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Re: Suicide On A Birthday! by PenAndPaper: 5:16pm On Apr 03, 2016
endehT:



Hello ma'am,sorry for disturbing you. Please, i am still awaiting the email via PM,so I can forward my CV to.

Thank you ma.
I just replied the message.
Please send me the CV so I can work on it ASAP.
Re: Suicide On A Birthday! by endehT: 5:29pm On Apr 03, 2016
PenAndPaper:

I just replied the message.
Please send me the CV so I can work on it ASAP.


Thank you very much for this extremely kind gesture. I have forwarded my CV to the email.

Thank you once again ma
Re: Suicide On A Birthday! by uwemjack(m): 5:45pm On Apr 03, 2016
endehT:



Thank you sir for your golden words. I appreciate your proposition more . Tomorrow being a Monday,can i come over to start sir?
Thank you sir.

PS: I am in Lagos sir.

Location is elegushi area in ibeju-lekki axis, call me tomorrow by 4pm so we can arrange for Tuesday as am not going to site on Monday.

At this point I need to stress the importance of one learning a 'handwork' that one can fall back on at anytime if white collar 'fall hand', like this case. As your kids are going to school register them also to learn a trade maybe after school or on weekends. You never know the trade they learn may become their main source of income latter on, you never know.

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Re: Suicide On A Birthday! by thorpido(m): 5:54pm On Apr 03, 2016
endehT:




I have outlined the most pressing needs sir. Also,will you still be coming over,so I can PM you my address and direction sir?

Thank you very much sir.
I was thinking of meeting you at the construction site where you say you work on a working day.If you are available,i could also meet you in the next 30-60mins.
Is it possible I see your certificate,loan documents,payment receipts and rent receipt if we meet?
Let me know.
Re: Suicide On A Birthday! by endehT: 5:55pm On Apr 03, 2016
uwemjack:


Location is elegushi area in ibeju-lekki axis, call me tomorrow by 4pm so we can arrange for Tuesday as am not going to site on Monday.

At this point I need to stress the importance of one learning a 'handwork' that one can fall back on at anytime if white collar 'fall hand', like this case. As your kids are going to school register them also to learn a trade maybe after school or on weekends. You never know the trade they learn may become their main source of income latter on, you never know.

Thank you very much sir for your response. I will call you exactly 4pm tomorrow sir.

Thanks for your warm advice as well sir.
Re: Suicide On A Birthday! by endehT: 5:59pm On Apr 03, 2016
thorpido:
I was thinking of meeting you at the construction site where you say you work on a working day.If you are available,i could also meet you in the next 30-60mins.
Is it possible I see your certificate,loan documents,payment receipts and rent receipt if we meet?
Let me know.

Ok,30-45mins(6:30pm - 6:45pm) would be fine sir. Will get those Documents ready and where would you want me to bring them to sir?
Re: Suicide On A Birthday! by thorpido(m): 6:05pm On Apr 03, 2016
endehT:


Ok,30-45mins(6:30pm - 6:45pm) would be fine sir. Will get those Documents ready and where would you want me to bring them to sir?
Since you are at Egbeda,we could meet there.I will be at Egbeda bus stop in the next 30mins.
Re: Suicide On A Birthday! by endehT: 6:16pm On Apr 03, 2016
thorpido:
Since you are at Egbeda,we could meet there.Flash or send a text 2 this no:.I will be at Egbeda bus stop in the next 30mins.


I sent a message to the number already sir.
Re: Suicide On A Birthday! by WHOcarex: 6:54pm On Apr 03, 2016
It is well
Re: Suicide On A Birthday! by mysticgal(f): 7:41pm On Apr 03, 2016
Any show
Re: Suicide On A Birthday! by endehT: 7:52pm On Apr 03, 2016
Good evening everybody. I just met(alongside the requested documents) with the person behind the ID 'thorpido',and I must say it is a huge honour and privilege to have had a discussion with you sir.

Thank you for your words of encouragement sir,and also the parting gift. May God replenish your pocket in many folds sir.

Am still available for further verification and confirmation to be carried out by any other person/body or group.

God bless each and everyone that has viewed, read or contributed on this thread.

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Re: Suicide On A Birthday! by thorpido(m): 7:55pm On Apr 03, 2016
mysticgal:
Any show

I met with the Op about an hour ago.I was able to verify that indeed he is married.He has a 2yr old son.
He is a graduate of economics.I verified the wedding certificate,birth certificate and his school certificates.
I saw receipts of payments of school fees for his son.
I also saw the caretaker's notice of rent due which is N30,000 as at end of march.

I encourage anyone willing to help to please do especially towards securing a job.He is a graduate of economics,8yrs post-graduate who has worked in a few companies but lost jobs due to downsizing.

