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| Am I Wrong by tushgirl(f): 9:58am On Apr 10, 2016 |
Pls I just need to share this and seek you guys opinions. I have been friends with this guy(mutual friend)for a very long time.He helps me with a lot and I tell him all my secret,we are very close cause he is like a big bro to me. Recently,he started having problems in his relationship and broke up with his girlfriend. He then told me"he loved me" and ask me out,that he wanted to tell me since but he has been to shy to admit. I didn't give him a specific answer that day,i told him to give me time but I won't lie...immediately he said those words every feeling of friendship likeness I had for him disappeared,he irritates me now. Yesterday I called him and told him my mind saying I wasn't interested but this guy broke down in tears begging me to reconsider him. I'm confused  Advice pls Cc farano rocktation lalasticlala 1 Like |
| Re: Am I Wrong by Nobody: 10:03am On Apr 10, 2016 |
HA!!! AUNTY URE WICKED O, SEE THE WAY U FRIENDZONED HIM IN THE HIGHEST ORDER AND BROKE HIS HEART RAISED TO POWER OF ZERO. on a more serious note there is nothing u can do, uve told him ur mind, so move on with ur life, on d guy's part, he should know this things na, if its not friends with benefit then its friendzone. 2 Likes |
| Re: Am I Wrong by Touchey: 10:03am On Apr 10, 2016 |
let your no be no and your yes be yes.
don't date out of pity 1 Like |
| Re: Am I Wrong by Smellymouth: 10:04am On Apr 10, 2016 |
And He wept?  Like This?  4 Likes
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| Re: Am I Wrong by Nobody: 10:07am On Apr 10, 2016 |
You do not like him.... One of the reasons i hate having male besties.  They'd eventually wanna date your ass...If he wants To Commit suicide, he should abeg. ...He should look for someone who's also interested in him... Dating him Outta pity would only make him more miserable. 3 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Am I Wrong by Tallesty1(m): 10:07am On Apr 10, 2016 |
You're not confused at all, you're just lying. |
| Re: Am I Wrong by Tallesty1(m): 10:09am On Apr 10, 2016 |
Estharfabian:Like seriously, are you like this offline or does it end here? |
| Re: Am I Wrong by Smellymouth: 10:09am On Apr 10, 2016 |
Estharfabian: You want him to shed more tears? Mademoiselle, show some love na  
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| Re: Am I Wrong by tushgirl(f): 10:09am On Apr 10, 2016 |
Estharfabian:He irritates me now.Thanks. |
| Re: Am I Wrong by Nobody: 10:10am On Apr 10, 2016 |
Women are fine with keeping male friends as friends but the guys they always end up making a fool of themselves. They cant keep simple friendship with the opp gender. If i were you i will tell him to his face that i have no special interest in him. He can go hang himself for all you care. Life goes on 2 Likes |
| Re: Am I Wrong by tushgirl(f): 10:10am On Apr 10, 2016 |
Tallesty1:lying how? |
| Re: Am I Wrong by 2NDLieutenant(m): 10:11am On Apr 10, 2016 |
One part of you truly wants him..I think u jz scared of what people might say..folo ur heart..cheers! |
| Re: Am I Wrong by Nobody: 10:12am On Apr 10, 2016 |
Tallesty1:I'm pretty much this way... LoL. Why? |
| Re: Am I Wrong by Nobody: 10:12am On Apr 10, 2016 |
Estharfabian:yea!! 1 Like 1 Share |
| Re: Am I Wrong by Tallesty1(m): 10:17am On Apr 10, 2016 |
Estharfabian:Your nland personality is very scary. |
| Re: Am I Wrong by Nobody: 10:17am On Apr 10, 2016 |
Smellymouth:LoL. He'll Still shed more tears if she eventually says yes to him. And if he's on NL..he'll start creating diss threads screaming "ALL GIRLS ARE HEARTLESS"  na so e dey start...  1 Like |
| Re: Am I Wrong by naijaboiy: 10:17am On Apr 10, 2016 |
Stupedinluv:That is because there is nothing like "besties" when it comes to friendship with a guy. It's either you're just acquaintances,classmates or workmates. But the moment it gets to that bestie shît it doesn't work. You girls are the ones who think you can trap every guy in your nest and then pick anyone you like. In every bestie situation one of the two idíots must catch some feelings for the other. There is nothing like "bestie" with the opposite sex. If you want a bestfriend pick a person from your gender and do whatever the fück you want with her. 9 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Am I Wrong by obizzy(m): 10:18am On Apr 10, 2016 |
