whiteeyes:
my point is this, generally, women are wowed by very simple and easy things. For instance, a woman can respect her man to the maximum if he simply shows acts of loves eg. Talk to her when she's down, listen to her, comfort her, etc. You see, it's more difficult to keep a man faithful than a woman but the problem with the woman is that once she is committed to a cause, she excels perfectly and that's why a woman's unfaithfulness might have more weight.
Again, in my submission I noted that if he had lapsed in some instances, then he's the probable culprit. However, he still has a remedy, the deed if true, has been done, but, retrace your steps and woo your woman back. Very practicable!
This issue should not be analysed from a man's viewpoint because I bet just like you've done, all men will find no justification for a woman to cheat on her man.

lebroske:
Great nairalanders, i know you people are exceptional in giving good advice to people because i have been following this tread for some time. Though i am new.
i am suspecting that my lovely wife is cheating on me. The reason is that, each time i want to go through her phone, she picks up a fight. Whenever i want to use it for something else, that would be the time she will want to use it. I feel she is hiding something from me but i really want to get an evidence so that i could confront her. Most of the time when she is chatting with someone on phone, she hides the conversation. i wonder why?
Pls great nairalanders, what do i do in this situation? I don't want to confront her yet because i don't hv a proof.
Please no insult. Thank you

henryhemon:


Shut up joor. He's not insecure,his wife for Gods sake. Look at this ones forming not insecure.

First tine to a successful relationship be it business or marriage is effective communication and openness n sincerity,you cannot hide your phone from your wife or husband,both of you should have easy access to it once there's an atom of insincerity that relationship or marriage is on the verge of collapse.

Memyselfu2009:
Why go thru ur wife Phone..... it's wrong but Obviously she is Hiding some and you wouldn't have peace of Mind until you fine Out. If she don't lock ur phone wait at Night when she is asleep you then browse thru her phone.

Note: you might find nothing or Might Not like what u find

SAINTSAMURAI:
ITs obvious she is indeed hiding something from you, but since u have no proof, i will advice u to secretly confront her close friend, as in best of friends, if u play ur game well, her best friend will open up to u.

Decryptor:


The guy who talked about Decryptor diskette is what grabbed my attention to the thread because my moniker was mentioned!

Funny enough OP, there is a sure fire way to detect if your wife is cheating on you via the kind of conversations she has on her phone! I'm sure her phone has a memory card. If it does, leave the rest to me....that is if you are in Abuja. Just get her memory card and i will run a software which will check for cache files where chat and messages are stored on the card. The messages are usually in Unicode format and with the use of another software, i will be able to decrypt the unicode into something readable! I have done it for people before and i will do it free of charge for you.

WARNING: The findings after i do the forensics MIGHT BREAK YOUR MARRIAGE!

Sheggy13:

For a woman I went to kneel down, paid bride price and spent much money to wed and I'll be scared to touch her phone, which probably I was the one that bought it for her, saying it's a private property. God forbid bad thing. Men need to be firm. Women don't like wussies. They want a man who's in charge. Cheating women prefer wussies tho cos they can play on his emotions. That's why it's good for a man to have made his stand known on so many issues during courtship so we can prevent threads like this.

Raymondenyi:
can I PM you sir? Please

AreaFada2:


Sadly very common these days. Social media has made it a piece of cake now.

I have seen a few guys who decrypted their women's phone lately. It opened a can of worm.
It is illegal in many places. But they are not done in in my legal jurisdiction.

A girl was dumped by her fiancée last week after decryption. He got curious and wanted to check before wedding coming up later this year.

You just wonder if he didn't check. Marry a girl planning to continue seeing her other men.

write2obi:

Lol, but in this case, is he supposed to go through her phone without her consent( invasion of privacy) ? .

UjSizzle:
But why must everything be cheating? Is it impossible for your wife to hate people going through her phone?