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Re: Suicide On A Birthday! by mysticgal(f): 8:08pm On Apr 03, 2016
thorpido:


I met with the Op about an hour ago.I was able to verify that indeed he is married.He has a 2yr old son.
He is a graduate of economics.I verified the wedding certificate,birth certificate and his school certificates.
I saw receipts of payments of school fees for his son.
I also saw the caretaker's notice of rent due which is N30,000 as at end of march.

I encourage anyone willing to help to please do especially towards securing a job.He is a graduate of economics,8yrs post-graduate who has worked in a few companies but lost jobs due to downsizing.

Ok

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Re: Suicide On A Birthday! by peeparty(m): 8:17pm On Apr 03, 2016
Uyai idem mfo abadie ?
mysticgal:
Ok
Re: Suicide On A Birthday! by mysticgal(f): 8:20pm On Apr 03, 2016
peeparty:
Uyai idem mfo abadie ?
Please what is that
Re: Suicide On A Birthday! by peeparty(m): 8:31pm On Apr 03, 2016
Meaning how are you?
mysticgal:
Please what is that
Re: Suicide On A Birthday! by elijah101(m): 9:31pm On Apr 03, 2016
When is this guy birthday so i can remind him .. please guys help me beg him to drop his number too , so i can call him on his birthday , If he does not commit suicide , NA GOD GO PUNISH AM ....

If you hear my story you no go dey think rubbish .. You don chop cocoyam leave , add just grounded peper and magi and salt to am , then dey beg for garri up and down .. just to feed family .. nothing inside ooo .. the soup water go plenty die so the soup go tay .. Guy if you dont kill your self .. GOD WILL PUNISH YOU ..

You no go sit down think well ..

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Re: Suicide On A Birthday! by elijah101(m): 9:34pm On Apr 03, 2016
You people are even going to see him to verify shit .. At his age .. with the whole school wey him go ..

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Re: Suicide On A Birthday! by byvan03: 9:52pm On Apr 03, 2016
Suicide really? Ask around on how many helpless widows that wear their fingers thin to fend for their kids, yet none commits suicide. You are just 34, stop talking like a complete loser and think like the man you said you are .

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Re: Suicide On A Birthday! by player007(m): 10:15pm On Apr 03, 2016
Like everybody has said, you HAVE to be Stronger now than you have ever been if not for you then do it for you Wife and Son. You leaving them behind in this moment of peril will only make them Suffer and from all you'v said. You sound like you love them both. For every man/woman there is an 'appointed' time. I will advice you to go close to God, ask for Forgivness then tell HIM to show you the way. Nobody else can. Hang in there Brother.
Will say a Prayer for you tonight.
Send me a msg on whatsapp 08104652459 let's talk
Re: Suicide On A Birthday! by endehT: 10:26pm On Apr 03, 2016
byvan03:
Suicide really? Ask around on how many helpless widows that wear their fingers thin to fend for their kids, yet none commits suicide. You are just 34, stop talking like a complete loser and think like the man you said you are .

Thank you very much sir for your words. I appreciate.

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Re: Suicide On A Birthday! by endehT: 10:28pm On Apr 03, 2016
player007:
Like everybody has said, you HAVE to be Stronger now than you have ever been if not for you then do it for you Wife and Son. You leaving them behind in this moment of peril will only make them Suffer and from all you'v said. You sound like you love them both. For every man/woman there is an 'appointed' time. I will advice you to go close to God, ask for Forgivness then tell HIM to show you the way. Nobody else can. Hang in there Brother.
Will say a Prayer for you tonight.
Send me a msg on whatsapp 08104652459 let's talk

Thank you so much sir. You are a really compassionate person. Thanks once again sir. Will send a message to you on whatsapp right away too.

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Re: Suicide On A Birthday! by Nobody: 5:43am On Apr 04, 2016
Player007, I need prayers too
OP when I saw the breakdown of the whole thing I laughed so hard that tears dropped out of my eyes, then I called a friend and we had a good laugh at you... Funny that you equate your life to that small stress
God keeping us alive, in 6 months time I pray you have cause to have a look at how you felt this period... then you will have a good laugh at yourself

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Re: Suicide On A Birthday! by endehT: 5:47am On Apr 04, 2016
favoured234:
Player007, I need prayers too
OP when I saw the breakdown of the whole thing I laughed so hard that tears dropped out of my eyes, then I called a friend and we had a good laugh at you... Funny that you equate your life to that small stress
God keeping us alive, in 6 months time I pray you have cause to have a look at how you felt this period... then you will have a good laugh at yourself


Thank you ma'am for the prayers,and a good morning to you.
Re: Suicide On A Birthday! by elijah101(m): 6:47am On Apr 04, 2016
You better kill yourself , we are still waiting ooo

You are off no use , if you dont have fighting spirit or endurance spirit , everybody know bad situation dont last . that's if you work hard ooo . but if you dont .. you will die in poverty ooo ... But me i want you to kill your self .. at least you will leave the money wey you suppose get later for people like us
Re: Suicide On A Birthday! by elijah101(m): 7:02am On Apr 04, 2016
And again , dont just kill your self alone , just kill your wife and kid , because you go add to there problem if only you die .. and the weather no go nice for them at all .. e go red and e go hot .. So i will just advise you kill them too ..

