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Men And Their Double Standards. by Nobody: 4:35pm On Apr 05, 2016 |
Growing up as a Nigerian female, you're told to sit, talk, act and respond to situations in certain ways or you'll be branded as "unladylike". Women are conditioned in a certain way and most of us have adhered to these rules. Notwithstanding, these questions have always been a puzzle to me, other women and, I suspect, even men: 1. Why do men feel they should be forgiven when they cheat on their women but the rules change when these same women cheat on them, even once or just emotionally? 2. Why do contemporary men insist women share the bills but they think it beneath them to help out in domestic chores? 3. Why should a man be hailed by his friends for bragging about his sexual encounters with women but they slut-shame a woman who's honest about her escapades with a man she's into? 4. Why do Nairaland men insult a woman who's liberal in her views but cheer on a guy who says lewd things about women? 5. Why do men generalize all women as "_bitches" and '_hoes" but take offense when allusions are made to their female relatives being the same? Even on this thread, some men would prove me right but the question is: WHY THE DOUBLE STANDARDS? 120 Likes 17 Shares |
Re: Men And Their Double Standards. by Nobody: 4:43pm On Apr 05, 2016 |
thinking... 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Men And Their Double Standards. by Nobody: 4:45pm On Apr 05, 2016 |
still thinking will get back to you 98 Likes 1 Share
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Re: Men And Their Double Standards. by Nobody: 4:45pm On Apr 05, 2016 |
ITS SIMPLE AS ABC. ITS A MAN'S WORLD AND U GOT TO DEAL WITH IT. 54 Likes |
Re: Men And Their Double Standards. by Cutehector(m): 4:45pm On Apr 05, 2016 |
There is a website where u ought to ask all these questions... We have the likes of Google, Ask, yahooanswers, and Ehen.. my favorite one, Quora.com 27 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Men And Their Double Standards. by Cutehector(m): 4:46pm On Apr 05, 2016 |
Suigeneris93:d babe sef.. she neva see anything. 9 Likes |
Re: Men And Their Double Standards. by Nobody: 4:47pm On Apr 05, 2016 |
Cutehector:LMAO 4 Likes |
Re: Men And Their Double Standards. by onstelly(f): 4:47pm On Apr 05, 2016 |
My sister oh You just said some real truth 30 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Men And Their Double Standards. by ZeeAfrica(f): 4:49pm On Apr 05, 2016 |
Op honey, i love u baby. 21 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Men And Their Double Standards. by 100Cents: 4:50pm On Apr 05, 2016 |
Moment of truth 45 Likes 3 Shares
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Re: Men And Their Double Standards. by 100Cents: 4:51pm On Apr 05, 2016 |
ZeeAfrica: Me too 26 Likes
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Re: Men And Their Double Standards. by oseiwe(m): 4:51pm On Apr 05, 2016 |
The funny thing is dat it is u, d women who r champion of d double standards! For d men, it is Live and Let Live 23 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Men And Their Double Standards. by Nobody: 4:52pm On Apr 05, 2016 |
ZeeAfrica:LESBOBO ACTIVATED. 25years imprisonment. 1 Like |
Re: Men And Their Double Standards. by Nobody: 4:53pm On Apr 05, 2016 |
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Re: Men And Their Double Standards. by cordss(m): 4:55pm On Apr 05, 2016 |
Its a mans world sweetheart... sorry about that... but some of the things you mentioned are not what real men do. 2 Likes |
Re: Men And Their Double Standards. by Nobody: 4:56pm On Apr 05, 2016 |
Cuz thats d way it is *singing* thats the way it is..... 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Men And Their Double Standards. by Nobody: 4:57pm On Apr 05, 2016 |
it's a man's world! X3 but it's nothing without women *in james Brown's voice*or for some guys; puna. Don't forget you females also have double standards/advantages in some other areas than the males. 1 Like |
Re: Men And Their Double Standards. by lezz(m): 4:57pm On Apr 05, 2016 |
