TonyeBarcanista:
You are as beautiful as your intellect. I owe you a drink ma'am

Bluezy13:
She is asking for a way to intensify their romance regarding the long distance....





But comments above...
Seems they reason with their anus.




And here comes Layla with some sense.

layla129:

Yipee! Can't wait. Pls make it hollandia yoghurt ...thank you

TonyeBarcanista:
Your choice my dear...




are you in a LD relationship?

unity2016:

It works for some people. just because yours didn't work out doesn't mean that hers wouldn't. Relationship needs time and energy to make it work so if u see it as waste then...

fulanigirl:
I need some help on how to keep my long distance relationship alive. We've been together for almost 2 years, the first year we were in the same city but he moved away almost a year ago. We've been fighting so much and with our wedding next July it's worrying. I was hoping I can get some ideas on keeping the romance in our relationship.

fulanigirl:
I need some help on how to keep my long distance relationship alive. We've been together for almost 2 years, the first year we were in the same city but he moved away almost a year ago. We've been fighting so much and with our wedding next July it's worrying. I was hoping I can get some ideas on keeping the romance in our relationship.

layla129:
Yeah, what can a sister do

fulanigirl:
I need some help on how to keep my long distance relationship alive. We've been together for almost 2 years, the first year we were in the same city but he moved away almost a year ago. We've been fighting so much and with our wedding next July it's worrying. I was hoping I can get some ideas on keeping the romance in our relationship.

Cutehector:
Urm night calls, be kinky, dnt be too holier Dan thou..


Tell him u miss him, u want him so badly. Etc.


Phew. Am so tired of all dem how are u, have u eatn talks. Bores me to death

fulanigirl:


Thank you for your wonderful contributions

fulanigirl:
I need some help on how to keep my long distance relationship alive. We've been together for almost 2 years, the first year we were in the same city but he moved away almost a year ago. We've been fighting so much and with our wedding next July it's worrying. I was hoping I can get some ideas on keeping the romance in our relationship.

layla129:
It can be really frustrating and boring at a point i tell you but a distant relationship that survives only grows stronger. I'll share some of my personal tips from experience with you which has helped and is still keeping us going.
1. Visit each other; if you're lucky to be in the same country, visit each other. And if in different countries, still visit. Spend time and money on travels.

2. Video calls/ chats; being able to see each other regularly and talking about EVERYTHING develops intimacy. Send photos, take shots specifically for him.

3. Make an effort and be determined to make things work; if he's a very busy dude like mine, my sister you have to really try. U jst have to pin him down to get things sorted. The longer issues linger, the gap becomes wider.

4. Keep yourself busy; focus on your life too, develop yourself... apart from the personal benefits you gain from this, it tends to take your mind off the thoughts of him for a while. And i'm sure he'll even respect u more for that.

5. Set some rules; in my case, i made it a standard that we should never sleep over a disagreement. We must settle it before it before we both go to bed...i've gone to bed 3am on an occassion because we just had to straighten out things.
We know each other's schedule for the whole day

6.talk dirty to each other and be very romantic; you know what to do
Plus, tell him when you're angry or unhappy about anything because he is not with you physically to see your expressions.

These are the ones i remember for now, i hope they were helpful? Hang in there sis

mikolo80:
what do you fight about?

DedeNkem:


Your situation is vague. You didn't specify the problem you're having with him and how it came about. So you won't get the specific advice you need.

Long distance relationship is not a genuine reason for a GOOD relationship to fail. Women have great intuition to know if a relationship is a viable one for them or not, but most of them don't use it and always end up heart-broken.

Nobody here on NL would give you a better advice than your guts! You know your relationship more than anyone here. So if you feel something is not right and you did everything you could to make it right but failed, dump him now before it's too late.

Don't marry for marrying sake, marry the right person for you. Most Nigerian women's dream is to get married and not focusing on marrying the right person. This is also applicable to most Nigerian men.

Think before making any long-term decision.

Cutehector:
very very nice reply. Such people are so so timid. They can't say nutty things on fone. It's very anoyin. They are scared of u thinkn dat they r spoilt hence they wana be very careful with their choice of words.

nkemdi89:
Considering the economic situation of the country, the quest for greener pastures has led most partners to live apart, it's all about understanding. My childhood friend in the army always watsapp me to call the wife that he is online due to his inability to make voice call in borno. The important thing is for both parties to be busy as that tend to reduce boredom, what if your partner is always on transfer, does it mean you will relocate every where with him or her?.

wellmax:


1000 likes.
This is the one reason my bea's call doesn't interest me again. One minute into MY call, na so so 'have you eaten?, what did you eat?" Do you miss me? Don't know why, but this question annoys me so much.

Evanescent:
The situation is now even worse within naija after MTN stopped free midnight calls

MrHackmed1:
hmmmm, not always easy but seriously, first thing is trust yourself, then money is needed to sustain it because only best way is constant communication. And meaningful talks not boring talks oh!

Let me share my experience; back in 2013 September



She graduated last year, now serving and We got married last week Saturday and settled in Abuja

Wow!I love this!
I'm thrilled!!

I'm happy for you bro,may Allah's rahmah be upon your union.
Congrats.

EggovinMma:
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My dear, it's like that.We fight like everyday, on phone, on air and in the sea.But man wey one marry you go marry you, just keep calling, send lovely message and once in a while intentionally make him angry, that shakes him up a little.



Like me, I can just wake up in the morning, and start like this,"so baby last you didn't bother to call me because you went to club, that ya penis wey no reach wetin dem fit add for 50 naira indomie as protein. ....."Fight don start be that.

layla129:

Yipee! Can't wait. Pls make it hollandia yoghurt ...thank you

Free Drink

fulanigirl:


We were together for the first year but the second year has been long distance. He visits and he is in touch, it's when he's away we fight a lot.

RadicallyBlunt:
Shebi u knw as una dey do am. U go gossipally find one gossip informant as friend mounted around where he stays to dey give u info as he dey flex. Abi no be so?

fulanigirl:
I need some help on how to keep my long distance relationship alive. We've been together for almost 2 years, the first year we were in the same city but he moved away almost a year ago. We've been fighting so much and with our wedding next July it's worrying. I was hoping I can get some ideas on keeping the romance in our relationship.