Aviero:
Yes, sir, you can. But if it's about what I put up there, forgive me, I was just fooling around.

rooqee120:
so in d process of busting a cheating wife, he is free to cheat too...hmmm...interesting...but...its none of my business

SAINTSAMURAI:
ITs obvious she is indeed hiding something from you, but since u have no proof, i will advice u to secretly confront her close friend, as in best of friends, if u play ur game well, her best friend will open up to u.

lebroske:
Great nairalanders, i know you people are exceptional in giving good advice to people because i have been following this tread for some time. Though i am new.
i am suspecting that my lovely wife is cheating on me. The reason is that, each time i want to go through her phone, she picks up a fight. Whenever i want to use it for something else, that would be the time she will want to use it. I feel she is hiding something from me but i really want to get an evidence so that i could confront her. Most of the time when she is chatting with someone on phone, she hides the conversation. i wonder why?
Pls great nairalanders, what do i do in this situation? I don't want to confront her yet because i don't hv a proof.
Please no insult. Thank you

Raymondenyi:
kai, bros, why you do me like this na..... feel like strangling you right now....

Lexusgs430:


Is marriage a dictatorship or companionship?

EgunMogaji:


Not at all.

He should simply lay out consequences of refusal, ask for the phone and follow through. Be a man.

I'm on my 3rd marriage happily and clearly you can see that I walk the talk.

It's my way or the highway.

Lexusgs430:


Is marriage a dictatorship or companionship?

ngmgeek:


Shut Up Joor. Look at you. Empty Vessel!. You ended up making a fool of yourself. He is not insecure, Do you know him?

Why don't you shut up yourself. And go jump in the lake after that, with your small joystick. Loud mouth!

Who open the gutter for this one?. Ugly man who is not even married is opening his dirty mouth on Nairaland. Nonsense!

UjSizzle:
Mynd44 stop joor I'm serious

Why must everything be about cheating?
How old/young is this marriage btw?

Decryptor:


The guy who talked about Decryptor diskette is what grabbed my attention to the thread because my moniker was mentioned!

Funny enough OP, there is a sure fire way to detect if your wife is cheating on you via the kind of conversations she has on her phone! I'm sure her phone has a memory card. If it does, leave the rest to me....that is if you are in Abuja. Just get her memory card and i will run a software which will check for cache files where chat and messages are stored on the card. The messages are usually in Unicode format and with the use of another software, i will be able to decrypt the unicode into something readable! I have done it for people before and i will do it free of charge for you.

WARNING: The findings after i do the forensics MIGHT BREAK YOUR MARRIAGE!

whiteeyes:
my point is this, generally, women are wowed by very simple and easy things. For instance, a woman can respect her man to the maximum if he simply shows acts of loves eg. Talk to her when she's down, listen to her, comfort her, etc. You see, it's more difficult to keep a man faithful than a woman but the problem with the woman is that once she is committed to a cause, she excels perfectly and that's why a woman's unfaithfulness might have more weight.
Again, in my submission I noted that if he had lapsed in some instances, then he's the probable culprit. However, he still has a remedy, the deed if true, has been done, but, retrace your steps and woo your woman back. Very practicable!
This issue should not be analysed from a man's viewpoint because I bet just like you've done, all men will find no justification for a woman to cheat on her man.

lebroske:
Great nairalanders, i know you people are exceptional in giving good advice to people because i have been following this tread for some time. Though i am new.
i am suspecting that my lovely wife is cheating on me. The reason is that, each time i want to go through her phone, she picks up a fight. Whenever i want to use it for something else, that would be the time she will want to use it. I feel she is hiding something from me but i really want to get an evidence so that i could confront her. Most of the time when she is chatting with someone on phone, she hides the conversation. i wonder why?
Pls great nairalanders, what do i do in this situation? I don't want to confront her yet because i don't hv a proof.
Please no insult. Thank you

halfricanadian:


Write a story about it
The dude cant tell us he aint seeing other women

Anoda man will love her jare

henryhemon:


That's all you got? Ugly and small joystick ? Now who is insecure you or him? You ask if I know him?Do you know me? Just cuz I told you shut up you 're jumping up n down throwing tantrums like a woman,does that make you feel good now? Being accepted online isn't same thing in real life.