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Re: 8 avoidable excuses people use as reasons for divorce. by anukulapo: 7:43am On Apr 10, 2016 |
Toks2008: Solution rather is for her to make big money and bring it into the marriage. That is how to be a good helper. Case solved. She won't have to worry about lack of money |
Re: 8 avoidable excuses people use as reasons for divorce. by Toks2008(m): 7:53am On Apr 10, 2016 |
ckc: And what if i was? |
Re: 8 avoidable excuses people use as reasons for divorce. by Toks2008(m): 7:55am On Apr 10, 2016 |
anukulapo: I agree but not every lady can make big money before going into marriage. |
Re: 8 avoidable excuses people use as reasons for divorce. by Toks2008(m): 8:01am On Apr 10, 2016 |
christinie:In most cases its just the new feeling of meeting someone new,the thrills and chills that comes with a potential new sexual experience the fuels up divorce... Shortly after you meet a new person and the initiall gragra dies down,you may even come to realize the reality and even start wondering why you left your previous marriage. |
Re: 8 avoidable excuses people use as reasons for divorce. by Toks2008(m): 8:09am On Apr 10, 2016 |
EgunMogaji: Tell me what i dont know dude. i lived under the marital unbrella for 5years so i have at least a clue of what marriage is all about. The truth is what i wrote about irreconcilable differences and it is the biggest foolish excuse used for divorce. |
Re: 8 avoidable excuses people use as reasons for divorce. by anukulapo: 8:09am On Apr 10, 2016 |
Toks2008:So they better know that not all men can make big money before and right inside marriage also. That will only be placing huge burden on people that we won't even put a finger on... |
Re: 8 avoidable excuses people use as reasons for divorce. by Toks2008(m): 8:26am On Apr 10, 2016 |
OBAnkemi: Yes i was technically married. Had intro and engagement. Lived together as man and wife for 5yrs. No traditional marriage yet before breakup. So if this does not make me qualify for your questions,then dont bother. |
Re: 8 avoidable excuses people use as reasons for divorce. by Toks2008(m): 8:28am On Apr 10, 2016 |
anukulapo: Gbam. |
Re: 8 avoidable excuses people use as reasons for divorce. by GJames(m): 11:28am On Apr 10, 2016 |
Izen:True. 1 Like |
Re: 8 avoidable excuses people use as reasons for divorce. by Nobody: 12:59pm On Apr 10, 2016 |
Toks2008: I have to understand and admit that you expressed your opinion, as asinine as it is, I have to agree it's yours. What should I tell the judge, that my wife passes gas in her sleep and I'm tired of using a gas mask while I sleep? As an unrelated reason why one might choose to use that excuse. |
Re: 8 avoidable excuses people use as reasons for divorce. by Nobody: 1:00pm On Apr 10, 2016 |
Toks2008: You were not married. |
Re: 8 avoidable excuses people use as reasons for divorce. by Toks2008(m): 1:16pm On Apr 10, 2016 |
EgunMogaji: Soro niyen You might as well divorce her because she snores... must you sleep in same room with her overnight? Have u looked for remedy? |
Re: 8 avoidable excuses people use as reasons for divorce. by Toks2008(m): 1:23pm On Apr 10, 2016 |
EgunMogaji: Great to know i was never married |
Re: 8 avoidable excuses people use as reasons for divorce. by radicalove(f): 4:30pm On Apr 10, 2016 |
Greene66:I take exception to you, calling women men's properties. A woman is not a man's property. If the man owns the woman, then, tell me, who owns the man? |
Re: 8 avoidable excuses people use as reasons for divorce. by Nobody: 5:22pm On Apr 10, 2016 |
Toks2008: Yes, oro niyen. I know some men are comfortable being used as a door mat and generally socially inept. Is it my job to seek remedy? Remember that this is just an off the cuff possibly stupid excuse I could think off. |
Re: 8 avoidable excuses people use as reasons for divorce. by Nobody: 5:23pm On Apr 10, 2016 |
Toks2008: You have neither a marriage certificate nor a divorce decree. |
Re: 8 avoidable excuses people use as reasons for divorce. by Toks2008(m): 5:36pm On Apr 10, 2016 |
EgunMogaji: Yeah you are perfectly right. |
