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Re: Suicide On A Birthday! by mysticgal(f): 8:27am On Apr 03, 2016 |
endehT:Do you want to work at a bank? I think fidelity bank, skye bank and union bank are collecting c's, check it out here, https://www.nairaland.com/3016401/banking-jobs I am willing to help |
Re: Suicide On A Birthday! by endehT: 8:30am On Apr 03, 2016 |
thorpido: A good morning to you sir. Yes,at the bolded,that is what I have been doing for some time sir. I am available and ready to be checked out at your convenience too. Thank you for your kind gesture sir. |
Re: Suicide On A Birthday! by endehT: 8:38am On Apr 03, 2016 |
mysticgal: Yes ma'am,I wouldn't mind working with a Bank. Will submit my CV on there right away. Thank you very much ma'am. May God bless you wonderfully. C V sent. Thanks ma. |
Re: Suicide On A Birthday! by mysticgal(f): 8:41am On Apr 03, 2016 |
endehT:You are welcome, though I am a miss ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Suicide On A Birthday! by LeJeun3: 8:41am On Apr 03, 2016 |
Sorry I might come across to you as too harsh. But I was wondering why you didn't come to Nairaland to ask for help before but came to tell us you are going to kill urself?? Ironic you know... 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Suicide On A Birthday! by endehT: 8:50am On Apr 03, 2016 |
LewsTherin: Thank you very much sir for reading and commenting. I understand your scepticism about this, however,why would I be willing to be contacted and have my story verified,if it was all a farce? May you never experience a fraction of what I am going through sir. Thank you |
Re: Suicide On A Birthday! by endehT: 9:00am On Apr 03, 2016 |
LeJeun3: You are right and not harsh sir. But the reason I never came on NL to seek for help was due to the fact that i had always believed it was a phase,which would pass over,and i never, until yesterday, ever thought of ending it all. |
Re: Suicide On A Birthday! by Winneygirl(f): 12:08pm On Apr 03, 2016 |
I would also recommend that you seek opportunities outside Lagos. Some locations are not as fast-paced and the cost of living is not as high. You could get a job that 'seemingly' doesn't pay very high, but becos the cost of living in your location is not too high, you would be able to get by. You can send me a PM and I will drop you an email you can forward your cv to. You should also dust up your cv so that it is tailored to the job you are applying for, instead of having a general purpose cv. 1 Like |
Re: Suicide On A Birthday! by endehT: 12:58pm On Apr 03, 2016 |
Winneygirl: Thank you very much ma'am. I do appreciate your words of advice. As it is,I am willing to move out of Lagos,as long as I can get a paid employment,and have something(funds) sent back home at the end of the month. Thanks once again ma'am. Would do you a PM right away too. |
Re: Suicide On A Birthday! by Breadfruit: 1:29pm On Apr 03, 2016 |
Pending when all these would be resolved, I suggest you meet the branch manager of the bank where you took the loan. Make him understand you are making efforts to pay up. Atleast, you were not defaulting till you lost your job. 2. If anything happens to you, it won't be written off. Rather your next of kin would take the fall.... List the debts as was suggested to you earlier.... |
Re: Suicide On A Birthday! by endehT: 1:34pm On Apr 03, 2016 |
I will like to thank everybody that has viewed,read and dropped comments on this thread. It was a really disappointing decision,to have even nursed the idea of suicide. I regret my line of thought,and I apologise to everybody(including my family members),for even daring to go that way. The comments here have given me a positive outlook on life and also,they have changed my perception about the dark days. The most important lesson I have learnt here is 'when there's life,there is hope'. Thank you all for the kind gestures and encouragement. Also,the need for a good/stable job cannot be over emphasized. I look forward to starting a new chapter in my life,with the much needed push and counselling, I have been able to garner from the wonderful people of NL. Truly, solace could be found in the least expected way,place and form! As advised by some of the members of NL(SIENA,THORPIDO,MYSTICGAL),I have broken down the immediate needs and financial obligations. Please find below. Loan Repayment : 18,000/Month (9 months remaining,due to default in repayment n interest) = 162,000 Kid's school Fees. = 25,000 Food stuffs,Utility bills etc. = 20,000 Rent Balance. = 30,000 TOTAL : 237,000 I am still very much available for crosschecking,verifying and confirmation too. Thank you and God bless and keep us all. |
Re: Suicide On A Birthday! by endehT: 1:43pm On Apr 03, 2016 |
Breadfruit: Thank you very much sir. I have just outlined the financial obligations. The said Financial institution is not a Bank sir,but a consumer finance firm. Prior to yesterday's incident,I had always called to give them updates about my situation. Thank you sir |
Re: Suicide On A Birthday! by endehT: 1:47pm On Apr 03, 2016 |
thorpido: I have outlined the most pressing needs sir. Also,will you still be coming over,so I can PM you my address and direction sir? Thank you very much sir. |
Re: Suicide On A Birthday! by Nobody: 1:51pm On Apr 03, 2016 |
Still doubt this Need time trusted member to verify. Provide details Finance bank Children's school are the kids in school cos this session is already half way through. Construction job...where is it? Provide details of these without revealing their names. Then when a reputable person offers to verify you can provide your name bia PM. |
Re: Suicide On A Birthday! by Nobody: 1:57pm On Apr 03, 2016 |
salsera: I understand your reservations, and agree with the verification aspect. Ifyalways would be my member of choice, depending on her workload and location. There are others too, if anyone could make suggestions, that would be great. |
Re: Suicide On A Birthday! by endehT: 2:29pm On Apr 03, 2016 |
