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Re: How My Fiancee Tricked Me, What Can I Do To Get Out Of This Mess. by ezenik: 7:10pm On Apr 04, 2016 |
Brother base on my experience,if she refuse to do the marriage here before travel please forget her,same thing happen to me,even 4 of my friend in united kingdom. She will marry to another person there and wasted your time,I have pass through all what am telling you. God bless you 1 Like |
Re: How My Fiancee Tricked Me, What Can I Do To Get Out Of This Mess. by zezebabyxoxo: 7:11pm On Apr 04, 2016 |
Ok 2 Likes |
Re: How My Fiancee Tricked Me, What Can I Do To Get Out Of This Mess. by Nobody: 7:19pm On Apr 04, 2016 |
zezebabyxoxo: I started this talk last year and we had a big fight on it already. but bros you mean i shd wait 2 years for her? Introduction still means no sex, kisses. how is a man of 28 year who is sexually active suppose to hold himself for like 2 years ![]() ![]() I stopped seeing other ladies all for her. it is nt as easy as you think it is. Even being in a distance relationship is painful enough. |
Re: How My Fiancee Tricked Me, What Can I Do To Get Out Of This Mess. by Blade21: 7:19pm On Apr 04, 2016 |
keyman0007:you better let her travel abroad or you will regret it if she marries you without travelling, to me you are a selfish person you want her to marry you and give up her dreams it's even diffrent if you are promising her that you will sponsor her but you want to marry her and then you want her dad to still sponsor her story leave that girl if you can't handle don't you know that most African father's remove hand from their kids after marriage especially the girls let her go for masters after that you get married allow her follow her dreams 1 Like |
Re: How My Fiancee Tricked Me, What Can I Do To Get Out Of This Mess. by sexytyga(m): 7:22pm On Apr 04, 2016 |
keyman0007:Same issue |
Re: How My Fiancee Tricked Me, What Can I Do To Get Out Of This Mess. by Nobody: 7:25pm On Apr 04, 2016 |
Blade21: How come you say this? i suggested she did an MBA in lagos business school, it is her that is selfish. if she goes she is actualizing every and hooking me down. |
Re: How My Fiancee Tricked Me, What Can I Do To Get Out Of This Mess. by obiaguna(m): 7:27pm On Apr 04, 2016 |
At 28 I don't really see the need for a rush .The young girl is just 22 and she wants to further her education, perhaps, to increase her earning potential (which would invariably reduce ur financial burden) and also to make herself more useful to the society. It appyas as well, that she doesn't want to lose you and that she wants to complete her education before she finally settles down, which to me is a good decision. Masters in the UK is barely 12 months, a few finish before that 12 months sef. As a fellow guy, I understand your fears but just relax and don't put pressure on her. Remember she is just 22. Gracias. 1 Like |
Re: How My Fiancee Tricked Me, What Can I Do To Get Out Of This Mess. by spiralwedge(m): 7:27pm On Apr 04, 2016 |
firstking01: Same thought. Keyman0007 |
Re: How My Fiancee Tricked Me, What Can I Do To Get Out Of This Mess. by crismark(m): 7:36pm On Apr 04, 2016 |
glossy6:dey nt babies dear.....dey re nt jst ripe 4 marriage |
Re: How My Fiancee Tricked Me, What Can I Do To Get Out Of This Mess. by crismark(m): 7:38pm On Apr 04, 2016 |
kaybee09:it's a pity |
Re: How My Fiancee Tricked Me, What Can I Do To Get Out Of This Mess. by fireforfire: 7:43pm On Apr 04, 2016 |
22?? Dats still d age of Confusion. She never ready o settle down 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: How My Fiancee Tricked Me, What Can I Do To Get Out Of This Mess. by drmikeadams(m): 7:53pm On Apr 04, 2016 |
kikies: |
Re: How My Fiancee Tricked Me, What Can I Do To Get Out Of This Mess. by Fkforyou(m): 8:00pm On Apr 04, 2016 |
She wants to eat her cake and have it. Ma guy free her joor....and why do I get the feeling as if you are desperate to get married? If so, then there is high probability you are going to fall for her schemes. |
Re: How My Fiancee Tricked Me, What Can I Do To Get Out Of This Mess. by dunsin125: 8:12pm On Apr 04, 2016 |
firstking01:haha bros......op is 28yrs old na |
Re: How My Fiancee Tricked Me, What Can I Do To Get Out Of This Mess. by lebrotin: 8:13pm On Apr 04, 2016 |
From your situation now- you have dated for 2 years and no sex,kisses and you rarely hug abi...invariably she's a virgin...listen to this- if she goes for her masters and comes back bleeped while you are still waiting, my guy suicide go hungry you o...she wants to eat her cake and have it...she's not sincere and wants to play a fast one on you. All I can say is that she's not ready for marriage. Pray about it and God will direct your steps. #Anygirlreadyforatablefor2 |
Re: How My Fiancee Tricked Me, What Can I Do To Get Out Of This Mess. by Nobody: 8:17pm On Apr 04, 2016 |
I don't see anything wrong in what the babe is saying.You should be happy you are marrying a babe that cares about career and studying than these chinkos that don't even remember they passed secondary school.Dont lose this chick or maybe let me have her contact because am having a crush for this babe- 1 Like |
Re: How My Fiancee Tricked Me, What Can I Do To Get Out Of This Mess. by ladenz(m): 8:17pm On Apr 04, 2016 |