Use poison so the death go happen together , una go just use the poison drink garri .. or drink am alone sha .. anyone make sense .. but me i prefer make you drink the poison alone , so the death go dey very painful .... and add garri your wife and kid own ..

I can't wait to attend your family funeral .. Shey money go dey to do burial sha ..

Sha drop your town address .. so i can go and chop your burial Rice
Re: Suicide On A Birthday! by BluStreak(m): 7:35am On Apr 04, 2016
elijah101:
And again , dont just kill your self alone , just kill your wife and kid , because you go add to there problem if only you die .. and the weather no go nice for them at all .. e go red and e go hot .. So i will just advise you kill them too ..

Use poison so the death go happen together , una go just use the poison drink garri .. or drink am alone sha .. anyone make sense .. but me i prefer make you drink the poison alone , so the death go dey very painful .... and add garri your wife and kid own ..

I can't wait to attend your family funeral .. Shey money go dey to do burial sha ..

Sha drop your town address .. so i can go and chop your burial Rice

Someone is being idiotic here. Just as God didn't make all fingers equal, just as God didn't make every man a hunk, just as God didn't make every skin black, just as God didn't make everyone tall, just as He didn't make every woman with curves and beauty to die for, so also did he make us with varying levels of endurance and resilience.

Some people were not born beautiful but with encouragement and good words from their surrounding, they found an inner beauty that shown outwards. This man needs encouragement in whichever way possible by us here as a family and not condemnation. You don't know what it means to be deserted by folks who once rallied round you to get ur support.

Please let this man be if you have nothing good to offer him. His predicament doesn't make for a rhetoric outburst if that's what you will imply.

God's armour of love will shield us all.

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Re: Suicide On A Birthday! by Blade21: 7:48am On Apr 04, 2016
elijah101:
And again , dont just kill your self alone , just kill your wife and kid , because you go add to there problem if only you die .. and the weather no go nice for them at all .. e go red and e go hot .. So i will just advise you kill them too ..

Use poison so the death go happen together , una go just use the poison drink garri .. or drink am alone sha .. anyone make sense .. but me i prefer make you drink the poison alone , so the death go dey very painful .... and add garri your wife and kid own ..

I can't wait to attend your family funeral .. Shey money go dey to do burial sha ..

Sha drop your town address .. so i can go and chop your burial Rice
guy calm down you were brave and overcame doesn't mean everyone Is that tough, we are all wired differently so be nice and if you can't be move along haba all of these shuu

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Re: Suicide On A Birthday! by bolseas(f): 7:55am On Apr 04, 2016
I initially wanted to scream BLOODY Coward, but when I read your story further, I realised that you have tried a lot of things but the outcomes are not what you expected.


People have written, advised you.....

I am happy you now have a rethink. A problem shared is a problem half solved. But in your own case, it is a problem fully solved. Sometimes it is good to open up.

What I keep thinking is that what if after killing yourself, those places where you went for interviews called you to offer you the job. I mean about 3/4 companies called almost at the same time.


You are a hard-working and honest person, your command of English is soooo on point.

I believe that we will congratulate you soon.

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Re: Suicide On A Birthday! by elijah101(m): 7:56am On Apr 04, 2016
them tell you say na soft hand them dey use take care of pikin , if you pamper the pikin .. the pikin go spoil .. use strong hand .. and the pikin no go spoil for your hand but e fit come spoil outside .. una dey pamper am .. that one is speaking english .. Employ him with your english na .. or give him money to invest .. you will not tell him the truth .. you are encouraging him .. you better tell him to die if there is no way out ..

Nobody came to my rescue ... I find rescue go him house ...
Re: Suicide On A Birthday! by endehT: 8:00am On Apr 04, 2016
BluStreak:


Someone is being idiotic here. Just as God didn't make all fingers equal, just as God didn't make every man a hunk, just as God didn't make every skin black, just as God didn't make everyone tall, just as He didn't make every woman with curves and beauty to die for, so also did he make us with varying levels of endurance and resilience.

Some people were not born beautiful but with encouragement and good words from their surrounding, they found an inner beauty that shown outwards. This man needs encouragement in whichever way possible by us here as a family and not condemnation. You don't know what it means to be deserted by folks who once rallied round you to get ur support.

Please let this man be if you have nothing good to offer him. His predicament doesn't make for a rhetoric outburst if that's what you will imply.

God's armour of love will shield us all.


Thank you very much sir. It is a privilege to (still) have people like you(with perceptive understanding of life),on faceless forums.

Thank you once again sir.
Re: Suicide On A Birthday! by elijah101(m): 8:06am On Apr 04, 2016
Ohhh , you still have data to update Nairaland sef .. Jesus .. You no dey suffer na ....

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