salsera: Thank you very much ma. I fully understand the points you have raised. However,I would like to answer and make some clarifications as regards some of the questions you raised. Finance Bank - It is not a bank,but a consumer finance firm for soft and personal loans. Their head office,which is the only office I have been to severally,is located on Bishop Aboyade Cole street,off Ademola Adetokunboh,Victoria Island. They occupy an office space on the second floor. Children's School Fees : I have a 2year old kid,and they vacated(2nd Term) a week before the Easter celebrations. They have a 2 week break,and will resume on the 11th of April,which is next week Monday. Construction Job: Actually it is not a construction job,but a menial job on a construction site(building). It is located around Seliat. I am very much available for the verification exercise. Thank you once again. |
Re: Suicide On A Birthday! by jashar(f): 2:33pm On Apr 03, 2016 |
your grammatical use of English is too good for you to end your life. 7 Likes |
Re: Suicide On A Birthday! by uwemjack(m): 2:44pm On Apr 03, 2016 |
endehT: A baby learning to walk can fall down over a 100 times! But he keeps trying, eventually he learns to walks. A grown man who has learnt how to walk and has perfected the act of walking, still misteps and falls down once in a while, but he never stays down he stands backup, dusts himself and keeps walking. Challenges comes to all of us in varying degrees, but whatever the degree of your challenge you have enough capacity to manage and overcome it. Don't give up on yourself! Don't give up on your kid! THIS TOO SHALL PASS! I have a site am managing and I can guarantee you 12,000 per week Monday to Friday and half day on Saturday as a labourer. With opportunity to earn more If your interested. NEVER GIVE UP |
Re: Suicide On A Birthday! by endehT: 2:46pm On Apr 03, 2016 |
jashar: Thank you very much ma'am. Based on the encouragement and words of advice from each and every one on this thread,i have decided to make a recant(informally tho'), and also apologise to all concerned,passively or otherwise. Thank you once again. 1 Like |
Re: Suicide On A Birthday! by endehT: 2:51pm On Apr 03, 2016 |
uwemjack: Thank you sir for your golden words. I appreciate your proposition more . Tomorrow being a Monday,can i come over to start sir? Thank you sir. PS: I am in Lagos sir. |
Re: Suicide On A Birthday! by Nobody: 2:58pm On Apr 03, 2016 |
uwemjack: Jack, God bless you for your kind offer. 1 Like |
Re: Suicide On A Birthday! by Nobody: 4:14pm On Apr 03, 2016 |
endehT: What's your wife doing to bring in funds If she's not working then pull your daughter out of school. She's 2years old its not necessary. Is she also sourcing funds or are you doing this solo. My questions maybe intrusive but its necessary. Cos you're doing labourer work so that's like day rate 2500 Jobs are scarce and you're competing with recent grads too. Take it from me I've been on this 2years plus. Dig deep and pull out other talents you have. You write well so consider proofreading. article writing, research, project work. It may pay 5000 or less but that's more than your day labourer work. You need different hustles because you are servicing loans here. So combine all you have. 1 Like |
Re: Suicide On A Birthday! by Pidggin(f): 4:25pm On Apr 03, 2016 |
So you pay N25K for your two year old child's school fees? |
Re: Suicide On A Birthday! by mysticgal(f): 4:25pm On Apr 03, 2016 |
I would love to make some observations please , If your child's school fees is 25 thousand naira, why not register him at an affordable school. Cut your coat according to your cloth. Mind you, I said if the school fee is 25k,but if it is an accumulated school fee debt, then no problem. And please, I think a verification of the op should made for further help. Thanks |
Re: Suicide On A Birthday! by endehT: 4:34pm On Apr 03, 2016 |
mysticgal: Thank you ma'am. It was previously not up to that amount. The upgrade happened at the end of the past term. Already thinking along that direction(school swapping) too,but it will only be wise to do,before a new session commences. Thanks ma |
Re: Suicide On A Birthday! by endehT: 4:36pm On Apr 03, 2016 |
Pidggin: About to ma'am. It wasn't up to this during the previous terms. I have all the payment receipts,invoices and all that readily available for confirmation too. Thanks ma! |
Re: Suicide On A Birthday! by Pidggin(f): 4:42pm On Apr 03, 2016 |
endehT: Okay, I was thinking you can put the child in a free school for now until things improve financially for you. Have you tried teaching or organizing after school lessons? |
Re: Suicide On A Birthday! by endehT: 4:45pm On Apr 03, 2016 |
salsera: Thank you very much ma'am. Your questions are not intrusive,but probing,which i see as part of you being concerned. Wifey is doing all she can in her own little capacity. Being a seamstress,most of the projects(that don't come regularly) she gets,are where she gets little proceeds from,which she judiciously makes use of, for the upkeep and support of the family. I will go with some of your advice ma'am. Thank you |
Re: Suicide On A Birthday! by endehT: 4:52pm On Apr 03, 2016 |
Pidggin: Yes,i made an arrangement with a particular (teacher)friend of mine,as regards taking some of his Students some after-school subjects (English Civic Studies and Economics),but we are yet to have that kick-started,as he explained sometime last week, that he was still very much on it. Thank you ma. 1 Like |
Re: Suicide On A Birthday! by PenAndPaper: 4:57pm On Apr 03, 2016 |
Op, can I have your CV so I can upgrade it for you? I write for a living (resumes most of the time) and I feel this could increase your chances when looking for a job. Please PM me so I can give you the email to send your CV to. I would also love to help when someone has verified your story. Regards |
Re: Suicide On A Birthday! by endehT: 5:03pm On Apr 03, 2016 |
PenAndPaper: Thank you so much Sir/Ma. I will send you a PM right away. Thank you once again- God bless. |
Re: Suicide On A Birthday! by endehT: 5:10pm On Apr 03, 2016 |
Winneygirl: Hello ma'am,sorry for disturbing you. Please, i am still awaiting the email via PM,so I can forward my CV to. Thank you ma. |
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