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Advice Me: Help Does This Make My Boyfriend Gay? by PenAStory: 8:28am On Mar 31, 2016
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Good evening, I am very disturbed right now about certain things my boyfriend is doing and I don’t know if it is just in my head or I have reason to be worried. I am a lady of twenty-four years and had my first boyfriend back when I was in secondary school.

My boyfriend is 28 and works in a bank while I am currently waiting to go for my youth service. I can say we are engaged because he has said that we would get married immediately after my service. We started dating when I was in my second year in university. Since we started dating, we have never had sex but we do other things.

What has me worried now is that since he knows I have vowed to get married as a virgin, he recently suggested that we have anal sex. According to him, this helps me keep my virginity and also helps him satisfy his urge. I am worried, isn’t it gay people that like anal sex?

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Re: Advice Me: Help Does This Make My Boyfriend Gay? by Nobody: 8:30am On Mar 31, 2016
Hmm
Re: Advice Me: Help Does This Make My Boyfriend Gay? by Cutehector(m): 8:32am On Mar 31, 2016
Some guys are cursed sha.
Re: Advice Me: Help Does This Make My Boyfriend Gay? by Monalisa185(f): 8:32am On Mar 31, 2016
google should be your friend...ask Google, "is it only gays that have anal sex?" simple
Re: Advice Me: Help Does This Make My Boyfriend Gay? by Cutehector(m): 8:33am On Mar 31, 2016
But babe, thunder will just fire u if u keep on tellin him no sex till marriage and he catches u in bed with another guy..


Allah.. I will personally kill dat kind of girlfrnd...

Nowwadays, sayin i'm keepin my virginity till marriage is laughable

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Re: Advice Me: Help Does This Make My Boyfriend Gay? by Marlvin(m): 8:35am On Mar 31, 2016
Such Naivety ! her s*x life will be so boring.
Re: Advice Me: Help Does This Make My Boyfriend Gay? by Calebosko(m): 8:37am On Mar 31, 2016
Op he is not a gay,he for don tear ur ass since,

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Re: Advice Me: Help Does This Make My Boyfriend Gay? by Bluezy13(m): 8:39am On Mar 31, 2016
Have you reminded him of your initial agreement













If yes, he is gradually seeking a means of letting go...
If no, you should do that.
Never let virginity be a criteria for not having sex in a relationship because there might be an alternative. Morale matters before virginity.
You should talk to, tell him that you are against any form of sexual intercourse until after marriage.
If he pictures a marital life with you in it, he has no reason to be upset and disappointed.
Re: Advice Me: Help Does This Make My Boyfriend Gay? by Nobody: 8:43am On Mar 31, 2016
Na u knw o.
Re: Advice Me: Help Does This Make My Boyfriend Gay? by Bluezy13(m): 8:46am On Mar 31, 2016
Cutehector:
But babe, thunder will just fire u if u keep on tellin him no sex till marriage and he catches u in bed with another guy..


Allah.. I will personally kill dat kind of girlfrnd...

Nowwadays, sayin i'm keepin my virginity till marriage is laughable
Thunder go take time fire the guy if after sex, the guy abandons him...


Allah...I'll personally kill that kind of boyfriend...

Nowadays, promising a girl marriage just to take advantage of her virginity is...

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Re: Advice Me: Help Does This Make My Boyfriend Gay? by correctyourself(m): 8:57am On Mar 31, 2016
This goes to show that, the number of people lined up for hell fire is increasing, including you the ladies that allowed those mad guys.

please dump him or else you would face the medical implications of such act.
Re: Advice Me: Help Does This Make My Boyfriend Gay? by Fmartin(m): 9:06am On Mar 31, 2016
Op, u need to answer some question,

1. What is sex?

2. when does one cease to b a virgin?

3. If a woman had sex bt her hymen is still intact, does she remain a virgin?

(expecting ur answer)

If u had allow d dude sex, i think he wouldn't hav been banging ur ass hole, to get rid of his feelings.

Engage in real sex wit him nd place an embargo on anal sex. See how he will respond. From dere, u cn deduce fr ur self,...
Re: Advice Me: Help Does This Make My Boyfriend Gay? by naijaboiy: 9:33am On Mar 31, 2016
But what exactly is the award attained for keeping your virginity till marriage? grin
Re: Advice Me: Help Does This Make My Boyfriend Gay? by Akerry(m): 12:16pm On Mar 31, 2016
naijaboiy:
But what exactly is the award attained for keeping your virginity till marriage? grin
same question bothering me since 1914
Re: Advice Me: Help Does This Make My Boyfriend Gay? by MRBrownJ: 2:06pm On Mar 31, 2016
@PenAStory
nice story, but that certainly DOESNT make you bf gay, it only makes him h0rny and wanting to bypass your virginity and have sex, while leaving your hymen intact.... and since you guys do "everything" else (i guess bl0wj0b etc) then this is just one more way to enjoy yourselves sexually.

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