While growing up I felt so different and did things differently. Naturally I am an introvert, my class mates in sec school would say I have a unique way of doing things. I felt so cool about myself expecially the ability to control how I feel generally. I am very handsome and the kind of guy girls easily throw themselves at, again I felt my ability to resist certain temptations was because I had self control. Growing up in a Christian home their are things we don't ask mom and dad, I would look at Lil bro and notice I had a smaller scrotum but I didn't feel something was wrong with me. All these years I never understood I had a real problem. Am all grown now but I can't keep a relationship!! My siblings will always crack a joke about how unlucky I was with finding a good date. First time I got a girlfriend, very loving and caring young girl. We started off for 2yrs without sex. It wasn't a problem for me I don't know what sex feels like but it was to her and she wanted it badly I knew I would loose her if I don't and she began to wonder if I was a man. First time we tried sex I couldn't get erected, I felt it was anxiety and she was supportive. Second and third was worse but we kept trying. She had to tell me to see a doctor fast because I am not okay. Sex ended up being an issue and we broke up. I dated two other girls and the last girl said it to my face "YOU ARE IMPOTENT" And that was when it occurred to me this is serious. I went to see a urologist and after the blood test it was confirmed I had low T. Low testosterone below normal. I couldn't believe I had a problem like this until I did a sperm analysis. I had oligospermia!! 95% abnormality. Further test showed I had Hypogondasim, it's yet unknown if it's secondary or primary Hypogondasim. I knew I had gone down that road where u look back and ask life
What did I do to deserve this?
How do I convince a girl to even accept to marry me?
Is their really a God?
Why am I a man if God won't give me what I need to become a man.
Every solution I have heard so for is impractical, expensive or ridiculous. Imagine injecting testosterone for 6 months before ur fit to make love to your wife? Or injecting my penis to stay up before sex? Alpha blockers like viagra has no effect on me at all. Apart from sexual performance secience is yet to understand male fertility and alot of things will be tried on me, this could take years!!! If it's so simple as doctor's will easily say why are their cases of 25yrs without a child some never have a child and just adopt. Why are their so many drugs and injections if one thing works. Am at the bridge of taking my life, I see no point making all these money and sit down in an empty house sad and lonely.

There is nothing God cannot do..

don't take your life. there are many solutions to every problem. trust in God!

always a reason for every thing.

trust me....God is all hears.

just ask!

Wow. I am really sorry. Had it been you weren't Nigerian or you didn't live in Nigeria, I would have advised you to visit international forums where you'd find ladies who aren't interested in intercourse, and just want the fore-play and other things that don't involve intercourse. There are women like that, I don't know if there are Nigerian women like that, but there is no way to find out is there? You can't go around asking girls that sort of thing, and when you create such kind of thread on Nigeria's biggest forum, NL, all you get is all sorts of negative and discouraging responses.

I honestly don't know what advice to give. Nigerian girls want to be penetrated by an erect dick. At least that's what applies to all the ones I have come across both online and offline. Notice my emphasis on "Nigerian," that's because that's how Nigerians are wired. We always tend to fall at the tail end of the "normal spectrum," except you don't want to date and marry Nigerian women?

But with the speedy advancement in medicine and pharmacy, maybe there is a cure for you. Maybe a hormone boost or something. Just do more research and hopefully, you'd find something that's worth giving a try.

Please don't contemplate the thought of taking your life. It's not worth it. There is more to life than sex. And like I said, there could be a cure for you. There are other things that you derive joy from doing. Spend time doing those things and try to keep your mind off your predicament. I know it's hard, but you have to try. I wish you all the best.

Isnt it funny, that you are searching for expensive solutions when the solution to erectile dysfunction is almost free ?

BiafranNigerian:
Isnt it funny, that you are searching for expensive solutions when the solution to erectile dysfunction is almost free ?

pls read my post again, this time slowly..

dharay99:

funny d.p jashar
just stole it tho.

*screaming* OLE OLE OLEEEEEEE

Have a great week bro.

I ve got dis feeling that am gonna read ur testimony soonest.. I implore u to look up to Heaven. Cause the God I serve makes impossibility .look casual. . Its all to the Glory of his name.. stay strong

Bro there are so many ways to cure that and they aren't even too expensive .nairaland has a lot of doctors in that field ,just wait they are on the way.

