't Know Which To Let Go Please Help! by 1frankNewton(m): 8:56am On Mar 27, 2016
Happy Easter fellow nairalanders ,ok i met this gal when i was 17 she is four years older ,one thing led to another and we were crazily in love , we have done so much for each other ,been there for each other and she once even sent her whole salary to me cos i was broke and a very good Christian.the issue is one, she is older Dan i am, am twenty one now and she's twenty five,hence she is under pressure from her parent to bring who she wants cos she is turning down every suitor cos of me and am too young for all these besides mathematically i can settle down when she will be probably thirty and she is four years older and ma mum doesn't like her buh beside that she is a good gal and cried so hard when we nearly broke up cos of a slight misunderstanding
now i met these new gal, she is nice and ma kind of person in a way. She knows about the first gal buh something happened the first gal started behaving strange and after efforts from me and the new gal to bring her back proved abortive i settled in for the new one though it took a while cos she never accepted considering the fact that the first gal we come back. The issue is the first gal is back and the new is seriously in love with me ,i don't know which to let go cos am just too soft to break a heart plsss help me guys. Sorry for possible typos i was in a hurry and note i cant date two gals COs i only date for the long run i.e marriage tnks guys
Re: Am Seriously In Love With Two Ladies And Don't Know Which To Let Go Please Help! by northvietnam(m): 8:57am On Mar 27, 2016
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Re: Am Seriously In Love With Two Ladies And Don't Know Which To Let Go Please Help! by Nobody: 8:58am On Mar 27, 2016
[email] "You can't break a heart, you can't double-date"

Die then.

BTW, has the 2nd one done things the 1st has, to you?
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Re: Am Seriously In Love With Two Ladies And Don't Know Which To Let Go Please Help! by Nobody: 8:59am On Mar 27, 2016
yawn!!!! i dnt even read wats up there, but lemme just drop comment anyways, getting ready 4 barca vs madrid on saturday.
Re: Am Seriously In Love With Two Ladies And Don't Know Which To Let Go Please Help! by Khd95(m): 9:00am On Mar 27, 2016
Marry the two then,if u dnt knw who to let gosad
Re: Am Seriously In Love With Two Ladies And Don't Know Which To Let Go Please Help! by Tallesty1(m): 9:04am On Mar 27, 2016
You are lucky and blessed and you have a womanfulgringrin future.

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Re: Am Seriously In Love With Two Ladies And Don't Know Which To Let Go Please Help! by YorubaWoman: 9:05am On Mar 27, 2016
Re: Am Seriously In Love With Two Ladies And Don't Know Which To Let Go Please Help! by acenazt: 9:08am On Mar 27, 2016
Who treats u like a king
Re: Am Seriously In Love With Two Ladies And Don't Know Which To Let Go Please Help! by Sunkyphil(m): 9:11am On Mar 27, 2016
go for d 2nd considering d age barrier btw u n d first
Re: Am Seriously In Love With Two Ladies And Don't Know Which To Let Go Please Help! by Nobody: 9:13am On Mar 27, 2016
First girl..2nd girl, I'm Tayad!



OP, You can't Love two people. It's Emotionally Impossible.
Pick the one that makes You feel good, The One You think You could spend Your life with.


You're just 21 for Fûcks sake! And you're giving Yourself all these girl trouble?! shocked Whatever happened to school trouble??


Get Your priorities straight Abeg!

