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Re: Keeping A Long Distance Relationship Alive by sparkwil(m): 11:53pm On Apr 02, 2016 |
Cutehector: ![]() ![]() Word |
Re: Keeping A Long Distance Relationship Alive by Evanescent: 11:55pm On Apr 02, 2016 |
Bhella5:try it tonight You airtime go just catch fire!! |
Re: Keeping A Long Distance Relationship Alive by praxisnetworks: 12:00am On Apr 03, 2016 |
lyn!! EggovinMma: |
Re: Keeping A Long Distance Relationship Alive by domopps(m): 12:02am On Apr 03, 2016 |
pweetychyka: Discover what works 4 him and explore it! Must she tell you everything.......... When you have a d!ck close to ur clict does anyone tells you where to put it.....sorry had 2 say that but not my usual way All the best! Cheeeeeers 2 Likes |
Re: Keeping A Long Distance Relationship Alive by mrlaw93(m): 12:04am On Apr 03, 2016 |
1. communication 2. communication + be dirty on fone 3. communication + reveal ur daily escapade 4. communication + be romantic on fone. this is almost like being dirty bt a bit different. The watch word is communication. Never loose it. And never make it boring. Just my piece. 8 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Keeping A Long Distance Relationship Alive by Bhella5(m): 12:11am On Apr 03, 2016 |
Evanescent:Chai how will i connect to my Amarachi now? |
Re: Keeping A Long Distance Relationship Alive by Brunel(m): 12:11am On Apr 03, 2016 |
fulanigirl: Communicate DAILY. Open and honest communication |
Re: Keeping A Long Distance Relationship Alive by Evanescent: 12:15am On Apr 03, 2016 |
Bhella5:lol blame NCC fine. |
Re: Keeping A Long Distance Relationship Alive by Nobody: 12:16am On Apr 03, 2016 |
Cutehector:Funny U! A frnd once asked me y I didn't call her 4 some time, I had 2 tell her dat wat else does she av 2 say if nt 'Aw was ur day & av u eaten tinz' I nid mature talks. 2 Likes |
Re: Keeping A Long Distance Relationship Alive by Cutehector(m): 12:17am On Apr 03, 2016 |
Adegbenro7643:very very nice reply. Such people are so so timid. They can't say nutty things on fone. It's very anoyin. They are scared of u thinkn dat they r spoilt hence they wana be very careful with their choice of words. 3 Likes |
Re: Keeping A Long Distance Relationship Alive by Kelvin125(m): 12:18am On Apr 03, 2016 |
layla129:this my sister must be an Igbo because only Igbos have sense like this. The rest are packets of salt |
Re: Keeping A Long Distance Relationship Alive by nkemdi89(f): 12:24am On Apr 03, 2016 |
Considering the economic situation of the country, the quest for greener pastures has led most partners to live apart, it's all about understanding. My childhood friend in the army always watsapp me to call the wife that he is online due to his inability to make voice call in borno. The important thing is for both parties to be busy as that tend to reduce boredom, what if your partner is always on transfer, does it mean you will relocate every where with him or her?. 2 Likes |
Re: Keeping A Long Distance Relationship Alive by layla129(f): 12:26am On Apr 03, 2016 |
joshing: Lol, thanks dear |
Re: Keeping A Long Distance Relationship Alive by nwanwaoge(m): 12:26am On Apr 03, 2016 |
layla129:. I respect ur ideas...nice 1 1 Like |
Re: Keeping A Long Distance Relationship Alive by layla129(f): 12:27am On Apr 03, 2016 |
Chinatownm:All join, thank u ![]() |
Re: Keeping A Long Distance Relationship Alive by Taryur3(m): 12:29am On Apr 03, 2016 |
Let me contact my elder sister when her fiancee buh husband now left her for overseas for 5yrs...she only visited him once and they are happily married with kids now.I will be back |
Re: Keeping A Long Distance Relationship Alive by layla129(f): 12:31am On Apr 03, 2016 |
pweetychyka:Then, how do u guys communicate? He can't be too busy to talk to you for even 15mins a day now. Fine, the video calls can be fixed somehow not the chats...communication is what holds the relationship dear. |