Re: 8 avoidable excuses people use as reasons for divorce. by Toks2008(m): 5:39pm On Apr 10, 2016 |
EgunMogaji: Apparently marriage is not for you. How will you feel if the table turned and you happen to have flatulence as a health condition then your wife abandons you? |
Re: 8 avoidable excuses people use as reasons for divorce. by Nobody: 5:54pm On Apr 10, 2016 |
Toks2008: I'll decide what's for me. She has a right to seek her own pursuit of happiness. This is not about marriage being right, it's about an obtuse attempt to lock spouses in non progressive matrimony. Any spouse has a right to exit a relationship at any time and for any reason. |
Re: 8 avoidable excuses people use as reasons for divorce. by seaga: 6:28pm On Apr 10, 2016 |
KingCheezyPuff: Well everything is connected ,do you know some marriages break up days after the wedding due to events that happened on the day.So whatever you guys are doing from the day of wedding can not be advice,because you re the worst of the worst when it comes to divorce. So whatever mean, isn't better because it turns out worst. It could be the mindset of entering the union that starts from the wedding ... |
Re: 8 avoidable excuses people use as reasons for divorce. by Nobody: 7:03pm On Apr 10, 2016 |
seaga:it's clear you have a problem with my nationality so this discussion with be no good.Uhm goodbye. |
Re: 8 avoidable excuses people use as reasons for divorce. by Toks2008(m): 8:03pm On Apr 10, 2016 |
EgunMogaji: Issoke but just note that there will always be a reason to divorce your spouse...even if you are married to an angel. Its all about tolerance. 1 Like |
Re: 8 avoidable excuses people use as reasons for divorce. by Toks2008(m): 8:08pm On Apr 10, 2016 |
KingCheezyPuff: Apparently you are based in the states i presume. If Yes i would like to know if bride price is part of their culture...thanks. |
Re: 8 avoidable excuses people use as reasons for divorce. by seaga: 1:33am On Apr 11, 2016 |
KingCheezyPuff: Nah,i don't, believe you me....just believe it's not a good idea to borrow their marriage culture or take note from any of their marriage processes.Bye |
Re: 8 avoidable excuses people use as reasons for divorce. by christinie(f): 1:46am On Apr 11, 2016 |
That's mostly for men; most women divorce due to domestic abuse by men, some when their husbands misbehave like Toke Makinwa's estranged husband. Imagine a lot of unprofessional 'marriage counsellors ' urging Mrs. Caroline Danjuma to divorce her legally married hubby- Barr. Musa Danjuma- for his philandering ways and these are the same people that will later blame her for not being able to manage her home if she eventually heeds their advice (God forbid). Toks2008: |
Re: 8 avoidable excuses people use as reasons for divorce. by Nobody: 7:52pm On Apr 13, 2016 |
The very common excuses among nollywood actresses are Irreconcilable differences & domestic violence. Like all men have become tigers, Lols |
Re: 8 avoidable excuses people use as reasons for divorce. by Harfisco(m): 5:12pm On Apr 17, 2016 |
Walai this write-up make sence die |
Re: 8 avoidable excuses people use as reasons for divorce. by justsmile(f): 5:36pm On Apr 17, 2016 |
Holmes07: hello, kindly read other translations for better understanding. NIV used "marital unfaithfulness" in place of "fornication" |
Re: 8 avoidable excuses people use as reasons for divorce. by chiraqDemon(m): 9:43am On Aug 11, 2016 |
Really there is a dark continent.....wtf is an ogbanje |
Re: 8 avoidable excuses people use as reasons for divorce. by JustHere2Observ(f): 10:03am On Aug 11, 2016 |
The only ground I can agree with divorce is when a life is in danger like in domestic violence. Infidelity to me is not an excuse especially when the one guilty is repentant and making amends. |
Re: 8 avoidable excuses people use as reasons for divorce. by fumisko(f): 9:03pm On Oct 02, 2016 |
Do men like u really exit? Gaucho: |
Re: 8 avoidable excuses people use as reasons for divorce. by Toks2008(m): 6:37pm On Oct 12, 2016 |
fumisko: Yeah funmi we still have guys with big hearts. |
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