mysticgal:
Hey op, my heart goes out to you, but do you think committing suicide wouldn't make your wife cry and sad? Now a question I'll ask, is if you love your wife? because if you do, you'll rather fight life and smoothen the roughened edges and tops.
Don't be a coward, if not for yourself, fight for that kid and his mother , knowing that, at least that there is a backbone, supporting and working for them.

mysticgal:
Hey op, my heart goes out to you, but do you think committing suicide wouldn't make your wife cry and sad? Now a question I'll ask, is if you love your wife? because if you do, you'll rather fight life and smoothen the roughened edges and tops.
Don't be a coward, if not for yourself, fight for that kid and his mother , knowing that, at least that there is a backbone, supporting and working for them.

mysticgal:
Hey op, my heart goes out to you, but do you think committing suicide wouldn't make your wife cry and sad? Now a question I'll ask, is if you love your wife? because if you do, you'll rather fight life and smoothen the roughened edges and tops.
Don't be a coward, if not for yourself, fight for that kid and his mother , knowing that, at least that there is a backbone, supporting and working for them.

Femich18:
Xo sorry about all that have happened. But to be frank with you killing yourself is not the solution. Why take a life that you can't create. FYI there are thousands of people are passing through hell and they have never for once have that kind of thought. Please we are all passing through ours, but the difference is that we are not giving up. Never give up in life and success will smile on you.
Finally, Your baby needs you more than what you cant imagine and please keep the struggle on and definitely there will be light at the end of the tunnel. Shalom

endehT:



Thank you very much ma,but at age 34(in a few days), it really hurts to know i can't boast of 100NGN(one hundred) in my account!!!

I really love my family,and would rather be dead than see them suffer for a day. I can't stand it. It gets really worse when people start distancing theirselves from you ,not picking up your calls etc,because they presume your calls come with a request.

It is shameful and hurtful. I will rather be selfish,and end it all,than being 'generous',with nothing to show for it.

Thanks once again ma.

endehT:



Thank you very much sir. The truth is,certain things hurt more than a knife-cut. I have tried, reasoned and remained hopeful,but believe me,it gets really harder by the day. God knows i have done everything humanely possible(from my end),to end this strife,but NO,it's not working,the situation gets extremely critical by the hour.

Thank you sir once again

mysticgal:

Now op, what do you want, specifically, say it.

IdisuleOurOwn:
Hello!


There are some certain things I'd need to know about you before I start, which are;

where do you live? Your environment matters a lot in this case of yours. Talking about can't boast of 100 naira at the age of 32.


Are you religious?
Try visiting your pastor/ parish priest or Imam for advise/counselling?


What are your qualifications?

endehT:



Thank you very much sir.

I live in Lagos state,Egbeda precisely. I am a Christian.

I am a graduate of Economics,and i have done some Courses,Trainings and Programs too.

akinloluwao:
You are a coward. You are not fit to be called a husband and a father. Now you want to commit suicide and leave your wife and son to face this situation alone? I am very sorry for you bro. Though times don't last, only tough people do. These challenges will soon pass away.

Now you have to set your priorities right. Any time you have little challenges, face it like a man that you are. You are suppose to lighten the burden of your family, not to add more to their problems.

Just talk to yourself and man up.

You are coming out with testimonies.

endehT:



Thank you sir. But for me to have resolved to such, then it shows i have done and tried all that is possible from my end. I might sound like a coward,but really,I pray you don't experience anything of such,as you might have to re-define who a coward is.

Siena:
Brother, my heart goes out to you.

But...I feel what you propose to do is NOT going to make things easier for your young family. This is Nigeria, where creditors can chase your next of kin for a debt. Don't do this to your family, rom what you're proposing, there is no going back.

Make a list of your immediate debts, in order of priority, and give the total. I am willing to help, and I'm sure the good people of Nairaland will chip in. Of course there will be some verification details to take care of, but first things first.

akinloluwao:
I have experienced much more difficult situation. If I tell you my story you will cry on my behalf. Guess what? I came out stronger and better. I still have challenges here and there but my God is bigger than all my problems. I rather trust in Him. If u kill yourself now, will u also kill yourself when you get to hell? God forbid. Just be strong. You are coming out a better person.

endehT:
This just brought tears to my eyes. Sir, I am available for any form of verification to be done. May you find God's favour in all you lay your hands on sir.

IdisuleOurOwn:



Don't tell you can't boast of #100 when they are menial works out there. Have you tried/try working as a labourer for a bricklayer? Just for the time been, to cater for your family.


Have you seek for financial assistance from families and friends?


Did you seek for advice from your pastor?

Agbaletu:
I think it would have been better to seek help than to end your life.
Ask for job
Ask for your debt to be taken care of.

Let me tell you this, if you end your life now God will not forgive you. Your wife will be in trouble and when your son grows up he will never forgives you. Your son will spit on your grave.

Yomieluv:
This is serious.
You said you had sought help from over 260contacts on your phones,yet no good responses.

It might sound funny,why not seek a spiritual help from your pastor,or Imam.

And please don't commit suicide,suicide is for cowards.

If you see,or hear other people's tribulation,you will thank God.

Winners don't quit.

mysticgal:
Op, please could you do as the Mr siena says, list your debts then total it, so that willing people could help

GENIUS18:
I think there are some menial jobs that could fetch up to 3000-5000 Naira daily. I embarked on a project recently and I know how much I had paid the labourers. Don't be a coward by leaving your family to suffer, when you can still fix the problem. Forget the past glory, focus on fixing the present, for a better future.

endehT:




Yes sir,I work(menial) at a construction site,somewhere around Seliat Bus/stop. I resume around 8am,and I leave 4/5pm sir. I lift Mixed cement and fetch water with the other construction workers. Even tho',the Site Engineer feels really awkward anytime he sees me on the site,with the pan on my head.

What I get there is not enough to get food items,toiletries,utility bills etc(saving becomes a luxury),but it is way better than being at home all day,with bills mounting.

My siblings are the 'don't worry,I will assist' kind.
Same with my Pastor. But I really can't hasten or blame anybody for my woes or predicament!

favoured234:
I am not the type that goes all spiritual but for this time, I will tell you to rely wholly on God.. Pray all you can, convert your starvation to fasting
Death is not a sure way out....
Maybe it would have been more honorable if you cried out on NL for food or money than to say you want to attempt suicide...

I have seen very rich men crash and very poor men grow so keep hope alive