mimzy:You want the truth? Ok, A man's sexual arousal is like a light bulb; swift and in a flash of an instance. A woman's sexual impulses are like a volume knob, slow and gradual. Bottom line, women are more premeditated when cheating and carry out a lot of detailed planning. Men will just want to nail an ass that breezes by with the instant arousal of his nature, women are more likely to plan and fine-tune their mission before execution. Women's cheating isn't always a one-off mistake! mimzy:Every man should be comfortable with domestic chores. mimzy:I don't think the average man shames a woman for her sexual narration with her "guy" except she is silly enough to recount details of escapades of lots of body counts. But men should brag just a bit we do the wooing, take the risks, plot the map, stand the fear of rejection, we should rejoice with a little chest thumping! mimzy:Are you talking about feminism? mimzy: What kind of a man would generalise women in such derogatory term except the ones who act like bïtches? mimzy:All rules have exceptions, baby. Women seem to know all the rules and few men learn the exceptions!!! 114 Likes 11 Shares |
Re: Men And Their Double Standards. by ZeeAfrica(f): 4:57pm On Apr 05, 2016 |
SAINTSAMURAI: hehehhe so u never love someone u share yo gender wit? |
Re: Men And Their Double Standards. by 100Cents: 4:57pm On Apr 05, 2016 |
Nobody is asking you ladies to provide anything financial. Just give the man peace at home when he wants it and cook his food. Not everytime, you are either on intagram or watching telemundo. Anyway, i still blame buarri. 1 Like |
Re: Men And Their Double Standards. by Nobody: 4:58pm On Apr 05, 2016 |
thanks darl. i'm waiting especially for the contribution of reasonable guys and ladies alike onstelly: |
Re: Men And Their Double Standards. by Nobody: 4:58pm On Apr 05, 2016 |
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Re: Men And Their Double Standards. by SINXU(m): 4:59pm On Apr 05, 2016 |
I've been tryna think of an answer to that number 5... But not everyman do these things tho.... I'm guilty of some, I won't lie, I am. But women drag men to the mud too. So in all sense of fairness, we'll all guilty in one way or another! 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Men And Their Double Standards. by Nobody: 5:00pm On Apr 05, 2016 |
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Re: Men And Their Double Standards. by dollyjoy(f): 5:00pm On Apr 05, 2016 |
Reading... |
Re: Men And Their Double Standards. by Nobody: 5:00pm On Apr 05, 2016 |
ZeeAfrica:yeah its different but urs was @op honey i love u. chai got to call the police. |
Re: Men And Their Double Standards. by Nobody: 5:01pm On Apr 05, 2016 |
HMMMM... care to expatiate ? oseiwe: |
Re: Men And Their Double Standards. by dollyjoy(f): 5:03pm On Apr 05, 2016 |
100Cents:i think it high time you guys stop seeing ladies as sex object please! 12 Likes |
Re: Men And Their Double Standards. by 100Cents: 5:05pm On Apr 05, 2016 |
dollyjoy: Pardon me. Is it the man who only enjoys it ? Wait, if you are married and give your husband a sex time table like its a once in a month thing and you want him to be loyal ? Abi, you want him to dey chop mama put outside while you travel around like buhari with your friends. Some other points she raised are childish, like calling women hoes and bitches or men bragging about their female body count.. 2 Likes |
Re: Men And Their Double Standards. by sheba123(f): 5:06pm On Apr 05, 2016 |
Lol... Lalasticlala and mynd44 come oo, our voice has to be heard biko 1 Like |
Re: Men And Their Double Standards. by schumastic(m): 5:07pm On Apr 05, 2016 |
mimzy: if you ask me, na who i go ask 2 Likes
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Re: Men And Their Double Standards. by Nobody: 5:08pm On Apr 05, 2016 |
[b]1. Why do men feel they should be forgiven when they cheat on their women but the rules change when these same women cheat on them, even once or just emotionally? Because we are men. We have balls, you don't 2. Why do contemporary men insist women share the bills but they think it beneath them to help out in domestic chores? Because women are the helper not men 3. Why should a man be hailed by his friends for bragging about his sexual encounters with women but they slut-shame a woman who's honest about her escapades with a man she's into? Cuz the more you rabazamba, the bigger your puna gets. Who wants to marry a woman with an altantic ocean puna 4. Why do Nairaland men insult a woman who's liberal in her views but cheer on a guy who says lewd things about women? Because this is nairaland 5. Why do men generalize all women as "_bitches" and '_hoes" but take offense when allusions are made to their female relatives being the same? [/b] Ermmm...you won't want anyone to insult your relatives..would you Even on this thread, some men would prove me right but the question is: WHY THE DOUBLE STANDARDS? Why not? 4 Likes
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