Guy. This is not an issue to be discussed on Nairaland. Discuss it with your babe and both of you reach a conclusion. I don't think you should be talking about marriage yet. She is young and ambitious. If she marrieds you, she'll feel you killed her dreams. Both of you need to decide what is best but my advice is you leave things open till she gets her higher degree 2 Likes |
Re: How My Fiancee Tricked Me, What Can I Do To Get Out Of This Mess. by henryhemon(m): 8:21pm On Apr 04, 2016 |
crismark:Bro marriage isn't about age though but I get your point 95 percent of ladies between that age are not ready for marriage. |
Re: How My Fiancee Tricked Me, What Can I Do To Get Out Of This Mess. by Jadekitana(f): 8:21pm On Apr 04, 2016 |
Well I think your babe isn't ready for marriage yet, she still wants to explore. @28 I feel u still too young to settle down o, except u very comfortable! Why not wait till 30 or 31, then she's gonna be 25 and done with masters. The rush is too much! Or u scared someone else is gonna take her? Be smart o. |
Re: How My Fiancee Tricked Me, What Can I Do To Get Out Of This Mess. by crismark(m): 8:25pm On Apr 04, 2016 |
henryhemon: Age is an important factor my broda |
Re: How My Fiancee Tricked Me, What Can I Do To Get Out Of This Mess. by dasrackhor(m): 8:28pm On Apr 04, 2016 |
lekkie073:faint... |
Re: How My Fiancee Tricked Me, What Can I Do To Get Out Of This Mess. by henryhemon(m): 8:29pm On Apr 04, 2016 |
crismark: School me on that,I have seen those who are very aged and marry them n they marriage crashes but I still get your point. Am saying you can see a very mature girl at an early age who understands what marriage is all about. |
Re: How My Fiancee Tricked Me, What Can I Do To Get Out Of This Mess. by Pasca07: 8:40pm On Apr 04, 2016 |
AreaFada2: ![]() AreaFada2:lol don't mind the mumu guy |
Re: How My Fiancee Tricked Me, What Can I Do To Get Out Of This Mess. by Nobody: 8:41pm On Apr 04, 2016 |
I wonder why some people are calling her confused. Isn't this the kinda lady y'all tell us to be on NL? The young lady has a vision, an educational vision ![]() After marriage lots of things change, this OP forming support might change. She is just trying her best to balance it all, without losing ot on either side. If you can wait, wait. If you can't, get another bride. Stopping her might make her resent you, she would constantly remind you that she should be somewhere else doing "great things". 4 Likes |
Re: How My Fiancee Tricked Me, What Can I Do To Get Out Of This Mess. by dare2differ: 8:50pm On Apr 04, 2016 |
AreaFada2: Whatever she is feeling is not relevant I think keyman0007 is the problem in that relationship If he is getting married because of his family when he knows that his woman is ready to do introduction to seal their relationship, I wonder what else he would do because of his family instead of logic. He has had years to be what he is now. The babe only needs a year to get a masters and come back for marriage. She is not running away. She is not just doing it for herself, her certificate will also raise the family's earning potential. She is doing because she thinks he is worthy. Op should be proud of himself He has succeeded in painting her black. She is better off without him. he does not deserve her! To think this is the same Nairaland, men insult women becaus eof marriage Mor..ons have already started with submissive argument okay na 2 Likes |
Re: How My Fiancee Tricked Me, What Can I Do To Get Out Of This Mess. by crismark(m): 8:57pm On Apr 04, 2016 |
henryhemon:yh sure u can see a gal of dat age dat is very matured but u cant compare her maturity 2 a gal of 26-28yrs....dnt 4get dah In this marriage context, experience goes wit age.. |
Re: How My Fiancee Tricked Me, What Can I Do To Get Out Of This Mess. by crismark(m): 8:57pm On Apr 04, 2016 |
henryhemon:yh sure u can see a gal of dat age dat is very matured but u cant compare her maturity 2 a gal of 26-28yrs....dnt 4get dah In this marriage context, experience goes wit age..especially for d female folks |
Re: How My Fiancee Tricked Me, What Can I Do To Get Out Of This Mess. by dare2differ: 9:01pm On Apr 04, 2016 |
keyman0007: You keep giving us a one-sided view ![]() You seem to be more concerned about the sex part than what her own personal and professional advancement Masters is usually a year programme ![]() 1 Like |
Re: How My Fiancee Tricked Me, What Can I Do To Get Out Of This Mess. by dare2differ: 9:03pm On Apr 04, 2016 |
crismark: I am sorry but I have met more immature 26-28 ladies than mature ones |
Re: How My Fiancee Tricked Me, What Can I Do To Get Out Of This Mess. by crismark(m): 9:06pm On Apr 04, 2016 |
dare2differ:eiiiya.....den u met grown babies |
Re: How My Fiancee Tricked Me, What Can I Do To Get Out Of This Mess. by bigcil2(m): 9:08pm On Apr 04, 2016 |
keyman0007: Bro 22 yr old Nigerian ain't even ready for a serious relationship talkless of marriage. #wiseup |
Re: How My Fiancee Tricked Me, What Can I Do To Get Out Of This Mess. by dare2differ: 9:09pm On Apr 04, 2016 |
crismark:Nah, I learnt that it is not good to judge based on age etc Everyone has his/her weak points. This babe here is not confused nor is she immature. The op is lucky to have a woman who is willing to balance both lives! Oops! I also forgot to mention the number of dvmb 25 and above men I have also met? |
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