Hmmm... Should I say I've fallen or I fell but then I have this friend I'm getting used to but she has a tendency of becoming very fat! I like her personality, her drive, her intelligence but her size worries me.

Her sisters are all fat and when I noticed this i started talking to her about reducing her weight which she has agreed and is currently working on it! I don't like fat girls but iI'm worried she might not be able to reduce much since it's somehow genetic. She was already getting big but has started reducing. But I'm still worried especially after child birth, she might explode!

Should I overlook this for the other good qualities of hers? Why can't i have everything in one package? Advice please.

Lol.. Free the girl jor.

Don't goan hurt the poor girl in future. Don't let her suffer for your ignorance about love.

The reason why you can't have everything in one package is because you aren't a complete package yourself. You can only be a few girls' dream not every girl

You cnt have it all.

Even u sef no be total package.

If you truly love her, it won't bother you...

Ah mean, if u dnt like a fat babe, u go for a slim one. I wonder how hard is that... there shouldn't be any room for overlooking, lest u cheat on her over time

guy if ya not into the bae stop wasting her time




wat those her weight got to do with d love u feel for her

sirhot:
Hmmm... Should I say I've fallen or I fell but then I have this friend I'm getting used to but she has a tendency of becoming very fat! I like her personality, her drive, her intelligence but her size worries me.

Send me her details via pm. I love fat ladies with all the qualities,u mentioned above.
I will be so grateful.

1 thing u mentioned that i grabbed, "good qualities" which you knw that she cn bcm a good wife which u cn consider in taking her in but at d same time she will later b fat. heritable genetics will take over.

Op what is d tendency dat getting married to a lepa lady after childbirth she won't explode?

No girl is very fat Oga, the big ones aren't fat, they're just easier to see and harder to push around.







I can see some unloyal girls up there saying that he needs to look beyond her size but they cannot look beyond a guy's pocket. Hypocrisy chapter 11:18.

Bisjosh:
You cnt have it all.

Even u sef no be total package.

I'm total jor... Tall, handsome, rich , intelligent, smart etc etc

happyjuliet:
Op what is d tendency dat getting married to a lepa lady after childbirth she won't explode?

that too is another wahala... Women and their unpredictability...

BlackMaria:

Send me her details via pm. I love fat ladies with all the qualities,u mentioned above.
I will be so grateful.

No sir...

marlvis:
guy if ya into the bae stop wasting her time




wat those her weight got to do with d love u feel for her

a lot dear, I like smart girls that can move quickly and not get tired easily, it seems fat girls burn out easily!

Cutehector:
Ah mean, if u dnt like a fat babe, u go for a slim one. I wonder how hard is that... there shouldn't be any room for overlooking, lest u cheat on her over time

There's no slim girl, they all get fat after child birth, the size is not what matters

sirhot:
No sir...

So y u dey complain.

marlvis:
guy if ya into the bae stop wasting her time




wat those her weight got to do with d love u feel for her

it has everything to do with it miss.

Op clearly stated that he likes all of the babe- her demeanour and all. So its not a case of lust.
We cant get the full package,i know but op sees her condition as something that can be changed for the better. Staying fat isnt healthy,regardless of if it runs in the family or nah. I particularly dont like fat girls but if i see one who is sweet and caring,being a workout freak i could change her to one sexy woman. That way she'll feel more comfortable and confident about her body. I'l love her even more. Every1 will be happy. Ce fini.

My people,
Shey you all heard of world health day?
April 7? Theme of diabetes, abi?
Being overweight is UNHEALTHY. Simple.
At op-
The most important thing she needs is your support. This means that you should be willing to join whatever program she uses to control her weight.
Secondly, it's WEIGHT MANAGEMENT that she needs, not weight loss. That means 2 modify her lifestyle, not just to diet. It's a long term, life long change that even includes pregnancy and beyond.
But-
If you're not ready for the work, leave her be o!

It's better u let her be now than over raise her hope then leaving her traumatised .

sirhot:
There's no slim girl, they all get fat after child birth, the size is not what matters

There is o

If u truly love her forget about her size and keep looking at her face I am sure she is beautiful

Estharfabian:
Some men Love 'em big...some love 'em small...its your preference. Ain't Your fault.


However, please don't lead her on. Coz U Obviously do not LOVE her..All You care about is her body. that isn't Love...



go look for a skinny lady to mess with.
LEAVE HER ALONE!!!!

What's your size?

sirhot:
I'm total jor... Tall, handsome, rich , intelligent, smart etc etc

based on your own opinion about your self. others may disagree.

if lepacious Bose can get dat slim y can't she;there is nothing impossible

obizzy:
it has everything to do with it miss.

Op clearly stated that he likes all of the babe- her demeanour and all. So its not a case of lust.
We cant get the full package,i know but op sees her condition as something that can be changed for the better. Staying fat isnt healthy,regardless of if it runs in the family or nah. I particularly dont like fat girls but if i see one who is sweet and caring,being a workout freak i could change her to one sexy woman. That way she'll feel more comfortable and confident about her body. I'l love her even more. Every1 will be happy. Ce fini.

I see!!!!!!

If you truly love her don't make it hard for her. Let her exercise and watch her weight for health sake.

You should also lovingly advise her to be clean because dirt is the greatest vice of fat people.

sirhot:
There's no slim girl, they all get fat after child birth, the size is not what matters

no dey yarn dis kyn rubbish talk na like person wey no go skul

Dygeasy:
Lol.. Free the girl jor.

Don't goan hurt the poor girl in future. Don't let her suffer for your ignorance about love.

The reason why you can't have everything in one package is because you aren't a complete package yourself. You can only be a few girls' dream not every girl

Well said jare. Why change someone when you love them, what if she's gonna be a totally different person once she sheds all the weight. #ThinkAboutIt

BlackMaria:

Send me her details via pm. I love fat ladies with all the qualities,u mentioned above.
I will be so grateful.

Funny thing is she may not like you at all. She'd still want this guy who doesn't love her.

AfroKnight:


Funny thing is she may not like you at all. She'd still want this guy who doesn't love her.

If e sure d OP,he should give me her details via pm.
Fat babes,send me a pm. Let us mingle.