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Re: Am Seriously In Love With Two Ladies And Don't Know Which To Let Go Please Help! by agarawu23(m): 9:14am On Mar 27, 2016
1frankNewton:
Happy Easter fellow nairalanders ,ok i met this gal when i was 17 she is four years older ,one thing led to another and we were crazily in love , we have done so much for each other ,been there for each other and she once even sent her whole salary to me cos i was broke and a very good Christian.the issue is one, she is older Dan i am, am twenty one now and she's twenty five,hence she is under pressure from her parent to bring who she wants cos she is turning down every suitor cos of me and am too young for all these besides mathematically i can settle down when she will be probably thirty and she is four years older and ma mum doesn't like her buh beside that she is a good gal and cried so hard when we nearly broke up cos of a slight misunderstanding
now i met these new gal, she is nice and ma kind of person in a way. She knows about the first gal buh something happened the first gal started behaving strange and after efforts from me and the new gal to bring her back proved abortive i settled in for the new one though it took a while cos she never accepted considering the fact that the first gal we come back. The issue is the first gal is back and the new is seriously in love with me ,i don't know which to let go cos am just too soft to break a heart plsss help me guys. Sorry for possible typos i was in a hurry and note i cant date two gals COs i only date for the long run i.e marriage tnks guys
matured ladies are cool to deal with, No drama like the teens.

I personally cant marry a lady older than me and since you reject that too, I think the best option is to let the old lady know u guys can't be together forever.

You should be bold enough to forget about the old Lady first so that u can focus on your new relationship without distractions.
Re: Am Seriously In Love With Two Ladies And Don't Know Which To Let Go Please Help! by 1frankNewton(m): 9:16am On Mar 27, 2016
Seriously the second gal is pretty new and has shown great character buh surely the first has done better we have been dating for four years now and yes she treats me lyk a king the issue is just the age barrier and the pressure to meet her parents
Re: Am Seriously In Love With Two Ladies And Don't Know Which To Let Go Please Help! by CaroLyner(f): 9:16am On Mar 27, 2016
Estharfabian:
First girl..2nd girl, I'm Tayad!



OP, You can't Love two people. It's Emotionally Impossible.
Pick the one that makes You feel good, The One You think You could spend Your life with.


You're just 21 for Fûcks sake! And you're giving Yourself all these girl trouble?! shocked Whatever happened to school trouble??


Get Your priorities straight Abeg!

been long i'v seen your post grin
Re: Am Seriously In Love With Two Ladies And Don't Know Which To Let Go Please Help! by Nobody: 9:19am On Mar 27, 2016
CaroLyner:
been long i'v seen your post grin
shuu away esthar dnt do ladies
Re: Am Seriously In Love With Two Ladies And Don't Know Which To Let Go Please Help! by Nobody: 9:20am On Mar 27, 2016
CaroLyner:
been long i'v seen your post grin
Hehehehehehehe!grin


I took an Impromptu leave! wink
Wussup!? been long I saw yours too! cheesy
Re: Am Seriously In Love With Two Ladies And Don't Know Which To Let Go Please Help! by 1frankNewton(m): 9:20am On Mar 27, 2016
Estharfabian:
First girl..2nd girl, I'm Tayad!



OP, You can't Love two people. It's Emotionally Impossible.
Pick the one that makes You feel good, The One You think You could spend Your life with.


You're just 21 for Fûcks sake! And you're giving Yourself all these girl trouble?! shocked Whatever happened to school trouble??


Get Your priorities straight Abeg!

hey an twenty one a three hundred level student of mathematics i shud be in year four if not for ASUU and am toping ma class so i got ma priorities ...its even the priorities that is making me say am to young for marriage
Re: Am Seriously In Love With Two Ladies And Don't Know Which To Let Go Please Help! by pinkpebbles(f): 9:21am On Mar 27, 2016
If u love two people, choose the second person coz if u really loved d first, den u wudnt love d second. It is impossible to love two people equally at d same time. Anyways, u are young for love wahalas. Focus on ur career and making a fortune and trust me, dis love issue settles itsef without u thinkin abt it
Re: Am Seriously In Love With Two Ladies And Don't Know Which To Let Go Please Help! by 1frankNewton(m): 9:22am On Mar 27, 2016
Estharfabian:
First girl..2nd girl, I'm Tayad! hey the guy talking to you is a class toper of the department of mathematics uniabuja



OP, You can't Love two people. It's Emotionally Impossible.
Pick the one that makes You feel good, The One You think You could spend Your life with.