Estharfabian:male bestie? Pffft. My girlfriend is never allowed to have a male bestie. She need a male bestie asides me? We call our relationship off! *pensive* male bestie..inukwa. So so so so when it gets cold at night and they're all alone they will now be doing muchu-muchu. No such thing as male bestie. They be fuvcking each other. Same way there's no such thing as a side-nigga. You're a hoe if you fvcking two niggeers. Happy sunday. 1 Like |
| Re: Am I Wrong by naijaboiy: 10:21am On Apr 10, 2016 |
tushgirl:How can someone who is your best friend irritate you? Because he spoke his mind to you? I know the guy is a dunce for letting out his feelings but. Don't get how he will suddenly start to irritate you. 7 Likes |
| Re: Am I Wrong by Nobody: 10:24am On Apr 10, 2016 |
tushgirl:Exactly... I've been in Your shoes actually...it's not a nice feeling.. Having a platonic relationship with someone is actually cool..Ther'e no boundaries...No odd feeling. just plain, sweet, beautiful friendship.  All that changes when a party feels like he/she needs more intimacy.. it sucks. the blissful relationship You once had becomes awkward and distasteful. |
| Re: Am I Wrong by Nobody: 10:25am On Apr 10, 2016 |
naijaboiy:Girls are not the ones going out of their way to trap anyone. You guys just know how to ridicule yourselves. If a girl has given a guy enough signs of disinterest why does he still ply on offering himself. If he would not stand being friendzoned why not walk away when your heart is still yours. Btw, whether bestie or ordinary friend, most guys dont know how to manage any. |
| Re: Am I Wrong by Nobody: 10:25am On Apr 10, 2016 |
Tallesty1:I'm sorry?  |
| Re: Am I Wrong by Aviero: 10:27am On Apr 10, 2016 |
That was how one girl the other day said she sat on a guy's lap, and came here to bash the guy because the guy's deek reacted. Y'all lame asss chicks should get it now, 90% of guys would want to smash in whatever way possible, except you're his sister or some close relation. Every other chick must go down. Quit all these he's my bestie, he's a close friend, so he can't think of such. He's thinking of such oh. |
| Re: Am I Wrong by tushgirl(f): 10:28am On Apr 10, 2016 |
Estharfabian:I'm so disappointed in him right now Just lost my friendship |
| Re: Am I Wrong by Smellymouth: 10:29am On Apr 10, 2016 |
Estharfabian: Trust me Estee, it's gonna be difficult for me to have female friends as Besties.If your friend starts dating someone or spends more time with a new potential significant other, you might feel as though things are falling apart.You’re not necessarily jealous because you want to date her; you’re just jealous because you’re no longer the only dude in his life. Also,You never really realize how much you care until they tell you about someone else being "the one" for them. You saw them fall in and out of love, but hearing them planning to settle with someone else for good?  1 Like
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| Re: Am I Wrong by Aviero: 10:30am On Apr 10, 2016 |
tushgirl:No offense; you're seriously confused. 3 Likes |
| Re: Am I Wrong by Nobody: 10:30am On Apr 10, 2016 |
obizzy:@bolded..That's Pure insecurity talking.. If You trust her totally.. You wouldn't say that... About The hoe thingy...A girl could have as many sexual partners has she deem fit. So Long she's not exactly in A Relationship. Guys do that all the time...so, what's the fuss about? Merry Sunday to You Too.. |
| Re: Am I Wrong by Nobody: 10:31am On Apr 10, 2016 |
Madam estharfabian, you are really scary but I aint scared tho. At Op, pls do not date him, it wont end well. Male and female bestie shiit never works. |
| Re: Am I Wrong by tushgirl(f): 10:31am On Apr 10, 2016 |
Aviero:I don't like him as a boyfriend. |
| Re: Am I Wrong by Nobody: 10:32am On Apr 10, 2016 |
| Re: Am I Wrong by tushgirl(f): 10:35am On Apr 10, 2016 |
naijaboiy:I meant his calls and text irritates me now,no longer comfortable with them. |
| Re: Am I Wrong by Aviero: 10:40am On Apr 10, 2016 |
tushgirl:Well, if he keeps on with the whole thing, just fvck him, and let him go. |
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