Decker:
Wow. I am really sorry. Had it been you weren't Nigerian and you didn't leave in Nigeria, I'd have advised you to visit international forums where you'd find ladies who aren't interested in intercourse, and just want the fore-play and other things that don't involved intercourse. There are women like that, I don't know if there are Nigerian women like that, but there is no way to find out is there? Create such kind of thread on Nigeria's biggest forum, NL, and you will get all sorts of negative responses.

I honestly don't know what advice to give. majority of Nigerian girls want to be penetrated by an erect dick. At least that's what applies to all the ones I have come across both online and offline. Notice my emphasis on "Nigerian," that's because that's how Nigerians are wired. We always tend to fall at the tail end of the "normal spectrum"

But with the speedy advancement in medicine and pharmacy, maybe there is a cure for you. Maybe a testosterone boost or something. Just do more research and hopefully, you'd find something.

i aff dieded o0@ underlined.
Tut der is herbal solution to impotency....

So sorry dear,cant imagine how you will be feeling. Please don't get depressed. I which I was there to hold you, must have been shocking for you.

Don't forget I care, o.p please don't be depressed. When there is will, there is life.

"Hugs him"

grossintel:
pls read my post again, this time slowly..

Well, I think attitude is everything, I had expected you to ask me for the solution to your Erectile Dysfunction, which I took time to pen down, then what I got was you asking me to re-read your post slowly. Sorry bro, carry your cross until you get humble enough or be humbled by nature. It took me many decades to figure it out what I wanted to share for free.

grossintel:
While growing up I felt so different and did things differently. Naturally I am an introvert, my class mates in sec school would say I have a unique way of doing things. I felt so cool about myself expecially the ability to control how I feel generally. I am very handsome and the kind of guy girls easily throw themselves at, again I felt my ability to resist certain temptations was because I had self control. Growing up in a Christian home their are things we don't ask mom and dad, I would look at Lil bro and notice I had a smaller scrotum but I didn't feel something was wrong with me. All these years I never understood I had a real problem. Am all grown now but I can't keep a relationship!! My siblings will always crack a joke about how unlucky I was with finding a good date. First time I got a girlfriend, very loving and caring young girl. We started off for 2yrs without sex. It wasn't a problem for me I don't know what sex feels like but it was to her and she wanted it badly I knew I would loose her if I don't and she began to wonder if I was a man. First time we tried sex I couldn't get erected, I felt it was anxiety and she was supportive. Second and third was worse but we kept trying. She had to tell me to see a doctor fast because I am not okay. Sex ended up being an issue and we broke up. I dated two other girls and the last girl said it to my face "YOU ARE IMPOTENT" And that was when it occurred to me this is serious. I went to see a urologist and after the blood test it was confirmed I had low T. Low testosterone below normal. I couldn't believe I had a problem like this until I did a sperm analysis. I had oligospermia!! 95% abnormality. Further test showed I had Hypogondasim, it's yet unknown if it's secondary or primary Hypogondasim. I knew I had gone down that road where u look back and ask life
What did I do to deserve this?
How do I convince a girl to even accept to marry me?
Is their really a God?
Why am I a man if God won't give me what I need to become a man.
Every solution I have heard so for is impractical, expensive or ridiculous. Imagine injecting testosterone for 6 months before ur fit to make love to your wife? Or injecting my penis to stay up before sex? Apart from sexual performance secience is yet to understand male fertility and alot of things will be tried on me, this could take years!!! If it's so simple as doctor's will easily say why are their cases of 25yrs without a child some never have a child and just adopt. Why are their so many drugs and injections if one thing works. Am at the bridge of taking my life, I see no point making all these money and sit down in an empty house sad and lonely.

am so sorry op... jus hope on God nd try visiting other medical practitioners I believe der is still a remedy... one other tin suicide ain't d answer u would find someone who would understand ND accept u as u are...

Really, Really Sad. But Don't Despair And Don't Blame God. For Every Problem, There Is A Solution. I Pray You Will Find The Right Solution Soon

Bros take it easy. This is nothing to take ur life for.
Don't u know that an infection (staffilococus) can cuz poor or no attention in normal men?
Just keep taking supplements, like promicon, etc, it will get better ok.

