Girls in the University be like : I need a man who is striving for excellence in every aspect of life financially, mentally and spiritually, but when they turn 35 they be like: even if e no get work or e sabi drink (nobody is perfect) make e come i go support am.
Girls why the double standard na?

it's not double standard , it is the realism which our culture spells out clearly, "As age increases , so does a woman marriageability"

my standards in life never change...that's y I stay single until now...I don't wanna settle down for less..

KashyBaby:
my standards in life never change...that's y I stay single until now...I don't wanna settle down for less..

. how old are u?

KashyBaby:
my standards in life never change...that's y I stay single until now...I don't wanna settle down for less..

Wish u all the best.

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Likewise

KashyBaby:
my standards in life never change...that's y I stay single until now...I don't wanna settle down for less..

Good luck on that quest hope time won't change ur stand sha

KashyBaby:
my standards in life never change...that's y I stay single until now...I don't wanna settle down for less..

same thing OP is saying... Change your ways

krak101:
same thing OP is saying... Change your ways

No...why shud I? Being married is juz a bonus but not necessarily everyone shud do it for the sake of being married.

EZEIGBO1OFIMO:
it's not double standard , it is the realism which our culture spells out clearly, "As age increases , so does a woman marriageability"

My question is why don't they lower their expectations while bearing in mind the reality on ground especially when Guys are seeking their hand in marriage?

KashyBaby:





No...why shud I? Being married is juz a bonus but not necessarily everyone shud do it for the sake of being married.

I don't have a problem with your views but why flaunt them. They're yours sure but somethings are best kept to ourselves

krak101:
I don't have a problem with your views but why flaunt them. They're yours sure but somethings are best kept to ourselves

Lol...then whats the use of this forum when exchanging ideas is not allowed coz according to u it's best if we keep it to ourselves



I never heard that when someone is voicing out his/her opinion is flaunting!!!! Unless ur turning NL to a Communist party where everyone is not allowed to say anymore..



Smh....

This is Naija. APC or PDP-whats the difference. It's actually communism,a one party state. EOD

KingJhean:

My question is why don't they lower their expectations while bearing in mind the reality on ground especially when Guys are seeking their hand in marriage?

well, lots of factors, Youthful exuberance, western Cinderella fairy tale nonsense stc

me care bou who loves me nd treat me ryt

seriously ladies need to change this kind of mentality[b]rich[/b],handsome, tall romantic six pacrand GIB..
Its gettin out of hand...pls try to accpte and encourage a man you love that truly wants to marry you even if your standards are higher than his...no man is self made atleast not all.


stop chasing made men as if your life depends on it. If a man is ready for marriage and he is bold enough to seek ur hands and see ur parents, and he is able to take care of u,shelter and feed u even if sometimes he is struggling to meet up, dont look down on him hoping for a rich dude since u have a lot of suitors.


I will say this Again, not every man is self made
Not every guy below your standards will remain like that forever.


Every great tree was once a tiny little seed..

EZEIGBO1OFIMO:
well, lots of factors, Youthful exuberance, western Cinderella fairy tale nonsense stc

Lol

skywalker240:
seriously ladies need to change this kind of mentality[b]rich[/b],handsome, tall romantic six pacrand GIB..
Its gettin out of hand...pls try to accpte and encourage a man you love that truly wants to marry you even if your standards are higher than his...no man is self made atleast not all.


stop chasing made men as if your life depends on it. If a man is ready for marriage and he is bold enough to seek ur hands and see ur parents, and he is able to take care of u,shelter and feed u even if sometimes he is struggling to meet up, dont look down on him hoping for a rich dude since u have a lot of suitors.


I will say this Again, not every man is self made
Not every guy below your standards will remain like that forever.


Every great tree was once a tiny little seed..

Well said my man well said

halfricanadian:
me care bou who loves me nd treat me ryt

Wish other girls could be like you

KingJhean:

Wish other girls could be like you

other girls u wished are like me

Are more lucky nd live a blessed life than me

never u wish any girl to b like me

Their happiness should b their piority every girl deserves to do or b wat will make dem happy