I got this friend that has been hell bent on love with me, is there any polite way to tell her i'm not interested in her and she won't see me as an enemy?
I don't want to get her laid she may use that as a yardstick but then i don't want anything extended apart from been the normal friends

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By telling her politely

Just invite her over to your house sit her down serve her with a nice wine and tell her you tested HIV POSITIVE trust me, the Egyptian you see today you shall see no more

I'm a heart breaker

Introduce her to your girl

Its pretty difficult because ladies naturally are difficult and are always in a state of hogamoga....no matter how well-put you tell her she will feel hurt and think you don't cherish her ....that said..never lead her on..if you ain't interested ..say so and take a stand..don't fall for any sentimental gimmicks she may put on.....be principled and never friendzone her,but be her friend......watever she thinks about you after your decision is her problem .....Be a man..do better than they do to us!!!

Stop giving her much attention. Keep her at distance and ignore her most times. Better still, create an impression that you have a bae even if you don't have

Chai. I just pity the girl.

just be nice to her and politely let her know that it wont work,am experiencing one lately,i do send her recharge card often so that she may not feel ignored,no point laying a lady when you know deep down it cant move to the nxt level.

What is dis wan saying...is there anyway I can tell you politely that you are HIV positive

This your female friend u don't wanna lay must be very ugly or she doesn't have good characters.


Well, invite her over, offer her drinks(alcohol),make her tipsy, if she doesn't drink, offer her weed, if she refuses, make sure u cook her food with it.



Don't do anything stupid, don't fûck her,

The idea is to tell her your mind right, as long as she is tipsy, not drunk oh /a bit high, now, u can tell her anything u want to tell her, she no go reason am, her mind will be telling her, is this guy telling me the truth or is it d highness and on the other hand, she is not so sure wat u told her, she go lay low so dat u won't see her as desperate.

Cutehector:
I'm a heart breaker

Lol she will run for her dear heart

babyfaceafrica:
Its pretty difficult because ladies naturally a difficult and are always in a state of hogamoga....no matter how well-put you tell her she will feel hurt and think you don't cherish her ....that said..never lead her on..if you aint interested ..say so and take a stand..don't fall for any sentimental gimmicks she may put on.....be principled and never friendzone her,but be her friend......watever she thinks about you after your decision is her problem .....Be a man..do better than they do to us!!!

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Angelberry:
Lol she will run for her dear heart

lol she has already...

Cutehector:
lol she has already...

longest time, where have u been?

Same here. I hv told her several times she refuse to listen.

Stupedinluv:
Introduce her to your girl

some girls no send you message if you like tell them say u don marry with children they no care.

tell her say you don die for village before...you just come town cone relax

tell her say you don die for village before...you just come town come relax

You don't tell a woman you don't want or feel her it's so un-gentlemanly.

You show her! I'm sure you know what I mean

Angelberry:
longest time, where have u been?

shuooo.. u nor dey see me for nairaland?

Lovelynature:
Stop giving her much attention. Keep her at distance and ignore her most times. Better still, create an impression that you have a bae even if you don't have

Stupedinluv:
Introduce her to your girl

if i put my bae picture as dp she flares up n start acting funny. Needed a better way of making her know it won't work n she won't just see me as an enemy

Stupedinluv:
Introduce her to your girl

Nice tip sweetie, am gonna try dis one.

Cutehector:
shuooo.. u nor dey see me for nairaland?

No, I av not seen u for a while

Angelberry:
No, I av not seen u for a while

alryt. We can always chat offline if u wish