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What Will You Do If Your Fiance Insists On No Court/church Marriage? by Fairytales: 6:09pm On Mar 27, 2016 |
Will you still marry him knowing the following; 1. He can marry other wives with ease 2. He can kick you out at any opportunity he gets 3. You have no protection under the law in case he dies. Pls men, instead of ruling out white wedding, you can do a small one if money is your consideration. Matured advise. |
Re: What Will You Do If Your Fiance Insists On No Court/church Marriage? by Cutehector(m): 6:11pm On Mar 27, 2016 |
Some Nigerians need to understand dat fiance is male while fiancee is female.. I wonder why dey tend to always mix it up 4 Likes |
Re: What Will You Do If Your Fiance Insists On No Court/church Marriage? by sheunsheun(m): 6:11pm On Mar 27, 2016 |
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Re: What Will You Do If Your Fiance Insists On No Court/church Marriage? by Cutehector(m): 6:13pm On Mar 27, 2016 |
Well if I were a lady and my man doesn't insist of church wedding. I leave him! It's just not dat hard! |
Re: What Will You Do If Your Fiance Insists On No Court/church Marriage? by Monalisa185(f): 6:15pm On Mar 27, 2016 |
fiancee?..okay ooo |
Re: What Will You Do If Your Fiance Insists On No Court/church Marriage? by Allwility: 6:22pm On Mar 27, 2016 |
If I were a lady, I'd like to know what his reasons are. If they aren't making sense and he still insists on having it his way, I'd call off the relationship. 1 Like |
Re: What Will You Do If Your Fiance Insists On No Court/church Marriage? by Fairytales: 6:28pm On Mar 27, 2016 |
Toks2008 Daretodiffer Freecocoa Lezzlie Postmann Estarfabian Mizmycoli Mamagee3 And others, ur comments needed |
Re: What Will You Do If Your Fiance Insists On No Court/church Marriage? by Nobody: 6:29pm On Mar 27, 2016 |
Yepa |
Re: What Will You Do If Your Fiance Insists On No Court/church Marriage? by Nobody: 6:36pm On Mar 27, 2016 |
1. He can marry other wives with ease 2. He can kick you out at any opportunity he gets 3. You have no protection under the law in case he dies. Court marriage or not, I can never experience all of the above except for number one but then I have the frustration, divorce option and contract renegotiation. However, I strongly advise any Nigerian woman to insist on court marriage. 1 Like |
Re: What Will You Do If Your Fiance Insists On No Court/church Marriage? by Jadekitana(f): 6:36pm On Mar 27, 2016 |
Sorry I know of someone who just ended his marriage! He did court,traditional and church. When the woman was misbehaving badly, no pastor, nor documents nor traditions could make him change his mind. He kicked her to the curbs and signed an Alimony to cater for their son! He would be getting married later in June to someone else. Bottom line is when you are married, behave yourself as a lady or a guy! Divorce is inevitable,nobody is indisposable. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What Will You Do If Your Fiance Insists On No Court/church Marriage? by Nobody: 6:38pm On Mar 27, 2016 |
Jadekitana: Divorce is not the reason people marry in court |
Re: What Will You Do If Your Fiance Insists On No Court/church Marriage? by Jadekitana(f): 6:45pm On Mar 27, 2016 |
Ok we learn everyday, now what's the reason behind court weddings,lets hear your opinion daretodiffer: 2 Likes |
Re: What Will You Do If Your Fiance Insists On No Court/church Marriage? by Youngpo413: 6:47pm On Mar 27, 2016 |
There is nothing wrong in marrying other wives if he chooses. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: What Will You Do If Your Fiance Insists On No Court/church Marriage? by Fairytales: 6:49pm On Mar 27, 2016 |
Youngpo413:no woman wants to share. |
Re: What Will You Do If Your Fiance Insists On No Court/church Marriage? by RoyalBlak007: 6:51pm On Mar 27, 2016 |
...am here ...to read **** |
Re: What Will You Do If Your Fiance Insists On No Court/church Marriage? by Omotayor123(f): 6:53pm On Mar 27, 2016 |
No marriage at all then |
Re: What Will You Do If Your Fiance Insists On No Court/church Marriage? by Youngpo413: 6:54pm On Mar 27, 2016 |
Fairytales:but will gladly share married men while single. |
Re: What Will You Do If Your Fiance Insists On No Court/church Marriage? by halfricanadian(f): 6:57pm On Mar 27, 2016 |
Well only traditional marriage no church? We sign prenup |
Re: What Will You Do If Your Fiance Insists On No Court/church Marriage? by Nobody: 7:03pm On Mar 27, 2016 |