Mekus68:
Bros take it easy. This is nothing to take ur life for.
Don't u know that an infection (staffilococus) can cuz poor or no attention in normal men?
Just keep taking supplements, like promicon, etc, it will get better ok.

thanks A've been checked for infections and am free of that. The obvious reason the doctor said was my body wasn't producing the required testosterone I need to erect or produce active sperm cells. This alone is a broad topic because alot of factors can affect testosterone production including genetics( inherited from birth) supplements could help but won't fix the real problem, and might have to be taken indefinitely. Thanks for your suggestion I will ask the doctor tomorrow.

dharay99:

i aff dieded o0@ underlined.
Tut der is herbal solution to impotency....

my brother you mean Oko oloyun

Ops !!! U will get ur attention sumday... Dnt despair!!!!

Cholls:
my brother you mean Oko oloyun

taaah, make dt1 go sleep.
If he asks around, der are beta ones.

dharay99:

taaah, make dt1 go sleep.
If he asks around, der are beta ones.

my brother maybe Yemkem then.

Go and visit higher doctors,kingtom may even have remedy

Try taking a little alcohol before going to bed and wake around 5am. You will feel the urge to pee but channel the thought of peeing to sex. I believe you'll have a little erection. Penetrate your partner and while on it channel your mind to satisfying your partner and concentrate on the part of her body that turns you on most.

Sex is attitude. It depends on what you want to achieve. Once the satisfaction of your partner is paramount your body responds. Paralysed people are known to have been healed through their strong will to walk or talk.

Wish you the best.

grossintel:
While growing up I felt so different and did things differently. Naturally I am an introvert, my class mates in sec school would say I have a unique way of doing things. I felt so cool about myself expecially the ability to control how I feel generally. I am very handsome and the kind of guy girls easily throw themselves at, again I felt my ability to resist certain temptations was because I had self control. Growing up in a Christian home their are things we don't ask mom and dad, I would look at Lil bro and notice I had a smaller scrotum but I didn't feel something was wrong with me. All these years I never understood I had a real problem. Am all grown now but I can't keep a relationship!! My siblings will always crack a joke about how unlucky I was with finding a good date. First time I got a girlfriend, very loving and caring young girl. We started off for 2yrs without sex. It wasn't a problem for me I don't know what sex feels like but it was to her and she wanted it badly I knew I would loose her if I don't and she began to wonder if I was a man. First time we tried sex I couldn't get erected, I felt it was anxiety and she was supportive. Second and third was worse but we kept trying. She had to tell me to see a doctor fast because I am not okay. Sex ended up being an issue and we broke up. I dated two other girls and the last girl said it to my face "YOU ARE IMPOTENT" And that was when it occurred to me this is serious. I went to see a urologist and after the blood test it was confirmed I had low T. Low testosterone below normal. I couldn't believe I had a problem like this until I did a sperm analysis. I had oligospermia!! 95% abnormality. Further test showed I had Hypogondasim, it's yet unknown if it's secondary or primary Hypogondasim. I knew I had gone down that road where u look back and ask life
What did I do to deserve this?
How do I convince a girl to even accept to marry me?
Is their really a God?
Why am I a man if God won't give me what I need to become a man.
Every solution I have heard so for is impractical, expensive or ridiculous. Imagine injecting testosterone for 6 months before ur fit to make love to your wife? Or injecting my penis to stay up before sex? Apart from sexual performance secience is yet to understand male fertility and alot of things will be tried on me, this could take years!!! If it's so simple as doctor's will easily say why are their cases of 25yrs without a child some never have a child and just adopt. Why are their so many drugs and injections if one thing works. Am at the bridge of taking my life, I see no point making all these money and sit down in an empty house sad and lonely.

You are not impotent.
Sorry for your predicament,may almighty GOD see you thru.

Op do u masturbate

This kain thread they make fear catch me aswr

I'm a Christian but i believe in the practical. There are many medical solutions. Viagra, herbs etc. You can please a woman through other non penetrative means and adopt if need be. Trust me, there are many beautiful women who would marry u as u are. Remember u are still better than a million others.

ClassCaptain:
Op do u masturbate

not occasionally but I do. Last time was in the hospital for the analysis and it's over a week. Do I get erections when I do? A little and the moment I leave it, it falls very rapidly and won't last a sec. It could be psychological or physical but it won't be psychological if am diagnosed of real physical problems.