Re: Keeping A Long Distance Relationship Alive by layla129(f): 12:32am On Apr 03, 2016 |
Stanleywaxy:I'll be here darling, thanks ![]() |
Re: Keeping A Long Distance Relationship Alive by BackOff(m): 12:32am On Apr 03, 2016 |
Fulanigirl I quite understand your current state. However, I want to let you know that it is something that can be controlled. One major reason why you both fight when apart is that one or both of you have trust issues. Believe me it can destroy any relationship (both long distance and close relationships). If one keeps bringing in comments that tend to question the other's commitment, either the other is guilty or not, they'll find a way of exonerating themselves. It may be by just getting angry or doing some silly stuffs or even putting in some kind of provoking reply, and fight begins. So what should you do? 1. Do you have defined purpose or goal concerning the relationship? Yes, I know you said you're both planning to get married. But is the purpose for your intended marriage clearly defined? 2. Is he trustworthy? Marriage is a long-term relationship. So you must at least be sure of certain traits in your would-be spouse; one of them is trust. 3. Are you trustworthy too? You can lie to everyone but you cannot lie to yourself. 4. Are you sure you are not the annoying one in the relationship? Check yourself very well to be sure. If you are, quickly make amends; that way, he'll see the changes in you and your relationship would have been saved. If he's the annoying one, and you're sure the things you did at those times you've fought each other shouldn't have provoked him, then he needs special counseling. If your purpose is clearly defined, both of you can find a way of trusting one another and fix the issue of asking needless annoying questions, it'll most probably work out for you two. In long distance relationships, you must completely trust one another irrespective of what outsiders say. So, stay if you can both trust each other and leave if one or both can't. Add the things Layla said in the earlier post and you're good to go. All the best dear. PS: I'm also in a long distance relationship and this thing works irrespective of what majority might say; but it only works when both parties are committed to it. All the best dear. 5 Likes |
Re: Keeping A Long Distance Relationship Alive by layla129(f): 12:33am On Apr 03, 2016 |
MzThormi: ![]() |
Re: Keeping A Long Distance Relationship Alive by layla129(f): 12:34am On Apr 03, 2016 |
Chommieblaq: Communication is key. Keep it up sis |
Re: Keeping A Long Distance Relationship Alive by Adedayo97(m): 12:35am On Apr 03, 2016 |
Wth God everytin is possible |
Re: Keeping A Long Distance Relationship Alive by layla129(f): 12:36am On Apr 03, 2016 |
Kelvin125:So, ayam a packet of salt?? ![]() |
Re: Keeping A Long Distance Relationship Alive by layla129(f): 12:37am On Apr 03, 2016 |
1 Like |
Re: Keeping A Long Distance Relationship Alive by wiringdpt(m): 12:43am On Apr 03, 2016 |
Thanks layla129: 1 Like |
Re: Keeping A Long Distance Relationship Alive by Chommieblaq(f): 12:44am On Apr 03, 2016 |
Re: Keeping A Long Distance Relationship Alive by Kelvin125(m): 12:46am On Apr 03, 2016 |
layla129:if you are not an Igbo, try to marry one. Check my signature |
Re: Keeping A Long Distance Relationship Alive by RuggedAngel: 12:47am On Apr 03, 2016 |
layla129: |
Re: Keeping A Long Distance Relationship Alive by layla129(f): 12:52am On Apr 03, 2016 |
Kelvin125:Lol, thanks anyway |
Re: Keeping A Long Distance Relationship Alive by layla129(f): 12:53am On Apr 03, 2016 |
Re: Keeping A Long Distance Relationship Alive by layla129(f): 12:54am On Apr 03, 2016 |
wiringdpt:You're welcome |
Re: Keeping A Long Distance Relationship Alive by TonyeBarcanista(m): 12:55am On Apr 03, 2016 |
layla129:You are as beautiful as your intellect. I owe you a drink ma'am 1 Like |
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