You're just 21 for Fûcks sake! And you're giving Yourself all these girl trouble?! shocked Whatever happened to school trouble??


Get Your priorities straight Abeg!

hey an twenty one a three hundred level student of mathematics i shud be in year four if not for ASUU and am toping ma class so i got ma priorities ...its even the priorities that is making me say am to young for marriage i shud be in year four now if not for ASUU and academic excellence is the reason the both got attracted to me tnks for your advice i appreciate
Re: Am Seriously In Love With Two Ladies And Don't Know Which To Let Go Please Help! by grad2012(f): 9:23am On Mar 27, 2016
Pls go for the first one,a woman that can send you her whole salary stay with you in times when broke,then that's a real woman who loves you don't even need to ask.

I don't think the second lady has been through anything with you yet.BE WISE
Re: Am Seriously In Love With Two Ladies And Don't Know Which To Let Go Please Help! by Nobody: 9:23am On Mar 27, 2016
1frankNewton:
hey an twenty one a three hundred level student of mathematics i shud be in year four if not for ASUU and am toping ma class so i got ma priorities ...its even the priorities that is making me say am to young for marriage
#sigh#


So! You're making A first class, then? grin

Okay...Okay...Good!
So, What's left now? Pick one among the two Chicks.
Or would You rather I Picked one for you?undecided

A simple meenie Mini mynie mo would do justice! wink

Re: Am Seriously In Love With Two Ladies And Don't Know Which To Let Go Please Help! by 1frankNewton(m): 9:27am On Mar 27, 2016
Estharfabian:
#sigh#


So! You're making A first class, then? grin

Okay...Okay...Good!
So, What's left now? Pick one among the two Chicks.
Or would You rather I Picked one for you?undecided

A simple meenie Mini mynie mo would do justice! wink

lol anything u can do for me even if it involves bringing in the ancestors am just worried
Re: Am Seriously In Love With Two Ladies And Don't Know Which To Let Go Please Help! by phunbyt(m): 9:37am On Mar 27, 2016
Skibo! Wait!...Are u kidding me

Re: Am Seriously In Love With Two Ladies And Don't Know Which To Let Go Please Help! by CaroLyner(f): 9:39am On Mar 27, 2016
Estharfabian:
Hehehehehehehe!grin

I took an Impromptu leave! wink Wussup!? been long I saw yours too! cheesy
apparently.....yes.its school anyways, resting for the break.

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Re: Am Seriously In Love With Two Ladies And Don't Know Which To Let Go Please Help! by vickvan(m): 9:49am On Mar 27, 2016
Op please answer this question. What is the core reason of dating? Young man, you are way too young for this. At this your age, there are lot of interesting things you need to engage you life in. Mind you, if the course of dating them does not lead to marriage, then back out because your toiling with the emotions of those ladies.
Re: Am Seriously In Love With Two Ladies And Don't Know Which To Let Go Please Help! by 1frankNewton(m): 10:00am On Mar 27, 2016
vickvan:
Op please answer this question. What is the core reason of dating? Young man, you are way too young for this. At this your age, there are lot of interesting things you need to engage you life in. Mind you, if the course of dating them does not lead to marriage, then back out because your toiling with the emotions of those ladies.
that's why i said i only date for the long run i date for marriage though am young i will b graduating next year so am not too young in a way t
Re: Am Seriously In Love With Two Ladies And Don't Know Which To Let Go Please Help! by vickvan(m): 10:45am On Mar 27, 2016
1frankNewton:
that's why i said i only date for the long run i date for marriage though am young i will b graduating next year so am not too young in a way t
The main problem is that you just don't know what you are into. At this present time and age, you have nothing to do with dating or maybe you are just for the benefits. Anyway, is your life, do what you know is good to avoid had i know.

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