multikolour:
guy you are high on expired grounded kulikuli, please go to bed.

postmann:


If being first to comment is a prize
Then it's not worth striving for
You just made it a contest for fools
Where the greatest among them always win.
Accept my congratulations.




While I'm not here to make you feel guilty,
I intend to keep this thread beyond the reach of fools like you, for I heard romanceland has your type in abundance.
If you're an unfaithful he-goat, keep it on low profile and spare me the troubles of your wounded conscience. We are all sinners, but not everyone bears his sins on the sunlight of madness.

You will no doubt go with the donations of cheap "likes" from your kind, but i'll leave a dagger stuck in your weak heart as an engraved reminder that _postmann is deadly!!

SAINTSAMURAI:
HMM the truth of the matter is a larger percentage of dating men are unfaithful emotionally, becaus these category of young guys are in that aspect of their lives where they tend to relate and have fun with both male and female thereby making them to be close to a particular supposed lady. its kind of difficult not to be emotionally unfaithful except for the married working class men that tends to know that being close bestie with a female can somehow cause emotional unfaithfullness to their partner, so these mature men tends to just have a male bestie friend at his work place and this male bestie must be married too thereby making their discussion to be about work and their married life. the female friend he did have are the hi and bye type. in all summary what im trying to make the reader undastand is that a larger percentage of young dating guys in colleges, their place of work are emotional cheaters, becaus of the pleasure of young friendship except those really mature ones that knows when to draw d line.

IamLEGEND1:
Just wait for dem hoes that have a male 'bestie' to arrive. You go start start to dey see all kinds of fuckēd up logic.

dollyjoy:
hello.

SAINTSAMURAI:
HI good morning and hw was ur night?

dollyjoy:
fine.we blessed God.were you online yesterday evening?

SAINTSAMURAI:
Lol i already know what u want to ask me. yeah i was online till 2am today.

dollyjoy:
ok?eeerm,i woke up this morning to see tons of mentions but it quite unfortunate that the posts where i was mentioned have been hidden.i am kinda curious to know what happen .can you brief me please??

SAINTSAMURAI:
let us not derail this thread, mention me at derailers paradise.

IamLEGEND1:
Just wait for dem hoes that have a male 'bestie' to arrive. You go start start to dey see all kinds of fuckēd up logic.

Smellymouth:
Chaii!! So I have bin emotionally unfaithful to : Amaka,Amara, Sylvia, Tonia, Bola, Aisha, Stephanie and the other ladies in my life?

postmann:
Y'all aren't gonna like this!

Do you have an opposite sex as a best or close friend? YES


1--If yes, does your partner know the details or nature of your conversation with him/her? YES

2--Is there secret(s) between you that your partner knows nothing about? NO

3--If your partner was present, would your conversation with this person be the same? YES

4--Can you in all honesty describe your relationship with this person as "Just friends", strictly or mostly "Hi" and "bye"? YES

5--Do you find yourself dressing to please his/her taste? Is he or she the dominant thought in your mind whenever you dress and look yourself up in the mirror? NO


6--Do you find yourself having romantic thoughts about this person, even when lying side by side with your partner? NEVER

7--Do you look beyond your partner for emotional support? Relying on this person for emotional fulfilment? NO

8--Do you find your commitment and loyalty to your partner being compromised/threatened by your emotional and physical involvement with this person? NO

9--Are his/her suggestive words and flirtations not only welcomed, but sit deep within the burning embers of your erotic desire? NO, he doesnt flirt with me.


There's a saying; "where your heart goes, your steps soon follow"

If YES is the answer to ALL or MOST of the above in the questionnaire, then their is a good chance your relationship with the said person constitutes emotional unfaithfulness. You might already be involved in an emotional affair which could soon developed into a full blown physical affair. One way or another, we are all guilty.


N.B: This work is only an exposition on the impact of social media and the 21st century environment which makes cheating as easy as a simple text or phone call. It is not an act of judgment

SAINTSAMURAI:
HMM the truth of the matter is a larger percentage of dating men are unfaithful emotionally, becaus these category of young guys are in that aspect of their lives where they tend to relate and have fun with both male and female thereby making them to be close to a particular supposed lady. its kind of difficult not to be emotionally unfaithful except for the married working class men that tends to know that being close bestie with a female can somehow cause emotional unfaithfullness to their partner, so these mature men tends to just have a male bestie friend at his work place and this male bestie must be married too thereby making their discussion to be about work and their married life. the female friend he did have are the hi and bye type. in all summary what im trying to make the reader undastand is that a larger percentage of young dating guys in colleges, their place of work are emotional cheaters, becaus of the pleasure of young friendship except those really mature ones that knows when to draw d line.

BumBae:

See ur life only u all these women

Smellymouth:


Lols..
I was only kidding oo

BumBae:

Nah soo ..

BumBae:
Most men are guilty of this ..
Women too

But see it in men more, married , engaged , haven't cheated but cheating emotionally ..
But postman can an individual dump the other for emotionally cheating ??

postmann:


You have a point bro. Some women can be naive with the bestie thing of the opposite sex. But the guys most times, are silent, opportunistic predator, waiting for the right moment to strike.
But he can be doing all that without being emotionally connected to the lady.
But women are by far more prone to emotional unfaithfulness than guys.



Good morning bro.

postmann:



Who am I to say? But for me, if it pertains my relationship, I will.

Many consider emotional as cheating just as bad if not worse.

Sexual cheating is only a harvest of the investment of emotional unfaithfulness.

BumBae:

Yh i will , cant have my mans emotions invested in anothers ..
I mean thats the whole point of dating right you have someone to chat to , share good times n bad times
So if he sharing with a female friend den we got a problem

postmann:



Who am I to say? But for me, if it pertains my relationship, I gwill.

Many consider emotional cheating just as bad if not worse.

Sexual cheating is only a ripe fruit from the seed of emotional unfaithfulness.