Jadekitana: Security, bigamy, and so on In a country like Nigeria where your husban can throw you out when he wishes, he won't be able to do that in law. You can sue hiss ass if he tries it Men often use their familky etc as next of kin, when he dies, the family may seize all the properties and leave the wife and her children stranded. However with a court marriage, they will be secured. Next of kin does not mean you automatically own all the properties however it gives the next of kin a certain authority over it. Your husband cannot marry another wife without a proper divorce. I think you can get compensation if he cheats on you. I am not sure about that. Also, he cannot leave you financially stranded after a divorce. This arguments should also apply if you are the richer partner as well as the one that misbehaves. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What Will You Do If Your Fiance Insists On No Court/church Marriage? by Jadekitana(f): 7:08pm On Mar 27, 2016 |
Ok thanks i'v learnt 2 or 3 things today. daretodiffer: |
Re: What Will You Do If Your Fiance Insists On No Court/church Marriage? by agarawu23(m): 7:19pm On Mar 27, 2016 |
Fairytales:sorry!!! I honestly can't do court wedding with ANY lady and NOBODY can change my mind on that. These set of ladies with court wedding do behave silly and I can't take such shiit. You expect me to marry a Lady and if she messed up , I kick her ass out and one mumu court will divide my property for such biitch? God4bid. If you can't marry me cos I ain't doing court, another person will. After all only lazy and bad minded ladies will insist on court wedding 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What Will You Do If Your Fiance Insists On No Court/church Marriage? by Lezzlie(m): 7:31pm On Mar 27, 2016 |
Fairytales:If she insists on just traditional marriage, she couldn't have made a better choice!!! To me, that's the way to go!!! Court marriages and white wedding are just what they truelly are; the rites of our cultural and spiritual subjugation to the West. Besides court marriage aren't divorce-proof, white wedding is just a Cinderella show for the bride and her friends. 2 Likes |
Re: What Will You Do If Your Fiance Insists On No Court/church Marriage? by Lezzlie(m): 7:44pm On Mar 27, 2016 |
Jadekitana:Brilliant, please tell them, especially those who think they know too much. 1 Like |
Re: What Will You Do If Your Fiance Insists On No Court/church Marriage? by postmann: 8:40pm On Mar 27, 2016 |
Fairytales: 1 & 2 are deal breakers. No woman who is worth her salt will walk into a union with a man who has made it clear that he would take routes 1 & 2 for the slightest of reasons. Number 3 smells like a coded phrase for court marriage. A man can still hand his property to his wife in the eventuality of his death. And he doesn't need a court marriage to do that. I have little appreciation for man's law that meddles into marriage. |
Re: What Will You Do If Your Fiance Insists On No Court/church Marriage? by Toks2008(m): 9:20pm On Mar 27, 2016 |
Fairytales:https://www.nairaland.com/3014187/married-lady-never-good-single#44167364 |
Re: What Will You Do If Your Fiance Insists On No Court/church Marriage? by Fairytales: 9:38pm On Mar 27, 2016 |
Toks2008:I read the thread, very convincing. |
Re: What Will You Do If Your Fiance Insists On No Court/church Marriage? by Jadekitana(f): 9:41pm On Mar 27, 2016 |
Lezzlie: Lezz |
Re: What Will You Do If Your Fiance Insists On No Court/church Marriage? by Fairytales: 9:50pm On Mar 27, 2016 |
Lezzlie:you may call it a cinderella show, but it's a once in a life time event, why deny her of the experience? Also, to save cost, it can be merged into the traditional wedding. |
Re: What Will You Do If Your Fiance Insists On No Court/church Marriage? by Fairytales: 9:51pm On Mar 27, 2016 |
agarawu23:see vexation |
Re: What Will You Do If Your Fiance Insists On No Court/church Marriage? by naijathings(m): 10:02pm On Mar 27, 2016 |
daretodiffer: all this wahala, terms and conditions like when we were buying SIM card for over 30K. Does anyone in this world marry simply because of Love anymore ? Or it is a matter of WHO GETS WHAT ? How people be thinking of security and divorce while saying their marriage vows and signing papers. |
Re: What Will You Do If Your Fiance Insists On No Court/church Marriage? by Nobody: 10:07pm On Mar 27, 2016 |
naijathings: let me see, ther sis love not Romeo and Juliet love. If you look around you, you wouldn't be surprised. Two strangers who intend to live together must be prepared because after all they are humans that is they can misbehave. Better safe than sorry Why won't you think of security? If it ends up bad, do you expect your family and friends to clean up your mess? |
Re: What Will You Do If Your Fiance Insists On No Court/church Marriage? by naijathings(m): 10:26pm On Mar 27, 2016 |
daretodiffer: yeah my comment was made out of wonder and bewilderment for how love and marriage has become a tangled web of terms and conditions.. Yet there are some couple who still keep it together for over 40 years with just LOVE and Understanding as their pillar rather than sticking together because of some court documents and the fear of what is going to be lost when the smoke clears after legal crossfire. |
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