KingCheezyPuff:
She a human being an try as many have you can't own a human

Their partners,equals an belong ta each other.
How can you not know this.

seaga:


In as much as I don't want to support. ..let's look at it from this angle,why put a price on a bride ,a property has a price tag once you purchase it,becomes yours.So what do you ve to say ...

Joy1706:

Give me one reason why a wife is owned by the husband. And don't mention bride price cos bride price is an inconsequential sum in most places. And don't say cos the bible said that men are the head. That would be tantamount to saying that buhari owns each and every one of us cos he's the head/president. See how stupid that logic is? So um waiting for one reason

KingCheezyPuff:
There should be no bride price for that very reason

seaga:

So that means women should clamour for the end of bride price

Greene66:

Of course not. A man own the woman. The woman is his prop.

KingCheezyPuff:
If it where me,yeah.
But dude I'm not Nigerian.
....But African American

Toks2008:

Apparently you are based in the states i presume.
If Yes i would like to know if bride price is part of their culture...thanks.

seaga:

I see, so how is it done in your climate

seaga:

So that means women should clamour for the end of bride price

seaga:

So that means women should clamour for the end of bride price

seaga:
So that's the best arrangement for a marriage

Toks2008:



..... Yes Jesus instructs that a man divorces his wife on teh condition of adultery but he also preached about forgiveness.

KingCheezyPuff:
I guess.You should quote me if you want answers. I just happened ta see this.

Joy1706:

Give me one reason why a wife is owned by the husband. And don't mention bride price cos bride price is an inconsequential sum in most places. And don't say cos the bible said that men are the head. That would be tantamount to saying that buhari owns each and every one of us cos he's the head/president. See how stupid that logic is? So um waiting for one reason

seaga:


In as much as I don't want to support. ..let's look at it from this angle,why put a price on a bride ,a property has a price tag once you purchase it,becomes yours.So what do you ve to say ...

Fanirandele:


Already in my tribe most people do not collect bride price for this reason. We didn't for my Sister's so no man can ever think he owns them the era of slavery is over. No human being owns another person

doingood:
Don't pray ur wife cheats on U. If she does and u so much love ur kids, u'll be in d middle of d devil and d deep blue sea. It happened to me. I left her cos of my kids. I can't imagine my kids loosing there mother. They love there mum so much. I 4gave her but she's no longer my wife. I can't make her my next of kin. She can't get any tangible thing from me. And I'll never be faithful to her no more. She just gave me d certificate to sleep with different girls this days

ourchoice:
Any man that tells you that he would forgive his wife if she cheats on him is a LIAR!!!

No Nigerian man can or will sincerely forgive a cheating wife!

Nigerian men can endure, forgive other things but when they catch you cheating, just go and pack your load yourself or if he still pretends to forgive, watch it!

Don't ask me if a woman should forgive a cheating husband, of course 90% or more than 90% of married men now are cheating and their wives sure know this (so it's left for the over 90% of Nigerian married women to walk away from their marriage now cos their husbands are cheating as we speak and they all know it)..its a natural curse on all men, mature/wiser women already know this and have accepted their fate, blame nature!

Men weren't created to be mating with one woman till they die, don't blame men, blame nature; that's the painful truth 21st century ladies abi women don't want to accept, but as they go into marriage, they realize how true it is that men are polygamous in nature

Mind u, your husband cheating on u doesn't mean he doesn't love u...a man will love/cherish his wife and still cheat cos to men, sex is a game of number while to women, sex goes with emotion...so b4 a woman cheats on her husband, she must have falling out of love with him, but not same with men.

You can argue it, but that's nature's making not me

seaga:


OK may I know what tribe that is?please also the religion?

ourchoice:
Any man that tells you that he would forgive his wife if she cheats on him is a LIAR!!!

No Nigerian man can or will sincerely forgive a cheating wife!

Nigerian men can endure, forgive other things but when they catch you cheating, just go and pack your load yourself or if he still pretends to forgive, watch it!

Don't ask me if a woman should forgive a cheating husband, of course 90% or more than 90% of married men now are cheating and their wives sure know this (so it's left for the over 90% of Nigerian married women to walk away from their marriage now cos their husbands are cheating as we speak and they all know it)..its a natural curse on all men, mature/wiser women already know this and have accepted their fate, blame nature!

Men weren't created to be mating with one woman till they die, don't blame men, blame nature; that's the painful truth 21st century ladies abi women don't want to accept, but as they go into marriage, they realize how true it is that men are polygamous in nature


Mind u, your husband cheating on u doesn't mean he doesn't love u...a man will love/cherish his wife and still cheat cos to men, sex is a game of number while to women, sex goes with emotion...so b4 a woman cheats on her husband, she must have falling out of love with him, but not same with men.

You can argue it, but that's nature's making not me

akike:


You are always about tradition and culture

When did you become so rational?

akike:


Keep telling yourself that

About 50% of the 90% of the wives also cheat.

You will never catch them.

Bookiemart01:
Please tell us how you came into conclusion that men were not created to mate only 1 woman till they die.

I think the problem with most Nigerian men is that you all have been raised with this wrong notion. It's only in Africa a man cheats on his wife and flaunts it in her face. As bad as the whites are, they respect thier partners. They don't cheat and show off with it.

What makes you think a woman can't decide to cheat on her husband? Why do you think nature created women to mate only 1 man till they die?

So you think women don't sometimes look at men who are more handsome, hard working, richer, eloquent. ....than thier spouses? We only just decide not to cheat. We have self control.

You men throw caution to the wind in the name of "it's our nature to cheat".

If una push woman, woman go check and guess what, God created women to be crafty, a woman can cheat on you and you'll never know unless she wants to rub it on your face